This document provides 13 ways to calm yourself down when you are nervous. It discusses techniques such as focusing on deep breathing, distracting your mind by reading or engaging in a hobby, sitting in the dark for a minute, and counting down from 50. Additional tips include spending nervous energy through physical activities like walking, yoga, or exercise. It also recommends using positive affirmations and visualization, increasing confidence, expressing emotions through crying or writing, and talking with others about what's troubling you. The overall message is that while nerves are normal and out of our control, practicing certain relaxation techniques can help manage anxiety and prepare ourselves mentally for stressful situations.