This document discusses creating supportive school environments through establishing "no joke zones" and "pump ups". It defines no joke zones as topics that should be off limits for joking or teasing due to the potential for harm. Pump ups are intentional compliments meant to encourage others. The document provides guidance on individual and community responsibilities to identify and respect no joke zones, properly give and receive pump ups, and treat others as they wish to be treated. The goal is fostering real friendships through mutual understanding and support.

1. Francis Parker School
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Seattle Girls’ School
No Joke Zones and Pump Ups
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2. About Seattle Girls’ School
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3. Meeting People, Making Friends
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4. Laughing Together
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5. Every Once in a While
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6. The “No Joke Zone”
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7. Ouch Moments
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Accumulated Impact
Regular, Frequent, and Pervasive
Based on Stereotype
Often Unintended

8. Your “No Joke Zones”
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9. Responsibilities in the
No Joke Zone
Person Impacted
• Name It
• Request a
Change
• Forgive (for real)
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Person Who Said It
• Stop It
• Apologize
• Respect in the
Future

10. Lifting Each Other Up
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11. Every Once in a While
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12. Pump Ups
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13. Your “Pump Ups”
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14. Responsibilities with
Pump Ups
Person Receiving
• Appreciate the
intention
• Name your
preferences
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Person Giving
• Appreciate the
knowledge
• Remember and do
better next time

15. Golden Rule versus
Platinum Rule
Golden Rule
Treat people the
way YOU want to
be treated
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Platinum Rule
Treat people the
way THEY want to
be treated

16. Real Friendships
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17. Questions and Comments
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18. Presenter Information
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee
6th Faculty and
Professional Outreach
Seattle Girls’ School
2706 S Jackson Street
Seattle WA 98144
(206) 805-6562
rlee@seattlegirlsschool.org
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