CHAPTER 7:
Self-Esteem and Moral Identity
Guidance of Young Children
Ninth Edition
Marian Marion
© 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved
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THE ‘SELF’ IS A MENTAL STRUCTURE, A
SET OF IDEAS THAT HUMANS GRADUALLY
BUILD OR CONSTRUCT
Parts of the Self
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Parts of the Self
 Self-awareness
 Self-concept
 Self-control
 Self-esteem
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Self-Awareness
Refers to an idea that a child views himself as
separate from others
Development occurs during the first year as the
perpetual system develops
Continues to develop through early childhood
Realization that a child can make things happen
Must be in place before self-esteem can be
developed
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Self-Concept
Knowledge that a child acquires about her self
Gradually gather information about physical
appearance and abilities, gender, intellectual
abilities, and interpersonal skills
Occurs at the same time as more general changes
in cognitive development
Includes gender constancy, some things remain
the same despite apparent changes
Affects behavior
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Self-Control
 Refers to controlling impulses, tolerating
frustration, and delaying immediate gratification
 Basis of intentional and deliberate behavior
 Effected by environment and socioeconomic
status
 May be developed though high-quality
imaginative play
 Better able to be regulated as children age
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Self-Esteem
Refers to how a child evaluates the self about whom
she has learned
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Building Blocks of
Self-Esteem
 Competence
 Control
 Worth
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Competence
The ability to meet demands for achievement
Grows over time and with effort
Must work for it
Understanding that things happened through
one’s own effort rather than trying to force or
manipulate others into doing things for them
Developed through good feedback: genuine,
positive and accompanied by suggestions for
change when appropriate
May be affected by motivation
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Control
 Degree to which a child thinks he is
responsible for how things turn out
 A lifelong issue
 Critical aspect of self-esteem
 Affected by teachers and parents
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Worth
Refers to a child’s general sense of his own social
value, significance to others
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Self-Esteem Develops in a
Social Context
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Adults Influence a Child’s Self-
Esteem: Garbage in, Garbage Out
Children’s opinion about their competence, control,
and worth develops out of interaction with family
members, teachers, and others in their social
environment
Reflected in adults attitude toward children
self-esteem affected by children’s belief that adults
possess superior wisdom and judgments
Significant adults feed data through words, facial
expressions, and actions
Negative data leads to negative self-esteem
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Bullying: Effect on Self-Esteem
A form of aggression in which a child intends to
humiliate or hurt the victim
Involves repeated negative acts in which the bully
enjoys hurting the victim and the victim feels
oppressed
Can be verbal, psychological, or physical
Has a negative effect of self-esteem
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Moral Identity
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What is Moral Identity?
 A person who uses moral principles refers to moral
identity
 Willingness to see things from another’s perspective
as well as behaving compassionately
 Every person has it yet people differ in degree to
which they use moral principles to define self
 Develops in later childhood and governs views of
the right thing to do
 Determines why a child should take a specific
course of action
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Practices that Help
Children Develop
Authentic Self-Esteem
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Specific Practices that Affect a
Child’s Self-Esteem
 Believe in and adopt an authoritative caregiving style
 Plan appropriate activities that area deserving of
children’s time
 Express genuine interest in children and their
activities
 Give meaningful feedback to children
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Specific Practices that Affect a
Child’s Self-Esteem
 Use encouragement and avoid empty praise
 Acknowledge both pleasant and unpleasant feelings
 Demonstrate respect for all family groups and
cultures: avoid sexism and judging physical
attributes
 Teach specific social skills
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Practices Contributing to
Unhealthy Self-Esteem
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Degrading Practices Toward
Children
 Child abuse or harsh discipline
 Failure to emphasize self-responsibility
 Unhelpful, over critical, negative style of
communication
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Degrading Practices Toward
Children
 Denying unpleasant feelings
 Ignoring children or spending time with them
grudgingly
 Acting in a judgmental or sexist way, or showing
contempt for some families or cultural groups

Chapter 7 Self-Esteem & Moral Identity

  • 1.
    CHAPTER 7: Self-Esteem andMoral Identity Guidance of Young Children Ninth Edition Marian Marion © 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved
  • 2.
    Marion. Guidance ofYoung Children, 9e. © 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved 7-2 THE ‘SELF’ IS A MENTAL STRUCTURE, A SET OF IDEAS THAT HUMANS GRADUALLY BUILD OR CONSTRUCT Parts of the Self
  • 3.
    Marion. Guidance ofYoung Children, 9e. © 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved 7-3 Parts of the Self  Self-awareness  Self-concept  Self-control  Self-esteem
  • 4.
    Marion. Guidance ofYoung Children, 9e. © 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved 7-4 Self-Awareness Refers to an idea that a child views himself as separate from others Development occurs during the first year as the perpetual system develops Continues to develop through early childhood Realization that a child can make things happen Must be in place before self-esteem can be developed
  • 5.
    Marion. Guidance ofYoung Children, 9e. © 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved 7-5 Self-Concept Knowledge that a child acquires about her self Gradually gather information about physical appearance and abilities, gender, intellectual abilities, and interpersonal skills Occurs at the same time as more general changes in cognitive development Includes gender constancy, some things remain the same despite apparent changes Affects behavior
  • 6.
    Marion. Guidance ofYoung Children, 9e. © 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved 7-6 Self-Control  Refers to controlling impulses, tolerating frustration, and delaying immediate gratification  Basis of intentional and deliberate behavior  Effected by environment and socioeconomic status  May be developed though high-quality imaginative play  Better able to be regulated as children age
  • 7.
    Marion. Guidance ofYoung Children, 9e. © 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved 7-7 Self-Esteem Refers to how a child evaluates the self about whom she has learned
  • 8.
    Marion. Guidance ofYoung Children, 9e. © 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved 7-8 Building Blocks of Self-Esteem  Competence  Control  Worth
  • 9.
    Marion. Guidance ofYoung Children, 9e. © 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved 7-9 Competence The ability to meet demands for achievement Grows over time and with effort Must work for it Understanding that things happened through one’s own effort rather than trying to force or manipulate others into doing things for them Developed through good feedback: genuine, positive and accompanied by suggestions for change when appropriate May be affected by motivation
  • 10.
    Marion. Guidance ofYoung Children, 9e. © 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved 7-10 Control  Degree to which a child thinks he is responsible for how things turn out  A lifelong issue  Critical aspect of self-esteem  Affected by teachers and parents
  • 11.
    Marion. Guidance ofYoung Children, 9e. © 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved 7-11 Worth Refers to a child’s general sense of his own social value, significance to others
  • 12.
    Marion. Guidance ofYoung Children, 9e. © 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved 7-12 Self-Esteem Develops in a Social Context
  • 13.
    Marion. Guidance ofYoung Children, 9e. © 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved 7-13 Adults Influence a Child’s Self- Esteem: Garbage in, Garbage Out Children’s opinion about their competence, control, and worth develops out of interaction with family members, teachers, and others in their social environment Reflected in adults attitude toward children self-esteem affected by children’s belief that adults possess superior wisdom and judgments Significant adults feed data through words, facial expressions, and actions Negative data leads to negative self-esteem
  • 14.
    Marion. Guidance ofYoung Children, 9e. © 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved 7-14 Bullying: Effect on Self-Esteem A form of aggression in which a child intends to humiliate or hurt the victim Involves repeated negative acts in which the bully enjoys hurting the victim and the victim feels oppressed Can be verbal, psychological, or physical Has a negative effect of self-esteem
  • 15.
    Marion. Guidance ofYoung Children, 9e. © 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved 7-15 Moral Identity
  • 16.
    Marion. Guidance ofYoung Children, 9e. © 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved 7-16 What is Moral Identity?  A person who uses moral principles refers to moral identity  Willingness to see things from another’s perspective as well as behaving compassionately  Every person has it yet people differ in degree to which they use moral principles to define self  Develops in later childhood and governs views of the right thing to do  Determines why a child should take a specific course of action
  • 17.
    Marion. Guidance ofYoung Children, 9e. © 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved 7-17 Practices that Help Children Develop Authentic Self-Esteem
  • 18.
    Marion. Guidance ofYoung Children, 9e. © 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved 7-18 Specific Practices that Affect a Child’s Self-Esteem  Believe in and adopt an authoritative caregiving style  Plan appropriate activities that area deserving of children’s time  Express genuine interest in children and their activities  Give meaningful feedback to children
  • 19.
    Marion. Guidance ofYoung Children, 9e. © 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved 7-19 Specific Practices that Affect a Child’s Self-Esteem  Use encouragement and avoid empty praise  Acknowledge both pleasant and unpleasant feelings  Demonstrate respect for all family groups and cultures: avoid sexism and judging physical attributes  Teach specific social skills
  • 20.
    Marion. Guidance ofYoung Children, 9e. © 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved 7-20 Practices Contributing to Unhealthy Self-Esteem
  • 21.
    Marion. Guidance ofYoung Children, 9e. © 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved 7-21 Degrading Practices Toward Children  Child abuse or harsh discipline  Failure to emphasize self-responsibility  Unhelpful, over critical, negative style of communication
  • 22.
    Marion. Guidance ofYoung Children, 9e. © 2015, 2011, 2007 by Pearson Education, Inc. All Rights Reserved 7-22 Degrading Practices Toward Children  Denying unpleasant feelings  Ignoring children or spending time with them grudgingly  Acting in a judgmental or sexist way, or showing contempt for some families or cultural groups