The document discusses dealing with differences in marriage. It notes that while marriages are best when couples share values, they often differ in personality. The natural response is to try to change one's spouse, but this usually pushes them away. Instead, the document recommends accepting one's spouse as a gift from God to help us grow, embracing differences, and allowing God to use our spouse to change us rather than trying to change them. This creates a safe environment for communication and intimacy.