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Domestic ViolenceDomestic Violence
Muhammad Saud KharalMuhammad Saud Kharal
PhD in Social Science,PhD in Social Science,
Department of Sociology Faculty of SocialDepartment of Sociology Faculty of Social
and Political Sciences, Universitas Airlangga,and Political Sciences, Universitas Airlangga,
Surabaya IndonesiaSurabaya Indonesia
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AgendaAgenda
• Introductions & objectivesIntroductions & objectives
• History of spousal violenceHistory of spousal violence
• What does the research say?What does the research say?
• Domestic violenceDomestic violence
• Domestic violence and childrenDomestic violence and children
• Domestic violence and child welfareDomestic violence and child welfare
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HistoryHistory
*SafeNetwork: California’s Domestic Violence Resource*SafeNetwork: California’s Domestic Violence Resource
• 753 B.C.-The Laws of Chastisement753 B.C.-The Laws of Chastisement
• 1500’s-Lord Hale and the marital rape1500’s-Lord Hale and the marital rape
exemptionexemption
• ““Rule of Thumb”Rule of Thumb”
• 1804-Napaleonic Code1804-Napaleonic Code
• 1800’s America1800’s America
• 1919-191919-19thth
AmendmentAmendment
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History cont.History cont.
• 1920’s-Psychoanalysis1920’s-Psychoanalysis
• 1960’s-Practice of non-arrest1960’s-Practice of non-arrest
• 1970’s-Beginning of the Battered1970’s-Beginning of the Battered
Women’s MovementWomen’s Movement
• Late 1970’s-Lawsuits against lawLate 1970’s-Lawsuits against law
enforcementenforcement
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History cont.History cont.
• 1984-Battered Women’s Syndrome1984-Battered Women’s Syndrome
• 1994-Violence Against Women Act1994-Violence Against Women Act
• 1990’s-Status of marital rape exemption1990’s-Status of marital rape exemption
Where are we today?Where are we today?
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PrevalencePrevalence
*Center for Disease Control, Injury Center*Center for Disease Control, Injury Center
*A note about data collection*A note about data collection
• Nearly 5.3 million incidents against womenNearly 5.3 million incidents against women
and 3.2 million against men a yearand 3.2 million against men a year
• 1.5 million women and 800,000 men raped1.5 million women and 800,000 men raped
and/or physically assaultedand/or physically assaulted
• 2 million injuries and 1,300 deaths2 million injuries and 1,300 deaths
• 85% of victims are women85% of victims are women
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RisksRisks
• Battered womenBattered women
– six times greater risk for drug abusesix times greater risk for drug abuse
– fifteen times greater risk for alcohol abuse.fifteen times greater risk for alcohol abuse.
• Women who abuse drugs/alcohol are moreWomen who abuse drugs/alcohol are more
likely to become victims of domestic violencelikely to become victims of domestic violence
(Miller et al., 1989)(Miller et al., 1989)
• (25%) to (50%) of men who commit violent(25%) to (50%) of men who commit violent
acts of DV also have substance abuseacts of DV also have substance abuse
problemsproblems
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Higher Risks for Women:Higher Risks for Women:
• Partners experienced periodicPartners experienced periodic
unemploymentunemployment
• Partners did not graduate high schoolPartners did not graduate high school
• Assault by a former partner than herAssault by a former partner than her
current partnercurrent partner
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No Higher Risk AssociationNo Higher Risk Association
• Race and ethnicity of menRace and ethnicity of men
• Race, ethnicity, age, or educationRace, ethnicity, age, or education
of womenof women
*Caveat*Caveat
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Cycle of ViolenceCycle of Violence
Tension BuildingTension Building
Honeymoon Explosive
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Types of AbuseTypes of Abuse
• FinancialFinancial
• EmotionalEmotional
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Types, contTypes, cont
• SexualSexual
• PhysicalPhysical
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Traits of BatterersTraits of Batterers
• Emotional dependenceEmotional dependence
• Rigid gender and role expectationsRigid gender and role expectations
• Violate personal boundariesViolate personal boundaries
• Controlling behaviorsControlling behaviors
• JealousyJealousy
• Rigid religious or cultural beliefsRigid religious or cultural beliefs
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Batterers, cont.Batterers, cont.
• HypersensitivityHypersensitivity
• Difficulty expressing and/or identifyingDifficulty expressing and/or identifying
feelingsfeelings
• Dr. Jekyll & Mr. HydeDr. Jekyll & Mr. Hyde
• Externalize blameExternalize blame
• CrueltyCruelty
• History of using violence to solveHistory of using violence to solve
problemsproblems
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Responses/Effects re: VictimsResponses/Effects re: Victims
• Stress disordersStress disorders
• Low self-esteemLow self-esteem
• Social isolationSocial isolation
• Feeling hopeless and powerlessFeeling hopeless and powerless
• Fear/TerrorFear/Terror
• Self-blameSelf-blame
• AnxietyAnxiety
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Victims, cont.Victims, cont.
• Hyper-vigilanceHyper-vigilance
• DissociationDissociation
• Denial/MinimizationDenial/Minimization
• Wishful thinkingWishful thinking
• ShameShame
• AngerAnger
• Engaging in high-risk behaviorsEngaging in high-risk behaviors
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Why does she stay?Why does she stay?
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Assessing LethalityAssessing Lethality
• Victim’s reportVictim’s report
• Use of and/or access to weaponsUse of and/or access to weapons
• Threats of homicide and/or suicideThreats of homicide and/or suicide
• Substance abuseSubstance abuse
• Extreme jealousy or obsessionExtreme jealousy or obsession
• Abuse that involves severe violenceAbuse that involves severe violence
• Recent separation/ChangeRecent separation/Change
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Cultural ConsiderationsCultural Considerations
• Children of color are over-representedChildren of color are over-represented
in all “systems”in all “systems”
• Definitions may be differentDefinitions may be different
• Mistrust of mainstream systemsMistrust of mainstream systems
• LanguageLanguage
• Previous negative experiences withPrevious negative experiences with
authoritiesauthorities
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What are the risks if she tells?What are the risks if she tells?
What are the risks if she doesn’tWhat are the risks if she doesn’t
tell?tell?
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Undocumented/Recent ImmigrantUndocumented/Recent Immigrant
• Fear of deportationFear of deportation
• Further isolationFurther isolation
• LanguageLanguage
• Taboos in discussing the family withTaboos in discussing the family with
strangersstrangers
• Shame/dishonorShame/dishonor
*VAWA*VAWA
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Gay, Lesbian, TransgenderGay, Lesbian, Transgender
• Threats to “out” partnersThreats to “out” partners
• Seen as mutual (“cat fight”)Seen as mutual (“cat fight”)
• Reluctance to bring even moreReluctance to bring even more
negative attention to communitynegative attention to community
• No legal process for separationNo legal process for separation
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Male victimsMale victims
• Contrary to societal expectationsContrary to societal expectations
• Extreme shameExtreme shame
• Discrimination in “systems”Discrimination in “systems”
responsesresponses
*Be aware of reactive violence and self defense*Be aware of reactive violence and self defense
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TeensTeens
• Societal messages about violenceSocietal messages about violence
• Development/Age issuesDevelopment/Age issues
• BoundariesBoundaries
• PressurePressure
• Jealousy & possessivenessJealousy & possessiveness
• Exposure to DVExposure to DV
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ElderlyElderly
• Traditional responses don’t appeal orTraditional responses don’t appeal or
meet needsmeet needs
• Generation moresGeneration mores
• ““Domestic violence grown old”Domestic violence grown old”
• New relationshipNew relationship
• Late onsetLate onset
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DisabledDisabled
• Limitations in communications abilityLimitations in communications ability
• Dependent on abuserDependent on abuser
• Low self esteem/view of self as “damaged”Low self esteem/view of self as “damaged”
• Physically incapablePhysically incapable
• Loss of caretakerLoss of caretaker
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Children and the NumbersChildren and the Numbers
• Between 3.3 and 10 million childrenBetween 3.3 and 10 million children
exposed every yearexposed every year
• Slightly more than half of victims of intimateSlightly more than half of victims of intimate
violence have children in the homeviolence have children in the home
• 79% of violent children witnessed DV79% of violent children witnessed DV
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DV & ChildrenDV & Children
• 80% of child abuse cases are associated80% of child abuse cases are associated
with the use of alcohol and other drugswith the use of alcohol and other drugs
• 43% of child fatalities occur in families where43% of child fatalities occur in families where
the mother was abusedthe mother was abused
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DV & ChildrenDV & Children
• Daughters of batterers are 6.5 times more likely toDaughters of batterers are 6.5 times more likely to
be victims of incestbe victims of incest
• 45-70% of cases of domestic violence where there45-70% of cases of domestic violence where there
are children, the children are also abusedare children, the children are also abused
• Child abuse by those mothers who have beenChild abuse by those mothers who have been
beaten is at least double that of mothers whosebeaten is at least double that of mothers whose
husbands did not assault themhusbands did not assault them
• 50% of men who batter their partners also batter50% of men who batter their partners also batter
their childrentheir children
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DV & Child WelfareDV & Child Welfare
• Domestic violence is a significant problem forDomestic violence is a significant problem for
30%-40% of families in the Child Welfare30%-40% of families in the Child Welfare
systemsystem
• Santa Clara County statistics show 40-80% ofSanta Clara County statistics show 40-80% of
cases involved “overlap”cases involved “overlap”
– 40% had DV issues within the last year40% had DV issues within the last year
– 80% had DV issues from one or both parties80% had DV issues from one or both parties
sometime in their historysometime in their history
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Effects on childrenEffects on children
• Of Children who witness their motherOf Children who witness their mother
being abused:being abused:
• 40% suffer anxiety40% suffer anxiety
• 48% suffer depression48% suffer depression
• 53% act out with their parents53% act out with their parents
• 60% act out with their siblings60% act out with their siblings
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AssessmentAssessment
• Interview separatelyInterview separately
• Patterns in language and behaviorPatterns in language and behavior
• Always ask the questions, no matter whatAlways ask the questions, no matter what
the initial allegation isthe initial allegation is
• Behaviors not buzzwordsBehaviors not buzzwords
• SAFETYSAFETY
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Assessment cont.Assessment cont.
• Assess protective capacitiesAssess protective capacities
• Hold each adult accountable toHold each adult accountable to theirtheir
ownown abusive behaviorsabusive behaviors
• Collateral sourcesCollateral sources
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Presence of domesticPresence of domestic
violence alone is not childviolence alone is not child
abuseabuse
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Interview QuestionsInterview Questions
• Interviewing the childInterviewing the child
• Interviewing the known/potential victimInterviewing the known/potential victim
• Interviewing the known/potential battererInterviewing the known/potential batterer
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Social Worker’s Role with ChildrenSocial Worker’s Role with Children
• Assess and assure their safetyAssess and assure their safety
• Reassure them that they are notReassure them that they are not
responsible for the violenceresponsible for the violence
• Reassure them it is okay to talk aboutReassure them it is okay to talk about
the violencethe violence
• Discuss safety with them asDiscuss safety with them as
appropriateappropriate
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Social Worker’s Role with VictimSocial Worker’s Role with Victim
• Reassure her she is not responsibleReassure her she is not responsible
for the violence occurring or stoppingfor the violence occurring or stopping
• Understand her ambivalenceUnderstand her ambivalence
• Determine protective capacitiesDetermine protective capacities
• Assist in safety planningAssist in safety planning
• Refer her to appropriate servicesRefer her to appropriate services
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Social Worker’s Role with BattererSocial Worker’s Role with Batterer
• Hold him responsible for his choosing toHold him responsible for his choosing to
be violent and controllingbe violent and controlling
• Work with law enforcement to hold himWork with law enforcement to hold him
accountableaccountable
• Assess whether he is taking responsibilityAssess whether he is taking responsibility
for his behaviorfor his behavior
• Look for strengthsLook for strengths
• Make appropriate referralsMake appropriate referrals
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Batterers’ TacticsBatterers’ Tactics
• Presenting himself as the victimPresenting himself as the victim
• Statements of remorse and guilt, but noStatements of remorse and guilt, but no
actionsactions
• Focusing on victim’s faults/AllegationsFocusing on victim’s faults/Allegations
• Denying & minimizingDenying & minimizing
• Victim blamingVictim blaming
• Blaming substance abuseBlaming substance abuse
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Can child stay safely with non-Can child stay safely with non-
offending parent?offending parent?
• Protective capacitiesProtective capacities
• Safe locationSafe location
• Acknowledge risk to childrenAcknowledge risk to children
• Level of violence-not escalatingLevel of violence-not escalating
• Other issues don’t pose a threatOther issues don’t pose a threat
• Support, services, communitySupport, services, community
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Low Risk FactorsLow Risk Factors
• Children show minimal damageChildren show minimal damage
• Batterer is out of home or cooperating withBatterer is out of home or cooperating with
restraining ordersrestraining orders
• Batterer takesBatterer takes responsibilityresponsibility for actionsfor actions
• Victim acknowledges risk and has protectiveVictim acknowledges risk and has protective
capacitiescapacities
• Family has positive supportsFamily has positive supports
• No other risk issuesNo other risk issues
• Minimal/No CPS historyMinimal/No CPS history
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High Risk FactorsHigh Risk Factors
• Continued violence despite previousContinued violence despite previous
interventionintervention
• Other types of abuse are presentOther types of abuse are present
• Child exhibits concerning behavioral and/orChild exhibits concerning behavioral and/or
emotional effects and/or is having issuesemotional effects and/or is having issues
functioningfunctioning
• Child is used as weapon in abuse, isChild is used as weapon in abuse, is
intervening, is held during incidents, has beenintervening, is held during incidents, has been
injuredinjured
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High Risk cont.High Risk cont.
• Other risk factors impacting safety areOther risk factors impacting safety are
presentpresent
– Substance abuseSubstance abuse
– Mental healthMental health
– Child abuseChild abuse
• LethalityLethality
• Victim does not acknowledge riskVictim does not acknowledge risk
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Service ProvisionService Provision
• Separate services-even if the coupleSeparate services-even if the couple
remains intactremains intact
• Team Decision Making/FamilyTeam Decision Making/Family
ConferencesConferences
• AdvocatesAdvocates
• Safety Plans (victims)Safety Plans (victims)
• Action Plans (batterers)Action Plans (batterers)
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Services cont.Services cont.
• Batterer’s InterventionBatterer’s Intervention
• VisitationVisitation
• Other services (not substitutes)Other services (not substitutes)
– Substance abuse servicesSubstance abuse services
– Mental health servicesMental health services
– Psychotropic medicationPsychotropic medication
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Services cont.Services cont.
• Victim servicesVictim services
– Closed therapeutic groupClosed therapeutic group
– Open attendanceOpen attendance
– MandatedMandated
• Inappropriate servicesInappropriate services
– Anger managementAnger management
– Couple’s counselingCouple’s counseling
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Who are our partners?Who are our partners?
• Law enforcementLaw enforcement
• Victim servicesVictim services
• Batterer servicesBatterer services
• Probation/ParoleProbation/Parole
• JudiciaryJudiciary
• Mental health/Substance abuseMental health/Substance abuse
50. 5050
Desired OutcomesDesired Outcomes
• Safety for victims and childrenSafety for victims and children
• Break down victim isolation and provideBreak down victim isolation and provide
supportsupport
• Help victim understandHelp victim understand
• Provide victim appropriate servicesProvide victim appropriate services
• Assist in batterer receiving servicesAssist in batterer receiving services
Editor's Notes
Definitions exercise-match definitions to words on index cards in small groups. Discuss that these are the definitions we will be using today.
Laws of Chastisement-husband’s absolute right to physically discipline wife and liable for wife’s actions.
Lord Hale-Marriage is a contract and consent to sex-husband cannot rape wife. Cited and upheld by American courts in spousal rape cases until at least 1905
Rule of thumb-Early USA-Explicitly permit wife beating for correctional purposes with an implement no thicker then husband’s thumb
Napoleonic code-”Women, like walnut trees, should be beaten every day”-in France until 1924
1800’s America-Upheld Lord Hale and chastisement. At end of century, finally made spousal abuse criminal, but only when there were severe injuries. In negotiations, USA gov’t representatives would not meet with Navajo women who were part of the tribal council.
19th Amendment-Women’s right to vote
1920’s-Freud-women derive sexual gratification from the violence they experience
1960’s-Arrest deemed inappropriate in spousal abuse as it does not solve “social problems” and “family squabbles.” Spousal abuse moved to Family courts instead of criminal
1970’s-Lawsuits against police departments re: non-arrest policies in spousal abuse. Some lawsuits in California-one in San Jose when a woman was killed after 29 calls to PD, who refused to assist.
Discussion-where are we today?
*Many states still treat spousal abuse and rape as lesser crimes separate from other assaults/rapes
Data varies because of how different jurisdictions define domestic violence. Most incidents are still believed to be unreported-it is estimated only 20-25% of assaults are reported.
Caveat-while ethnicity is not associated with higher risk per se, lack of linguistically/culturally relevant services for minority populations increases risk
Cycle of violence handout
Emotional-
Threats to her or others
Breaking things
Verbal abuse/humiliation/put downs/criticism
Manipulation/distortion
Isolation
Ignore needs/feelings
Large group discussion
Lose children
Feelings of failure
Guilt
Kids need a father
Bad experiences in seeking help in the past
Protection of children (she takes violence so they don’t and/or danger to them if she leaves)
Lack of resources and support
Economics
Where will she go?
Batterer’s promise to change
Love
Culture
Religion
Community
Family history
Victim’s report is #1 factor associated with lethality
Use collateral sources for information
Small group discussion & report out to large group
Some risks:
Loss of children, home, status, lifestyle
Further/worse harm
Family/community chastisement
Continuing to live in fear
Repeating pattern with children
Self-esteem, safety, children’s safety comprimised
DEATH
Special populations-Give current information on VAWA
Unfamiliar with rights and laws
Fear of authority
Under-reported
Few resources
How does legal marriage in CA effect this?
To assess self-defense/reactive violence on the part of women, look at who holds the control, who has been injured, who is afraid, who has access to resources, etc.
Learning boundaries
Jealousy seen as positive (he really loves me)
DV in the home-seen as “normal” in relationships
Shelters not responsive to elderly, equipped to handle medical needs
Types of elderly DV-
DV grown old-always had DV in relationship
New relationship that includes DV
Late onset DV due to role changes/retirement, medical/physical issues
Wheelchair access in shelter?
Small groups discussion-how are the risks of telling and not telling different and the same for these populations?
Show video clip-”Once Were Warriors” before this slide (father beating mother and children huddled together listening, clean up the next day with 2 children)-Discuss, make sure to discuss any cultural implications (Maori family)
Santa Clara County info from Judge Shawna Schwarz 2006
Discussion-What does this mean? Do we agree? (hopefully do agree-Greenbook principle)
Emotional abuse laws-not mandated report, etc
Small group activity and large group report-out: Think of 2 questions for each category
After discussion give out handout on questions
“Games batterer’s play”
Show second “Once Were Warriors” clip before this slide (man being charming)-Discuss
Discuss-What are some protective capacities?
Vignette #1-Small and large group discussion
Handout on protective orders.
Need to assess parents’ abilities and needs separately. Parents cannot be safe in classes/programs together-he’s worried about what she might say/do and she is worried about him being upset with what she says/does-too busy with that to learn
Discussion-any others?
Vignette #2-Small and large group discussion