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Dedication
To my wife Maureen, my children Roanna and Maureece and my only granddaughter Raine
without whom this book would have been completed six months earlier. I had to stop so many
times to play, console and to take her for drives that sometimes I forgot that I was writing this
book.
Table of Contents
Dedication.................................................................................................................................... 2
Acknowledgement....................................................................................................................... 4
Preface ......................................................................................................................................... 5
Introduction ................................................................................................................................ 7
1 Acknowledging The Change.............................................................................................. 9
2 Emotional .......................................................................................................................... 18
3 Moral Character............................................................................................................... 21
4 Intellectual......................................................................................................................... 27
5 Financial ............................................................................................................................ 36
6 Spiritual............................................................................................................................. 38
7 Family ................................................................................................................................ 41
8 Physical.............................................................................................................................. 64
9 Medical .............................................................................................................................. 69
10 Mental.............................................................................................................................. 110
11 Social................................................................................................................................ 122
12 Managing Fears .............................................................................................................. 155
13 Managing Vices............................................................................................................... 169
14 Managing Habits ............................................................................................................ 196
15 Managing Sexpectations ................................................................................................ 231
16 Implementing Change.................................................................................................... 252
Appendices .............................................................................................................................. 257
Bibliography............................................................................................................................ 273
Acknowledgement
This acknowledgement was probably the hardest thing that I had to do with respect to
completing this book. So many people have influenced my life and for that, I became a vessel
that carried the collective inspirations. I would like to thank all those people who have shared
their stories and given me the permission to use it.
Growing up with elderly accomplished men around me was exciting as I have been always
eager to learn new things. They would sit with me at the age of twelve and discuss life, politics,
mistakes and health issues. That to me was a gift greater than anything else; for it meant if
applied, I was not doomed to experience the mistakes us men make.
So briefly, I want to thank all the men and women who have influenced me with their
experiences.
Index
A
Abortion....................................................46
Abstinence ........................................54, 199
Abused Man............................................152
Abused Woman ......................................155
Acne....................................................71, 97
Actinic Keratosis ......................................98
Adultery..................................................273
Aftercourse .............................235, 251, 252
Agoraphobia ...........................................159
Agreeableness.........................................125
Aids.................................................165, 248
Alcoholism85, 173, 174, 175, 176, 198, 273
Allergies .................................................128
Alpha Male .............................................137
Alzheimer’s ............................................108
Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (Als)......103
Anal Penetration .............................250, 251
Anal Sex .................................................248
Anal Sex Rule.........................249, 250, 251
Anesthetic...............................................122
Anilingus ................................................250
Antagonism.............................................273
Antibiotics ................................................99
Antifungal Drugs......................................99
Antihistamines..........................................99
Antiperspirants ...................................84, 87
Antisocial Personality Disorder..............124
Anuptaphobia .........................................159
Anxiety Attack........................................158
Aphrodisiac.....................................238, 239
Arrogance ...............................................273
Aspirin....................................................221
Atheism.....................................................41
Atheist.......................................................41
Attention Deficit Disorder......................105
Attention Deficit-Hyperactivity Disorder
............................................................105
Attitude .................................................... 36
Avoidant Personality Disorder .............. 121
B
Bad Breath ............................................... 72
Basal Cell Carcinoma .............................. 98
Benign Prostatic Hyperplasia (Bph). ..... 163
Bill Gates ................................................. 29
Biology .................................................... 34
Black Tie/Formal..................................... 67
Blow Job................................................ 169
Bmi .......................................................... 91
Boastfulness........................................... 273
Bodily Etiquette..................................... 225
Body................................... 83, 85, 227, 236
Body Odour ................................. 85, 86, 87
Bois Bande............................................. 238
Borderline Personality Disorder .... 124, 153
Breakups ................................................ 155
Breasts.................................................... 243
Brother ..................................................... 59
Brutality................................................. 273
Business Attire......................................... 67
Butt .......................................... 84, 227, 249
C
Caligynephobia...................................... 159
Calories.................. 108, 109, 165, 210, 219
Candidayeast............................................ 75
Carbohydrate Metabolism ..................... 103
Carbohydrates........................................ 108
Casual ...................................................... 68
Catagelophobia ...................................... 159
Cellulitis................................................... 97
Change ..................................................... 10
Chastity.................................................. 199
Chauvinism............................................ 273
Cheating......................... 146, 180, 181, 182
Cholesterol............. 90, 91, 92, 93, 109, 218
Christian Massage.................................. 204
Cigarette Smoke....................................... 90
Cling-On ................................................ 143
Clownism................................................223
Cocktail.....................................................67
Colon ......................................................101
Colon Surgery.........................................101
Colonoscopy...........................................100
Communication ................................20, 225
Compensatory Narcissistic Personality
Disorder ..............................................122
Competencies ...........................................29
Complexion ..............................................66
Condoms.................................................171
Conscientiousness...................................125
Coprophilia.............................................201
Corticosteroids (Steroids).........................99
Courtship ................................................138
Covetousness ..........................................274
Coward ...........................................138, 167
Cowardice.......................................166, 274
Cruelty....................................................274
Cupidity..................................................274
Cyber Porn..............................................181
Cybersex.................................................181
Cyclothymic ...........................................123
Cyclothymic Personality Disorder .........124
Cycotex Pills...........................................192
D
Dandruff .............................................71, 97
Daughter ...................45, 191, 192, 193, 194
Debt ..................................38, 133, 217, 218
Decadence...............................................274
Deceitfulness ..........................................274
Decidophobia..........................................159
Dementedness.........................................274
Deodorants................................................87
Dependent Personality Disorder.............123
Depressants.............................................188
Depression ........................................85, 106
Depressive ..............................123, 269, 274
Depressive Personality Disorder ............123
Dermatitis .................................................97
Desensitizing Creams .............................171
Detoxification And Withdrawal .............175
Diabetes ....................................................85
Diligence................................................ 199
Dinner Party........................................... 126
Discourtesy ............................................ 274
Dishonesty ............................................. 274
Disloyalty............................................... 274
Disrespect .............................................. 274
Domestic Violence......... 150, 151, 153, 154
Domestic Violence................................. 150
Drug Abuse............................................ 183
Drug Abuse And Addiction........... 184, 186
Dunning–Kruger Effect ......................... 232
E
Ear........................................ 78, 79, 80, 226
Eating..................................................... 127
Ecclesiophobia....................................... 159
Eczema..................................................... 97
Egoism ................................................... 274
Emotional................................................... 9
Emotional Bank Account....................... 224
Emotional Intelligence............................. 19
Emotionally Literate ................................ 20
Endomorph .............................................. 12
English Language .................................... 32
Enochlophobia....................................... 159
Envy....................................... 148, 198, 274
Epidermis................................................. 97
Epinephrine............................................ 103
Epistemophoba ...................................... 159
Erectile Dysfunction ................ 85, 105, 110
Erectile Dysfunction ................................ 84
Eremophobia.......................................... 159
Ergophobia............................................. 159
Erratic .................................................... 274
Erythropoietin.......................................... 95
E-Stalkers............................................... 207
Estrogen ................................. 110, 111, 112
Ethical Behaviour .................................... 22
Exhibitionism......................................... 201
Extramarital Relationship .............. 145, 146
Extremism.............................................. 274
Extroversion........................................... 125
Eyes.................................................. 71, 226
F
Facebook....6, 13, 43, 63, 65, 125, 137, 144,
145, 156, 180, 200, 208, 252
Facial Hair ................................................72
Facial Skin................................................71
Falseness.................................................275
Family......9, 42, 43, 45, 59, 60, 65, 90, 116,
138, 139, 140, 151, 152, 155, 156, 180,
181, 213, 223
Fanaticism...............................................275
Fashion .....................................................66
Fast Food ................................................218
Feet .........................................................227
Female Stalker........................................208
Feminine Input..................................12, 236
Fetishism.................................................201
Fine Arts ...................................................33
Fishbone Diagram ..................................260
Flirting ....................................................236
Friend And Lover ...................................134
Friendship Dick ......................................161
Frodo Baggins ........................................139
G
Gallstones ...........................................92, 94
Gambling ................................................133
Gamophobia ...........................................159
Garrulous ................................................227
Genophobia.............................................159
Geography ................................................35
Gerd ..........................................................75
Gerontophobia ........................................159
Glossitis....................................................75
Glutamine ...............................................105
Gluttony..................................................198
God Father................................................44
Gossip.....................................................228
Gotye ......................................................135
Grand Father.............................................44
Greed ..............................................198, 275
Grooming................................................240
Gum Disease.............................................73
H
Habit ..... 130, 172, 186, 200, 201, 209, 220,
221, 222
Hair .................................................. 71, 226
Hallucinogens ........................................ 188
Hand Job................................................ 169
Hands ..................................................... 226
Hatred .................................................... 275
Haughtiness............................................ 275
Heart Disease........................................... 89
Heroin .................................................... 188
Herpes.............................................. 98, 165
High Blood Pressure.......................... 90, 93
Histrionic Personality Disorder ............. 122
Hives........................................................ 98
Homophobia .................................. 159, 160
Homophobia-......................................... 159
Hormones................. 92, 101, 103, 104, 106
Horn....................................................... 182
Hostile Masculinity................................ 196
Humility................................................. 199
Hypengyophobia.................................... 159
Hyperesthetic ......................................... 121
Hypertension............................................ 91
Hypoglycemia................................ 103, 104
Hypomanic............................................. 123
I
Idiocy..................................................... 275
Illusion Superiority................................ 231
Immediacy ............................................... 65
Immune Modulators................................. 99
Impatience.............................................. 276
Impotence ................................................ 84
Imps ....................................................... 132
Incest...................................................... 193
Incest.............................................. 193, 194
Incompetence......................................... 276
Indolence................................................ 276
Infidelity ................................ 181, 182, 276
Inhalants................................................. 188
Insanity .................................................. 276
Insomnia ................................ 106, 186, 217
Intercourse ............................. 235, 242, 251
Isoflavones..............................................164
J
Jaundice....................................................92
Jealousy ..........................................148, 276
Johari’s Window
Blind Self, Hidden Self, Known Self,
Unknown Self...................................11
K
Kegel Contraction...................................169
Kidney ..........................................85, 95, 96
Kidney Failure....................................95, 96
Kidney-Stone............................................96
Kindness .................................................199
Knowledge..................29, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35
L
L-Arginine ........................................83, 110
Lethargy..................................................276
Liberality ................................................199
Libido .....................................................109
Lipid Peroxidation..................................103
Lipid Peroxidation Products...................103
Lips...........................................................77
Liver Detoxification .................................93
Loquacious .............................................227
Lou Gehrig's Disease..............................103
Lounge Suit ..............................................67
Lust.................................................197, 277
M
Macho.....................................................158
Madness..................................................277
Magnesium .....................................104, 107
Male Nutrition ........................................101
Male Physical Attractiveness ...................65
Malice.....................................................277
Manalysis................................................258
Manipulative...........................................277
Marijuana................................................187
Marriage ....42, 58, 138, 139, 140, 141, 144,
145, 155, 156, 159, 180, 235
Masochism..............................................201
Masochistic Personality Disorder...........123
Masturbating...................161, 179, 180, 193
Masturbation...........................170, 178, 179
Materialistic............................................. 39
Melanoma ................................................ 98
Menstruation.......................................... 248
Mental Disorders ................................... 121
Mental Health ................................ 113, 269
Mental Health Screening Form.............. 269
Mercilessness......................................... 277
Mesomorph.............................................. 12
Methotrexate............................................ 47
Middle Adulthood.................................... 58
Mifepristone............................................. 46
Misogyny....................................... 205, 277
Misoprostol.............................................. 47
Moodiness.............................................. 277
Mouth............................................... 72, 226
Msg ................................................ 105, 108
Mummy’s Little Boy ............................... 57
Mutuality.................................................. 65
N
Narcissism...................... 122, 132, 133, 181
Narcissism.............................................. 277
Narcissistic Personality Disorder........... 123
Narcissists.............................................. 132
Narcolepsy............................................. 105
Necrophilism.......................................... 201
Neurological Malfunctions .................... 201
Neuroticism............................................ 125
Nicotine Patch........................................ 222
Nonsexual Internet Addiction................ 177
Norepinephrine ...................................... 103
Nose....................................................... 226
Nutrition And Behaviour ....................... 102
O
Obsessive............................................... 277
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder ........... 270
Obsessive-Compulsive Personality
Disorder ............................................. 121
Obstinacy............................................... 277
Ocd......................................................... 121
Oil Pulling................................................ 75
Olive Oil ........................ 71, 93, 94, 96, 109
Omega-3 .................................. 71, 108, 164
Onychophagia........................................ 226
Open Marriage........................................147
Oral Sex..................................................241
Orgasms..................................................179
Outercourse.............235, 240, 242, 246, 251
Ovulation ................................................236
P
Paedophile ..............188, 189, 190, 191, 193
Paedophilia .....................................188, 201
Painkillers...............................................221
Paranoid Personality Disorder................122
Passive-Aggressive Personality Disorder
............................................................123
Past Relationships...................................135
Pathological Gambler .............................172
Patience...................................................199
Penis .................................................84, 227
Perversion.......................................201, 202
Perversion...............................................277
Petulance.................................................277
Philosophy And Theology........................35
Physics......................................................35
Pilot Fish.................................................137
Polypectomy...........................................100
Pomposity...............................................278
Porn Addiction........................................177
Pornography ...................................176, 177
Positive Attitude.......................................36
Potassium Citrate......................................96
Precourse ................................................235
Pregnancy ...............................................251
Prejudice.................................................278
Premature Ejaculation ............................167
Pretentiousness .......................................278
Pride................................................198, 278
Production And Processing ......................33
Promiscuity.............................................278
Prostate Cancer.........................85, 162, 163
Proteins...................................................108
Psoriasis....................................................97
Psychological Counseling ......................175
R
Rage........................................................278
Rape........................................................195
Rape Perpetrator .................................... 197
Rash ......................................................... 97
Recreational Drug.................................. 184
Religion.................................................... 40
Restaurant Reservations......................... 126
Ringworm ................................................ 99
Role Reversal......................................... 154
Rosacea.................................................... 98
Rowdiness.............................................. 278
S
Sadism.................................................... 201
Sadistic Personality Disorder................. 122
Saw Palmetto ......................................... 165
Scabies..................................................... 99
Schizoid Personality Disorder ............... 123
Schizophrenia ................................ 106, 107
Schizophrenia ........................................ 269
Schizothymic ......................................... 121
Schizotypal Personality Disorder .......... 122
Seborrheic Keratosis................................ 98
Secrecy................................................... 278
Sedatives................................................ 221
Self Esteem .............................................. 17
Self-Concept .................... 15, 16, 17, 23, 25
Self-Ideal.................................................. 17
Self-Image................................................ 17
Self-Pity................................................. 278
Semen .................................... 163, 171, 239
Separation And Divorce ........................ 156
Seven Deadly Sins ................................. 197
Seven Heavenly Virtues ........................ 199
Sex Anticipation Fail............................. 238
Sex Offenders ........................................ 195
Sex Positions.................................. 170, 171
Sex Toy.................................. 170, 243, 250
Sexcitement............................................ 236
Sexcursion.............................................. 245
Sexhausted............................................. 239
Sexism.................................................... 205
Sexperience.................................... 239, 253
Sexperiment........................................... 241
Sexual Aid ............................................. 243
Sexual Attractiveness............................. 235
Sexual Harassment .................................203
Sexual Positions......162, 168, 170, 244, 248
Sexual Promiscuity.................................194
Shingles ....................................................98
Short-Sightedness...................................279
Silverware And Dinnerware Rule ..........127
American Style, Continental Style .....127
Single-Parent ..........................................191
Sjögren's Syndrome..................................75
Skills.........................................................36
Skin Abscess.............................................98
Sloth................................................198, 279
Smallcockophobia ..................................161
Smart Casual.............................................68
Smell.........................................................66
Smile.........................................................66
Smoking........................71, 85, 89, 184, 220
Smoothie.................................................220
Snobbishness ..........................................279
Social Comparison....................................16
Social Media...........................................213
Social Phobias ........................................159
Son............................................................57
Son-In-Law...............................................59
Speed-Flick.............................................227
Spirituality................................................39
Spite........................................................279
Squamous Cell Carcinoma .......................98
Stalking...................................137, 207, 208
Stds .................................166, 248, 250, 251
Stepfather..................................................43
Stimulants...............................................188
Stingy......................................................279
Stockholm Syndrome .............................190
Story A-Personal Trainer..........................83
Story B-Annoying Drunk .......................131
Story C-Stockholm Syndrome................190
Story D-Male Scent ..................................88
Story E-Younger Women.......................141
Story F-The Boyfriend ...........................191
Story G-The Father.................................192
Story H-Incest.........................................195
Story I-Social Media...............................217
Story J-Bad Date.................................... 237
Story K-Sex Fail I.................................. 238
Story L-Sex Fail Ii ................................. 239
Story M-Foul Vagina............................. 256
Stress.......... 85, 93, 114, 115, 116, 117, 269
Stubbornness.......................................... 279
Sugar........................................ 77, 103, 105
Sullenness .............................................. 279
Survival.................................................... 34
T
Table Etiquette....................................... 126
Table Manners ....................................... 128
Target Child........................................... 190
Ted Bundy ............................................. 196
Teeth .................. 66, 73, 74, 75, 76, 77, 226
Tenga Egg.............................................. 170
Terri Trespicio ....................................... 143
Testosterone........................................... 109
Thanatophobia ....................................... 159
Thoughtlessness..................................... 279
Tinea Versicolour .................................... 98
Treasonous............................................. 279
Tricky..................................................... 279
Trusting Mothers ................................... 191
Tryptophan Depletion............................ 106
Twisted .................................................. 279
Twitter.................. 6, 43, 125, 137, 156, 208
U
Uncle........................................................ 59
Unfaithfulness........................................ 279
Unloving ................................................ 279
Unsatisfyherphobia................................ 161
Untrustworthiness.................................. 279
V
Vagina.................................... 170, 241, 242
Vaginal Care .......................................... 253
Vaginal Penetration ............................... 250
Valine..................................................... 105
Vanity .................................................... 279
Vasectomy ............................................... 50
Video Games ......................................... 211
Vitamin .................................... 71, 106, 107
Vitamin .................................. 104, 106, 107
Vitamin Deficiencies..............................106
Voyeurism ..............................................201
W
Warts.........................................................98
Wastefulness...........................................280
Weakness................................................280
White Tie..................................................67
White Tongue ...........................................75
Whitfield Ointment...................................99
Wildness .................................................280
Womanalyzed.........................................142
Wrath ..............................................198, 280
Z
Zealousness.............................................280
Zinc.....................................71, 83, 109, 161
Zoophilia.................................................201
Content Index
Dedication .................................................................................................................................... 2
Acknowledgement........................................................................................................................ 4
Preface.......................................................................................................................................... 5
Introduction ................................................................................................................................. 7
1 ACKNOWLEDGING THE CHANGE................................................................................ 9
1.1 What is change?............................................................................................................ 9
1.2 When do we change?.................................................................................................. 10
1.3 The Awareness of the Change.................................................................................... 11
1.3.1 Deciding the change ............................................................................................... 11
1.3.2 Involving Others..................................................................................................... 11
1.3.2.1 Feminine Input................................................................................................ 12
1.4 The Analysis of the change ........................................................................................ 14
1.5 Self-Concept ............................................................................................................... 15
1.5.1 Self-Ideal ................................................................................................................ 15
1.5.1.1 Social Comparisons ........................................................................................ 15
1.5.2 Self-Image .............................................................................................................. 16
1.5.3 Self-Esteem............................................................................................................. 16
2 EMOTIONAL .................................................................................................................... 18
2.1 Emotional Intelligence in Action................................................................................ 18
2.1.1 Increasing Emotional Intelligence.......................................................................... 18
3 MORAL CHARACTER..................................................................................................... 21
3.1 The Eight Pillars of Character .................................................................................... 21
3.2 Ethical Behaviour ....................................................................................................... 21
3.3 Unethical Behaviour................................................................................................... 22
3.3.1 The self in the regulation of behaviour................................................................... 22
3.3.2 Causes for dishonest behaviour .............................................................................. 23
3.3.3 Moral disengagement and immoral behaviour ....................................................... 24
4 INTELLECTUAL.............................................................................................................. 27
4.1 The Mechanic versus the Academic........................................................................... 28
4.2 Knowledge.................................................................................................................. 28
4.2.1 Innovating Knowledge Area................................................................................... 30
4.2.2 Nurturing & Growing Knowledge Area................................................................. 30
4.2.3 Expressive Knowledge Area .................................................................................. 31
4.2.4 Building & Organizing Knowledge Area............................................................... 32
4.2.5 Adventuring Knowledge Area................................................................................ 33
4.2.6 Healing & Teaching Knowledge Area ................................................................... 33
4.2.7 Scientific Knowledge Area..................................................................................... 33
4.2.8 Administrative Knowledge Area............................................................................ 34
4.2.9 Guiding Knowledge Area....................................................................................... 34
4.3 Skills........................................................................................................................... 35
4.4 Attitude....................................................................................................................... 35
5 FINANCIAL ...................................................................................................................... 36
6 SPIRITUAL ....................................................................................................................... 38
6.1.1 Knowing how spirituality differs from religion. .................................................... 39
6.1.2 Religion and spirituality can blend beautifully....................................................... 39
6.1.3 The Atheist ............................................................................................................. 40
6.1.4 Observations ........................................................................................................... 40
6.1.5 Conclusion.............................................................................................................. 40
7 FAMILY............................................................................................................................. 41
7.1 As a Father.................................................................................................................. 41
7.1.1 As a Stepfather........................................................................................................ 42
7.1.2 As a Grand Father................................................................................................... 43
7.1.3 As a God Father...................................................................................................... 43
7.1.4 Fathering your daughter.......................................................................................... 44
7.1.5 Fathering your son.................................................................................................. 44
7.1.6 Abortion.................................................................................................................. 45
7.1.6.1 Definition........................................................................................................ 45
7.1.6.2 When Is Medical Abortion Used? .................................................................. 45
7.1.6.3 How the Medications Work............................................................................ 45
7.1.6.4 How Long Do Medical Abortions Take? ....................................................... 46
7.1.6.5 During and After a Medical Abortion ............................................................ 46
7.1.6.6 Possible Complications................................................................................... 47
7.1.6.7 Follow-Up Care .............................................................................................. 48
7.1.6.8 Anti-Abortion Propaganda About Medical Abortion..................................... 48
7.1.7 Conclusion.............................................................................................................. 48
7.1.7.1 Vasectomy ...................................................................................................... 49
7.1.7.2 Abstinence ...................................................................................................... 53
7.2 As a Son...................................................................................................................... 56
7.2.1 Mummy’s little boy ................................................................................................ 56
7.2.1.1 As a son-in-law............................................................................................... 58
7.3 As a Brother................................................................................................................ 58
7.3.1 As a Brother-in-Law............................................................................................... 58
7.4 As an Uncle ................................................................................................................ 58
7.4.1 How to be an awesome uncle ................................................................................. 59
7.5 As a Lover .................................................................................................................. 59
7.6 As a Friend.................................................................................................................. 59
7.7 As an Employee and Colleague.................................................................................. 60
7.8 Losing your family ..................................................................................................... 62
8 PHYSICAL......................................................................................................................... 64
8.1 Physical Attractiveness............................................................................................... 64
8.2 Fashion........................................................................................................................ 65
8.2.1 Dress codes in effect............................................................................................... 65
8.2.1.1 White Tie ........................................................................................................ 66
8.2.1.2 Black Tie/Formal............................................................................................ 66
8.2.1.3 Lounge Suit..................................................................................................... 66
8.2.1.4 Cocktail........................................................................................................... 66
8.2.1.5 Business Attire................................................................................................ 66
8.2.1.6 Smart Casual................................................................................................... 67
8.2.1.7 Casual ............................................................................................................. 67
8.2.1.8 Not Accepted Attire........................................................................................ 67
9 MEDICAL.......................................................................................................................... 69
9.1.1 Hair ......................................................................................................................... 70
9.1.2 Facial Skin .............................................................................................................. 70
9.1.3 Eyes ........................................................................................................................ 70
9.1.4 Facial Hair .............................................................................................................. 71
9.1.5 Mouth...................................................................................................................... 71
9.1.5.1 Bad breath....................................................................................................... 71
9.1.5.2 White tongue................................................................................................... 74
9.1.5.3 Care of the teeth.............................................................................................. 74
9.1.5.4 Care of the lips................................................................................................ 76
9.1.6 Ear........................................................................................................................... 77
9.1.6.1 Cleaning your ears.......................................................................................... 78
9.1.6.2 Illness and Medications .................................................................................. 78
9.1.6.3 Noise............................................................................................................... 78
9.1.6.4 Safety Issues ................................................................................................... 79
9.1.6.5 General Care................................................................................................... 79
9.1.7 Muscles................................................................................................................... 80
9.1.7.1 Story A-Personal trainer ................................................................................. 82
9.1.8 Arms ....................................................................................................................... 82
9.1.9 Butt ......................................................................................................................... 83
9.1.10 Penis.................................................................................................................... 83
9.1.10.1 Impotence ....................................................................................................... 83
9.1.11 Body Odour ........................................................................................................ 84
9.1.11.1 What causes body odour?............................................................................... 84
9.1.11.2 How can I reduce body odor?......................................................................... 85
9.1.11.3 How can I enhance body odour? .................................................................... 85
9.1.11.4 Story D-Male scent......................................................................................... 86
9.1.12 Heart ................................................................................................................... 87
9.1.12.1 Do not smoke or use tobacco.......................................................................... 88
9.1.12.2 Get regular health screenings ......................................................................... 88
9.1.12.3 Maintain a healthy weight .............................................................................. 89
9.1.12.4 Eat a heart-healthy diet................................................................................... 89
9.1.12.5 Exercise for 30 minutes .................................................................................. 89
9.1.13 Liver.................................................................................................................... 90
9.1.13.1 Symptoms of liver problems........................................................................... 90
9.1.13.2 Healthy Liver Tips.......................................................................................... 91
9.1.13.3 Liver Detoxification ....................................................................................... 91
9.1.13.3.1 Liver detoxification preparation................................................................ 92
9.1.14 Kidney ................................................................................................................ 93
9.1.14.1 Kidney failure facts ........................................................................................ 93
9.1.14.2 Kidney cleansing ............................................................................................ 94
9.1.15 Skin..................................................................................................................... 95
9.1.15.1 Skin Conditions .............................................................................................. 95
9.1.15.2 Skin Treatments.............................................................................................. 97
9.1.16 Intestines............................................................................................................. 98
9.1.16.1 Intestine Treatments ....................................................................................... 98
9.1.17 Male Nutrition .................................................................................................... 99
9.1.17.1.1 My diet plan............................................................................................... 99
9.1.17.2 Nutrition and behaviour................................................................................ 100
9.1.17.3 Carbohydrates............................................................................................... 106
9.1.17.4 Proteins ......................................................................................................... 106
9.1.17.5 Healthy Fats.................................................................................................. 106
9.1.17.6 Putting It All Together.................................................................................. 106
9.1.17.7 Testosterone boosting nutrition .................................................................... 107
9.1.17.8 Lowering your Estrogen levels..................................................................... 108
10 MENTAL.......................................................................................................................... 110
10.1.1 Mental Health Assessment ............................................................................... 110
10.1.2 Stress................................................................................................................. 111
10.1.2.1 How do you respond to stress?..................................................................... 112
10.1.2.2 Signs and symptoms of stress overload........................................................ 112
10.1.2.3 How much stress is too much? ..................................................................... 113
10.1.2.4 Causes of stress............................................................................................. 114
10.1.2.4.1 Common external causes of stress........................................................... 114
10.1.2.4.2 Common internal causes of stress ........................................................... 114
10.1.2.5 Dealing with stress and its symptoms........................................................... 114
10.1.2.6 Learn how to manage stress.......................................................................... 114
10.1.2.6.1 Avoid unnecessary stress......................................................................... 115
10.1.2.6.2 Alter the situation .................................................................................... 115
10.1.2.6.3 Adapt to the stressor ................................................................................ 116
10.1.2.6.4 Accept the things you can’t change......................................................... 116
10.1.2.6.5 Make time for fun and relaxation............................................................ 117
10.1.2.6.6 Adopt a healthy lifestyle.......................................................................... 117
10.1.2.6.7 Learn how to relax................................................................................... 118
10.1.2.6.8 Learn quick stress relief........................................................................... 118
10.1.3 Dealing with disorders...................................................................................... 118
10.1.3.1 Schizothymic ................................................................................................ 118
10.1.3.1.1 Hyperesthetic........................................................................................... 118
10.1.3.1.2 Anesthetic................................................................................................ 119
10.1.3.2 Cyclothymic.................................................................................................. 120
10.1.3.2.1 Depressive ............................................................................................... 120
10.1.3.2.2 Hypomanic .............................................................................................. 120
11 SOCIAL............................................................................................................................ 122
11.1.1 Behaviours at Social gatherings ....................................................................... 122
11.1.1.1 Table Etiquette.............................................................................................. 123
11.1.1.1.1 Making Restaurant Reservations:............................................................ 123
11.1.1.1.2 How to use napkins: ................................................................................ 123
11.1.1.1.3 When to start eating................................................................................. 123
11.1.1.1.4 Using your silverware and dinnerware.................................................... 124
11.1.1.2 Eating:........................................................................................................... 124
11.1.1.3 Table Manners .............................................................................................. 125
11.1.1.4 An Observation............................................................................................. 126
11.1.1.5 Story B-Annoying Drunk ............................................................................. 128
11.1.2 Relationships .................................................................................................... 128
11.1.2.1 As a Friend and Lover .................................................................................. 131
11.1.2.2 Past Relationships......................................................................................... 132
11.1.2.3 The Pilot Fish................................................................................................ 134
11.1.2.4 Courtship ...................................................................................................... 134
11.1.2.5 Dating younger women ................................................................................ 136
11.1.2.5.1 Story E-Younger women......................................................................... 137
11.1.2.6 Dating older women ..................................................................................... 139
11.1.2.6.1 Reasons for dating older women ............................................................. 139
11.1.2.7 The Extramarital Relationship...................................................................... 142
11.1.2.7.1 Extramarital Relationship Exposed......................................................... 142
11.1.2.7.2 Justification of an Extramarital Relationship .......................................... 143
11.1.2.7.3 Open marriage ......................................................................................... 144
11.1.2.8 Jealousy ........................................................................................................ 145
11.1.2.9 Jealous and Abusive ..................................................................................... 146
11.1.2.10 Domestic Violence ................................................................................... 147
11.1.2.11 The Abused Man ...................................................................................... 149
11.1.2.12 The Abused Woman ................................................................................. 151
11.1.2.13 Managing Breakups.................................................................................. 152
11.2 Acceptance............................................................................................................ 154
12 MANAGING FEARS ...................................................................................................... 155
12.1 Recognizing your fears......................................................................................... 155
12.2 Phobias.................................................................................................................. 155
12.2.1 Symptoms of Phobias ....................................................................................... 155
12.2.2 Types of Phobias .............................................................................................. 155
12.2.3 Treatments for Phobias..................................................................................... 157
12.2.3.1 Homophobia ................................................................................................. 157
12.2.3.2 SmallCockophobia........................................................................................ 158
12.2.3.3 UnsatisfyHerphobia...................................................................................... 158
12.2.4 Prostate Cancer................................................................................................. 159
12.2.4.1 Prostate Cancer Prevention........................................................................... 160
12.2.5 Sexually Transmitted Diseases......................................................................... 162
12.2.6 Handling Cowardice......................................................................................... 163
12.2.6.1 Signs of cowardice........................................................................................ 163
12.2.6.2 Advice on handling cowardice ..................................................................... 164
12.2.7 Premature Ejaculation....................................................................................... 164
12.2.7.1 Causes of Premature Ejaculation.................................................................. 164
12.2.7.2 Techniques in preventing.............................................................................. 165
12.2.7.2.1 The pelvic muscles-................................................................................. 165
12.2.7.2.2 Start-stop method..................................................................................... 165
12.2.7.2.3 Masturbation............................................................................................ 166
12.2.7.2.4 Sex positions............................................................................................ 167
12.2.7.2.5 Other treatments ...................................................................................... 167
13 MANAGING VICES ....................................................................................................... 169
13.1 Gambling .............................................................................................................. 169
13.1.1 Problem gambling,............................................................................................ 169
13.1.2 Curing gambling............................................................................................... 169
13.2 Alcoholism............................................................................................................ 170
13.2.1 Alcohol abuse ................................................................................................... 170
13.2.2 Alcohol dependence ......................................................................................... 171
13.2.3 Signs and Symptoms of Alcoholism ................................................................ 171
13.2.3.1 Early Signs of a Problem.............................................................................. 171
13.2.3.2 Symptoms of Alcohol Abuse........................................................................ 171
13.2.3.3 Symptoms of Alcoholism ............................................................................. 172
13.2.3.4 Treatment and drugs ..................................................................................... 172
13.3 Pornography.......................................................................................................... 173
13.3.1 Some signs of porn addiction ........................................................................... 174
13.3.2 Attacking the addiction..................................................................................... 175
13.4 Masturbation......................................................................................................... 175
13.5 Infidelity ............................................................................................................... 177
13.5.1 Causes of Infidelity........................................................................................... 178
13.5.2 How to deal with Infidelity............................................................................... 178
13.5.3 Warning Signs of Infidelity.............................................................................. 179
13.6 Drug Abuse & Addiction...................................................................................... 179
13.6.1 Understanding drug use/abuse/addiction.......................................................... 180
13.6.2 Why do some drug users become addicted?..................................................... 180
13.6.3 Drug addiction and the brain ............................................................................ 180
13.6.4 How drug abuse and addiction can develop. .................................................... 181
13.6.5 Myths about Drug Abuse and Addiction.......................................................... 182
13.6.6 Signs, symptoms of drug abuse and addiction ................................................. 182
13.6.6.1 Signs and symptoms of drug abuse .............................................................. 182
13.6.6.2 Signs and symptoms of drug addiction......................................................... 183
13.6.7 Warning signs that you are abusing drugs........................................................ 183
13.6.7.1 Physical warning signs of drug abuse........................................................... 183
13.6.7.2 Behavioural signs of drug abuse................................................................... 184
13.6.7.3 Psychological warning signs of drug abuse.................................................. 184
13.6.8 Warning Signs of Commonly Abused Drugs................................................... 184
13.7 Paedophilia ........................................................................................................... 185
13.7.1 Characteristics of a Paedophile: ....................................................................... 185
13.7.2 Paedophilic preferences.................................................................................... 186
13.7.3 The Target Child:.............................................................................................. 186
13.7.4 Manipulation of the Innocent: .......................................................................... 186
13.7.5 Stockholm syndrome:....................................................................................... 187
13.7.5.1 Story C-Stockholm syndrome ...................................................................... 187
13.7.6 The Single-Parent Home .................................................................................. 187
13.7.6.1 The Trusting Mothers ................................................................................... 187
13.7.6.1.1 Story F-The Boyfriend ............................................................................ 187
13.7.6.1.2 Story G-The Father.................................................................................. 188
13.7.6.1.3 My 1st
Warning,....................................................................................... 188
13.7.6.1.4 My 2nd
Warning,...................................................................................... 189
13.7.7 Fighting Back ................................................................................................... 189
13.8 Incest..................................................................................................................... 189
13.8.1 A thorough definition of Incest ........................................................................ 190
13.8.2 The negative effects of incest ........................................................................... 190
13.8.3 Treatment for Incest Perpetrators .................................................................... 191
13.8.4 Story H-Incest................................................................................................... 191
13.9 Rape...................................................................................................................... 192
13.9.1 Understanding the Perpetrator.......................................................................... 192
13.9.1.1 Personality Characteristics: .......................................................................... 192
13.9.1.2 Observations from research conducted......................................................... 193
13.9.2 Treatment of the rape perpetrator ..................................................................... 193
13.10 The Capital Vices Vs Virtues ............................................................................... 194
13.10.1 Seven Deadly sins............................................................................................. 194
13.10.2 Seven heavenly virtues ..................................................................................... 195
14 MANAGING HABITS..................................................................................................... 196
14.1 Perversion ............................................................................................................. 197
14.1.1 Causes of perversion......................................................................................... 197
14.1.2 Am I a pervert?................................................................................................. 198
14.1.3 Steps in addressing perversion ......................................................................... 198
14.2 Sexual Harassment ............................................................................................... 199
14.3 Sex discrimination................................................................................................ 200
14.4 Sexism .................................................................................................................. 200
14.5 Misogyny.............................................................................................................. 201
14.5.1 Misogynistic signs ............................................................................................ 201
14.6 Stalking................................................................................................................. 203
14.6.1 Stalking Can Become Violent .......................................................................... 204
14.6.2 The Female Stalker........................................................................................... 204
14.7 Snacking non-stop, even when not hungry........................................................... 205
14.8 Too much TV........................................................................................................ 206
14.9 Overindulgence in Video Games.......................................................................... 207
14.9.1 Where's the Harm?............................................................................................ 208
14.9.2 Addiction Warning Signs ................................................................................. 208
14.9.3 Treatment.......................................................................................................... 208
14.10 Overindulgence in Sports ..................................................................................... 209
14.11 Indulgence in Social Media .................................................................................. 209
14.11.1 Story I-Social Media......................................................................................... 213
14.12 Overspending your way into debt......................................................................... 213
14.13 Eating too much fast food..................................................................................... 214
14.14 Skipping breakfast. ............................................................................................... 215
14.15 Smoking cigarettes. .............................................................................................. 216
14.16 Overusing painkillers and sedatives. .................................................................... 217
14.17 Clownism.............................................................................................................. 219
14.17.1 Reversing Clownism......................................................................................... 220
14.18 Bodily Etiquette.................................................................................................... 221
14.19 Talkative Man....................................................................................................... 223
14.20 Gossiping.............................................................................................................. 224
14.21 Judging Others...................................................................................................... 227
14.21.1 Fighting the urge to judge................................................................................. 228
15 MANAGING SEXPECTATIONS................................................................................... 231
15.1 PreCourse.............................................................................................................. 231
15.1.1 Story J-Bad Date............................................................................................... 233
15.1.2 Sex Anticipation Fail........................................................................................ 234
15.1.2.1 Story K-Sex Fail I......................................................................................... 234
15.1.2.2 Story L-Sex Fail II........................................................................................ 235
15.2 OuterCourse.......................................................................................................... 236
15.2.1 Oral Sex ............................................................................................................ 236
15.3 InterCourse ........................................................................................................... 238
15.3.1 Sexual Positions................................................................................................ 240
15.3.2 Intercourse during menstruation....................................................................... 243
15.3.3 Anal Sex ........................................................................................................... 243
15.3.4 Pregnancy and STDs ........................................................................................ 246
15.4 AfterCourse .......................................................................................................... 246
15.4.1 The AfterCourse Survey................................................................................... 246
15.4.2 The Regrets....................................................................................................... 247
15.4.3 Vaginal Care..................................................................................................... 248
15.4.3.1 Tips for a healthier Vagina ........................................................................... 248
15.4.3.2 Story M-Foul Vagina.................................................................................... 250
16 IMPLEMENTING CHANGE......................................................................................... 252
16.1 Manalysis of Alfred.............................................................................................. 252
16.1.1 Methodology..................................................................................................... 252
16.2 Conclusions .......................................................................................................... 254
16.3 Recommendations ................................................................................................ 254
16.3.1 Further recommendations................................................................................. 257
16.4 Expectations.......................................................................................................... 257
Appendices ............................................................................................................................... 259
Appendix I: Personal Budget Sheet.................................................................................. 259
Appendix II: Weekly schedule incorporating change ...................................................... 263
Appendix III-Guidelines for MHSF-III............................................................................ 264
Appendix III- List of Vices .............................................................................................. 268
Bibliography............................................................................................................................. 275

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  • 2. Dedication To my wife Maureen, my children Roanna and Maureece and my only granddaughter Raine without whom this book would have been completed six months earlier. I had to stop so many times to play, console and to take her for drives that sometimes I forgot that I was writing this book.
  • 3. Table of Contents Dedication.................................................................................................................................... 2 Acknowledgement....................................................................................................................... 4 Preface ......................................................................................................................................... 5 Introduction ................................................................................................................................ 7 1 Acknowledging The Change.............................................................................................. 9 2 Emotional .......................................................................................................................... 18 3 Moral Character............................................................................................................... 21 4 Intellectual......................................................................................................................... 27 5 Financial ............................................................................................................................ 36 6 Spiritual............................................................................................................................. 38 7 Family ................................................................................................................................ 41 8 Physical.............................................................................................................................. 64 9 Medical .............................................................................................................................. 69 10 Mental.............................................................................................................................. 110 11 Social................................................................................................................................ 122 12 Managing Fears .............................................................................................................. 155 13 Managing Vices............................................................................................................... 169 14 Managing Habits ............................................................................................................ 196 15 Managing Sexpectations ................................................................................................ 231 16 Implementing Change.................................................................................................... 252 Appendices .............................................................................................................................. 257 Bibliography............................................................................................................................ 273
  • 4. Acknowledgement This acknowledgement was probably the hardest thing that I had to do with respect to completing this book. So many people have influenced my life and for that, I became a vessel that carried the collective inspirations. I would like to thank all those people who have shared their stories and given me the permission to use it. Growing up with elderly accomplished men around me was exciting as I have been always eager to learn new things. They would sit with me at the age of twelve and discuss life, politics, mistakes and health issues. That to me was a gift greater than anything else; for it meant if applied, I was not doomed to experience the mistakes us men make. So briefly, I want to thank all the men and women who have influenced me with their experiences.
  • 5. Index A Abortion....................................................46 Abstinence ........................................54, 199 Abused Man............................................152 Abused Woman ......................................155 Acne....................................................71, 97 Actinic Keratosis ......................................98 Adultery..................................................273 Aftercourse .............................235, 251, 252 Agoraphobia ...........................................159 Agreeableness.........................................125 Aids.................................................165, 248 Alcoholism85, 173, 174, 175, 176, 198, 273 Allergies .................................................128 Alpha Male .............................................137 Alzheimer’s ............................................108 Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (Als)......103 Anal Penetration .............................250, 251 Anal Sex .................................................248 Anal Sex Rule.........................249, 250, 251 Anesthetic...............................................122 Anilingus ................................................250 Antagonism.............................................273 Antibiotics ................................................99 Antifungal Drugs......................................99 Antihistamines..........................................99 Antiperspirants ...................................84, 87 Antisocial Personality Disorder..............124 Anuptaphobia .........................................159 Anxiety Attack........................................158 Aphrodisiac.....................................238, 239 Arrogance ...............................................273 Aspirin....................................................221 Atheism.....................................................41 Atheist.......................................................41 Attention Deficit Disorder......................105 Attention Deficit-Hyperactivity Disorder ............................................................105 Attitude .................................................... 36 Avoidant Personality Disorder .............. 121 B Bad Breath ............................................... 72 Basal Cell Carcinoma .............................. 98 Benign Prostatic Hyperplasia (Bph). ..... 163 Bill Gates ................................................. 29 Biology .................................................... 34 Black Tie/Formal..................................... 67 Blow Job................................................ 169 Bmi .......................................................... 91 Boastfulness........................................... 273 Bodily Etiquette..................................... 225 Body................................... 83, 85, 227, 236 Body Odour ................................. 85, 86, 87 Bois Bande............................................. 238 Borderline Personality Disorder .... 124, 153 Breakups ................................................ 155 Breasts.................................................... 243 Brother ..................................................... 59 Brutality................................................. 273 Business Attire......................................... 67 Butt .......................................... 84, 227, 249 C Caligynephobia...................................... 159 Calories.................. 108, 109, 165, 210, 219 Candidayeast............................................ 75 Carbohydrate Metabolism ..................... 103 Carbohydrates........................................ 108 Casual ...................................................... 68 Catagelophobia ...................................... 159 Cellulitis................................................... 97 Change ..................................................... 10 Chastity.................................................. 199 Chauvinism............................................ 273 Cheating......................... 146, 180, 181, 182 Cholesterol............. 90, 91, 92, 93, 109, 218 Christian Massage.................................. 204 Cigarette Smoke....................................... 90 Cling-On ................................................ 143
  • 6. Clownism................................................223 Cocktail.....................................................67 Colon ......................................................101 Colon Surgery.........................................101 Colonoscopy...........................................100 Communication ................................20, 225 Compensatory Narcissistic Personality Disorder ..............................................122 Competencies ...........................................29 Complexion ..............................................66 Condoms.................................................171 Conscientiousness...................................125 Coprophilia.............................................201 Corticosteroids (Steroids).........................99 Courtship ................................................138 Covetousness ..........................................274 Coward ...........................................138, 167 Cowardice.......................................166, 274 Cruelty....................................................274 Cupidity..................................................274 Cyber Porn..............................................181 Cybersex.................................................181 Cyclothymic ...........................................123 Cyclothymic Personality Disorder .........124 Cycotex Pills...........................................192 D Dandruff .............................................71, 97 Daughter ...................45, 191, 192, 193, 194 Debt ..................................38, 133, 217, 218 Decadence...............................................274 Deceitfulness ..........................................274 Decidophobia..........................................159 Dementedness.........................................274 Deodorants................................................87 Dependent Personality Disorder.............123 Depressants.............................................188 Depression ........................................85, 106 Depressive ..............................123, 269, 274 Depressive Personality Disorder ............123 Dermatitis .................................................97 Desensitizing Creams .............................171 Detoxification And Withdrawal .............175 Diabetes ....................................................85 Diligence................................................ 199 Dinner Party........................................... 126 Discourtesy ............................................ 274 Dishonesty ............................................. 274 Disloyalty............................................... 274 Disrespect .............................................. 274 Domestic Violence......... 150, 151, 153, 154 Domestic Violence................................. 150 Drug Abuse............................................ 183 Drug Abuse And Addiction........... 184, 186 Dunning–Kruger Effect ......................... 232 E Ear........................................ 78, 79, 80, 226 Eating..................................................... 127 Ecclesiophobia....................................... 159 Eczema..................................................... 97 Egoism ................................................... 274 Emotional................................................... 9 Emotional Bank Account....................... 224 Emotional Intelligence............................. 19 Emotionally Literate ................................ 20 Endomorph .............................................. 12 English Language .................................... 32 Enochlophobia....................................... 159 Envy....................................... 148, 198, 274 Epidermis................................................. 97 Epinephrine............................................ 103 Epistemophoba ...................................... 159 Erectile Dysfunction ................ 85, 105, 110 Erectile Dysfunction ................................ 84 Eremophobia.......................................... 159 Ergophobia............................................. 159 Erratic .................................................... 274 Erythropoietin.......................................... 95 E-Stalkers............................................... 207 Estrogen ................................. 110, 111, 112 Ethical Behaviour .................................... 22 Exhibitionism......................................... 201 Extramarital Relationship .............. 145, 146 Extremism.............................................. 274 Extroversion........................................... 125 Eyes.................................................. 71, 226
  • 7. F Facebook....6, 13, 43, 63, 65, 125, 137, 144, 145, 156, 180, 200, 208, 252 Facial Hair ................................................72 Facial Skin................................................71 Falseness.................................................275 Family......9, 42, 43, 45, 59, 60, 65, 90, 116, 138, 139, 140, 151, 152, 155, 156, 180, 181, 213, 223 Fanaticism...............................................275 Fashion .....................................................66 Fast Food ................................................218 Feet .........................................................227 Female Stalker........................................208 Feminine Input..................................12, 236 Fetishism.................................................201 Fine Arts ...................................................33 Fishbone Diagram ..................................260 Flirting ....................................................236 Friend And Lover ...................................134 Friendship Dick ......................................161 Frodo Baggins ........................................139 G Gallstones ...........................................92, 94 Gambling ................................................133 Gamophobia ...........................................159 Garrulous ................................................227 Genophobia.............................................159 Geography ................................................35 Gerd ..........................................................75 Gerontophobia ........................................159 Glossitis....................................................75 Glutamine ...............................................105 Gluttony..................................................198 God Father................................................44 Gossip.....................................................228 Gotye ......................................................135 Grand Father.............................................44 Greed ..............................................198, 275 Grooming................................................240 Gum Disease.............................................73 H Habit ..... 130, 172, 186, 200, 201, 209, 220, 221, 222 Hair .................................................. 71, 226 Hallucinogens ........................................ 188 Hand Job................................................ 169 Hands ..................................................... 226 Hatred .................................................... 275 Haughtiness............................................ 275 Heart Disease........................................... 89 Heroin .................................................... 188 Herpes.............................................. 98, 165 High Blood Pressure.......................... 90, 93 Histrionic Personality Disorder ............. 122 Hives........................................................ 98 Homophobia .................................. 159, 160 Homophobia-......................................... 159 Hormones................. 92, 101, 103, 104, 106 Horn....................................................... 182 Hostile Masculinity................................ 196 Humility................................................. 199 Hypengyophobia.................................... 159 Hyperesthetic ......................................... 121 Hypertension............................................ 91 Hypoglycemia................................ 103, 104 Hypomanic............................................. 123 I Idiocy..................................................... 275 Illusion Superiority................................ 231 Immediacy ............................................... 65 Immune Modulators................................. 99 Impatience.............................................. 276 Impotence ................................................ 84 Imps ....................................................... 132 Incest...................................................... 193 Incest.............................................. 193, 194 Incompetence......................................... 276 Indolence................................................ 276 Infidelity ................................ 181, 182, 276 Inhalants................................................. 188 Insanity .................................................. 276 Insomnia ................................ 106, 186, 217 Intercourse ............................. 235, 242, 251
  • 8. Isoflavones..............................................164 J Jaundice....................................................92 Jealousy ..........................................148, 276 Johari’s Window Blind Self, Hidden Self, Known Self, Unknown Self...................................11 K Kegel Contraction...................................169 Kidney ..........................................85, 95, 96 Kidney Failure....................................95, 96 Kidney-Stone............................................96 Kindness .................................................199 Knowledge..................29, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35 L L-Arginine ........................................83, 110 Lethargy..................................................276 Liberality ................................................199 Libido .....................................................109 Lipid Peroxidation..................................103 Lipid Peroxidation Products...................103 Lips...........................................................77 Liver Detoxification .................................93 Loquacious .............................................227 Lou Gehrig's Disease..............................103 Lounge Suit ..............................................67 Lust.................................................197, 277 M Macho.....................................................158 Madness..................................................277 Magnesium .....................................104, 107 Male Nutrition ........................................101 Male Physical Attractiveness ...................65 Malice.....................................................277 Manalysis................................................258 Manipulative...........................................277 Marijuana................................................187 Marriage ....42, 58, 138, 139, 140, 141, 144, 145, 155, 156, 159, 180, 235 Masochism..............................................201 Masochistic Personality Disorder...........123 Masturbating...................161, 179, 180, 193 Masturbation...........................170, 178, 179 Materialistic............................................. 39 Melanoma ................................................ 98 Menstruation.......................................... 248 Mental Disorders ................................... 121 Mental Health ................................ 113, 269 Mental Health Screening Form.............. 269 Mercilessness......................................... 277 Mesomorph.............................................. 12 Methotrexate............................................ 47 Middle Adulthood.................................... 58 Mifepristone............................................. 46 Misogyny....................................... 205, 277 Misoprostol.............................................. 47 Moodiness.............................................. 277 Mouth............................................... 72, 226 Msg ................................................ 105, 108 Mummy’s Little Boy ............................... 57 Mutuality.................................................. 65 N Narcissism...................... 122, 132, 133, 181 Narcissism.............................................. 277 Narcissistic Personality Disorder........... 123 Narcissists.............................................. 132 Narcolepsy............................................. 105 Necrophilism.......................................... 201 Neurological Malfunctions .................... 201 Neuroticism............................................ 125 Nicotine Patch........................................ 222 Nonsexual Internet Addiction................ 177 Norepinephrine ...................................... 103 Nose....................................................... 226 Nutrition And Behaviour ....................... 102 O Obsessive............................................... 277 Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder ........... 270 Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder ............................................. 121 Obstinacy............................................... 277 Ocd......................................................... 121 Oil Pulling................................................ 75 Olive Oil ........................ 71, 93, 94, 96, 109 Omega-3 .................................. 71, 108, 164 Onychophagia........................................ 226
  • 9. Open Marriage........................................147 Oral Sex..................................................241 Orgasms..................................................179 Outercourse.............235, 240, 242, 246, 251 Ovulation ................................................236 P Paedophile ..............188, 189, 190, 191, 193 Paedophilia .....................................188, 201 Painkillers...............................................221 Paranoid Personality Disorder................122 Passive-Aggressive Personality Disorder ............................................................123 Past Relationships...................................135 Pathological Gambler .............................172 Patience...................................................199 Penis .................................................84, 227 Perversion.......................................201, 202 Perversion...............................................277 Petulance.................................................277 Philosophy And Theology........................35 Physics......................................................35 Pilot Fish.................................................137 Polypectomy...........................................100 Pomposity...............................................278 Porn Addiction........................................177 Pornography ...................................176, 177 Positive Attitude.......................................36 Potassium Citrate......................................96 Precourse ................................................235 Pregnancy ...............................................251 Prejudice.................................................278 Premature Ejaculation ............................167 Pretentiousness .......................................278 Pride................................................198, 278 Production And Processing ......................33 Promiscuity.............................................278 Prostate Cancer.........................85, 162, 163 Proteins...................................................108 Psoriasis....................................................97 Psychological Counseling ......................175 R Rage........................................................278 Rape........................................................195 Rape Perpetrator .................................... 197 Rash ......................................................... 97 Recreational Drug.................................. 184 Religion.................................................... 40 Restaurant Reservations......................... 126 Ringworm ................................................ 99 Role Reversal......................................... 154 Rosacea.................................................... 98 Rowdiness.............................................. 278 S Sadism.................................................... 201 Sadistic Personality Disorder................. 122 Saw Palmetto ......................................... 165 Scabies..................................................... 99 Schizoid Personality Disorder ............... 123 Schizophrenia ................................ 106, 107 Schizophrenia ........................................ 269 Schizothymic ......................................... 121 Schizotypal Personality Disorder .......... 122 Seborrheic Keratosis................................ 98 Secrecy................................................... 278 Sedatives................................................ 221 Self Esteem .............................................. 17 Self-Concept .................... 15, 16, 17, 23, 25 Self-Ideal.................................................. 17 Self-Image................................................ 17 Self-Pity................................................. 278 Semen .................................... 163, 171, 239 Separation And Divorce ........................ 156 Seven Deadly Sins ................................. 197 Seven Heavenly Virtues ........................ 199 Sex Anticipation Fail............................. 238 Sex Offenders ........................................ 195 Sex Positions.................................. 170, 171 Sex Toy.................................. 170, 243, 250 Sexcitement............................................ 236 Sexcursion.............................................. 245 Sexhausted............................................. 239 Sexism.................................................... 205 Sexperience.................................... 239, 253 Sexperiment........................................... 241 Sexual Aid ............................................. 243 Sexual Attractiveness............................. 235
  • 10. Sexual Harassment .................................203 Sexual Positions......162, 168, 170, 244, 248 Sexual Promiscuity.................................194 Shingles ....................................................98 Short-Sightedness...................................279 Silverware And Dinnerware Rule ..........127 American Style, Continental Style .....127 Single-Parent ..........................................191 Sjögren's Syndrome..................................75 Skills.........................................................36 Skin Abscess.............................................98 Sloth................................................198, 279 Smallcockophobia ..................................161 Smart Casual.............................................68 Smell.........................................................66 Smile.........................................................66 Smoking........................71, 85, 89, 184, 220 Smoothie.................................................220 Snobbishness ..........................................279 Social Comparison....................................16 Social Media...........................................213 Social Phobias ........................................159 Son............................................................57 Son-In-Law...............................................59 Speed-Flick.............................................227 Spirituality................................................39 Spite........................................................279 Squamous Cell Carcinoma .......................98 Stalking...................................137, 207, 208 Stds .................................166, 248, 250, 251 Stepfather..................................................43 Stimulants...............................................188 Stingy......................................................279 Stockholm Syndrome .............................190 Story A-Personal Trainer..........................83 Story B-Annoying Drunk .......................131 Story C-Stockholm Syndrome................190 Story D-Male Scent ..................................88 Story E-Younger Women.......................141 Story F-The Boyfriend ...........................191 Story G-The Father.................................192 Story H-Incest.........................................195 Story I-Social Media...............................217 Story J-Bad Date.................................... 237 Story K-Sex Fail I.................................. 238 Story L-Sex Fail Ii ................................. 239 Story M-Foul Vagina............................. 256 Stress.......... 85, 93, 114, 115, 116, 117, 269 Stubbornness.......................................... 279 Sugar........................................ 77, 103, 105 Sullenness .............................................. 279 Survival.................................................... 34 T Table Etiquette....................................... 126 Table Manners ....................................... 128 Target Child........................................... 190 Ted Bundy ............................................. 196 Teeth .................. 66, 73, 74, 75, 76, 77, 226 Tenga Egg.............................................. 170 Terri Trespicio ....................................... 143 Testosterone........................................... 109 Thanatophobia ....................................... 159 Thoughtlessness..................................... 279 Tinea Versicolour .................................... 98 Treasonous............................................. 279 Tricky..................................................... 279 Trusting Mothers ................................... 191 Tryptophan Depletion............................ 106 Twisted .................................................. 279 Twitter.................. 6, 43, 125, 137, 156, 208 U Uncle........................................................ 59 Unfaithfulness........................................ 279 Unloving ................................................ 279 Unsatisfyherphobia................................ 161 Untrustworthiness.................................. 279 V Vagina.................................... 170, 241, 242 Vaginal Care .......................................... 253 Vaginal Penetration ............................... 250 Valine..................................................... 105 Vanity .................................................... 279 Vasectomy ............................................... 50 Video Games ......................................... 211 Vitamin .................................... 71, 106, 107 Vitamin .................................. 104, 106, 107
  • 11. Vitamin Deficiencies..............................106 Voyeurism ..............................................201 W Warts.........................................................98 Wastefulness...........................................280 Weakness................................................280 White Tie..................................................67 White Tongue ...........................................75 Whitfield Ointment...................................99 Wildness .................................................280 Womanalyzed.........................................142 Wrath ..............................................198, 280 Z Zealousness.............................................280 Zinc.....................................71, 83, 109, 161 Zoophilia.................................................201
  • 12. Content Index Dedication .................................................................................................................................... 2 Acknowledgement........................................................................................................................ 4 Preface.......................................................................................................................................... 5 Introduction ................................................................................................................................. 7 1 ACKNOWLEDGING THE CHANGE................................................................................ 9 1.1 What is change?............................................................................................................ 9 1.2 When do we change?.................................................................................................. 10 1.3 The Awareness of the Change.................................................................................... 11 1.3.1 Deciding the change ............................................................................................... 11 1.3.2 Involving Others..................................................................................................... 11 1.3.2.1 Feminine Input................................................................................................ 12 1.4 The Analysis of the change ........................................................................................ 14 1.5 Self-Concept ............................................................................................................... 15 1.5.1 Self-Ideal ................................................................................................................ 15 1.5.1.1 Social Comparisons ........................................................................................ 15 1.5.2 Self-Image .............................................................................................................. 16 1.5.3 Self-Esteem............................................................................................................. 16 2 EMOTIONAL .................................................................................................................... 18 2.1 Emotional Intelligence in Action................................................................................ 18 2.1.1 Increasing Emotional Intelligence.......................................................................... 18 3 MORAL CHARACTER..................................................................................................... 21 3.1 The Eight Pillars of Character .................................................................................... 21 3.2 Ethical Behaviour ....................................................................................................... 21 3.3 Unethical Behaviour................................................................................................... 22 3.3.1 The self in the regulation of behaviour................................................................... 22 3.3.2 Causes for dishonest behaviour .............................................................................. 23 3.3.3 Moral disengagement and immoral behaviour ....................................................... 24 4 INTELLECTUAL.............................................................................................................. 27 4.1 The Mechanic versus the Academic........................................................................... 28 4.2 Knowledge.................................................................................................................. 28 4.2.1 Innovating Knowledge Area................................................................................... 30 4.2.2 Nurturing & Growing Knowledge Area................................................................. 30 4.2.3 Expressive Knowledge Area .................................................................................. 31 4.2.4 Building & Organizing Knowledge Area............................................................... 32 4.2.5 Adventuring Knowledge Area................................................................................ 33 4.2.6 Healing & Teaching Knowledge Area ................................................................... 33
  • 13. 4.2.7 Scientific Knowledge Area..................................................................................... 33 4.2.8 Administrative Knowledge Area............................................................................ 34 4.2.9 Guiding Knowledge Area....................................................................................... 34 4.3 Skills........................................................................................................................... 35 4.4 Attitude....................................................................................................................... 35 5 FINANCIAL ...................................................................................................................... 36 6 SPIRITUAL ....................................................................................................................... 38 6.1.1 Knowing how spirituality differs from religion. .................................................... 39 6.1.2 Religion and spirituality can blend beautifully....................................................... 39 6.1.3 The Atheist ............................................................................................................. 40 6.1.4 Observations ........................................................................................................... 40 6.1.5 Conclusion.............................................................................................................. 40 7 FAMILY............................................................................................................................. 41 7.1 As a Father.................................................................................................................. 41 7.1.1 As a Stepfather........................................................................................................ 42 7.1.2 As a Grand Father................................................................................................... 43 7.1.3 As a God Father...................................................................................................... 43 7.1.4 Fathering your daughter.......................................................................................... 44 7.1.5 Fathering your son.................................................................................................. 44 7.1.6 Abortion.................................................................................................................. 45 7.1.6.1 Definition........................................................................................................ 45 7.1.6.2 When Is Medical Abortion Used? .................................................................. 45 7.1.6.3 How the Medications Work............................................................................ 45 7.1.6.4 How Long Do Medical Abortions Take? ....................................................... 46 7.1.6.5 During and After a Medical Abortion ............................................................ 46 7.1.6.6 Possible Complications................................................................................... 47 7.1.6.7 Follow-Up Care .............................................................................................. 48 7.1.6.8 Anti-Abortion Propaganda About Medical Abortion..................................... 48 7.1.7 Conclusion.............................................................................................................. 48 7.1.7.1 Vasectomy ...................................................................................................... 49 7.1.7.2 Abstinence ...................................................................................................... 53 7.2 As a Son...................................................................................................................... 56 7.2.1 Mummy’s little boy ................................................................................................ 56 7.2.1.1 As a son-in-law............................................................................................... 58 7.3 As a Brother................................................................................................................ 58 7.3.1 As a Brother-in-Law............................................................................................... 58 7.4 As an Uncle ................................................................................................................ 58 7.4.1 How to be an awesome uncle ................................................................................. 59 7.5 As a Lover .................................................................................................................. 59
  • 14. 7.6 As a Friend.................................................................................................................. 59 7.7 As an Employee and Colleague.................................................................................. 60 7.8 Losing your family ..................................................................................................... 62 8 PHYSICAL......................................................................................................................... 64 8.1 Physical Attractiveness............................................................................................... 64 8.2 Fashion........................................................................................................................ 65 8.2.1 Dress codes in effect............................................................................................... 65 8.2.1.1 White Tie ........................................................................................................ 66 8.2.1.2 Black Tie/Formal............................................................................................ 66 8.2.1.3 Lounge Suit..................................................................................................... 66 8.2.1.4 Cocktail........................................................................................................... 66 8.2.1.5 Business Attire................................................................................................ 66 8.2.1.6 Smart Casual................................................................................................... 67 8.2.1.7 Casual ............................................................................................................. 67 8.2.1.8 Not Accepted Attire........................................................................................ 67 9 MEDICAL.......................................................................................................................... 69 9.1.1 Hair ......................................................................................................................... 70 9.1.2 Facial Skin .............................................................................................................. 70 9.1.3 Eyes ........................................................................................................................ 70 9.1.4 Facial Hair .............................................................................................................. 71 9.1.5 Mouth...................................................................................................................... 71 9.1.5.1 Bad breath....................................................................................................... 71 9.1.5.2 White tongue................................................................................................... 74 9.1.5.3 Care of the teeth.............................................................................................. 74 9.1.5.4 Care of the lips................................................................................................ 76 9.1.6 Ear........................................................................................................................... 77 9.1.6.1 Cleaning your ears.......................................................................................... 78 9.1.6.2 Illness and Medications .................................................................................. 78 9.1.6.3 Noise............................................................................................................... 78 9.1.6.4 Safety Issues ................................................................................................... 79 9.1.6.5 General Care................................................................................................... 79 9.1.7 Muscles................................................................................................................... 80 9.1.7.1 Story A-Personal trainer ................................................................................. 82 9.1.8 Arms ....................................................................................................................... 82 9.1.9 Butt ......................................................................................................................... 83 9.1.10 Penis.................................................................................................................... 83 9.1.10.1 Impotence ....................................................................................................... 83 9.1.11 Body Odour ........................................................................................................ 84 9.1.11.1 What causes body odour?............................................................................... 84 9.1.11.2 How can I reduce body odor?......................................................................... 85
  • 15. 9.1.11.3 How can I enhance body odour? .................................................................... 85 9.1.11.4 Story D-Male scent......................................................................................... 86 9.1.12 Heart ................................................................................................................... 87 9.1.12.1 Do not smoke or use tobacco.......................................................................... 88 9.1.12.2 Get regular health screenings ......................................................................... 88 9.1.12.3 Maintain a healthy weight .............................................................................. 89 9.1.12.4 Eat a heart-healthy diet................................................................................... 89 9.1.12.5 Exercise for 30 minutes .................................................................................. 89 9.1.13 Liver.................................................................................................................... 90 9.1.13.1 Symptoms of liver problems........................................................................... 90 9.1.13.2 Healthy Liver Tips.......................................................................................... 91 9.1.13.3 Liver Detoxification ....................................................................................... 91 9.1.13.3.1 Liver detoxification preparation................................................................ 92 9.1.14 Kidney ................................................................................................................ 93 9.1.14.1 Kidney failure facts ........................................................................................ 93 9.1.14.2 Kidney cleansing ............................................................................................ 94 9.1.15 Skin..................................................................................................................... 95 9.1.15.1 Skin Conditions .............................................................................................. 95 9.1.15.2 Skin Treatments.............................................................................................. 97 9.1.16 Intestines............................................................................................................. 98 9.1.16.1 Intestine Treatments ....................................................................................... 98 9.1.17 Male Nutrition .................................................................................................... 99 9.1.17.1.1 My diet plan............................................................................................... 99 9.1.17.2 Nutrition and behaviour................................................................................ 100 9.1.17.3 Carbohydrates............................................................................................... 106 9.1.17.4 Proteins ......................................................................................................... 106 9.1.17.5 Healthy Fats.................................................................................................. 106 9.1.17.6 Putting It All Together.................................................................................. 106 9.1.17.7 Testosterone boosting nutrition .................................................................... 107 9.1.17.8 Lowering your Estrogen levels..................................................................... 108 10 MENTAL.......................................................................................................................... 110 10.1.1 Mental Health Assessment ............................................................................... 110 10.1.2 Stress................................................................................................................. 111 10.1.2.1 How do you respond to stress?..................................................................... 112 10.1.2.2 Signs and symptoms of stress overload........................................................ 112 10.1.2.3 How much stress is too much? ..................................................................... 113 10.1.2.4 Causes of stress............................................................................................. 114 10.1.2.4.1 Common external causes of stress........................................................... 114 10.1.2.4.2 Common internal causes of stress ........................................................... 114 10.1.2.5 Dealing with stress and its symptoms........................................................... 114
  • 16. 10.1.2.6 Learn how to manage stress.......................................................................... 114 10.1.2.6.1 Avoid unnecessary stress......................................................................... 115 10.1.2.6.2 Alter the situation .................................................................................... 115 10.1.2.6.3 Adapt to the stressor ................................................................................ 116 10.1.2.6.4 Accept the things you can’t change......................................................... 116 10.1.2.6.5 Make time for fun and relaxation............................................................ 117 10.1.2.6.6 Adopt a healthy lifestyle.......................................................................... 117 10.1.2.6.7 Learn how to relax................................................................................... 118 10.1.2.6.8 Learn quick stress relief........................................................................... 118 10.1.3 Dealing with disorders...................................................................................... 118 10.1.3.1 Schizothymic ................................................................................................ 118 10.1.3.1.1 Hyperesthetic........................................................................................... 118 10.1.3.1.2 Anesthetic................................................................................................ 119 10.1.3.2 Cyclothymic.................................................................................................. 120 10.1.3.2.1 Depressive ............................................................................................... 120 10.1.3.2.2 Hypomanic .............................................................................................. 120 11 SOCIAL............................................................................................................................ 122 11.1.1 Behaviours at Social gatherings ....................................................................... 122 11.1.1.1 Table Etiquette.............................................................................................. 123 11.1.1.1.1 Making Restaurant Reservations:............................................................ 123 11.1.1.1.2 How to use napkins: ................................................................................ 123 11.1.1.1.3 When to start eating................................................................................. 123 11.1.1.1.4 Using your silverware and dinnerware.................................................... 124 11.1.1.2 Eating:........................................................................................................... 124 11.1.1.3 Table Manners .............................................................................................. 125 11.1.1.4 An Observation............................................................................................. 126 11.1.1.5 Story B-Annoying Drunk ............................................................................. 128 11.1.2 Relationships .................................................................................................... 128 11.1.2.1 As a Friend and Lover .................................................................................. 131 11.1.2.2 Past Relationships......................................................................................... 132 11.1.2.3 The Pilot Fish................................................................................................ 134 11.1.2.4 Courtship ...................................................................................................... 134 11.1.2.5 Dating younger women ................................................................................ 136 11.1.2.5.1 Story E-Younger women......................................................................... 137 11.1.2.6 Dating older women ..................................................................................... 139 11.1.2.6.1 Reasons for dating older women ............................................................. 139 11.1.2.7 The Extramarital Relationship...................................................................... 142 11.1.2.7.1 Extramarital Relationship Exposed......................................................... 142 11.1.2.7.2 Justification of an Extramarital Relationship .......................................... 143 11.1.2.7.3 Open marriage ......................................................................................... 144
  • 17. 11.1.2.8 Jealousy ........................................................................................................ 145 11.1.2.9 Jealous and Abusive ..................................................................................... 146 11.1.2.10 Domestic Violence ................................................................................... 147 11.1.2.11 The Abused Man ...................................................................................... 149 11.1.2.12 The Abused Woman ................................................................................. 151 11.1.2.13 Managing Breakups.................................................................................. 152 11.2 Acceptance............................................................................................................ 154 12 MANAGING FEARS ...................................................................................................... 155 12.1 Recognizing your fears......................................................................................... 155 12.2 Phobias.................................................................................................................. 155 12.2.1 Symptoms of Phobias ....................................................................................... 155 12.2.2 Types of Phobias .............................................................................................. 155 12.2.3 Treatments for Phobias..................................................................................... 157 12.2.3.1 Homophobia ................................................................................................. 157 12.2.3.2 SmallCockophobia........................................................................................ 158 12.2.3.3 UnsatisfyHerphobia...................................................................................... 158 12.2.4 Prostate Cancer................................................................................................. 159 12.2.4.1 Prostate Cancer Prevention........................................................................... 160 12.2.5 Sexually Transmitted Diseases......................................................................... 162 12.2.6 Handling Cowardice......................................................................................... 163 12.2.6.1 Signs of cowardice........................................................................................ 163 12.2.6.2 Advice on handling cowardice ..................................................................... 164 12.2.7 Premature Ejaculation....................................................................................... 164 12.2.7.1 Causes of Premature Ejaculation.................................................................. 164 12.2.7.2 Techniques in preventing.............................................................................. 165 12.2.7.2.1 The pelvic muscles-................................................................................. 165 12.2.7.2.2 Start-stop method..................................................................................... 165 12.2.7.2.3 Masturbation............................................................................................ 166 12.2.7.2.4 Sex positions............................................................................................ 167 12.2.7.2.5 Other treatments ...................................................................................... 167 13 MANAGING VICES ....................................................................................................... 169 13.1 Gambling .............................................................................................................. 169 13.1.1 Problem gambling,............................................................................................ 169 13.1.2 Curing gambling............................................................................................... 169 13.2 Alcoholism............................................................................................................ 170 13.2.1 Alcohol abuse ................................................................................................... 170 13.2.2 Alcohol dependence ......................................................................................... 171 13.2.3 Signs and Symptoms of Alcoholism ................................................................ 171 13.2.3.1 Early Signs of a Problem.............................................................................. 171 13.2.3.2 Symptoms of Alcohol Abuse........................................................................ 171
  • 18. 13.2.3.3 Symptoms of Alcoholism ............................................................................. 172 13.2.3.4 Treatment and drugs ..................................................................................... 172 13.3 Pornography.......................................................................................................... 173 13.3.1 Some signs of porn addiction ........................................................................... 174 13.3.2 Attacking the addiction..................................................................................... 175 13.4 Masturbation......................................................................................................... 175 13.5 Infidelity ............................................................................................................... 177 13.5.1 Causes of Infidelity........................................................................................... 178 13.5.2 How to deal with Infidelity............................................................................... 178 13.5.3 Warning Signs of Infidelity.............................................................................. 179 13.6 Drug Abuse & Addiction...................................................................................... 179 13.6.1 Understanding drug use/abuse/addiction.......................................................... 180 13.6.2 Why do some drug users become addicted?..................................................... 180 13.6.3 Drug addiction and the brain ............................................................................ 180 13.6.4 How drug abuse and addiction can develop. .................................................... 181 13.6.5 Myths about Drug Abuse and Addiction.......................................................... 182 13.6.6 Signs, symptoms of drug abuse and addiction ................................................. 182 13.6.6.1 Signs and symptoms of drug abuse .............................................................. 182 13.6.6.2 Signs and symptoms of drug addiction......................................................... 183 13.6.7 Warning signs that you are abusing drugs........................................................ 183 13.6.7.1 Physical warning signs of drug abuse........................................................... 183 13.6.7.2 Behavioural signs of drug abuse................................................................... 184 13.6.7.3 Psychological warning signs of drug abuse.................................................. 184 13.6.8 Warning Signs of Commonly Abused Drugs................................................... 184 13.7 Paedophilia ........................................................................................................... 185 13.7.1 Characteristics of a Paedophile: ....................................................................... 185 13.7.2 Paedophilic preferences.................................................................................... 186 13.7.3 The Target Child:.............................................................................................. 186 13.7.4 Manipulation of the Innocent: .......................................................................... 186 13.7.5 Stockholm syndrome:....................................................................................... 187 13.7.5.1 Story C-Stockholm syndrome ...................................................................... 187 13.7.6 The Single-Parent Home .................................................................................. 187 13.7.6.1 The Trusting Mothers ................................................................................... 187 13.7.6.1.1 Story F-The Boyfriend ............................................................................ 187 13.7.6.1.2 Story G-The Father.................................................................................. 188 13.7.6.1.3 My 1st Warning,....................................................................................... 188 13.7.6.1.4 My 2nd Warning,...................................................................................... 189 13.7.7 Fighting Back ................................................................................................... 189 13.8 Incest..................................................................................................................... 189 13.8.1 A thorough definition of Incest ........................................................................ 190
  • 19. 13.8.2 The negative effects of incest ........................................................................... 190 13.8.3 Treatment for Incest Perpetrators .................................................................... 191 13.8.4 Story H-Incest................................................................................................... 191 13.9 Rape...................................................................................................................... 192 13.9.1 Understanding the Perpetrator.......................................................................... 192 13.9.1.1 Personality Characteristics: .......................................................................... 192 13.9.1.2 Observations from research conducted......................................................... 193 13.9.2 Treatment of the rape perpetrator ..................................................................... 193 13.10 The Capital Vices Vs Virtues ............................................................................... 194 13.10.1 Seven Deadly sins............................................................................................. 194 13.10.2 Seven heavenly virtues ..................................................................................... 195 14 MANAGING HABITS..................................................................................................... 196 14.1 Perversion ............................................................................................................. 197 14.1.1 Causes of perversion......................................................................................... 197 14.1.2 Am I a pervert?................................................................................................. 198 14.1.3 Steps in addressing perversion ......................................................................... 198 14.2 Sexual Harassment ............................................................................................... 199 14.3 Sex discrimination................................................................................................ 200 14.4 Sexism .................................................................................................................. 200 14.5 Misogyny.............................................................................................................. 201 14.5.1 Misogynistic signs ............................................................................................ 201 14.6 Stalking................................................................................................................. 203 14.6.1 Stalking Can Become Violent .......................................................................... 204 14.6.2 The Female Stalker........................................................................................... 204 14.7 Snacking non-stop, even when not hungry........................................................... 205 14.8 Too much TV........................................................................................................ 206 14.9 Overindulgence in Video Games.......................................................................... 207 14.9.1 Where's the Harm?............................................................................................ 208 14.9.2 Addiction Warning Signs ................................................................................. 208 14.9.3 Treatment.......................................................................................................... 208 14.10 Overindulgence in Sports ..................................................................................... 209 14.11 Indulgence in Social Media .................................................................................. 209 14.11.1 Story I-Social Media......................................................................................... 213 14.12 Overspending your way into debt......................................................................... 213 14.13 Eating too much fast food..................................................................................... 214 14.14 Skipping breakfast. ............................................................................................... 215 14.15 Smoking cigarettes. .............................................................................................. 216 14.16 Overusing painkillers and sedatives. .................................................................... 217 14.17 Clownism.............................................................................................................. 219 14.17.1 Reversing Clownism......................................................................................... 220
  • 20. 14.18 Bodily Etiquette.................................................................................................... 221 14.19 Talkative Man....................................................................................................... 223 14.20 Gossiping.............................................................................................................. 224 14.21 Judging Others...................................................................................................... 227 14.21.1 Fighting the urge to judge................................................................................. 228 15 MANAGING SEXPECTATIONS................................................................................... 231 15.1 PreCourse.............................................................................................................. 231 15.1.1 Story J-Bad Date............................................................................................... 233 15.1.2 Sex Anticipation Fail........................................................................................ 234 15.1.2.1 Story K-Sex Fail I......................................................................................... 234 15.1.2.2 Story L-Sex Fail II........................................................................................ 235 15.2 OuterCourse.......................................................................................................... 236 15.2.1 Oral Sex ............................................................................................................ 236 15.3 InterCourse ........................................................................................................... 238 15.3.1 Sexual Positions................................................................................................ 240 15.3.2 Intercourse during menstruation....................................................................... 243 15.3.3 Anal Sex ........................................................................................................... 243 15.3.4 Pregnancy and STDs ........................................................................................ 246 15.4 AfterCourse .......................................................................................................... 246 15.4.1 The AfterCourse Survey................................................................................... 246 15.4.2 The Regrets....................................................................................................... 247 15.4.3 Vaginal Care..................................................................................................... 248 15.4.3.1 Tips for a healthier Vagina ........................................................................... 248 15.4.3.2 Story M-Foul Vagina.................................................................................... 250 16 IMPLEMENTING CHANGE......................................................................................... 252 16.1 Manalysis of Alfred.............................................................................................. 252 16.1.1 Methodology..................................................................................................... 252 16.2 Conclusions .......................................................................................................... 254 16.3 Recommendations ................................................................................................ 254 16.3.1 Further recommendations................................................................................. 257 16.4 Expectations.......................................................................................................... 257 Appendices ............................................................................................................................... 259 Appendix I: Personal Budget Sheet.................................................................................. 259 Appendix II: Weekly schedule incorporating change ...................................................... 263 Appendix III-Guidelines for MHSF-III............................................................................ 264 Appendix III- List of Vices .............................................................................................. 268 Bibliography............................................................................................................................. 275