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1. Heartilycongratulationsforhavingajobopportunity. Itsafeelinghavingaccomplishedone of the goals.
We are all happy, seeing you doing well. Goals and dreams are dynamic, and keep changing year by
year. Those are endless tracking and pursuing. You may dream during day time. That is an interesting
phenomenon. Let dreams not sleep you during night.
You are a good human being. We feel very proud. That is a rare quality now-a-days. Be humble, be
polite. Dorespectelders. Have role modelswhoare polite evenaftergreatachievements. Perhaps they
have achievedsomuchhence are polite.Sokeepachieving,good name & fame by way of contribution.
Learn to acknowledge good points of others and appreciate those
Be happy, remain self-motivated so you will never be nervous unnecessary
Have Compassion,helpthose are under-privileged and helpless. We should do our small bit whatever
possible, whichever smallest mean possible
Adoptto be mature and followdemocraticthought process, keep offering equal opportunity. Develop
ability to convince your thoughts or be ready to get convinced
Be cool & strong too;contradictory? There will be extremehappinessandsorrow. War and holidays! Be
courageoustoface it. Learn to face as it comes!AlwaysrememberItsintellectx effortsx destinyorluck!
Be contendedwhile remainingambitious. Itwillmake you stable and strong. Be also stable when there
is a bunch of either happiness or sorrow. Take it as a life.
Be proactive, it is eazy to be unique in the crowd, think ahead of time
We have everythingtolose exceptcreditability.Soconserve andharvestit. Donot lie ever. Itis said that
everyone can be bought and has a value tag. Prove those wrong, you cannot be bought at any cost.
Listening attribute diminishing day by day, to be the best one must learn to listen! At the same time
have the strong ears! Meaning have input analyzed and differentiate between truth & false.
Have effective communication, strategize it, and drill it down top to bottom, many have made top
career based on their communication skills; its important to enhance vocabulary
Be a gooddecisionmaker.Be a thinker; develop quick analyzing skills, and to make the right decisions
Work hard, there is no substitute for it! There is no successful personality who has not worked hard.
Remain away from politics. Discuss ideas and not people. You will always find a dedicated colleague.
There isnothinglife work-life balance.Make workas life and life as work! Learn to involve deeply, may
be into exciting hobbies like reading & studying autobiography. Make the foundation strong, rest
everything will fall in place.
Learn to celebrate failure too since it is still output of strategy, intellect and hard work.
Have an efficient and good networking; you are good in that. Friendship is an important attribute. It is
mutual give and take. Never be selfish! That helps it to grow.

2. Bank onyour strengthsandtry overcomingweaknesseswithoutfeelingburdenof those. Mostdifficultis
to change positively. Introspection helps improving. Continuous improvement is to be a part of life.
Acknowledgement is the first step towards improvements.
Learn as much, be an expert in a subject matter of your own field; remain curious to know about any
topic of discussion, do spread your knowledge
Understandyouare of great value, cannot be bought on terms. Its non-negotiable. No one can dare to
get wrongful deals done by you.
Develop analyzing people around, and ability to distinguish in good and bad people.
To be around good people, have role model, observe various the best attributes and adapt as many
Moneyis important,conserve asmuch,andlearnfinance &economics. Smell the risk, and mitigate. Do
not compromise on dignity, values and self-respect for the sake of money. Keep life simple so needs
would be. High thinking and simple living is the key! Learn to value money.
Enjoying luxury is not encouraged. It comes at somebodies cost. E.g. if you have developed a lawn,
water needed to develop it comes from someone who needs it for drinking. You need to learn to
preserve the nature. Save environment, save trees, save water. Keep doing your bit, do not worry if
others are not doing it.
Keep limit for consumables you need. It keeps your needs limited.
Do not get corrupt, by brain and heart. Do not get a single penny of illegal money at home. Mind you,
when you generate black money or bring illegal money at home, it brings problems as well.
Be creative, understand the problems people are facing and look forward for the solution
Develop habit of writing blogs capturing the thoughts
Be a leader, take initiatives and lead from the front! Own for the failure and give credit to others for
success. Set the guidelines and governance standard, give direction! Guide people around.
Be grateful tothose helped,expressgratitudefor who have helped / obliged for the smallest thing. Do
not ditch them ever.
Learn to sayNo & be careful.Unnecessaryargumentsare notgood.Follow &trust to whomyou respect.
Do not get used too, look for the intentions. Check if someone is using you for any selfish intention?
Try to be the best among all, and never compromise lesser than the best; use heart and brain both.
Learn to smile, enjoy and live.
While you are thinking about do’s, make sure to avoid don’ts as well
Do not fool or cheat anyone, even without intentions or unknowingly
Do not get fooled and cheated; this does not mean doubt on everyone. Just be cautious.

3. Keep away from the bad habits of adultery, speculation, alcohol, non-veg and smoking. Do not get
temptedoragree underpressure. Rememberpeerpressure andconfidence that no one watching takes
you to this route. Its eazy to walk on these routes, but returning from this point is difficult.
I have deep and strong believe and fairly firm, may be you want to adopt the few
 Rational has to prevail!
 Do not hit the head against wall!
 Each individual has infinity ability!
 Be contended but remain ambitious too!
 Deeds and decisions decide the destiny!
 Success means how many lives you have impacted positively!
 Finally you have to make your journey alone, leaving everything on planet earth! 
Mahatma Gandhi had set simple principles, understand those deeply and follow
 Wealth without work.
 Pleasure without conscience.
 Knowledge without character.
 Commerce without morality.
 Science without humanity.
 Religion without sacrifice.
 Politics without principle.
Look at the livesof celebrities;theycame,entertained or did the great job, earned money and became
oldor died!What next?Whatdo youhave it finally?Live alife withpride &dignity.There should not be
an answerto a questionif someoneasks what you would like to have differently if you get a chance of
one more birth! Live a life; no other life can be better.