Social media has lost its way from its original promises by focusing too much on advertising and brands rather than building relationships. While companies used to advertise products, they now advertise themselves through self-promotion on social media. To be truly effective, brands need to think like their customers, feel what they feel, speak their language, listen to what they say without taking demands literally, and create value through engaging content rather than just showing up online. The key is developing real relationships rather than seeing social media as just another channel for advertising.