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Enjoy Life: Keys to Increasing
Happiness
w/Dr. Elbel
What do you think would make
you happy today?
According to Gallup poll
• 60% of Americans feel happy without a lot of
stress or worry.
Happiness doesn’t come easy
• Negative emotions (fear, anger, despair) are
for SURVIVAL
• Positive emotions (curiosity, delight, interest,
joy, etc) are for GROWTH
What is happiness?
Happiness or hedonism?
Our current culture
• Is more interested in the pursuit of individual
happiness than in the search for meaning.
• Frankl would say that happiness cannot be
pursued, it must ensue.
• He adds—the pursuit of happiness thwarts
happiness.
What is happiness?
What determines happiness?
What can we do to be
happier?
Believe it or not
It is not money or
circumstances!
Humans are poor affective forecasters
• We are very poor at predicting what will make
us happy
• Events have a small impact on happiness that
doesn’t last long
• People who suffer tragedy/trauma recover
more quickly than they expect (resilience)
• Good things don’t make us feel good as much
as we expect
How to forecast how an event will
affect us?
• Look at other’s experience
– How have previous lottery winners felt?
• We don’t tend to do that because we think we
are unique
– Daniel Gilbert, 2007, Stumbling on Happiness
David Geffen
interviewed by Barbara Walters
• BW: “Now that you are a billionaire are you
happy?”
• DG: “Anyone who believes money makes you
happy doesn’t have money”
Happiness increases with income up to about 50K—after that there is no
dramatic effect. (Richard Layard, Happiness: Lessons from a New Science)
Happiness without meaning
Characterizes a relatively shallow,
self-absorbed or even selfish life
Happy life
Meaningful life
Victor Frankl’s observations in Nazi
concentration camps led him to
conclude:
The difference between those who
had lived and those who died came
down to one thing--Meaning
Those who had meaning
• Were more resilient to suffering
• “Everything can be taken from a man but one
thing. The last of the human freedoms—to
choose one’s attitude in any given set of
circumstances, to choose one’s own way”
Victor Frankl
Path to happiness
according to Caroline Myss
• Discovering our true paths—our meaning
• Appreciating the lives we have (not the ones
we want)—gratitude
• Recognizing who we really are—authenticity &
self acceptance
• Nearly all people are capable of much more
happiness than they have.
• See your potential.
• Create opportunities to invest in your own
highest and best self.
In a meaningful life you use your
highest strengths and talents to
belong to and serve something that
is larger than the self.
Martin Seligman
You may also have more worry, anxiety
and stress because you are invested in
something bigger than yourself.
Example: parenting
• Having children is associated with a more
meaningful life
• Higher stress, anxiety and self sacrifice
• On a day to day basis parents are less happy
interacting with their children than they are
exercising, eating and watching television
• Daniel Gilbert, Harvard psychologist
Reframing
• Happy people don’t have a magic button to
get them out of traffic or that mutes an
impolite boss—they draw different messages
or meanings from the situation.
– David Niven 100 Simple Secrets of Happy People
To improve happiness
• 5 random acts of kindness per week (journal it)
• Gratitude journal
• Gratitude letter
• Connect with others
• Discover your strengths and put energy into
increasing strengths
Gratitude
• A validated intervention for depression
• A validated intervention to increase happiness
Gratitude Letter
Build and maintain better
relationships!
For better relationships
• Real enthusiasm after partner’s positive event
most important
– It’s more important than support through
negative event
VIA survey of character strengths
At Martin Seligman’s web site:
Authentichappiness.com
You must register
Build on your strenghts!
Optimism Survey
• Authentichappiness.org
• Martin Seligman's website
Health improves happiness
• Meditation
• Savoring—living in the moment
• Sleep
• Omega-3
Enjoy Life: Healing with Happiness; How to
harness positive moods to raise your energy,
effectiveness and joy, by Lynn D. Johnson, 2008
Savor life!
Focus intently on ordinary experiences.
Chew food slowly and thoughtfully.
Drink slowing and attentively.
Listen to a friend with intensity. Keep your
mind quiet as you listen.
Notice the daily experience of walking.
Happiness is a positive sum game
“Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single
candle, and the life of the candle will not be
shortened. Happiness never decreases by being
shared.”
Buddha
Recommended Books
• Enjoy Life: Healing with Happiness; How to
harness positive moods to raise your energy,
effectiveness and joy, by Lynn D. Johnson,
2008
• Authentic Happiness: Using the New Positive
Psychology to Realize Your Potential for
Lasting Fulfillment , Martin Seligman, 2003

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happiness slides.pptx

  • 1. Enjoy Life: Keys to Increasing Happiness w/Dr. Elbel
  • 2. What do you think would make you happy today?
  • 3. According to Gallup poll • 60% of Americans feel happy without a lot of stress or worry.
  • 4. Happiness doesn’t come easy • Negative emotions (fear, anger, despair) are for SURVIVAL • Positive emotions (curiosity, delight, interest, joy, etc) are for GROWTH
  • 6. Our current culture • Is more interested in the pursuit of individual happiness than in the search for meaning. • Frankl would say that happiness cannot be pursued, it must ensue. • He adds—the pursuit of happiness thwarts happiness.
  • 7. What is happiness? What determines happiness? What can we do to be happier?
  • 8. Believe it or not It is not money or circumstances!
  • 9. Humans are poor affective forecasters • We are very poor at predicting what will make us happy • Events have a small impact on happiness that doesn’t last long • People who suffer tragedy/trauma recover more quickly than they expect (resilience) • Good things don’t make us feel good as much as we expect
  • 10. How to forecast how an event will affect us? • Look at other’s experience – How have previous lottery winners felt? • We don’t tend to do that because we think we are unique – Daniel Gilbert, 2007, Stumbling on Happiness
  • 11. David Geffen interviewed by Barbara Walters • BW: “Now that you are a billionaire are you happy?” • DG: “Anyone who believes money makes you happy doesn’t have money”
  • 12. Happiness increases with income up to about 50K—after that there is no dramatic effect. (Richard Layard, Happiness: Lessons from a New Science)
  • 13.
  • 14. Happiness without meaning Characterizes a relatively shallow, self-absorbed or even selfish life
  • 16. Victor Frankl’s observations in Nazi concentration camps led him to conclude: The difference between those who had lived and those who died came down to one thing--Meaning
  • 17. Those who had meaning • Were more resilient to suffering • “Everything can be taken from a man but one thing. The last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way” Victor Frankl
  • 18. Path to happiness according to Caroline Myss • Discovering our true paths—our meaning • Appreciating the lives we have (not the ones we want)—gratitude • Recognizing who we really are—authenticity & self acceptance
  • 19. • Nearly all people are capable of much more happiness than they have. • See your potential. • Create opportunities to invest in your own highest and best self.
  • 20. In a meaningful life you use your highest strengths and talents to belong to and serve something that is larger than the self. Martin Seligman You may also have more worry, anxiety and stress because you are invested in something bigger than yourself.
  • 21. Example: parenting • Having children is associated with a more meaningful life • Higher stress, anxiety and self sacrifice • On a day to day basis parents are less happy interacting with their children than they are exercising, eating and watching television • Daniel Gilbert, Harvard psychologist
  • 22.
  • 23. Reframing • Happy people don’t have a magic button to get them out of traffic or that mutes an impolite boss—they draw different messages or meanings from the situation. – David Niven 100 Simple Secrets of Happy People
  • 24. To improve happiness • 5 random acts of kindness per week (journal it) • Gratitude journal • Gratitude letter • Connect with others • Discover your strengths and put energy into increasing strengths
  • 25.
  • 26. Gratitude • A validated intervention for depression • A validated intervention to increase happiness
  • 27.
  • 28.
  • 29.
  • 31. Build and maintain better relationships!
  • 32. For better relationships • Real enthusiasm after partner’s positive event most important – It’s more important than support through negative event
  • 33.
  • 34.
  • 35. VIA survey of character strengths At Martin Seligman’s web site: Authentichappiness.com You must register
  • 36. Build on your strenghts!
  • 37.
  • 39. Health improves happiness • Meditation • Savoring—living in the moment • Sleep • Omega-3 Enjoy Life: Healing with Happiness; How to harness positive moods to raise your energy, effectiveness and joy, by Lynn D. Johnson, 2008
  • 40. Savor life! Focus intently on ordinary experiences. Chew food slowly and thoughtfully. Drink slowing and attentively. Listen to a friend with intensity. Keep your mind quiet as you listen. Notice the daily experience of walking.
  • 41.
  • 42. Happiness is a positive sum game “Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.” Buddha
  • 43. Recommended Books • Enjoy Life: Healing with Happiness; How to harness positive moods to raise your energy, effectiveness and joy, by Lynn D. Johnson, 2008 • Authentic Happiness: Using the New Positive Psychology to Realize Your Potential for Lasting Fulfillment , Martin Seligman, 2003