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The Berkana Institute


Enspirited Leadership:
Landmarks for Uncertain Times
Bob Stilger, PhD




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The Berkana Institute




Enspirited Leadership:
Landmarks for Uncertain Times
Bob Stilger, PhD




All around the world, people            in community initiatives in many
are stepping forward in new             parts of the world. They practice a
ways to provide leadership. In          kind of leadership that comes from
many cases, they are not the            mind, heart and spirit and provides
people in positions of power in         a foundation for effective action in
organizations or communities;           the world. They practice what I call
they are simply those who see           “enspirited leadership.”
what must be done and are willing           The leaders I’ve worked with
to speak, and then to act. Often,       come from places like Santos, Brazil,
as they begin to step forward,          where the Instituto Elos works in
their hearts are pounding with          favelas, or slums, where people have
fear, but they believe the time has     few material goods but where the
come to offer a new possibility         human spirit is still strong. They
for the future.                         always begin their work by asking
   Where do these leaders come          the elders to talk about their lives and
from? What gives them the cour-         by looking for patterns of possibility
age to speak up? What capacities        in their stories. These leaders come
and practices, if cultivated, support   from Edcouch-Elsa High School
people in developing their own          in Texas in the United States,
leadership?                             where a school serving migrant
   Over the last four years at The      workers has gone from having one
Berkana Institute, I’ve worked with a   of the highest dropout rates in
number of younger leaders involved      Texas to having the highest rate of


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placement in top U.S. colleges. They   A Sense of True Calling
come from Johannesburg, South              Each of these pioneering leaders
Africa, where the GreenHouse           has stepped into his or her work
Project demonstrates how to build      because of a strong sense of calling,
green, grow food in urban areas        rather than through a methodical,
and practice zero waste.               strategic decision-making process.
   To support this enspirited work     In many ways, life leads them to
in the world, in 2004 Berkana          their work. And, of course, their
launched the Berkana Exchange.         work then leads them to their life.
We work primarily with learning
centers around the world that
are helping ordinary people step
forward as leaders. Working with
urban youth in Dakar, Senegal,
with villagers in rural Zimbabwe,
across the generations in Udaipur,
India, and with indigenous peoples
in Chiapas, Mexico, these learning                           Marianne Knuth
centers are helping people offer
whatever leadership they can in            Marianne Knuth from Kufunda
these changing times.                  Learning Village in Zimbabwe ex-
   I have identified six key land-     plained her commitment to her
marks for enspirited leaders:          work in this way:
1. They work from a sense of true          “I had this feeling that I had
   calling                             to do it. If I would have thought
2. They journey in the company         someone else was going to be able
   of others                           to do it, I would have let them.
3. They live with a spiritual center   Maybe that’s being arrogant, but I
4. They demand diversity               just had to do it. There was a real
5. Reflective learning guides their    fire that was burning—and it was
   lives                               really exciting.”
6. Their work is filled with ambi-         Tim Merry, who began a
   guity and uncertainty               learning center in Holland and



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in 2004 started the Shire in Nova      the confidence and courage to
Scotia, Canada, said it this way:      respond to that which called them?
    “It has been a really personal     How were they able to step forward
journey. The reason I am doing this    while so many who hear such a
work is because it is making me        calling choose to ignore it?
stronger, and because it is making
me happy in what I do. I am            In the Company of Others
beginning to understand the great-          Part of the answer is that they
est gift we can give to the world is   don’t do their work alone. Close
                                       friends and family who share deep
                                       bonds of trust, love and respect are
                                       essential for finding the courage
                                       to follow the inner voice. Moving
                                       into new territory, doing work that
                                       seems unconventional and perhaps
                                       even foolish to some, requires com-
                                       panions.
                           Tim Merry
                                            Some of the most striking
                                       characteristics of the companions
our own happiness, and that’s all we   who move together are that they
really have to do. We don’t need to    come from different age groups
do anything more than be content       and are frequently family members.
with who we are. We don’t have to      This pattern is different from the
change the world.”                     activists of the 1960s. What I recall
    What stands out to me from         from my twenties was precious
many conversations is that these       little connection with siblings, a
leaders follow deep gut instincts      distancing from my parents’ ideas,
that tell them where to place their    and suspicion about most people
attention and where to create their    over thirty.
intentions for action. Their actions        In describing how he began , Cire
are conceived in a place of spirit,    Kane of Synapse Center in Senegal
not in a place of thought. What        said that he kept remembering his
gives these young men and women        grandfather’s and parents’ advice:



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“‘Dare to build on your relation-     predictable world? A partial an-
ships rather than pursuing money.         swer, I suspect, is that holding an
Success in life lies in relationships.’   encompassing view requires, at least
I have learned from them the              from time to time, a higher level
value of understanding myself and         of consciousness. The evolution of
my place in this world. I’m here          such consciousness seems to require
because many people contributed to        a spiritual practice. Each of these
my development. And I remember            learning center founders works from
so much of what happened to me            a spiritual center. Their practices are
and understand more myself when
I listen closely to others. My whole
life is a simple movement circling
around community, relationships
and joy. And this community is
expanding every day beyond the
borders of my birth land, crossing
oceans and connecting with many
good-hearted people around the                             Zoë and Una Nicholson
world.”
    There may be some who believe         simply a part of their daily lives.
they can make these journeys alone,            Zoë Nicholson, founder of
as rugged individuals. But why? Why       LifeWorks in England, says:
wouldn’t we all want to find close             “I started a meditation practice
companions to share our journey?          about the same time I began this
Why wouldn’t we seek others excited       work and I realized it was possible
by the same possibilities and the same    to have a fuller life at a slower speed.
questions? Where would we find            I didn’t really need to run around
nourishment if we traveled alone?         filling up my life. I could just slow
                                          down, unpack and my life would
A Spiritual Center                        be a lot fuller… We can do all the
   What do leaders need to have           intellectual stuff about saving the
in order to stand with confidence         planet, but the bottom line is how
in a complex, changing and un-            can I find a way to feel alive?”



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    Una Nicholson, Zoë’s sister, adds:   leaders to hear and trust their inner
    “Things just seem to happen a        voices and follow their calls. They
lot more harmoniously, bountifully       also move, with that spirit, into a
and easily. The right things happen      place of reflective learning that acts
at the right time. Surprises come        as a compass to guide their action.
along and good things happen.
For me, it just becomes a practice       A Demand For Diversity
of being aligned with myself—that            When these leaders look at a
seems to provide the path.”              given situation, they look for the
                                         surrounding web of relationships
                                         and systems. They look for the
                                         whole picture. The younger leaders
                                         I’ve worked with all have had
                                         experience in multiple cultures.
                                         Such experiences may not be a
                                         precondition for enspirited leader-
                                         ship, but they usually shake people
                           Manish Jain
                                         up enough that they begin to see the
                                         world more broadly. Ante Glavas
   When I asked Manish Jain from         who started Horizon in Croatia
India about his work at the core of      says:
Shikshantar, the learning center he          “When one is born in one
has created with others in Udaipur,      culture, it is taken for granted that
India, his response was:                 the world is as it is. When one then
   “This work is not about saving        truly learns another culture deeply,
or changing the world, but about         then one realizes that there is not a
how I live my own life and live it       set way of seeing the world.”
as an invitation to others. As the           The capacity to understand that
Bhagavad-Gita says: ‘Try to live         the way we view our lives is a con-
the way that you feel is true with       struct our minds have created makes
your own inner values. Don’t worry       it easier to let go of false certain-
about the results.The presence of a      ties. In Beyond Culture, Edward
spiritual center is what allows these    Hall suggests that multicultural



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experiences demand an expansion in          Institute’s board of directors, first
consciousness. Expanded conscious-          coined the term “laboratories of
ness is required for this work.             grace” in the late 1990s.
    The presence of others whose          • This work is bigger than any of us
ideas and experiences differ greatly        separately, and it still calls on each
from our own invites us to let go of        of us to be separate and ourselves.
our limited view of what’s needed         • We are called upon to use our
and what can happen. Diversity is a         full imagination and learning, our
key to open exploration and inquiry.        collective diversity, our respect for
It is what helps us let go of old ideas
and solutions and to search for what
else might be possible.

Reflective Learning as a Guide
    For these leaders, the search for
spiritual ground is accompanied by
an ongoing process of surfacing facts
and impressions, revealing patterns                                   Ante Glavas
and assumptions, examining actions
and behaviors, and affirming or             synchronicity and mystery, and
changing the course of action.              our willingness to be transformed.
This continuous process makes up          • We do this important work with
reflective learning.                        a spirit of play, humor, friendship
    In early 2002, I met with many          and love. We are connected and
younger leaders in Prague, and we           we connect to others.
characterized this approach as follows:   • Our local work is critical ground
• Above all, this is a creative adven-      from which global transform-
  ture. It is experimental. It calls us     ation can emerge, with integrity.
  to focus our attention on the now.          These reflections are alive.
  Our work, our lives, are labor-         They hold a sense of genuine cur-
  atories of grace. Ann Dosher, an        iosity. This kind of reflective learn-
  elder and community psychologist        ing affirms life and invites in-
  who has served on The Berkana           quiry into the uncertain path of



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transformation. The process of           supposed to be in charge, when our
making such reflections explicit is      self-confidence is based on being
as ordinary for these leaders as their   able to predict what will happen
spirituality is. They have a capacity    and how things will turn out, then
to move easily from the realm of         ambiguity and uncertainty usually
spirit to the realm of thought, and      invite our fear to rise up and bite us.
this motion gives them balance.              When we are able to release
                                         ourselves into the uncertainty, we
Ambiguity and Uncertainty                are invited to become explorers, to
                                         discover what lies ahead as we work
                                         with others to create that future.
                                         Cire Kane put it well:
                                             “Today, the path is still unclear.
                                         It is literally invisible, and yet my
                                         heart is often being moved and
                                         my soul split open. My lovely
                                         work is taking me every day on a
                             Cire Kane
                                         journey of new experiences. These
                                         experiences are opening my heart
    Ambiguity and uncertainty are        to the unimaginable beauty of life
befriended in this work. To follow       and community around me. Every
a sense of calling, in the company       day I awaken to a new day. I go
of others, aware of a diverse world,     out into the world with a feeling of
from a spiritual center and with a       excitement and joy and a feeling of
clarity about assumptions, is to let     being at home, everywhere in our
go of control. There is simply no        diverse supportive community. I do
other way. Doing all of those things     my work with engagement and joy,
throws the doors of ambiguity and        with lots of downs and still many
uncertainty wide open.                   ups. I break for prayer, sometimes
    A choice each of us can make is      meditation, often to be with my
whether ambiguity and uncertainty        parents or to hang out with friends. I
open a pathway to fear or a pathway      love my work. I love my community
to balance. When we think we are         and I love the life I’m living. I will



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persevere through uncertainty and             enspirited work, and they often feel
fear about my ability to carry out            discouraged, isolated, lonely and
the mission before me.”                       disconnected. They’ve forgotten to
                                              make sure that what they are doing
Landmarks in Your Life                        is their true work. They have lost
    The work of these leaders is              touch with those around them.
enspirited, in that it comes from a           They’re just too busy to slow down
strong inner force that demands               and be quiet. They’ll get to reflection
attention. It is appreciative, in that it     later. The views of others are just too
looks for strengths that can be built         distracting. And, oh yes, wouldn’t it
upon. It is emergent, in that it creates      be nice to have some certainty?
both its path and its destination.                My work, and that of The
These six landmarks are a guidance            Berkana Institute, is to help people
system for work in this territory.            be wildly excited and grounded in
    As exciting as this work can              this kind of work. These landmarks
be, it is also easy to get lost. I have       are part of this process.
opportunities to talk with people                 How are they present in your
all over the world engaged in this            life and work?




    You can find out more about the people and learning centers that we work and learn
                               with at www.berkana.org.



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Bob Stilger has been helping people create the communities they want
since the early 70s. He’s championed a number of nonprofit ventures where
people are building the world they want tomorrow, today. Bob is the Co-
President of The Berkana Institute, where he works and learns with
younger leaders around the world. His doctoral dissertation, presented in
2004 at the California Institute of Integral Studies, was a joint inquiry with
seven leaders around how they created six learning centers in different parts
of the world. Enspirited Leadership shares some of their collective learning.


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Enspirited

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    The Berkana Institute TheBerkana Institute Enspirited Leadership: Landmarks for Uncertain Times Bob Stilger, PhD 1
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    The Berkana Institute EnspiritedLeadership: Landmarks for Uncertain Times Bob Stilger, PhD All around the world, people in community initiatives in many are stepping forward in new parts of the world. They practice a ways to provide leadership. In kind of leadership that comes from many cases, they are not the mind, heart and spirit and provides people in positions of power in a foundation for effective action in organizations or communities; the world. They practice what I call they are simply those who see “enspirited leadership.” what must be done and are willing The leaders I’ve worked with to speak, and then to act. Often, come from places like Santos, Brazil, as they begin to step forward, where the Instituto Elos works in their hearts are pounding with favelas, or slums, where people have fear, but they believe the time has few material goods but where the come to offer a new possibility human spirit is still strong. They for the future. always begin their work by asking Where do these leaders come the elders to talk about their lives and from? What gives them the cour- by looking for patterns of possibility age to speak up? What capacities in their stories. These leaders come and practices, if cultivated, support from Edcouch-Elsa High School people in developing their own in Texas in the United States, leadership? where a school serving migrant Over the last four years at The workers has gone from having one Berkana Institute, I’ve worked with a of the highest dropout rates in number of younger leaders involved Texas to having the highest rate of 1
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    placement in topU.S. colleges. They A Sense of True Calling come from Johannesburg, South Each of these pioneering leaders Africa, where the GreenHouse has stepped into his or her work Project demonstrates how to build because of a strong sense of calling, green, grow food in urban areas rather than through a methodical, and practice zero waste. strategic decision-making process. To support this enspirited work In many ways, life leads them to in the world, in 2004 Berkana their work. And, of course, their launched the Berkana Exchange. work then leads them to their life. We work primarily with learning centers around the world that are helping ordinary people step forward as leaders. Working with urban youth in Dakar, Senegal, with villagers in rural Zimbabwe, across the generations in Udaipur, India, and with indigenous peoples in Chiapas, Mexico, these learning Marianne Knuth centers are helping people offer whatever leadership they can in Marianne Knuth from Kufunda these changing times. Learning Village in Zimbabwe ex- I have identified six key land- plained her commitment to her marks for enspirited leaders: work in this way: 1. They work from a sense of true “I had this feeling that I had calling to do it. If I would have thought 2. They journey in the company someone else was going to be able of others to do it, I would have let them. 3. They live with a spiritual center Maybe that’s being arrogant, but I 4. They demand diversity just had to do it. There was a real 5. Reflective learning guides their fire that was burning—and it was lives really exciting.” 6. Their work is filled with ambi- Tim Merry, who began a guity and uncertainty learning center in Holland and 2
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    The Berkana Institute in2004 started the Shire in Nova the confidence and courage to Scotia, Canada, said it this way: respond to that which called them? “It has been a really personal How were they able to step forward journey. The reason I am doing this while so many who hear such a work is because it is making me calling choose to ignore it? stronger, and because it is making me happy in what I do. I am In the Company of Others beginning to understand the great- Part of the answer is that they est gift we can give to the world is don’t do their work alone. Close friends and family who share deep bonds of trust, love and respect are essential for finding the courage to follow the inner voice. Moving into new territory, doing work that seems unconventional and perhaps even foolish to some, requires com- panions. Tim Merry Some of the most striking characteristics of the companions our own happiness, and that’s all we who move together are that they really have to do. We don’t need to come from different age groups do anything more than be content and are frequently family members. with who we are. We don’t have to This pattern is different from the change the world.” activists of the 1960s. What I recall What stands out to me from from my twenties was precious many conversations is that these little connection with siblings, a leaders follow deep gut instincts distancing from my parents’ ideas, that tell them where to place their and suspicion about most people attention and where to create their over thirty. intentions for action. Their actions In describing how he began , Cire are conceived in a place of spirit, Kane of Synapse Center in Senegal not in a place of thought. What said that he kept remembering his gives these young men and women grandfather’s and parents’ advice: 3
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    “‘Dare to buildon your relation- predictable world? A partial an- ships rather than pursuing money. swer, I suspect, is that holding an Success in life lies in relationships.’ encompassing view requires, at least I have learned from them the from time to time, a higher level value of understanding myself and of consciousness. The evolution of my place in this world. I’m here such consciousness seems to require because many people contributed to a spiritual practice. Each of these my development. And I remember learning center founders works from so much of what happened to me a spiritual center. Their practices are and understand more myself when I listen closely to others. My whole life is a simple movement circling around community, relationships and joy. And this community is expanding every day beyond the borders of my birth land, crossing oceans and connecting with many good-hearted people around the Zoë and Una Nicholson world.” There may be some who believe simply a part of their daily lives. they can make these journeys alone, Zoë Nicholson, founder of as rugged individuals. But why? Why LifeWorks in England, says: wouldn’t we all want to find close “I started a meditation practice companions to share our journey? about the same time I began this Why wouldn’t we seek others excited work and I realized it was possible by the same possibilities and the same to have a fuller life at a slower speed. questions? Where would we find I didn’t really need to run around nourishment if we traveled alone? filling up my life. I could just slow down, unpack and my life would A Spiritual Center be a lot fuller… We can do all the What do leaders need to have intellectual stuff about saving the in order to stand with confidence planet, but the bottom line is how in a complex, changing and un- can I find a way to feel alive?” 4
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    The Berkana Institute Una Nicholson, Zoë’s sister, adds: leaders to hear and trust their inner “Things just seem to happen a voices and follow their calls. They lot more harmoniously, bountifully also move, with that spirit, into a and easily. The right things happen place of reflective learning that acts at the right time. Surprises come as a compass to guide their action. along and good things happen. For me, it just becomes a practice A Demand For Diversity of being aligned with myself—that When these leaders look at a seems to provide the path.” given situation, they look for the surrounding web of relationships and systems. They look for the whole picture. The younger leaders I’ve worked with all have had experience in multiple cultures. Such experiences may not be a precondition for enspirited leader- ship, but they usually shake people Manish Jain up enough that they begin to see the world more broadly. Ante Glavas When I asked Manish Jain from who started Horizon in Croatia India about his work at the core of says: Shikshantar, the learning center he “When one is born in one has created with others in Udaipur, culture, it is taken for granted that India, his response was: the world is as it is. When one then “This work is not about saving truly learns another culture deeply, or changing the world, but about then one realizes that there is not a how I live my own life and live it set way of seeing the world.” as an invitation to others. As the The capacity to understand that Bhagavad-Gita says: ‘Try to live the way we view our lives is a con- the way that you feel is true with struct our minds have created makes your own inner values. Don’t worry it easier to let go of false certain- about the results.The presence of a ties. In Beyond Culture, Edward spiritual center is what allows these Hall suggests that multicultural 5
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    experiences demand anexpansion in Institute’s board of directors, first consciousness. Expanded conscious- coined the term “laboratories of ness is required for this work. grace” in the late 1990s. The presence of others whose • This work is bigger than any of us ideas and experiences differ greatly separately, and it still calls on each from our own invites us to let go of of us to be separate and ourselves. our limited view of what’s needed • We are called upon to use our and what can happen. Diversity is a full imagination and learning, our key to open exploration and inquiry. collective diversity, our respect for It is what helps us let go of old ideas and solutions and to search for what else might be possible. Reflective Learning as a Guide For these leaders, the search for spiritual ground is accompanied by an ongoing process of surfacing facts and impressions, revealing patterns Ante Glavas and assumptions, examining actions and behaviors, and affirming or synchronicity and mystery, and changing the course of action. our willingness to be transformed. This continuous process makes up • We do this important work with reflective learning. a spirit of play, humor, friendship In early 2002, I met with many and love. We are connected and younger leaders in Prague, and we we connect to others. characterized this approach as follows: • Our local work is critical ground • Above all, this is a creative adven- from which global transform- ture. It is experimental. It calls us ation can emerge, with integrity. to focus our attention on the now. These reflections are alive. Our work, our lives, are labor- They hold a sense of genuine cur- atories of grace. Ann Dosher, an iosity. This kind of reflective learn- elder and community psychologist ing affirms life and invites in- who has served on The Berkana quiry into the uncertain path of 6
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    The Berkana Institute transformation.The process of supposed to be in charge, when our making such reflections explicit is self-confidence is based on being as ordinary for these leaders as their able to predict what will happen spirituality is. They have a capacity and how things will turn out, then to move easily from the realm of ambiguity and uncertainty usually spirit to the realm of thought, and invite our fear to rise up and bite us. this motion gives them balance. When we are able to release ourselves into the uncertainty, we Ambiguity and Uncertainty are invited to become explorers, to discover what lies ahead as we work with others to create that future. Cire Kane put it well: “Today, the path is still unclear. It is literally invisible, and yet my heart is often being moved and my soul split open. My lovely work is taking me every day on a Cire Kane journey of new experiences. These experiences are opening my heart Ambiguity and uncertainty are to the unimaginable beauty of life befriended in this work. To follow and community around me. Every a sense of calling, in the company day I awaken to a new day. I go of others, aware of a diverse world, out into the world with a feeling of from a spiritual center and with a excitement and joy and a feeling of clarity about assumptions, is to let being at home, everywhere in our go of control. There is simply no diverse supportive community. I do other way. Doing all of those things my work with engagement and joy, throws the doors of ambiguity and with lots of downs and still many uncertainty wide open. ups. I break for prayer, sometimes A choice each of us can make is meditation, often to be with my whether ambiguity and uncertainty parents or to hang out with friends. I open a pathway to fear or a pathway love my work. I love my community to balance. When we think we are and I love the life I’m living. I will 7
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    persevere through uncertaintyand enspirited work, and they often feel fear about my ability to carry out discouraged, isolated, lonely and the mission before me.” disconnected. They’ve forgotten to make sure that what they are doing Landmarks in Your Life is their true work. They have lost The work of these leaders is touch with those around them. enspirited, in that it comes from a They’re just too busy to slow down strong inner force that demands and be quiet. They’ll get to reflection attention. It is appreciative, in that it later. The views of others are just too looks for strengths that can be built distracting. And, oh yes, wouldn’t it upon. It is emergent, in that it creates be nice to have some certainty? both its path and its destination. My work, and that of The These six landmarks are a guidance Berkana Institute, is to help people system for work in this territory. be wildly excited and grounded in As exciting as this work can this kind of work. These landmarks be, it is also easy to get lost. I have are part of this process. opportunities to talk with people How are they present in your all over the world engaged in this life and work? You can find out more about the people and learning centers that we work and learn with at www.berkana.org. 8
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    The Berkana Institute BobStilger has been helping people create the communities they want since the early 70s. He’s championed a number of nonprofit ventures where people are building the world they want tomorrow, today. Bob is the Co- President of The Berkana Institute, where he works and learns with younger leaders around the world. His doctoral dissertation, presented in 2004 at the California Institute of Integral Studies, was a joint inquiry with seven leaders around how they created six learning centers in different parts of the world. Enspirited Leadership shares some of their collective learning. www.berkana.org 9 Printed on 100% recycled paper