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It’s been said, but it merits repeating... 
-Mahatma Gandhi
Let’s admit it now. 
Change is hard...and daunting.
but...
We kick ourselves every time we try.
First, I’ll take you through the most 
common problems.
Common Problem #1 
We don’t focus on one problem! 
I get it. You’re a hot ass mess. Me too. Nice to 
see that there are more of us. 
Start the snowball effect of change in your life 
by changing ONE thing. Masterfully.
Common Problem #2 
We get so excited that we forget to plan. 
Honey, you need to calm down. Personal 
change is fun. I get it. Let’s break it down to 
something that we can measure and 
something that we can act on BEFORE doing 
a happy dance.
Ok, just get it out of your system.
Common Problem #2 
We talk it about it too much to the wrong 
people. 
You know that Judgemental Judy is NOT going 
to be constructive OR helpful. Sharing your 
goals with her is counterproductive.
Save it for the after party 
Also, over-sharing about your goal with 
ANYONE who is not going to be a cheerleader 
for us gives us a little of the gratification before 
we earn it. 
Look at me with my bad, ambitious self. 
Making goals. That’s me.
Common Problem #3 
We don’t use our past to create our future. 
You know you’ve been successful before. What 
contributed to that? You trip up on pretty much 
the same things every time too. Why don’t we 
shine a light on those things before we get 
started this time? Hmm?
Okay, I get it? So, How do I change? 
Start with WHY you want to make this change 
and then create a plan for yourself based on 
that. 
One rule to play: Truly take the time to answer 
these for yourself in writing.
What makes this change important to you? 
(3 reasons this needs to happen)
What does your life look like with this change 
fully implemented? (3 differences as a result of 
your hard work)
When were you last successful in 
accomplishing something? What 3 things 
brought you to the finished line?
For Example: I want to work on having a 
consistently tidy space.
example, cont. 
3 Reasons this is important to me. 
1. I’m tired of tripping and stepping on things. 
2. I want to know where all of my things are. 
3. I want to figure out why everything keeps 
piling up.
example, cont. 
What would my life look like with a tidy room? 
1. I would have an easier time in the mornings. 
2. I would feel more at ease inviting people 
over. 
3. I would feel a greater peace with less things 
crowding my space.
example, cont. 
I was successful at sustaining a vegetarian diet 
for 2 months. 
1. It was low key and low pressure. 
2. I had a reason for doing it. 
3. It brought out my creativity.
Back to you. 
What do you always find gets in the way of 
your success.
How can you make sure that those things that 
are personal hurdles for you don’t cause 
problems this time around?
Who is your most supportive ally?
When will you know that you have been 
successful?
If not now, when?
Making change for ourselves isn’t rocket 
science. 
It ain’t cake either.
Who will you be a year from today?
What will you regret not starting?
Now, take this and do something with it.
How to make change in your life (really this time!!)

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How to make change in your life (really this time!!)

  • 1. It’s been said, but it merits repeating... -Mahatma Gandhi
  • 2. Let’s admit it now. Change is hard...and daunting.
  • 4. We kick ourselves every time we try.
  • 5. First, I’ll take you through the most common problems.
  • 6. Common Problem #1 We don’t focus on one problem! I get it. You’re a hot ass mess. Me too. Nice to see that there are more of us. Start the snowball effect of change in your life by changing ONE thing. Masterfully.
  • 7. Common Problem #2 We get so excited that we forget to plan. Honey, you need to calm down. Personal change is fun. I get it. Let’s break it down to something that we can measure and something that we can act on BEFORE doing a happy dance.
  • 8. Ok, just get it out of your system.
  • 9. Common Problem #2 We talk it about it too much to the wrong people. You know that Judgemental Judy is NOT going to be constructive OR helpful. Sharing your goals with her is counterproductive.
  • 10. Save it for the after party Also, over-sharing about your goal with ANYONE who is not going to be a cheerleader for us gives us a little of the gratification before we earn it. Look at me with my bad, ambitious self. Making goals. That’s me.
  • 11. Common Problem #3 We don’t use our past to create our future. You know you’ve been successful before. What contributed to that? You trip up on pretty much the same things every time too. Why don’t we shine a light on those things before we get started this time? Hmm?
  • 12. Okay, I get it? So, How do I change? Start with WHY you want to make this change and then create a plan for yourself based on that. One rule to play: Truly take the time to answer these for yourself in writing.
  • 13. What makes this change important to you? (3 reasons this needs to happen)
  • 14. What does your life look like with this change fully implemented? (3 differences as a result of your hard work)
  • 15. When were you last successful in accomplishing something? What 3 things brought you to the finished line?
  • 16. For Example: I want to work on having a consistently tidy space.
  • 17. example, cont. 3 Reasons this is important to me. 1. I’m tired of tripping and stepping on things. 2. I want to know where all of my things are. 3. I want to figure out why everything keeps piling up.
  • 18. example, cont. What would my life look like with a tidy room? 1. I would have an easier time in the mornings. 2. I would feel more at ease inviting people over. 3. I would feel a greater peace with less things crowding my space.
  • 19. example, cont. I was successful at sustaining a vegetarian diet for 2 months. 1. It was low key and low pressure. 2. I had a reason for doing it. 3. It brought out my creativity.
  • 20. Back to you. What do you always find gets in the way of your success.
  • 21. How can you make sure that those things that are personal hurdles for you don’t cause problems this time around?
  • 22. Who is your most supportive ally?
  • 23. When will you know that you have been successful?
  • 24.
  • 25. If not now, when?
  • 26. Making change for ourselves isn’t rocket science. It ain’t cake either.
  • 27.
  • 28. Who will you be a year from today?
  • 29. What will you regret not starting?
  • 30. Now, take this and do something with it.