The document discusses attachment theory and how early childhood experiences with caregivers shape adult relationships and views of God. It promotes viewing God as a safe haven and secure attachment figure to heal from past wounds. The goal is to develop a secure attachment style characterized by seeing oneself and others as loving and worthy with healthy interdependence.
The document outlines 10 steps to building emotional core strength for gifted individuals. It discusses how gifted children and adults often struggle with asynchrony, social and emotional problems like anxiety, depression, and feelings of being different or like an alien. The 10 steps include gaining perspective, understanding oneself, balancing and expressing emotions effectively, meeting one's own needs, and establishing relationships. The goal is to help gifted individuals become "social-emotional ACES" with strengths in asynchrony, social skills, and emotional resilience in order to restore their ability to create and innovate.
This is a talk for parents on how to talk to your kids about their sexuality starting at aged 3 all the way up to 18. This talk focuses on Theology of the Body and gives resources and so much more. The recorded talk that goes with it can be accessed here: http://archive.org/details/BeyondTheBirdsAndTheBeesRaisingPureChildren
You must click the link in blue that says; 41.2 MB
Then forward to the 3 min mark to skip the intro
I do give these talks around the country. To contact me;
EmbracingYourGreatness@gmail.com
http://EmbracingYourGreatness.org
This document discusses balancing one's life like balancing a bicycle. It promotes tuning into one's physical, emotional and mental state, tuning up through self-care like releasing emotions, and taking off by taking action. Signs of imbalance like stress, fatigue and overwhelm are outlined. Methods to restore balance include checking where you may be out of balance, cleaning and adjusting unhelpful patterns, and replacing them with self-care activities like deep breathing, gratitude, stretching and laughter.
This document summarizes key points from a chapter on prayer in families. It discusses the importance of faith being transmitted in the home, not just places of worship. Parents are instructed to discuss God and faith spontaneously throughout the day. Couples praying together strengthens marriages by increasing respect, intimacy and shared goals. When couples regularly attend church and pray together, divorce rates drop dramatically. The implications of couples praying include inviting God into struggles, developing openness, and strengthening their spiritual bond and unity.
The document outlines plans for a new children's program called CPR at the Lincoln Nazarene Church. It discusses setting up the program to provide childcare so parents can go out, displaying the church as a loving environment, reaching out to families in the community, and hopes for church growth. The program will involve curriculum, volunteers, food, and legal considerations. Spiritual conflict that may arise includes issues brought by families, competition with larger churches, inviting the unknown into the church, and attacks against individuals. Preparing involves educating on what spiritual conflict is from biblical and historical perspectives and relying on prayer.
Raising children brings incredible joy and fulfillment, as well as frustration, uncertainty, and stress. Fortunately, God gives us guidance on how to be godly parents. This 21-day reading plan helps you bring God and His Word into your parenting. Devotions are selected from the Once-a-Day: Nurturing Great Kids Devotional by Zondervan.
Drink The Water, Flee The Fire: TEACHING OUR CHILDREN SEXUAL PURITY BY FOCUSI...Thomas Ciesielka
Given the disappearance of biblical moral values beneath the cultural tidal wave of pornography, sexualized advertising, and the celebration of LGBT “rights” in the media and in corporate offices…what can a parent do? Rise up, moms and dads; it’s time to get serious about teaching God’s Word and eternal, unchanging values to our kids.
The document discusses compassion fatigue in healthcare workers and provides strategies for transforming it. It defines compassion fatigue as secondary traumatic stress or vicarious traumatization experienced by those helping trauma victims. The presentation covers the causes and signs of compassion fatigue and emphasizes the importance of self-care through stress management, maintaining purpose and meaning in one's work, and engaging in creative activities. Hands-on and contemplative exercises are presented as ways to process challenges in a new manner and become more self-aware.
The document outlines 10 steps to building emotional core strength for gifted individuals. It discusses how gifted children and adults often struggle with asynchrony, social and emotional problems like anxiety, depression, and feelings of being different or like an alien. The 10 steps include gaining perspective, understanding oneself, balancing and expressing emotions effectively, meeting one's own needs, and establishing relationships. The goal is to help gifted individuals become "social-emotional ACES" with strengths in asynchrony, social skills, and emotional resilience in order to restore their ability to create and innovate.
This is a talk for parents on how to talk to your kids about their sexuality starting at aged 3 all the way up to 18. This talk focuses on Theology of the Body and gives resources and so much more. The recorded talk that goes with it can be accessed here: http://archive.org/details/BeyondTheBirdsAndTheBeesRaisingPureChildren
You must click the link in blue that says; 41.2 MB
Then forward to the 3 min mark to skip the intro
I do give these talks around the country. To contact me;
EmbracingYourGreatness@gmail.com
http://EmbracingYourGreatness.org
This document discusses balancing one's life like balancing a bicycle. It promotes tuning into one's physical, emotional and mental state, tuning up through self-care like releasing emotions, and taking off by taking action. Signs of imbalance like stress, fatigue and overwhelm are outlined. Methods to restore balance include checking where you may be out of balance, cleaning and adjusting unhelpful patterns, and replacing them with self-care activities like deep breathing, gratitude, stretching and laughter.
This document summarizes key points from a chapter on prayer in families. It discusses the importance of faith being transmitted in the home, not just places of worship. Parents are instructed to discuss God and faith spontaneously throughout the day. Couples praying together strengthens marriages by increasing respect, intimacy and shared goals. When couples regularly attend church and pray together, divorce rates drop dramatically. The implications of couples praying include inviting God into struggles, developing openness, and strengthening their spiritual bond and unity.
The document outlines plans for a new children's program called CPR at the Lincoln Nazarene Church. It discusses setting up the program to provide childcare so parents can go out, displaying the church as a loving environment, reaching out to families in the community, and hopes for church growth. The program will involve curriculum, volunteers, food, and legal considerations. Spiritual conflict that may arise includes issues brought by families, competition with larger churches, inviting the unknown into the church, and attacks against individuals. Preparing involves educating on what spiritual conflict is from biblical and historical perspectives and relying on prayer.
Raising children brings incredible joy and fulfillment, as well as frustration, uncertainty, and stress. Fortunately, God gives us guidance on how to be godly parents. This 21-day reading plan helps you bring God and His Word into your parenting. Devotions are selected from the Once-a-Day: Nurturing Great Kids Devotional by Zondervan.
Drink The Water, Flee The Fire: TEACHING OUR CHILDREN SEXUAL PURITY BY FOCUSI...Thomas Ciesielka
Given the disappearance of biblical moral values beneath the cultural tidal wave of pornography, sexualized advertising, and the celebration of LGBT “rights” in the media and in corporate offices…what can a parent do? Rise up, moms and dads; it’s time to get serious about teaching God’s Word and eternal, unchanging values to our kids.
The document discusses compassion fatigue in healthcare workers and provides strategies for transforming it. It defines compassion fatigue as secondary traumatic stress or vicarious traumatization experienced by those helping trauma victims. The presentation covers the causes and signs of compassion fatigue and emphasizes the importance of self-care through stress management, maintaining purpose and meaning in one's work, and engaging in creative activities. Hands-on and contemplative exercises are presented as ways to process challenges in a new manner and become more self-aware.
This document discusses the importance of self-care through healthy boundaries and relationships. It defines boundaries as personal limits and explains that boundaries protect both oneself and others when set respectfully. Good boundaries are not selfish but are given by God. The document outlines situations where boundaries need to be set, such as with difficult people or to prevent overextending oneself. Maintaining boundaries may require respectful confrontation at times. Self-care involves more than boundaries, as it also requires healthy relationships with others, self, environment, and God for integrated growth in wisdom, stature, and favor. An integrated approach involves thinking, feeling, and doing.
God created humans to be objects of God's love. When Adam and Eve fell, their relationships and humanity's purpose were corrupted. Restoration involves repairing damaged relationships from the fall and fulfilling the original three blessings of being fruitful, multiplying, and having dominion, through developing one's character and establishing godly families and societies. An example is how Sarah restored her position as Eve by resisting Pharaoh's advances and remaining faithful to Abraham.
The InScribed Collection is for anyone with a passion for God. Each title touches on a subject matter unique to the needs and issues that women face everyday. Whether used individually, in small accountability groups, or in larger discussion groups, readers will be challenged to engage their entire person in the study and can expect life change.
In order to have healthy intimate relationships with others, it helps to have a healthy intimate relationship with God. With God, there is absence of judgment and unconditional acceptance, unlike with a human partner. Through reference to biblical concepts and teachings from the Catholic Catechism, this presentation explains how to form a healthy intimacy with God.
God has made us responsible for certain aspects of ourselves and our lives. It is important to understand what is "me" and what is not, and what we are responsible for versus what we are not. Boundaries help with this by defining our responsibilities and protecting our well-being. Some key aspects we are responsible for include our feelings, attitudes, beliefs, behaviors, choices, thoughts, desires, abilities to give and receive love. Boundaries should allow in what nourishes us while keeping out what harms us. God sets a good example of maintaining boundaries in a loving way.
This document provides guidance on facing trials and suffering in life. It discusses how every trial is a test of faith, hope, or love. Regarding faith, trials call us to actively decide to trust in God even without understanding. Regarding hope, they reveal our fragility and call us to find ultimate security only in God. Regarding love, trials purify our love for God, others, and ourselves. The document advises accepting trials, asking the right questions about how to respond rather than why they occurred, and focusing on discerning the lesson rather than demanding explanations. Trials are opportunities to grow closer to God through deepening faith, hope and love.
The document discusses the controversial issue of determining whether a Christian is truly authentic or living an authentic life. It notes that due to humanity's sinful nature, we try to control situations and judge others rather than letting God do His work. The change that God brings is difficult for humans to understand fully. It argues that salvation is by grace alone through faith in Jesus, and sanctification is a process where God turns believers from sin as they grow in faith and submit to Him. The conclusion emphasizes that change only happens when we let go of trying to control and fix others, and instead let God work through us by His Spirit as we surrender to Him.
1. God has loved the Israelites despite their weaknesses and failures, choosing Jacob over Esau and making Esau's land desolate as a result.
2. The Israelites question how God has loved them, despite the evidence of his love in choosing them over others and delivering punishments to their enemies.
3. God disciplines the Israelites because he loves them, to help them change from their sins and rebellion so they can become righteous.
Parenting 101--Consiously Christian ParentingChristy Graham
A church I was attending asked me to teach a parenting class using the book, Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline by Becky Bailey. I used this book and Child Parent Relationship Training materials to create this comprehensive training for parents. It incorporates the worldview of the Baptist church I was teaching at, as well.
This document discusses how to raise godly children in an ungodly world. It emphasizes that the marriage relationship should be the top priority and that child-centered parenting can threaten family life. Parents are encouraged to teach biblical virtues and values by exemplifying them through loving their spouse and children. Obedience training should involve immediate, complete obedience without threats, bribes or excuses. More is caught than taught, so parents must model moral behavior through their own actions and words.
This document discusses worry and its effects. It defines worry as mental distress or agitation and traces the word back to its Old English origin meaning "to strangle or choke." It outlines the physical effects of worry such as increased heart rate, upset stomach, and sleep problems. Spiritually, worry can corrupt one's testimony by leading to mental and physical disorders. The document encourages bringing thoughts into obedience to Christ and cultivating dependence on God to experience perfect peace.
Here are some common parenting situations groups could discuss:
- Child throwing tantrums in public
- Sibling fighting/arguing
- Child not listening or following rules
- Child being disrespectful or rude
- Child struggling with homework/schoolwork
- Child being overly clingy or dependent
- Child having trouble making friends
- Child being aggressive or bullying others
- Child being dishonest or lying
- Child spending too much time on devices/screens
- Child not eating healthy foods
- Bedtime battles
- Chores/responsibilities not being done
Groups can pick one or more situations to discuss causes, impacts, and potential solutions. Discussing real parenting challenges helps identify effective strategies
This document provides guidance on coping with crisis through faith in God. It encourages readers to have no fear and stay calm through prayer; to allow sorrow but know healing will come; and to be strong by committing challenges to God and acting on solutions. Facing crisis requires living day-to-day with faith that God is working on one's behalf, even if imperceptibly. Reaching out to help others is also recommended to boost strength and belonging. Ultimately, true hope is described as a discipline to believe in God's power regardless of outward circumstances.
Negative passion can lead people astray through uncontrolled appetites, pride, and putting self before others. While mistakes due to negative passion leave scars, God uses the desert experiences to strengthen people. Even though questions remain about suffering, God's mercy, glory, love, and passion for his people provide strength to overcome challenges. Maintaining an intimate relationship with God through passion and trust in him enables overcoming problems.
The document provides information and tools for helping gifted children and adults overcome overexcitabilities and cope with trauma. It discusses how trauma responses can be heightened, intensified, and more pervasive in highly sensitive and gifted individuals due to their increased sensitivity and awareness. Ten trauma tools are presented, including breathing techniques, containment, catch and release emotional processing, and telling the trauma story in different forms. The document aims to provide guidance for healing from trauma in a natural way without blocking the healing process.
Presentation by Suzanne Aubry, Claudia Saggese, and Debbie Brasher at the UCSF Depression Center's "Depression: Pathways to Resilience and Recovery" event on September 13, 2014.
This document provides information and tips for coping with sensitivity, anxiety, and depression for those who are considered CASIGYs (Creative, Acutely Aware, Super-Sensitive, Intense, Introverted, Intelligent, and/or Gifted). It begins with an introduction of the presenter, Sharon M. Barnes, and her credentials. It then discusses why CASIGYs seem more susceptible to sadness, providing explanations like living in a mundane world. The document provides many tips divided into sections, such as recognizing problems, balancing the brain, expressing emotions creatively, and getting help. It emphasizes using creativity and play to deal with difficulties in a productive way.
The newsletter discusses events at the Christian Brothers University School of Nursing, including a message from the president of the SONA club emphasizing using nursing skills to spread God's word. It provides details on international medical mission trips and how nursing students apply their faith to serve others in need. Recent nursing events on campus are recapped, and an alumni update shares the challenges and rewards of working as a registered nurse.
This document discusses the importance of self-care through healthy boundaries and relationships. It defines boundaries as personal limits and explains that boundaries protect both oneself and others when set respectfully. Good boundaries are not selfish but are given by God. The document outlines situations where boundaries need to be set, such as with difficult people or to prevent overextending oneself. Maintaining boundaries may require respectful confrontation at times. Self-care involves more than boundaries, as it also requires healthy relationships with others, self, environment, and God for integrated growth in wisdom, stature, and favor. An integrated approach involves thinking, feeling, and doing.
God created humans to be objects of God's love. When Adam and Eve fell, their relationships and humanity's purpose were corrupted. Restoration involves repairing damaged relationships from the fall and fulfilling the original three blessings of being fruitful, multiplying, and having dominion, through developing one's character and establishing godly families and societies. An example is how Sarah restored her position as Eve by resisting Pharaoh's advances and remaining faithful to Abraham.
The InScribed Collection is for anyone with a passion for God. Each title touches on a subject matter unique to the needs and issues that women face everyday. Whether used individually, in small accountability groups, or in larger discussion groups, readers will be challenged to engage their entire person in the study and can expect life change.
In order to have healthy intimate relationships with others, it helps to have a healthy intimate relationship with God. With God, there is absence of judgment and unconditional acceptance, unlike with a human partner. Through reference to biblical concepts and teachings from the Catholic Catechism, this presentation explains how to form a healthy intimacy with God.
God has made us responsible for certain aspects of ourselves and our lives. It is important to understand what is "me" and what is not, and what we are responsible for versus what we are not. Boundaries help with this by defining our responsibilities and protecting our well-being. Some key aspects we are responsible for include our feelings, attitudes, beliefs, behaviors, choices, thoughts, desires, abilities to give and receive love. Boundaries should allow in what nourishes us while keeping out what harms us. God sets a good example of maintaining boundaries in a loving way.
This document provides guidance on facing trials and suffering in life. It discusses how every trial is a test of faith, hope, or love. Regarding faith, trials call us to actively decide to trust in God even without understanding. Regarding hope, they reveal our fragility and call us to find ultimate security only in God. Regarding love, trials purify our love for God, others, and ourselves. The document advises accepting trials, asking the right questions about how to respond rather than why they occurred, and focusing on discerning the lesson rather than demanding explanations. Trials are opportunities to grow closer to God through deepening faith, hope and love.
The document discusses the controversial issue of determining whether a Christian is truly authentic or living an authentic life. It notes that due to humanity's sinful nature, we try to control situations and judge others rather than letting God do His work. The change that God brings is difficult for humans to understand fully. It argues that salvation is by grace alone through faith in Jesus, and sanctification is a process where God turns believers from sin as they grow in faith and submit to Him. The conclusion emphasizes that change only happens when we let go of trying to control and fix others, and instead let God work through us by His Spirit as we surrender to Him.
1. God has loved the Israelites despite their weaknesses and failures, choosing Jacob over Esau and making Esau's land desolate as a result.
2. The Israelites question how God has loved them, despite the evidence of his love in choosing them over others and delivering punishments to their enemies.
3. God disciplines the Israelites because he loves them, to help them change from their sins and rebellion so they can become righteous.
Parenting 101--Consiously Christian ParentingChristy Graham
A church I was attending asked me to teach a parenting class using the book, Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline by Becky Bailey. I used this book and Child Parent Relationship Training materials to create this comprehensive training for parents. It incorporates the worldview of the Baptist church I was teaching at, as well.
This document discusses how to raise godly children in an ungodly world. It emphasizes that the marriage relationship should be the top priority and that child-centered parenting can threaten family life. Parents are encouraged to teach biblical virtues and values by exemplifying them through loving their spouse and children. Obedience training should involve immediate, complete obedience without threats, bribes or excuses. More is caught than taught, so parents must model moral behavior through their own actions and words.
This document discusses worry and its effects. It defines worry as mental distress or agitation and traces the word back to its Old English origin meaning "to strangle or choke." It outlines the physical effects of worry such as increased heart rate, upset stomach, and sleep problems. Spiritually, worry can corrupt one's testimony by leading to mental and physical disorders. The document encourages bringing thoughts into obedience to Christ and cultivating dependence on God to experience perfect peace.
Here are some common parenting situations groups could discuss:
- Child throwing tantrums in public
- Sibling fighting/arguing
- Child not listening or following rules
- Child being disrespectful or rude
- Child struggling with homework/schoolwork
- Child being overly clingy or dependent
- Child having trouble making friends
- Child being aggressive or bullying others
- Child being dishonest or lying
- Child spending too much time on devices/screens
- Child not eating healthy foods
- Bedtime battles
- Chores/responsibilities not being done
Groups can pick one or more situations to discuss causes, impacts, and potential solutions. Discussing real parenting challenges helps identify effective strategies
This document provides guidance on coping with crisis through faith in God. It encourages readers to have no fear and stay calm through prayer; to allow sorrow but know healing will come; and to be strong by committing challenges to God and acting on solutions. Facing crisis requires living day-to-day with faith that God is working on one's behalf, even if imperceptibly. Reaching out to help others is also recommended to boost strength and belonging. Ultimately, true hope is described as a discipline to believe in God's power regardless of outward circumstances.
Negative passion can lead people astray through uncontrolled appetites, pride, and putting self before others. While mistakes due to negative passion leave scars, God uses the desert experiences to strengthen people. Even though questions remain about suffering, God's mercy, glory, love, and passion for his people provide strength to overcome challenges. Maintaining an intimate relationship with God through passion and trust in him enables overcoming problems.
The document provides information and tools for helping gifted children and adults overcome overexcitabilities and cope with trauma. It discusses how trauma responses can be heightened, intensified, and more pervasive in highly sensitive and gifted individuals due to their increased sensitivity and awareness. Ten trauma tools are presented, including breathing techniques, containment, catch and release emotional processing, and telling the trauma story in different forms. The document aims to provide guidance for healing from trauma in a natural way without blocking the healing process.
Presentation by Suzanne Aubry, Claudia Saggese, and Debbie Brasher at the UCSF Depression Center's "Depression: Pathways to Resilience and Recovery" event on September 13, 2014.
This document provides information and tips for coping with sensitivity, anxiety, and depression for those who are considered CASIGYs (Creative, Acutely Aware, Super-Sensitive, Intense, Introverted, Intelligent, and/or Gifted). It begins with an introduction of the presenter, Sharon M. Barnes, and her credentials. It then discusses why CASIGYs seem more susceptible to sadness, providing explanations like living in a mundane world. The document provides many tips divided into sections, such as recognizing problems, balancing the brain, expressing emotions creatively, and getting help. It emphasizes using creativity and play to deal with difficulties in a productive way.
The newsletter discusses events at the Christian Brothers University School of Nursing, including a message from the president of the SONA club emphasizing using nursing skills to spread God's word. It provides details on international medical mission trips and how nursing students apply their faith to serve others in need. Recent nursing events on campus are recapped, and an alumni update shares the challenges and rewards of working as a registered nurse.
This document summarizes the first two sessions of a married couples retreat focused on finishing well.
Session one discusses creating a shared vision for a fruitful marriage grounded in God's word. It provides scriptural examples of fruitfulness and encourages couples to describe their vision simply, shareably, and in a way that is meaningful to them.
Session two discusses how crises can hinder or help couples in running long and finishing well. It defines marital crisis, provides common types, and outlines ineffective versus effective crisis management. The session emphasizes that God's plan is for couples to grow from crisis through joining together, facing facts, communicating, and increasing spiritual resources. It provides examples of potential growth and hindrances to growth.
The document discusses launching a new preteen ministry program to help children ages 10-12 develop a strong spiritual foundation during a crucial time of physical and spiritual growth. It aims to support families and focus on converting children's hearts to Christianity, with the goal of them making a lifelong commitment to faith and eventually reaching heaven together. The program will empower parents and equip extended families to mentor and disciple preteens on their spiritual journey.
Wondering why the adoption process seems so intense?
This webinar will explain the process, the children who wait and what you can do to prepare yourself.
Helen Oakwater, adoptive parent, international trainer and author explains the why and how of the process and will expand your thinking about the epic adventure that is required to be and survive as an adoptive parent to a children who experienced abuse and/or neglect before they were placed for adoption.
This document provides guidance on overcoming negative feelings. It recommends being truthful with yourself by recognizing your feelings and examining your affect, behavior, and thoughts using the ABC model. It suggests surrendering your feelings and putting your trust in God and his love. To overcome negative feelings, take responsibility for your decisions and actions and consider how to communicate in a way that does not harm others. The document advocates surrendering to God and trusting him to help overcome negative feelings.
This document provides an overview of forming healthy intimate relationships. It discusses intimacy as involving vulnerability and risk, and not being defined by sex alone. Intimacy is described as having four dimensions: emotional, intellectual, spiritual, and physical. Healthy intimacy involves balancing individuality and togetherness through differentiation - maintaining a clear sense of self even when close to others. The document emphasizes starting intimacy from within by revealing aspects of oneself, and cautions against forcing intimacy or defining relationships solely by physical aspects.
Most people know Humanae Vitae as the encyclical that upheld the traditional Catholic teaching on contraception in the face of mounting mainstream opposition. However there is more to it than that. In this talk, we will learn exactly what Humanae Vitae teaches and why it is crucial to the survival of our culture.
Slides from talk given by Dr. Christopher Kaczor at Cornerstone Conference on Humanae Vitae.
Christopher Kaczor holds a Ph.D. from the University of Notre Dame and is former Director of the University Honors Program and Associate Professor in the School of Philosophy at The Catholic University of America, Washington, DC.
Show Hope Branding Guide Working Draft June 11Nicholas Lyndon
This document provides Show Hope's branding guidelines. It outlines the organization's positioning as restoring hope of family to orphans in distress. Key aspects of the brand identity are hope, restoration, excellence, service and family-based care. The guidelines describe the brand's vision, purpose, values and personality as compelling, credible and hopeful. It provides direction on consistent use of language, logo, colors and imagery to clearly communicate Show Hope's mission.
Here are my presentation slides for the CAGT (CO Assn for Gifted & Talented) Annual Conference, Oct 22, 2018.
Gifted, highly sensitive students are often more impacted by trauma than are others. You’ll learn knowledge of why this is, two underlying principles to guide your trauma interventions with gifted students and what to do to help traumatized gifted students. You’ll learn skills to identify seven signs of a normal trauma response and three ways to tell if or when to get professional help. You’ll learn practices ─ one simple mind-body tool that can be used to counteract negative effects of trauma and four things to do to help gifted students process difficult emotions related to trauma.
Tim Sweeney, Licensed Clinical Social, presents The Special Needs Family as part of the 2009 Spring Brown Bag Autism series at the University of Mary Washington.
The document discusses the author's experience as a spiritual entrepreneur who struggled financially with her business. It describes how she overcame personal trauma, including the arrest of her husband for molesting her daughter, through intensive therapy and training in healing modalities like Reiki, hypnotherapy, and Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT). Using EFT, the author was able to release years of pain, shame, and suffering from the trauma in just one session. She subsequently trained extensively in EFT and other healing methods. The author believes sharing her story and lessons learned will help other spiritual entrepreneurs overcome challenges and build successful businesses aligned with their gifts.
To my siblings -- No One Can Resist Successfully the Doctrine of CompassionArnulfo Laniba
This is personal letter first addressed to my blood siblings, and secondly, to the rest of my human brothers and sisters: THE WAY TO WEALTH IS ALSO (SHOULD BE) THE PATH OF COMPASSION
1. The document discusses the importance of family health and outlines several reasons why discussing family health is important, such as that families significantly impact individuals and that many families are dysfunctional.
2. It notes that most people will have families of their own and aims to help people build healthy families by developing good qualities and addressing problems to avoid perpetuating harms from their family of origin.
3. The document provides some characteristics of healthy families, such as commitment between family members, good communication, and spending time together, and suggests that addressing family issues can help address individual problems.
Keeping our Love "On": Emotions & Boundariesrfochler
We're called to love. There is nothing more important or transformational. And we also struggle about how to really love. This talk is part of a series exploring/unpacking Danny Silk's message and book "Keep Your Love On". For more info - and access to the audio of the talks, please go to www.blazingfire.org.
"Codependency" was presented on Tuesday March 22, 2011, by Ronald E. Harrison; Chemical Dependency Therapist. This program discusses the symptoms and progression of codependency and describes actions and resources that help codependent people to recover from codependency. This program is part of the FREE, annual Dawn Farm Education Series. The Education Series is organized by Dawn Farm, a non-profit community of programs providing a continuum of chemical dependency services. For information, please contact Matt Statman, LLMSW, CADC, Education Series Coordinator, at 734-485-8725 or info@dawnfarm.org, or see http://www.dawnfarm.org/programs/education-series.
NSW Child Protection Conference sept 2017 Helen Oakwater
The beliefs that lurk below the presenting behaviour of a child (especially a hurt or traumatised child) is where real change and understanding occurs. Useful for Social Workers, Teachers, Foster parents, Adopters and beyond.
Just as a building needs a sturdy foundation to support the structure, you need a solid foundation to support your life.
Personal foundations will naturally vary depending on your circumstances. But they will always include core values, beliefs and highest life priorities supported by standards and behaviors that keep you strong, focused and effective.
This document discusses attunement and empathy. It states that attunement involves being aware, receptive, and empathetic. It suggests that the fall caused human functioning to descend into the brainstem and split in half, disconnecting empathy. Contemplative practice can strengthen the corpus callosum and anterior cingulate, restoring attunement and empathy. The Eden question is "What is my purpose?". The document provides a workshop schedule focusing on restoring attunement and empathy through experientials, scripture, and contemplative practices like lectio divina and prayer.
This document discusses the spectrum of emotions and how energy moves inward or outward from the mind and body. It provides a list of emotions and how they relate to different parts of the brain and behaviors. Strategies are suggested for managing emotions, including using emotional tools from the prefrontal cortex like journaling. Physical strategies are also listed like breathing, hydrating, and exercise to help flush stress toxins and discharge emotions from the limbic system and brain stem.
1) The document discusses how thoughts can physically change the brain by strengthening or weakening neural connections. Negative thoughts in particular can cause dendrites to become sparse and thorny.
2) It explains how addictive behaviors like substance abuse or illicit sex flood the brain with dopamine, leading to receptor death and resulting neurological issues like depression, low energy, and difficulty feeling pleasure.
3) The document recommends abstaining from addictive behaviors for 90 days to reset the brain, and practicing lifelong healing through renewing the mind with God's word and staying alert against memory traces trying to resurrect addictions.
The document discusses the repair cycle. It likely outlines the different steps involved in a repair process from identifying an issue, to diagnosing the problem, repairing or replacing parts, and ensuring the repairs address the original problem. The repair cycle aims to restore functionality through systematic assessment and resolution of any technical faults or damage.
The document discusses repairing relationships through attuning central nervous systems. It explains that people originally operated as interconnected "we" systems but fell into operating as disconnected "I" systems. It provides techniques for repairing this, including turning toward each other through senses like eye contact, touch, and shared rhythms. The goal is for couples to function as secure, two-part systems that co-regulate one another's emotions and stress. Addressing deficits like attachment injuries or alexithymia can help partners reconnect physically, psychologically and spiritually.
The document discusses how thoughts can impact physical health. It states that thoughts trigger chemical reactions in the body and influence cellular structure. Positive thoughts like peace and gratitude create an alkaline environment while negative thoughts like anger create an acidic one. Chronic stress from negative thoughts long-term can lead to health issues like arthritis, diabetes and cancer by producing too much cortisol. The document recommends managing stress by living in the present rather than worrying about the past or future, and finding peace through God's word and walking with Christ's presence.
This document discusses anger and strategies for managing it. It notes that anger causes physiological effects like increased heart rate and blood pressure. Anger also affects those around us as human physiology and emotions synchronize. The document recommends managing anger through both mind and body, with exercise to reduce physiological effects and focusing thoughts on God's grace rather than mental rehearsal of violence.
1) Addiction affects the brain both physiologically and spiritually, disrupting its neurochemical balance. Repeated substance use trains the brain to function at a "new normal" set point of tolerance.
2) Recovery requires total abstinence to allow the metabolic and cellular systems regulating addiction in the reptilian brain to heal. It also involves renewing the mind through Bible study and prayer, and renewing life through new relationships and purpose.
3) The ultimate solution is found through Jesus, who said life comes not by physical things alone but by obeying God's word. God's word acts as spiritual nourishment to guide one's steps in recovery.