The document discusses relating to and understanding one's spouse. It emphasizes maintaining a Christ-like attitude, spirit-controlled temperament, and word-governed behavior. This involves changing one's thoughts, perceptions, actions, and communication towards their spouse. It also involves better understanding one's spouse's thoughts, point of view, actions, and what they are saying by drawing on the power of Christ, one's identity in Christ, renewing one's mind, and walking in the Spirit. The goal is transformation in how one relates to and understands their spouse.