1) The document discusses the importance for youth leaders to prioritize their role as a leader over being a friend to students. As a leader, it is important to maintain healthy boundaries and be willing to make tough decisions that are in the best interests of students, even if students do not like those decisions. 2) The document provides an example of a situation where a youth leader, Diane, had to tell a student's, Melissa's, parents about her eating disorder, against Melissa's wishes, because it was harmful and Diane had a responsibility as a leader to ensure she received help. This upset Melissa but their relationship was strengthened. 3) The document advises youth leaders to love students authentically through guidance