This document outlines two ethical dilemmas faced by the Allen family and discusses relevant ethical principles and the nurse's role. The first dilemma is that Clifford exhibits poor coping skills and depression and refuses help. The second is that Pam has cancer and is ambivalent about treatment. The document discusses the ethical principles of autonomy, beneficence, fidelity and advocacy. It also outlines the IDEA model and Baird method for ethical decision making.