This document provides a list of 10 need-to-know facts for people in relationships with narcissists. Some of the key facts include that the person is not at fault for the toxic relationship, they can succeed without anyone's approval, they are a real person with value, and compromising does not mean giving up everything to please the narcissist. It encourages the person to choose their own identity and priorities, and that walking away from the relationship is an acceptable option.

1. Top 10 Need-to-
Know Facts for
People in
Relationships With
Narcissists
with Angela Atkinson
Certified Life Coach
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2. Feellikeyou’re
beingbrainwashed?
Orlikeyou’recrazy?
If you’re struggling with
a narcissist in a toxic
relationship, you may have
been under pressure for so
long that you’re not even
sure which way is up
anymore.
You’re not alone.

3. Startthehealingwithyour
ownhead.
You have to change those thoughts and limiting
beliefs that are holding you back.

4. Let’sStartHere.
Ready?

5. Thismighthityou
kindahard.
Sit down.
If you're currently in this situation, you
may have never heard these things--
and when you first see and hear them,
you probably won't even believe them.
But these are truths--and you keep
reading, listenig to and viewing them
until you get it.

6. Changing your mind will help
you to change your life.
Startbytweakingyourperspective abit...
LITERALLY.

7. Top 10 Things
You Need to
Know if You’re in
a Toxic
Relationship with
a Narcissist

8. Despitewhatyou’ve
beentold,youAREa
realperson. BELIEVE IT!
You are a real person with legitimate concerns,
thoughts, feelings and aspirations.

9. Don’tbelievetheliesTheNarc
TellsYouAboutYourself.
You are good enough.

10. Youaregoingtobeokay-and
assucessfulasyouwanttobe.
You don't need anyone's approval or endorsement to help you succeed.
You can get validation through success in your own, self-dictated endeavors.

11. Youaren’ttoblameforthis
situation.
It isn't about you and that it isn't your fault. You
aren't bad or broken.

12. Youcandowhatever
youwant.
You simply must decide to do
so. If you choose to do it,
you'll be compelled to take
inspired action and you will
make it happen.
And you have to believe that
is true.

13. YouMatter.
You have something real to offer the world.
You matter. You have value.

14. It’sYourIdentity.
Yougettochooseit
Choosing your own identity
does not make you selfish,
lazy, entitled or otherwise
unsavory.Who do you wanna be?

15. YOUChooseYourOwn
Identity.EveryDay.
You get to choose my own
identity every day. You
decide who you are and how
far you go.Are you prepared?

16. Compromisemustbe
fair.
But compromise means that both parties bend
and both parties are satisfied with the outcome.
It's not compromising to give up what you truly
want in order to make someone else happy or to
keep them from getting angry at you.
You can compromise for someone you
love to a certain point
when it's time to choose your priorities and choose a
path.

17. WalkingAwayisOkay
If you were to walk away from the toxic relationship, the world
wouldn’t end. It might be hard, and you will need to do some
soul searching.

18. Getmorefreenarcissism
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19. GoAskAngie
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