4. WHAT IS A PRIMARY EMOTION?
• Primary emotions are feelings we have that
come to us before we get angry
• What feelings have you all experienced
before getting angry?
• Hurt?
• Jealousy?
• Sadness?
• Fear?
• Stress?
• Mistrust?
• Guilty?
• Disappointment?
5. WHAT WERE YOU THINKING?
• Feelings are usually precipitated by cognitions
• What kind of cognitions go through your head before you begin to feel unwanted
emotions?
• “I cant do this”
• “This is stupid”
• “Nobody disrespects me”
• “This person deserves to suffer”
• “Why would they hurt me like this”
• “This teacher is making me mad”
• “I can’t back down, or they’ll think I’m a chump”