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BASIC
SEDUCTION
By Lorenzo Martini
What Every Man Should Know
Before Reading “Advanced”
Seduction Methods
and Techniques

Table of Contents
TABLE OF CONTENTS .......................................................................................4
INTRODUCTION ................................................................................................10
The Odds to Meet the Perfect Woman ..................................................................................................... 10
METHODS TO MEET WOMEN..........................................................................11
How to Attract Single Women................................................................................................................... 11
Running Personal Ads................................................................................................................................ 11
A Great Letter to Use to Attract ............................................................................................................... 12
Single Women in the Personals ................................................................................................................. 12
Great personal ads to use to attract single women like crazy................................................................. 14
How to Use Your Friends, Acquaintances, Relatives and Co-Workers to Help You Meet, Date, and
Seduce Hot & Sexy Single Women............................................................................................................ 15
PLACES WHERE TO MEET WOMEN...............................................................16
How to Attract Single Women for Romance at Work............................................................................. 16
How to Pick Up Hot & Sexy Beautiful Single Women at the Beach ...................................................... 17
How to Flirt With Single Sexy Women in Bars and Nightclubs............................................................. 19
How to Meet & Pick Up Hot & Sexy Single Women at Swimming Pools.............................................. 20
How to Overcome Your Shyness When Approaching Single Women in Nightclubs ........................... 21
How to Meet Lonely, Hot & Sexy Businesswomen in Hotels.................................................................. 23
How to Use Gymnastics and Tumbling Skills to Meet Tons of Hot & Sexy Single Women ................ 24
Where to Meet Single Women During the Holidays ............................................................................... 25
Worst Places to Meet Single Women ........................................................................................................ 26
MIND TRAINING ................................................................................................27
How to Handle Rejection From Women .................................................................................................. 27
Overcoming Your Fear Of Rejection........................................................................................................ 28
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Misconceived Belief of Shy Men When Meeting Single Women ............................................................ 29
The Myth of the Line - Rejection .............................................................................................................. 30
Style - Your Smile....................................................................................................................................... 31
Why You Should Consider Dating & Pursuing Relationships ............................................................... 32
Why You Should Not Wear Masks When Meeting Single Women ....................................................... 33
You - Don't be a Weenie ............................................................................................................................ 34
Your Rap - Why Do People Love Oprah?................................................................................................ 35
Why Being Short Should Not Interfere With You Meeting, Dating, Attracting Single Women for
Romance...................................................................................................................................................... 36
BODY TRAINING ...............................................................................................39
Clothing....................................................................................................................................................... 39
Exercise ....................................................................................................................................................... 40
Be Civil in Your Suit - Mister Manners Scores Points............................................................................ 41
HYGENE.............................................................................................................42
Are You Aware That Bad Breath Can Prevent You From Scoring With Single Women?.................. 42
Top 10 Colognes that women find irresistible on a man......................................................................... 44
BODY LANGUAGE SIGNS................................................................................46
How to Tell if a Single Woman is Really Interested in You.................................................................... 46
10 Top Negative Body Languages Signs that Single Women Give to Indicate That She is Not
Interested in You ........................................................................................................................................ 48
OPENING LINES................................................................................................49
Dating Tips on How to Talk to Single Women......................................................................................... 49
Some Fall-Backs For Shy Men .................................................................................................................. 49
Opening lines............................................................................................................................................... 50
Effective Opening Lines............................................................................................................................. 51
Perfecting Your Opening Lines................................................................................................................. 54
Bad Opening Lines ..................................................................................................................................... 55
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Conversational Icebreakers....................................................................................................................... 56
She Loves You, She Loves You Not .......................................................................................................... 58
Conversing For Maximum Attraction...................................................................................................... 60
Don't Worry, Be Happy............................................................................................................................. 61
Personal Space............................................................................................................................................ 63
Advices on Flirting ..................................................................................................................................... 63
METHODS TO SEDUCE WOMEN.....................................................................67
How to Seduce Single Women Using Romantic Lighting ....................................................................... 67
How to Seduce Single Women With Candles, Incense, and Fireplaces ................................................. 68
How to Attract and Seduce Single Women With Poetry for Romance and Love................................. 69
How to Seduce Single Women With Food for Love and Romance ........................................................ 71
How to Attract Single Women With Fat Jokes........................................................................................ 72
How to Attract Single Women for Love and Romance Using Your Shoes............................................ 73
Why Acting Like You're Married Can Attract Single Women Like Crazy.......................................... 74
Tips on How to Use Your Bathroom to Attract Single Women.............................................................. 75
How to Make a Good Impression When Calling Single Women............................................................ 76
How to Attract Women.............................................................................................................................. 77
Should You Pursue Single Women With Lots of Experience?............................................................... 78
Dating Tips From a Single Woman's Point of View................................................................................ 79
Single lady giving advice on how to meet and attract single women...................................................... 80
The ABC'S of Summer Dating .................................................................................................................. 81
ASKING A WOMAN OUT ..................................................................................84
Getting The First Date ............................................................................................................................... 84
Ways to ask a girl out................................................................................................................................. 85
Asking Someone Out On A Date............................................................................................................... 86
Week Nights VS Weekends........................................................................................................................ 88
Ending The Date......................................................................................................................................... 89
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Great First Dates ........................................................................................................................................ 90
The Top 10 Places to Take Single Women on a First Date ..................................................................... 92
Cheap Dates: 10 Ways to Impress Her on a Dime................................................................................... 94
THINGS TO DO..................................................................................................96
10 Best Things to Do on a First Date to Attract Single Women ............................................................. 96
The Dating Process - Date Behavior ......................................................................................................... 97
How to Successfully Date Women............................................................................................................. 97
Dating Tips to Help You Succeed With Single Women......................................................................... 101
The Top 10 Dining Etiquette Tips to Impress Single Women When on a Dining Date...................... 102
The Importance Of Eye Contact............................................................................................................. 103
Pampering Her ......................................................................................................................................... 104
What To Do On Your First Date............................................................................................................. 105
CONVERSATION.............................................................................................107
Conversation Pitfalls to Avoid When Talking to Single Women.......................................................... 107
How to Talk to Single Women When on a Date..................................................................................... 107
A Good Talk/Listen Ratio........................................................................................................................ 108
Conversing For Maximum Attraction.................................................................................................... 109
Advice on Asking Single Women Personal Questions........................................................................... 110
What To Say?............................................................................................................................................ 111
KISSING ...........................................................................................................112
Art of Kissing Single Women on Your First Date ................................................................................. 112
How To Go About Kissing Her ............................................................................................................... 113
MISTAKES MEN MAKE...................................................................................116
Don't Make These Mistakes When Out on a First Date With Single Women .................................... 116
Don't Treat Your Date Like One of the Guys........................................................................................ 117
Bad Vocabulary Habits That Can Cost You Dates With Single Women ............................................ 118
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The Biggest Mistakes Men Make ............................................................................................................ 119
Dumb Dating Mistakes Men Make ......................................................................................................... 120
OTHER STUFF – DATING ...............................................................................121
Dating problems and solutions................................................................................................................ 121
How Can You Tell if a Woman Likes You or Not? ............................................................................... 123
How to Get Phone Numbers From Single Women and How to Tell If She's Giving You a Phony
Number...................................................................................................................................................... 124
A Few Words of Advice About Pornography and Dating Single Women........................................... 125
Dating Psychology .................................................................................................................................... 125
The Single Man's Astrological Guide to Single Women........................................................................ 126
WOMEN'S SEXUAL BEHAVIOR .....................................................................129
Women's Sexual and Seduction Power Over Single Men ..................................................................... 129
Are You Sometimes Confused by Women's Sexual Behavior? ............................................................ 130
How to Tell When Single Women Are in the Mood For Sex ................................................................ 131
Reading A Single Woman's Sexy Signals ............................................................................................... 131
Recognizing Arousal................................................................................................................................. 132
Women's Sexuality and Sensuality ......................................................................................................... 133
WHAT TURNS SINGLE WOMEN ON..............................................................135
What turns single women on ................................................................................................................... 135
How to Turn Single Women on Sexually................................................................................................ 135
Excitation Techniques.............................................................................................................................. 136
ABOUT SEX.....................................................................................................139
Sex - When? .............................................................................................................................................. 139
Should You Have Sex With Single Women Early in a Relationship?.................................................. 139
Sex on the First Date ................................................................................................................................ 140
Sexual Advice on How to Make Love to Single Women........................................................................ 145
She's probably not sexually attracted to you.......................................................................................... 146
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THE WAY TO BREAK UP WITH HER.............................................................147
Breaking Up Is Hard To Do .................................................................................................................... 147
Feelings Of Guilt....................................................................................................................................... 148
Breakup Speech ........................................................................................................................................ 148
SHE DUMPS YOU............................................................................................150
She dumps you.......................................................................................................................................... 150
Getting her back ....................................................................................................................................... 151
POST BREAKUP ADVICE...............................................................................152
Post Breakup Advice................................................................................................................................ 152
Ex Girlfriend Survival Guide.................................................................................................................. 153
RECOGNIZING AND AVOIDING TRAPS ........................................................156
Games Single Women Play to Test You ................................................................................................. 156
Don't Be a Victim of the Pregnancy Trap!............................................................................................. 157
Are You Staying in a Bad Relationship Just to Have a Woman?......................................................... 158
Are You Spoiling Your Chances for Love and Romance?.................................................................... 158
Be on the Lookout for Single Women Who Use You for Financial Purposes ..................................... 159
Freedom..................................................................................................................................................... 160
"I know just the girl for you!" ................................................................................................................ 160
Should You Date Commitaphobic Single Women?............................................................................... 161
Why You Should Avoid Women Who Flirt & Power Single Women.................................................. 162
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Introduction
The Odds to Meet the Perfect
Woman
The reality is that there are thousands, perhaps millions of single women who would
work out just fine as dates or long term commitments. It is a matter of compromise,
readiness, need and circumstance. You must realize that you don't end up with the
absolute best choice available for a girlfriend or a wife.
If you look at it in statistical terms, there must be thousands of single women who have
more to offer. You just don't have the time and resources to meet them all. Picture it as a
major event like a college football game. You have one afternoon and about 20,000
available women. How many can you get to know well enough to ask out for Saturday
night? OK, all analogies leak, but you get the point.
So with luck, you could hope to date less than 100 single girls during your bachelor-
hood. (We're being generous.) With luck, the average man will experience a dozen or so
"relationships" lasting more than a couple weeks. One or two of these will result in
marriages. Maybe. Are you depressed? Don't be - these are just the facts. Check with
your older friends and relatives for verification. (By the way, don't forget that single
women are also out there meeting, rejecting, accepting, dating and marrying guys
constantly - just to add to the confusion!)
Conclusion is that: "The Perfect Woman" doesn't exist. As I said, it is just a matter of
compromise, readiness, need and circumstance.
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Methods to Meet Women
How to Attract Single Women
Running Personal Ads
Here's a letter I used to respond to personal ads to successfully meet and attract women
like crazy:
Hi!
This letter is in response to your recent "personal" ad. Your ad really captured my
attention and you sound like someone I would really like to get to know better. In order
for you to get to know me better, here's a little bit about myself:
I am a single financially secure businessman, 1947 model, low mileage, high
performance. Bumped a few times, but never wrecked. Proven ability to hug the road and
not wander off course. Exterior in mint condition, warm, affectionate, sensitive interior,
never soiled. Factory equipped package includes stereo, humor, depth, imagination and
intelligence. Radio picks up all kinds of rock and classical. Spacious seats with plenty of
room for passenger...runs on high-octane fun and romance, lifetime supply included.
Available for inspection by female drivers only, prefer affectionate woman, no
dependents, eye-catching exterior, self-confident, intelligent, warm, sincere with sense of
humor and full set of tools.
I come from a close solid family, would like to have little Toyotas some day. Equipped
with nice endowment. Only driven once a week by little old lady to/from church. To
arrange test drive, please write or call me at xxx-xxxx-xxxx (anytime). HAPPY
MOTORING!
P.S. Feel free to modify this letter to use for yourself. Try it...it works like crazy!
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A Great Letter to Use to
Attract
Single Women in the Personals
I highly recommend that you play the personals for dating, love, sex, and romance. And
when you answer a woman's ad for the first time here's a great letter to use. Just edit it to
use for yourself. This letter will really make a good impression on single women and
make her want to write you back. Try it, it works!:
Dear...
Let's become good friends, then...Hope for a beautiful relationship.
I feel that before we can have a good relationship, we must put forth the energy and time
it takes to first become good friends. Friendship is one of the most important building
blocks of a good relationship. To me, friends are like flowers in the garden of life.
My desire is to meet a beautiful, sensitive, sensuous, warm, assertive single lady who
wants a friend. My interpretation of a friend is one to whom you can pour out all the
contents of your heart, chaff and grain together, knowing that the gentleness of hands
will take it all, sift it, keep that which is worth keeping and, with a breath of kindness,
blow the rest away. I thank you in advance for allowing me to be that kind of friend to
you.
If you feel it would be good for us to meet, write and tell me more about yourself. And
please have good thoughts about our further relationship, for thoughts are like seeds. All
the flowers of all the tomorrows are in the seed of today.
Let me tell you about myself. I am divorced (four years ago), Caucasian, dark brown
hair, blue eyes, 6' 3", trim 175 lbs., clean-cut and a healthy gentleman. I am self-
sufficient, handsome, self-employed (businessman), happy, secure, self-confident,
psychologically aware, emotionally and financially secure.
I love poetry, books, walks on the beach and cozy candlelight dinners. I enjoy movies,
television, music, traveling, the desert, the quietness of the mountains, the ocean, sunrises
and sunsets.
I am comfortable in jeans or a nice Italian suit. A nonsmoker/drinker, not into drugs
(don't need them; I live in a natural high). I believe in enjoying the good life and am high
on it. I have a healthy attitude about God and the Bible.
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I am not a game player. I never want personal happiness at the expense of someone else.
If we have a single date or a lifetime together, I will never lie to you, try to manipulate
you or use you in any way. I am an incurable romantic who treasures, cherishes and
appreciates sincerity, integrity, honesty and warmth. I enjoy picnics, laughing, talking,
touching, affection and physical closeness. A good listener who enjoys mutual spoiling
and also I am a one-woman man.
I am looking for a special, loving relationship with a unique lady who is affectionate,
beautiful, slender, with a shapely figure, sincere, easygoing, with interests and
characteristics similar to mine...someone who wants a meaningful, serious, long-term
relationship...not just a few dates. Are you that special lady?
All it will take to find out whether or not things might work between you and me is a 32-
cent stamp and five minutes of your time to write me a letter. Physical attraction to me is
as important as the other things I have mentioned. Please send a recent photo (not over
one year old) of yourself. I will send my recent photo when I answer your letter. I would
also appreciate you sending your phone number.
Well, what do you think? Isn't this a great letter! You could also use this for online
personals too. The next step is up to you...Try the personals, they sure worked for me!
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Great personal ads to use to
attract single women like crazy
I want to share with you some great personal ads to use to attract single women like crazy
and increase your responses to personal ads that you place in singles publications, on the
net, newspapers, etc. Try these ads (just fill in the blanks for your personal data and the
kind of single women you are looking for) guys and I'm sure you will be pleased with the
results:
Handsome SWM, 40, slender Hare seeking cute little bunny 25-35, romantic and slender
to share my carrots with. Let's hop all over town and have some good times and have a
hare-raising experience. If you like to lay in clover and nibble, a plus.
Good Morning My Lovely. My name is George. I'm a SWM, 6', with a muscular build. I
have been told that I am very nice-looking, sensitive, communicate well, and fun to be
with. I feel 35 (but I'm not). I also act as though I enjoy single life (but I don't). What I am
is 45 and tired of playing games. What I want is to be able to find someone to share those
experiences in life which are best when shared. It would be nice if you were as beautiful
physically as you are emotionally. However, the important word is "sincerity" and a
willingness to give 100% in a relationship (as I am). I hope that we can become friends,
that you're a non-smoker, and that you'll be considerate enough to send a recent photo.
In the meantime, smile, and remember: Happiness is something we do deserve.
Have Life Will Share - Have hands, will hold. Have arms, will cuddle. Have ears, will
listen. Have mind, will communicate. Have imagination, will share. Have heart, will give.
SWM, 40, slender, 6' 1", 200 lbs. In search of SWF, 25-35, slender, romantic and
affectionate, who has as much to give.
'70 Coupe - Sports Sleek White Body. Comes with black flat top, looks great at 170,
stands 5' 11" and loaded. One owner is non-smoking, degreed professional male. Seeking
attractive female buyer, 25-35 who knows an exceptional deal. Lease/Purchase options
available. Write for complete details.
Big-hearted Teddy Bear - DWM, 46, 6' 2", 240 lbs. Some of life's pleasures for me are
cooking, working on cars, fishing, camping, traveling. I love holding hands, sending
flowers, good music of all kinds, and long talks by the fireplace. I'm looking for that one
special lady who shares my respect for honesty, openness, and the need for
communication. A lot of good loving is being wasted here.
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How to Use Your Friends,
Acquaintances, Relatives and
Co-Workers to Help You Meet,
Date, and Seduce Hot & Sexy
Single Women
Here's a great networking system for you to meet, date, attract, and seduce more hot &
sexy single women for some love, sex, and romance. Here's what you need to do to
improve your love and sex life:
On a 8 1/2 x 11 sheet of paper, make a list of all your friends, acquaintances, relatives,
and co-workers. The form for your list should look like this:
Friends....................Acquaintances.....................Relatives.............................Co-Workers
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
6.
7.
8.
9.
10.
Now, just fill in the blanks on this form and get in touch with these people and simply
make this statement: "I am expanding my social circle of female friends. Could you
introduce me to some of your single female friends?"
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Try this networking system and you just might be surprised at all the new sexy single
women you will meet for some love, sex, and romance. Lots of marriages have occurred
by meeting the opposite sex through other people and you just may find the "love of your
life" using this girl-getting system.
Places Where to Meet Women
How to Attract Single Women
for Romance at Work
At work, you see the same women, day after day. This situation favors the gradual
approach to enlarging your circle of single female acquaintances. If you are a bit leery of
asking to be introduced to someone you would like to meet, you can always practice a bit
of subtlety. Smile at her one day. See if she returns your smile. If so, you might make a
routine of exchanging smiles each morning and evening. Begin to wave 'hello' to her.
Finally, you may get to the point where you actually speak a few words to each other...
and things may continue from there. The advantage of this strategy is that either of you
can stop, or even retreat at any point in the progression without undue embarrassment or
trauma.
A workplace romance with a subordinate, or, worse yet, with a supervisor, can be risky. It
can interfere with the performance of your duties and jeopardize your advancement or
even continued tenure on the job. Making an advance toward a fellow employee (or
having one made toward you) may destabilize and upset the delicate relationships in your
working group. Exercise caution, or, at the very least, discretion.
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How to Pick Up Hot & Sexy
Beautiful Single Women at the
Beach
This is one of the more favorable and popular spots to meet single women for love, sex,
and romance. They are there for the taking. Take your pick! The beach provides a perfect
setting for meeting hot & sexy single women. It's a casual and relaxed atmosphere and
most of the women are friendly. It's just simply a matter of approaching them and talking
to them. That's all there is to it.
A lot of guys make the mistake of going to the beach and just stare at women and they
stroll up and down the beach not even smiling or saying, "Hi" to women as they walk
along. They don't even stop to talk to a girl that catches their eye. They just don't have the
guts to approach them. What's really sad is that these women are there to have a good
time and attract the opposite sex. Why do you think they wear those skimpy bathing
suits? It's to turn you on and show off their bodies.
So be bold and aggressive and you'll be surprised how easy it is to meet and pick up
single women at the beach. Now, I will describe some important techniques and
strategies to use at the beach. Use them and you can't fail and you will have the summer
of your life!
It's important how you dress for the beach. Dress well and don't just wear a pair of old
cut-offs with holes in them. Wear a nice designer bathing suit like you see in Playboy or
GQ magazines. Also, while not sunning, wear a shirt or pullover appropriate for the
beach such as a tank top or colorful T-shirt. Invest in some nice attractive sunglasses (not
the cheap kind). Try on several different styles and select the one that makes you look
unique and different.
Now, you'll be all decked out for the beach and you'll stand out from the rest of the
ordinary guys. What this means is that you'll attract the attention of all the hot & sexy
beautiful women and that's exactly what you are striving for.
You should bring some very important equipment that you'll use in meeting and picking
up single women at the beach. These are as follows:
ICE CHEST - This is your most important item. Fill it with beer, wine,
mixed drinks in a can and soft drinks. You'll use this to offer a girl a drink
when you've approached a girl.
BLANKET - Bring a blanket big enough for you and a girl to lay on.
Make sure it's clean and attractive and not old and smelly.
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FRISBEE, VOLLEYBALL, BEACH BALL, FOOTBALL - With these
you can approach a girl and ask, "Want to play?"
RADIO - This comes in handy. What to do is lay near a girl or group of
single girls and turn on your radio. Then you ask, "What station would you
like to hear?" This opens the door for further conversation and
opportunities to get to know a girl and make your moves.
BODY SURFING BOARD - These are known as boogie boards. They
are inexpensive and made of styrofoam. Buy two of them. Approach a girl
and ask if she'd like to do some body surfing. You can buy these at Toys
R' Us.
SURFBOARD - If you do surf this can be an advantage in meeting single
women. Some girls are very attracted to surfers. Most girls don't know
how to surf and have never even been on a surfboard. If you do surf, all
you have to do is approach a girl and ask her, "would you like to learn
how to surf?" If you don't know how to surf, you can always fake it. It will
be a lot of fun trying anyway.
SUNTAN OIL - Here's one that will always work. Approach a girl you
are attracted to and ask her, "Would you rub some suntan oil on my
back?" You'll never get turned down (as a general rule) and it really feels
good having a girl rubbing your back.
While walking on the beach looking for single girls for romance, when a girl catches your
eye, give her a warm smile and say, "Hi." If she responds, whatever you do don't keep
walking by. Stop immediately and start talking to her. Invite her over to your blanket and
offer her something to drink or you can invite her to go in the water. Also, you can ask
her if she wants to play some beach sports such as frisbee, volleyball, beach ball, body
surfing, etc.
If you pass a girl that you're interested in and she has her eyes closed, just approach her
and say, "Weren't you on the cover of Cosmo?" She will be flattered and this opens up a
conversation.
In conclusion, I hope I've given you some new ideas you have never thought of before on
how to meet and pick up hot & sexy beautiful single women at the beach. Happy
Hunting!
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How to Flirt With Single Sexy
Women in Bars and Nightclubs
While you are cruising the nightclub, keep you flirting eyes out for the woman that is
alone. She is usually the easiest to meet and attract. She is there for a reason and you can
be the lucky man to fulfill that reason.
Also while walking, keep that sexy-looking gleam in your eye. Literally try to melt
women with your eyes. If you make eye contact with a woman, make sure you give her a
friendly smile and if she is close enough to you, simply say,"Hi." That is all it takes and
with practice it will come easy.
If you make contact with some woman across the way from you and she turns away, don't
give up on her. Try to make eye contact again and smile at her. If she smiles back,
approach her immediately! This is an opportunity that must not be passed up because it's
an open invitation for you to come over and introduce yourself or ask her to dance.
Whatever you do, don't stare at a woman. This is impolite and nobody likes to be stared
at. Just look at her long enough to make it quite clear that you see her and then
immediately look away. What you are saying with your eyes when you look at her this
way is, "I know you are there and I would not dream of invading your privacy." Just keep
looking at her off and on until you establish some meaningful eye contact and exchange
smiles. So, there you have it, the art of flirting.
What really amazes me is these guys at the nightclubs that don't even flirt with women.
They just stare into space or look down at the floor. If they do accidently catch the eye of
a woman, they look away as quickly as possible and let it go at that. They just don't know
what they are missing and what they are missing out on is meeting women the easy way.
So my friend, if you're like this, make it a point to stop staring into space and start flirting
with women. Flirt with every woman in sight. It's a lot of fun and you will be attracting
more women than ever before.
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How to Meet & Pick Up Hot &
Sexy Single Women at
Swimming Pools
Swimming pools are one of the greatest places to meet all those hot & sexy single women
in those skimpy bikinis you've been dreaming about. I'm going to be talking mainly about
swimming pools at apartments, condos, country clubs, resorts, hotels and motels.
Here's the techniques I used successfully to meet and pick up hot & sexy beautiful single
women at the pool:
You're going to need some very important equipment. Your appearance is also very
important and you want to make a good impression upon entering the pool area. I would
suggest wearing a pair of stylish swimming trunks. GQ, Playboy, and Penthouse
magazines offer some good examples. Also, I would suggest wearing some nice thongs,
sun glasses, an unusual hat, and a Hawaiian or surfer shirt. The idea is to create a refined
look and not to look like a bum.
Your most important item to bring with you is your ice chest. Stock it with an assortment
of liquor. I'd suggest some beer, wine, coke, and pre-made mixed drinks that come in
cans you can purchase at your local liquor store. Don't forget the plastic bar glasses!
Also, bring your inflatable air mattress and an extra one if possible, and a good-sounding
radio.
OK, now you're looking the part and you've got all your attraction ammunition with you.
Let's take it step-by-step using these proven techniques:
You've entered the pool area. Make a complete circle around the pool to check out the
available women. While you're walking and you catch the eye of a female you're attracted
to, instantly remark, "Hi" or "Hello" or "It sure is a pretty day isn't it?" If you get a
response, keep walking and make a circle and come back to her.
When you return ask her, "Can I join you?" Most likely she won't mind. Introduce
yourself and offer her a drink. Turn on your radio and ask her if there's any particular
station she would like to listen to. To establish some physical contact, ask her to rub some
suntan oil on your back. If you've played your cards right and turned on your charm and
conversational skills, you should be on your way to some romance and fun in the sun.
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How to Overcome Your
Shyness When Approaching
Single Women in Nightclubs
The following is a guide to use in overcoming your shyness with single women at
nightclubs. Follow these steps and you can overcome your shyness and start picking up
women instead of standing on the sidelines watching other men meet, approach, attract,
pick up, and seduce women in nightclubs.
One of the biggest roadblocks to a shy man in picking up women is fear. Fear that he will
be rejected, fear that he won't know what to say, and fear that he won't know how to act.
Believe me, there is nothing to fear but fear itself. Fear and anxiety will produce distinct
psychological consequences and if there's anything that's going to hinder your success in
picking up single women, it is going to be fear.
The fear of being rejected by a woman can paralyze your attempts to pick up women.
Accept the fact that you're going to get rejected some of the time. Just because you get
rejected by a woman it does not make you worthless. There can be many different
reasons why a woman may not be interested in you at any given moment. Most of these
reasons have little or nothing to do with you as a person. Being rejected by a woman is
just a risk you will have to take and if you do get rejected by a woman, it's not the end of
the world.
Keep this in mind if you get rejected by single women at a nightclub. No matter how
many women are not interested in you, you must remember there are many other women
at nightclubs, many of who would be delighted to know you.
To overcome these fears and pick up women, you have got to approach it like you would
if you were going to jump in a cold ocean to go swimming. Hurl yourself into it. Take
action!
You have got to practice at picking up single women. Sure, you'll get rejected a few
times. We all do. So what if you get rejected. You may never see her again anyway. By
practicing, you'll build up your confidence. Also, by accepting the fact that you're only
practicing picking up women, the pressure to succeed won't be so great.
Has this ever happen to you? You see this beautiful woman that you would love to meet,
date, and have an intimate relationship with. You try to build up your nerve to approach
her and you make up an excuse not to approach her like, "I'm too scared" or "I'm too
nervous." Pondering, stalling, postponing, reconsidering, these are all delaying tactics
that impede action. If you find yourself telling yourself these lies and making excuses,
block them out of your mind immediately and take action and approach that woman right
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then and there. Don't waste any time or you'll see one woman after another walk right out
of your life. Don't delay trying to pick up a woman or you might find yourself delaying
all your life and depriving yourself of romance with hot & sexy single women.
Get rid of the idea that people are always watching you, sizing you up and evaluating
you. The only people who do this are shy people who spend a lot of time fearing that they
are being evaluated negatively. The reason you think you are being watched is because
you do this to others.
The solution to breaking this habit is to stop judging and sizing people up and you will
stop thinking that others are doing the same to you. Don't worry about people evaluating
you unfavorably, because the reason for this is that they think they are better than you.
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How to Meet Lonely, Hot &
Sexy Businesswomen in Hotels
How would you like to meet and seduce some hot & sexy businesswomen? Well I've got
good news...Let me turn you on to a place that's filled with these love-hungry horny
women looking for love and romance.
Where is this place that's a hot bed for romance? It's your upscale and expensive hotels.
Late at night you will find these out-of-town businesswomen hanging out in the bars and
lounges of these upscale hotels. These women get lonely on the road and are looking for
some love and affection. This is where you come into the picture to satisfy their needs
and desires.
Here's a simple plan to take advantage of these lovely businesswomen who are looking
for some action:
• Begin hanging out at the bars and lounges late at night in the most expensive
hotels in your town.
• When you spot a special lady you are attracted to that's sitting alone, just
approach her and simply ask, "Can I join you for some conversation?"
• Most likely she will welcome your company and you can talk to her about things
in general, like her interests, career, why she is in town, goals, family, etc.
• Just keep talking to her and turn on your best charm and keep having drinks with
her.
• At the end of the night, after she's had a few drinks and lost her inhibitions, don't
be surprised if she invites you up to her room (of course you can always ask her if
you can come up and tuck her into bed).
In conclusion, try this little known place to score with women that most men aren't even
aware of. There will be golden opportunities to score with some drop-dead gorgeous
businesswomen. Maybe it won't happen the first night, but if you will be persistent and
keep hanging out in the bars and lounges, I can assure you that you will get lucky.
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How to Use Gymnastics and
Tumbling Skills to Meet Tons
of Hot & Sexy Single Women
One of the best ways I've found for attracting the admiration of and meeting women
(especially cheerleaders/tumblers/gymnasts/etc.) is:
Go to the gym/park/beach/etc. where there are women (especially those
who are into athletic physiques).
Practice/perform gymnastics/tumbling skills such as flips, splits, etc. as
part of your workout/practice/jog/etc. Pretty soon, cute girls (most of who
did cheerleading/tumbling/or gymnastics) will come up to you and say,
"Wow, were you a gymnast?", etc., etc.
The gymnastics (flips/splits/etc.) is just a universally admired conversation
piece that cute girls will use to strike up a conversation with you. Also,
wear a tank top to show off your muscles too. You and the girls will
already have something in common (gymnastics/tumbling/cheerleading).
Gymnastics is easily learned (3-8 weeks is average for learning a flip) so
take lessons if you're not already a gymnast (it's about $40 a month) – trust
me, it's the best for attracting beautiful women (most of whom were also
cheerleaders/tumblers/dancers, etc.).
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Where to Meet Single Women
During the Holidays
The Holidays are a great time to meet women! What makes it great you say? Because it
has never been easier to know where to find and seduce hordes of single women! The
secret to knowing where to find them is an obvious one.
You know that every woman loves shopping, and you know that during the holidays
everybody has to shop! Now for me, being a man and all, the idea of going to the mall
and spending an hour fighting for a parking spot just to spend all my hard earned money
on people like my girlfriend's parents seemed very unappealing to say the least. But I had
to do it, and so did everyone else that I could think of. Almost everyone celebrates some
sort of gift giving holiday, and that includes hundreds and thousands of beautiful single
women.
So when I went to the mall the other day to buy gifts and saw all of the amazing women,
it made me think twice about having a girlfriend during the holidays! Here I was, stuck
with a girlfriend during the best possible time to meet women I could think of. What a
bummer!
Now it's time to get straight to the point. The mall (during Christmas time) is the most
amazing place to meet single women that I have ever encountered. Not only is it packed
every single day with hundreds of beautiful women, but the pickup lines come so
naturally that I almost feel guilty.
Lines like "Do you think my sister would like this?" (holding up a random item) to the
more involved "Could you help me? I need a really good present for my sister this year
and I can tell by what your wearing that you have great taste in clothes. Would you mind
recommending something for me?" are excellent conversation starters and the women
feel very at ease and appreciated since they are doing you a favor. (Just don't tell them
that you really don't have any sisters!)
And the best part about shopping at the malls during the holidays? The single girls will
start conversations with you! When they ask,"Do you think my brother would like this
shirt?" and you say "It doesn't matter if he likes the shirt or not. You could give him a
dirty sock and since its from a wonderful person like you he would cherish it forever!"
They will be charmed out of their minds! If you go to the mall this holiday season , the
best presents you are gonna come home with are dates and phone numbers from fabulous
women! And they say guys hate to shop!
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Worst Places to Meet Single
Women
Bars. Sorry, it doesn't work for a number of reasons. The conditions are horrible, the
competition is fierce and the mindset of the single women is all wrong. The music is too
loud for decent conversation, which is essential. It could happen, but luck is not with you.
NEVER GO TO A BAR BY YOURSELF! You immediately have the word "LOSER"
tattooed on your forehead. What are you going to do - stand against the wall with a beer
and watch the single girls walk by? Are you hoping one of them will stop and say, "Hey,
you really remind me of Brad Pitt - how about coming back to my place?" Right.
Only go to a bar with a group and for a reason. You can go with some buddies to watch a
game or hear a good band or celebrate Jim's promotion. The best situation is to go with a
mixed group of couples and singles. You have a crowd to hang with. You can invite a
lady to join your group if the opportunity presents itself. You are talking and enjoying
yourself and you will appear much more attractive than the collection of single dolts
standing by the ladies' room.
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Mind Training
How to Handle Rejection From
Women
Rejection, rejection by a woman, rejection by the woman, the woman who has captured
your thoughts, the woman whose smile sends shivers of warmth down your spine, the
woman whose touch you dream of ... this icy doom fills you with dread. It is the utter
desolation of helplessness. It is the worm of self-doubt. It is the gripping fear that warns
you to abandon hope.
Rejection is a part of everyday life. People are turned down for raises, refused
promotions, declined for loans, and passed over for recognition. Rejection is not final.
Rejection is not ruin. Indeed, rejection can be the precursor to eventual success.
There is nothing personal about rejection. It happens to everyone. It is part of "the cost of
doing business". It is intimately connected with risk taking. Every worthwhile endeavor
at some point involves the risk of failure. This is what makes life interesting.
It is only by risking our persons from one hour to another that we live at all. And often
enough our faith beforehand in an uncertified result is the only thing that makes the result
come true.
Consider a rejection as a "second opinion" of sorts. The woman who rejects you might
well have sounder judgment in the matter of a possible relationship than you. She may
have compelling reasons for her conclusion that you are ill suited for each other, saving
the both of you a great deal of future grief. This does not, of course, mean you are
worthless as a person, just that she was not meant for you, and that you should find
someone else.
There are techniques that can remove some of the sting from the fear of rejection. Simply
"scoping the situation out", proceeding in small steps, rather than taking the grand plunge
all at once is a prudent method of risk management. Asking a woman you have just met
to become intimately involved with you is an enterprise almost certain to fail. Asking her
to share five minutes over a cup of coffee is a more modest proposal, one much more
likely to meet with her approval (after that, she may hint, or even let you know outright if
she is willing to go farther). Tackle tricky situations in small increments.
When you do face rejection, and you will, accept it with good cheer. Bounce back and try
again (presumably with a different woman). Continued life experience will desensitize
you to the trauma of having doors slammed in your face. You learn to survive. You learn
to go on. You learn to keep trying.
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Since everything in life is but an experience perfect in being what it is, having nothing to
do with good or bad, acceptance or rejection, one may well burst out in laughter.
Overcoming Your Fear Of
Rejection
Imagine this. You see this gorgeous woman sitting at the table next to you. Your heart
pumps, your pulse quickens. You quickly think of what to say to her. You try to get up
and walk over, but for some reason an invisible force holds you back. You try to move
your legs. They're as heavy as lead. You curse your inability to overcome your fear of
rejection. She gets up and walks away; leaving you. Perhaps forever. You want to kick
yourself. In a vain attempt to correct matters, you wait at that same spot days after,
hoping that she will return.
"It's the things you don't say that you regret the most" Look at it this way. Just imagine
yourself unhappy because for one split second, you hesitated and threw away the chance
to start something together. Your whole life down the drain.
For your whole life, you'll be asking yourself "And what if..." "If only I had the guts to..."
You'll be miserable as you'll keep questioning yourself, thinking of things that might
have been. You see, if you had at least asked herself out, you'll know that you tried and
time will heal your soul. You'll be able to look back and laugh the whole thing off. "Hah!
What an idiot I was back then. Imagine, I dared to ask the Prom Queen out. Boy, that was
fun." So go. Take a chance. You'll never get another one again.
"Just do it" Sounds easy doesn't it but we all know it isn't since all of us, at one point in
our lives, have struggled with overcoming rejection. My advice is to just do it and get it
over with. According to my friend who served in Korea, "Asking women out on a date is
just like killing people. After a few times, you forget why you got so shit-scared in the
first place." A gruesome analogy, but a truthful one nevertheless.
Okay. Okay. Don't switch off the computer and rush down to ask your one true love out
just yet. If you don't know anything about asking a girl out, you can't possibly hope to
succeed. Before you go out and do something rash, read up on the next chapter
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Misconceived Belief of Shy
Men When Meeting Single
Women
If I Ask a Woman to Dance and She Turns Me Down or If I Talk to a Woman and
She Ignores Me, It's Because I'm Not Worthwhile or Good Enough For Her.
This irrational belief causes shy men to fear approaching a woman and produces low self-
esteem when they are rejected. This fear of being rejected and turned down prevents shy
men from making contact with single women.
If you're turned down for a dance, it doesn't mean that you're not worthwhile or not good
enough for her. She just may not feel like dancing at the moment. She may just be tired.
She may not even dance. There can be a number of reasons. So don't take it personally.
However, what to do in a case like this is to ask her, "Would you like to dance later?" If
she says yes, just ask her again later. Even better, just ask her, "Well, can I join you for
some conversation?" In the mean time just ask other women to dance.
Also, I might add, a lot of guys get turned down to dance, so don't feel that you're the
only man in the world that happens to. It happens to all men, even real good-looking
men.
If you approach a woman and try to start up a conversation and she ignores you, don't
take that personally either. She just may not feel like talking or being bothered. Perhaps
she's tied down to a boyfriend or even married. Also, you just might not be using the
proper social skills.
So if she ignores you, move on to the next single woman and you'll find someone who
will respond to your advances.
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The Myth of the Line -
Rejection
A woman will not usually tell a guy to get lost in the first fifteen seconds. If she does, she
may be a barracuda and you have lost nothing. Consider yourself lucky. Most single
women will deliver gentle hints and body language and hope you get the message. They
don't want to hurt anyone.
If you are perceptive enough to notice them, you can gracefully move on. You are in
control and your pride is intact. You get to say, "See you later." How could that hurt? At
least you don't have to walk across the gym floor while your friends laugh at you. Believe
me, no one is even interested in what just happened. They are all working their own
agenda.
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Style - Your Smile
People just don't smile enough. We don't mean to make you a grinning idiot or a used car
salesman. The secret is timing. You need to turn it on and off at the right time. Careful
here - this sounds fake, but allow us explain. You have pleasant feelings and thoughts all
the time. You wake up and see a great day outside. You pet the dog. You read
Doonesbury or Dilbert. You find ten dollars in a pair of pants under your bed. You go the
gym and see an empty treadmill next to that cute single redhead you've been interested in.
(Now we're getting somewhere.)
In all these instances, especially if you are alone, you would just enjoy the moment and
maintain your typical poker face. It's easier. What's the point of working out those facial
muscles if no one can see it? Plenty. It's conditioning. Allow yourself to express warm
and fuzzy feelings by smiling when it feels right. Always. People will actually begin to
catch you at it. They will wonder what you're up to. After a while it will become second
nature. You will begin to smile more. Of course, when the moment is over, you need to
relax. People will think you're doing a Jack Nicholson impression if you don't.
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Why You Should Consider Dating & Pursuing
Relationships With Single Women You Are Not
Normally Attracted to
Popular culture depicts a sleek, long legged, big-breasted, nubile blonde as the ideal love
partner... just the type of fantasy woman who would turn up her nose at the shy man, and
why not, as she could choose from any number of ruggedly handsome socially adept
men...These are the "beautiful people," a world unto themselves, unapproachable,
narcissistic, smug, and far removed from reality. Shy men are well advised to stay clear
of this particular crowd.
Consider instead single women outside the mainstream. Fellow social outcasts, they are
real people who have had to grapple with life's hardships, to endure pain, to choke on
embarrassment, to feel the lash of rejection...just as you have. Struggling with problems,
rebounding from failure, learning by necessity to fight - all this develops the personality,
forces one to grow, to become fully human, to become capable of loving and worthy of
being loved.
"Ugly" single women glow with a serene inner beauty. Their faces are a study in rococo
sculpture, an unfamiliar language of landscape and form, an intricate and convoluted road
map of life itself. Their bodies hold promise of hidden delights. Their spirits reach out in
too-long denied explosive passion.
Fat single women are round and cuddly. Lush and sensuous, warm and accepting, they
radiate love. Their endless flowing curves, impossible to encompass save by caress,
express the very essence of femaleness. Soft and yielding, ever so much more squeezable
than their sharp-edged bony sisters, they submerge you in their embrace, their embrace,
oh, so sweet, the Primeval Ocean, the source of life.
Older single women make better lovers, as celebrated in song and folklore. Their life
skills uplift shy youthful lovers past barriers of fear and inexperience. Unexcelled as
nurturers and teachers, they bestow patience and understanding. They care.
Women of different races and cultures blend an aura of the exotic with a tinge of the
forbidden. Diversity adds color to a relationship, and a touch of the strange lends spice
and excitement to the flowering of intimacy.
In closing, I hope you don't fall into the trap that thinking you must date single women
that look like the naked women in Playboy in order for you to be happy in a relationship.
You would be surprised that by dating women that you are not normally attracted to can
bring you happiness and love beyond your wildest dreams.
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Why You Should Not Wear
Masks When Meeting Single
Women
Let's say you do find a hot & sexy single girl you want to meet who wants to meet you
too. You start up a conversation. Since we've all been conditioned to start acting in a way
that will create the best impression, especially when we first meet people, putting on a
"mask" or facade is virtually unavoidable.
Especially in that "first-meeting" situation, it's hard for most of us to be ourselves. We all
want to be liked, so we try to act like what we guess that other person will consider both
acceptable and appealing. We're not sure, but at least if she rejects my mask, so the logic
goes, she still hasn't rejected me. In other words, the mask is also a defense.
Yet, what if the masks may be perfect for each other, while the people behind them are
not truly compatible at all? A serious problem arises if you fall in love with each other's
masks because eventually, both he and she will come out from behind their masks and
slip back into being the person they really are! Then, the relationship is over.
And here is another problem that wearing masks cause: Suppose you don't like the mask
that the other person is wearing. With a mask being used as a defense, you never really
get to know the real person underneath, when all the while the real person underneath
might be very compatible with you. In other words, masks get in the way!
Guessing about what people are really like and what they would like to see in you takes a
lot of energy. Wearing masks causes tension. Wearing masks requires a lot of effort and
wastes a lot of time keeping up the front. When you are genuine and authentic, life gets
much easier and is certainly much more fun.
So, for this week's tips I am strongly urging you to be yourself when meeting single
women. Don't try to be someone you are not. You're true personality is going to come out
in the end and it's best that she is exposed to the true you in the beginning so there will
not be any surprises later on in the relationship.
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You - Don't be a Weenie
In a good match both partners are interested in pleasing each other. You can get a sense
for this very early in the dating process. Watch for signs of inconsiderate behavior or
unkindness. Don't tolerate it. It will not change. If she is rude to her friends, family or co-
workers - you're next. On the other hand she should not be meek and easily manipulated.
Sometimes men gravitate to single women like this because they are easy conquests and
can be controlled. This is a character flaw on the part of the guy. You will not have any
respect for a woman who is too meek and has low self-esteem. Again, she will not change
and you will regret it when she is clinging to your leg as you try to escape.
The best combination is a woman who is receptive to your initiatives, but is still
challenging. She may only accept you as a friend at first. That's okay. Actually, that's the
best place to start. Give it some time - perhaps a couple of months. The strongest trees
grow very slowly. Weeds grow very quickly.
A successful relationship consists of two people who match on several levels. Adults are
fully developed and only change on their own terms. Therefore, everything required by
both parties must be in place beforehand. This is what makes it so difficult. Men are
walking around with a key and single women are walking around with a lock. While it is
true that many keys will open many locks, most of the combinations will not work. What
is amazing is that so many couples will attempt to match and stay together even if the
lock doesn't open. Don't let this happen to you.
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Your Rap - Why Do People
Love Oprah?
Watch her carefully. She is a master of conversation. Ever notice how little you learn
about her while she interviews guests? Is there a lot of laughter? Is the guest relaxed?
How does she do it? She asks simple open-ended questions and lets the guest roll. She
shows sincere interest in what they are saying and participates without going off topic.
The conversation rarely shifts to her. She is carefully processing what the guest is saying
and preparing her next question. Look at her body language. Posture, eye contact and
gestures all contribute to the guest's comfort level.
If a good conversationalist speaks, it will be to encourage the partner to continue or move
them to another topic when the current one is exhausted. Maintain a pleasant smile and
warm eye contact. From time to time use simple phrases like:
• "Yes. . ."
• "Oh, I see . . ."
• "Uh, huh. . ."
• "Then what?"
Learn to rephrase what she has just said. This shows interest and ensures that you
understand. Take the last event or idea and summarize it in one sentence.
"So, you booked this ski trip on a whim? Right out of the blue?"
"Let me get this straight. You have three jobs? One full time and two part time?"
"You mean you just walked up to your roommate and said you were moving out that
night?"
You get the idea. Another variation is to ask for verification of your understanding. You
could ask her to repeat part of what she said or ask if your rephrasing is correct. This is a
very powerful and useful conversational technique. By the way a side benefit is that is
takes a lot of pressure off of you.
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Why Being Short Should Not
Interfere With You Meeting,
Dating, Attracting Single
Women for Romance
Height
What is the secret ingredient that will attract you to single women without you uttering a
single word irrespective of what you wear or what you do for a living or how overweight
you may be? It is your HEIGHT. How tall you are is very, very important to women.
Now before all you short guys go out and commit suicide I will tell you there are still
many single women you can date and marry. When you think about height being
important I can imagine a lot of you guys getting very angry. If you are overweight you
can go on a diet and lose weight to become more attractive to women. If you are poor you
may be able to get a job or gain a promotion to become richer. You can then dress better.
If you smoke you can give up the cigarettes and if you are an alcoholic you can give up
the booze. There is no damn way you are going to get any taller though. Wearing shoes
with high heels just accentuates your lack of height and telegraphs to both men and
women how self conscious you are about your height. So you get angry at women
wanting something in you that you can't change. That is the way I felt but the solution is
to date single women that are the same height as you or shorter. Easy.
Protection
The reason women enjoy the company of men that are their height or taller goes way
back when men were expected to protect, shelter and provide for women. A somewhat
outdated notion now but elements of this mentality exist subconsciously in women's
minds today. Women think how can a man who is short protect and shelter me from
harm? Taller men are perceived to have more muscle and more strength. Women feel
safer snuggling in the arms of a man who can surround them and protect them from
outside elements. Some women feel that this is "natural" and feel more "comfortable" this
way. Some men also feel like this. Some men also find taller women intimidating. The
good thing is that shorter men can still provide women with all these needs. All a guy
needs is a shorter woman and he can provide women with the same feelings a guy 12
inches taller can provide to a taller woman.
Shorter Is Better
You are now thinking, great, now I've got to eliminate all those tall, leggy, slender single
women that I crave for. Don't look at it that way. I prefer to look at it in a more positive
way. The more astute reader is going to realize that chasing taller women, who are not
interested in shorter men anyway, is a complete waste of time. You can utilize your time
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better by chatting only to single women shorter or the same size as you. Don't forget to
allow for the additional height women gain by wearing high heeled shoes when judging a
woman's height. Believe me they are some very attractive and desirable shorter women
around. Some of them are as pretty and as cute as can be and they aren't necessarily
overweight. So the next time you enter a nightclub or bar don't even look at the taller
women - head straight to the nearest women who are the same height as you or shorter.
Less Competition
You'll find that even a lot of the taller men don't bother with women who are a great deal
shorter than them. That leaves you with less competition. The guys 6' 3" and above are
chasing the women 5' 10" or taller. If you are 5' 10" then any woman from 5' 4" to 5' 10"
is your go. Not a bad range is it? If you are 5' 6" or less that still leaves you with plenty of
women to meet. One thing you should always remember is that men are generally taller
than women anyway. Another thing you need to know is that the taller the woman the
more likely it is that she will prefer the company of a taller man. A 6' 0'' woman is more
likely to be with a taller man than a woman say 5' 8" or 5' 6". I have observed the taller a
woman is the less tolerant she is towards shorter men.
Dazzle With Personality
If you do really fancy a woman who is taller than you there is still hope. Remember that
women prefer personality to looks. If you have personality you may be able to dazzle her
with it and overcome her natural preference for taller men. You will have to work very
hard at it though as it is likely she will not be as responsive and open to you as she would
be from an approach from a taller man. If you have a sense of humor she can relate to or
some other personality traits she cannot resist you still have a chance. You had better be
quick of the mark because if your fantastic personality doesn't come to the fore quickly
you'll find she'll soon tire of you and begin to look elsewhere. There are exceptions to the
rule that single women prefer men the same height as them or taller but 9 times out of 10
you will find single women in the company of men who are taller than them. One of my
ex-girlfriends is an example of this as she is 5' 8" and I am 5' 6". Height had nothing to do
with our relationship, either in the courting or separating stages but I find this is the
exception rather than the rule.
Tests
To prove to yourself height is important there are 4 easy tests you can conduct to prove
this.
Ask women friends at work or within your family of all the men they have
dated and/or married how many have been shorter than them. Invariably
they will say very few, if any.
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Go to shopping centers or just walk down the street and look at people
who are obviously couples and observe who is the taller in the
relationship. In most cases the boyfriend or husband will be the taller.
Look at as many personal ads as you can and see how many single women
put in a height or height range requirement of the men they would prefer
to meet. You'll find many have such a requirement. If you look at men's
ads height is hardly mentioned as a desirable physical characteristic
The final test, and the most beneficial to you, is to restrict yourself to
shorter women and see how much more positive women's responses to
you will be. Shorter women will more likely give you a chance to impress
them. It is sad watching men at nightclubs and bars chasing women 6
inches or more taller than them and continually getting the brush off.
These guys invariably keep trying using all their best lines and techniques
- all to no avail. They keep on chasing all the tall women all night when all
they have to do is turn around and open their eyes to all the shorter women
who find them attractive. These single women are hoping these men
would give them all the protection, security and shelter they seek.
Conclusion
So remember that height is important to single women. You can be mildly overweight or
obese or partially or completely bald and have a better chance with a shorter women than
any shorter guy has with a taller woman. Don't waste your time reaching for what you
can't have and stick to the attainable. Lastly, don't go around complaining about your
height. It is not you that has a problem with your height. It is women who have a "thing"
about height. It may be a subconscious thing to women but in many cases it is a major
concern nevertheless. What you need to do is turn that women's "thing" into your favor.
The best way to do it is to concentrate only on single women who find your height
acceptable. Don't carry on about your perceived lack of height as people will only say
you are suffering from "Small Man's Syndrome". That is the last thing you want.
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Body Training
Clothing
You need a least one good suit. It may take a while to find the right one and pay for it,
but make it a goal. It should be made of one hundred percent wool and be very dark. You
can use it for a variety of situations including weddings and New Year's Eve. Buy on
sale, but spend as much as you can for a top label. It will last for years. Your new suit
should fit perfectly. This is key. Buy it where they have a good tailor. Ask around. Be
sure to tip him. It will eventually pay off.
Buy a good quality white shirt. Be sure to buy the right neck size. Check with a tape
measure. Invest in an expensive (about forty dollars) silk tie. Learn to tie a double
Windsor knot. You will look great. You will also need a pair of dark dress socks and a
pair of good dress shoes, preferably black. These should always be freshly shined and
ready to wear.
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Exercise
How do you fit all this exercise into your life? If you are not exercising at all, here is a
good starting plan. Try to start with 30 minutes of exercise three times each week. It is
best to start walking two of those days, and do some strength training one day. Target all
the major muscle groups with one set each. Always include some stretching at the end of
every workout.
What is most important first is establishing the habit of exercise! After you have
accomplished this for three months, lengthen one of your walking sessions to include
both walking and weights. This will give you one day of walking, one day of weights and
one day of both. Follow this for up to six weeks.
Your next goal should be to increase your walking time on the your walking only day.
Increase it in five minutes increments to 45 minutes or one hour, depending on your time
availability. Follow this schedule another six weeks. Next, on your lifting only day,
increase the intensity (weight) of your exercises. Work to momentary muscle fatigue
within 8-12 reps. Follow this for two to six weeks, then increase the volume on this day
by adding a second set to your exercises. At this time you may feel that you can add
another day of exercise or try a yoga class.
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Be Civil in Your Suit - Mister
Manners Scores Points
Please and thank you. Be very liberal with these two phrases. Your mom was right. Be
polite to everyone consistently and it will come naturally. Waiters, valets, and cab drivers
are all people just like you. She will notice.
Open doors. You would be surprised how much single women appreciate this. Most of
your competition won't bother. Good. Get out of the car, walk around and open her door.
(Don't be staring at her legs as she gets out.) Always extend an arm to help her in or out
of a car or a chair. On the way back, unlock her door and let her in first. Walk ahead to
doors and hold them open for her as she enters or exits. Always hold doors for her when
possible, but in any case NEVER use one ahead of her. Get in the habit of always doing
this. It really sets you apart.
Push her chair in. A gentleman always stands when a lady enters or leaves a room. This is
especially true at a table. Rise and pull her chair out as she stands up. When she returns,
rise again and push her chair in as she sits. If you have to leave say, "Please excuse me."
When being escorted to a table or a seat by an usher or hostess, the man follows the lady.
If there is no assistance, the man leads and escorts the lady into the room. If the two of
you are walking in together she should be on your right. If it's a formal occasion let her
take your right arm. Always offer to help her with her coat. Always offer to walk her to
her door at the end of the evening.
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Hygene
Are You Aware That Bad
Breath Can Prevent You From
Scoring With Single Women?
If you have bad breath, this can be a major turn-off when you are trying to meet and pick
up single women. And the main problem is that you may not even be aware that you have
bad breath which can instantly ruin your chances of attracting and dating all those hot &
sexy single women of your dreams. At the end of this article I will show you how to test
your breath.
"Over a 24-hour period, everyone has bouts of bad breath," said Carol Meyer, a dental
hygienist and president of Personal Breath Consultants Inc., based in Long Island, NY.
The American Dental Association estimates that 40 percent of adults - 85 million
Americans - have chronic bad breath. The most common cause of bad breath is bacteria,
trapped food between the teeth, and poor dental hygiene.
Today, Americans spend more than $1 billion each year on rinses, mints and gums to to
make their breath fresher. Unfortunately, these are only short-term fixes. "They
temporarily help," said Dr. Richard Haydon, a University of Kentucky ear, nose and
throat specialist. Mouthwashes, for instance, will last less than an hour. Haydon also
cautions that most mouthwashes contain alcohol, which can irritate the tissues of the
mouth.
Ironically, excess alcohol also causes bad breath, so people who use excessive amounts
of mouthwashes with alcohol might end up with worse breath than they started with.
There's only one way for most people to control bad breath: "Immaculate oral hygiene,"
Dr. Ted Raybould, a University of Kentucky dentist said. That includes brushing twice
daily for at least two minutes each time, making sure to hit all areas of every tooth. "And
flossing's the biggest one," Raybould said. "Food gets stuck between the teeth and starts
to rot."
Tongue cleaning is also important in eliminating bad breath. Tooth brushes aren't really
designed to clean the tongue, especially the back areas of the tongue, where offensive
bacteria collects. The best way to clean the tongue is by using tongue cleaners you can
purchase from your dentists, drug store, and other outlets. A University of Toronto study
found that tongue cleaning reduced sulfur gases and offensive odor by 75 percent - 50
percent more than just brushing.
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It is also recommended while brushing your teeth that you gently brush inside the cheeks
and gums and the roof of the mouth.
Using the advice contained in this article should eliminate any bad breath problems that
can affect your dating and love life. If you follow this program for good dental hygiene
and you still have bad breath, then perhaps you have a medical problem that causes bad
breath and you should see your doctor.
So, how can you tell if you have bad breath? There are three easy ways, according to
Meyer, a leading breath consultant:
• Lick your wrist and take a whiff of it.
• Swab the inside of your cheeks or tongue with a piece of gauze or cotton swab
and sniff.
• Floss with unscented dental floss and smell the floss.
Trust me, this is the most accurate method of testing your breath. Breathing into your
cupped hands and taking a whiff is not accurate.
I just can't stress to you enough how important it is to not have bad breath when you're
trying to meet, attract, date, and seduce single women. I know you may think it's a pain in
the ass to take care of your teeth and tongue, but it's worth it because you certainly don't
want to become a failure with women because of something that you can easily correct.
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Top 10 Colognes that women
find irresistible on a man
Listen up guys! This is one of the most important tips listed so far on meeting, attracting,
and seducing single women.
I just can't stress to you enough how important it is to smell good when you're trying to
pick up girls. It's a proven fact that women are powerfully attracted to men that are
wearing a good-smelling cologne.
It has a hypnotic and seductive effect. It can be so powerful, it can make her sexually
attracted to you. So, this being the case, you must take advantage of this aphrodisiac.
So, what are these colognes that attract single women like a magnet? Well, we sent our
research specialists out in the field and interviewed single women and sales clerks at
prestigious department stores to find out the "Top 10 Colognes" that women find
irresistible on a man.
Here are the "Top 10" Colognes in random order:
Liquid Magnet which contains pheromones.
Tommy by Hilfiger.
Claiborne Sport by Liz Claiborne
Eternity for Men by Calvin Klein
Hugo
Safari for Men by Ralph Lauren.
Polo Sport by Ralph Lauren.
Gucci Nobile
Weekend Burberrys
Fahrenheit by Christian Dior.
I would highly recommend that you buy them all and experiment to find out which works
best for you in seducing single women.
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In Closing, don't overlook this easy way to improve your lovelife and attract single
women like a magnet. Try these girl-getting colognes! They work!
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Body Language Signs
How to Tell if a Single Woman
is Really Interested in You
It's very important to learn how a single woman acts, speaks, and uses body language
around you that indicates that she is romantically or sexually interested in you. When you
learn these signs, you can use this to your advantage. If a woman is truly interested in
you, this really increases your chances of scoring with her.
Use these guidelines to tell if a single woman is truly interested and attracted to you:
• Big smiles with upper and lower teeth showing with a relaxed face.
• She gazes in your eyes with deep interest and her pupils are dilated (this could be
mistaken for being high on drugs).
• Biting of the lips or showing of the tongue, licking her lips or touching of her
front teeth.
• While talking to you she is slowly stroking her cocktail glass up and down with
her thumb and index finger.
• If she is wearing clothes that shows her nipples underneath and you notice they
are getting perky and erect.
• She starts sitting straight up and her muscles appear to be firm.
• Her crossed leg is pointed towards you or if that same leg is rocking back and
forth towards you.
• She raises or lowers the volume of her voice to match yours.
• She rubs her chin or touches her cheek. This indicates that she's thinking about
you and her relating in some way.
• She blows smoke straight out from between her lips and toward you.
• She winks at you while talking to you or winks at you from a distance.
• She exposes the palms of her hand facing you.
• She twirls her hair around her fingers while she is looking at you.
• Her skin tone becomes red while being around you.
• She rubs her wrists up and down.
• She puts her fingernail between her teeth.
• She laughs in unison with you.
• She touches your arm, shoulder, thigh, or hand while talking to you.
• Plays with her jewelry, especially with stroking and pulling motions.
• She mirrors your body language and body positions.
• Eyebrows raised and then lowered, then a smile usually indicates interest in you.
• While talking to you, she rest an elbow in the palm of one hand, while holding out
her other hand, palm up.
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• In a crowd she speaks only to you and focuses all of her undivided attention on
you.
• While talking to you, she blinks more than usual, fluttering her eyelashes.
• She speeds up or slows down her speaking to match yours.
I know this is a lot of signs to look for, but this will be to your advantage to know if she's
interested in you. If she's not truly interested in you, you will just be wasting your time on
her. Memorize these positive signs to determine if she's got the "hots" for you and take
advantage of the situation accordingly with your charm and seduction techniques.
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10 Top Negative Body
Languages Signs that Single
Women Give to Indicate That
She is Not Interested in You
You lean towards her and she leans back away from you.
She starts turning away from you.
She doesn't make eye contact with you.
She folds her arms across her chest.
Double crosses her legs at the ankle.
She touches her nose often while she's with you.
A limp or hanging hand can indicate boredom with you.
When talking to you, her eyes keep glancing at other guys around her.
She makes no effort to talk to you. She doesn't reply to any of your comments, doesn't
answer your questions, and doesn't ask any questions about yourself. Unless she just
doesn't feel good or is moody this could indicate that she's not interested in you and you
will be wasting your time.
And last, she just come out an tell you to get lost, go away, go to hell, or ever worse, to
fuck off!
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Opening Lines
Dating Tips on How to Talk to
Single Women
Before you'll be meeting new single women for love and romance, take an inventory of
the things that are important to you, and that you'd like to talk about. What are you
excited about now? What changes are taking place in your life? What have been the most
important events or people in your life? What future plans are you most enthusiastic
about? Why do you feel the way you do about things? What are your concerns? What is
your vision for the future? What are your likes and preferences?
The answers to these questions tell her how you relate to the world around you. Be
specific, so that your conversational partner gets a lot of free information to pick up on.
Communicate your enthusiasm. Disclose some of your feelings and values.
Some Fall-Backs For Shy Men
If you're shy and have trouble talking to single women, it helps to be prepared with things
to talk about. Besides the things that are most important to you, here are sources for
conversational fuel:
Come up with 3 or 4 interesting or exciting things that have happened to you recently.
Practice telling these stories on family or friends, or practice in front of a mirror or with a
tape recorder.
Read current newspapers and magazines, and be prepared to talk about events that
interest you.
Collect a couple of sure-fire, inoffensive jokes.
Become knowledgeable about what's going on in your city. People always want to know
more about what's happening locally.
See current movies and read current books. You're bound to find single women who have
seen the same movies or read the same books.
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Opening lines
Work out a personal "opening line" and try it with endless variations. Some men need the
support, the crutch, of a definite "line" in approaching and winning a woman. If you do,
give a good deal of thought to this while you're working, reading, traveling. Formulate a
number of possibly effective opening lines in your mind and then sit down with a pencil
and paper and write them down. Practice them out loud before a mirror until you get just
the phraseology which sounds most natural, smooth, spontaneous and attractive.
Practice delivering it in private aloud until you can use it as if it has just occurred to you
in response to this particular woman. Go out and practice it, but with the freedom and
confidence to vary it imaginatively to fit every new situation and woman.
Here's a few great opening lines to use when you run across a single woman you would
like to meet:
• Bars and nightclubs - "Do you want to dance?" If she says no, whatever you do,
don't just walk away. Follow up with, "If you don't want to dance, do you mind if
I join you for some conversation?"
• Nightclubs with "live" music - "What do you think of the band?"
• Restaurants - "This is my first time here. What's good on the menu?" Another one
you could use is, "Would you like to go have a drink after dinner?"
• Beaches - "Would you like to play some Frisbee?" or "I'm going to the store, can I
bring you back anything?"
• Supermarkets - "Excuse me, which steak looks better to you?" or "How do you
tell which one of these cantaloupes is ripe?"
• Laundromats - "Would you like to go have a cup of coffee while we're waiting for
our clothes?" or "Could you tell me if I should wash these clothes in hot or cold
water?"
Pick out a successful Don Juan in your crowd and study his style. Don't ask him
questions. He probably doesn't know himself how he does it. But try to go on "woman-
hunting expeditions" with him. Go to dances, parties, the beach, with him. Try to arrange
some double dates together. Take advantage of every opportunity to watch him in action
and study intensively, remember, rehearse in your own mind, every line and gesture in
his technique with single women.
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Effective Opening Lines
Listed here, are a few examples of proven lines you can use to introduce yourself when
picking up girls. Remember, the list of effective opening lines listed below is nowhere
near exhaustive and should only serve as a starting point for you when picking up girls.
Try and come out with as many of your own as you can as you grow in confidence.
Restaurants
"Pardon me, this is my first visit here. Could you recommend me something from the
menu?"
Note: These methods of picking up girls do not work in fast food outlets. Try and sound
as polite as possible.
"I'm not very familiar with Mexican cuisine, what would you recommend?"
"The food tastes delicious, do you come here often?"
"Would you like to go someplace else after this, perhaps for some coffee?"
Bus Stations, Taxi Stands
"Hi! What bus are you taking?"
<she replies>
"Really! I'm taking Service No. 14. as well." (If you don't take the same bus, this might
not be such a good idea)
"My name's _______, what's yours"
<she replies and you initiate a conversation>
Nightclubs And Discos
"May I have this dance?" (provided of course, you know how to.) If she says no,
whatever you do, don't just give up. Follow up with,
"Sure, mind if I join you for some conversation?"
Concerts
"What do you think of the band/orchestra?"
If you know something about the music playing (ex, Classical), you could add, "The
quartet's rendition of Vivaldi's Four Seasons is quite extraordinary. It's been a long time
since I've heard such beauty." Never ever insult the music. This will only make you seem
overly critical and annoying.
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Joke pick up lines
This lines are good for joking around if you want a girl that enjoys a good laugh this
could be very useful. WARNING!!!! If you use this it is at your own risk! I do not
guarantee 100% satisfaction, ah heck I don't even guarantee 1% satisfaction. Besides the
risk of getting slapped is high. Well on to the lines:
1)You: Hey, you wanna go out for pizza and screw? *she slaps you* You: What you
don't like pizza?
2)If your right leg was Thanksgiving, and your left leg was Christmas, could I meet you
between the holidays?
3)I'd like to wrap your legs around my head and wear you like a feed bag.
4)How do you like your eggs: poached, scrambled, or fertilized?
5) You: Are you good at math? Her: No. (this is the typical answer, but if they answer yes
you're screwed)You: Oh really, well, I'll tutor... first equation, lets add you and me,
subtract our clothes, divide your legs, and multiply.
More joke pick up lines
"You shouldn't run around looking like that or one of us sex-starved young men might
attack you." Said this with a grin.
"Think you can dance in those shoes?" (Nice, macho line. Works best on mean women
you've seen once or twice before, instead of "Have I seen you somewhere?")
"Excuse me, I don't want you to think I'm ridiculous or anything, but you are the most
beautiful woman I have ever seen. I just felt like I had to tell you."
"Why don't you surprise your roommate and not come home tonight?"
"I'm into astrology. What's your sign?"
"What a lovely dog! Does it have a phone?"
Classick lines
"If I told you you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me?"
"I can sense that you're a terrific lover, and it intimidates me a little."
"The first time I saw you, I could sense that there was a strong emotional bond between
the two of us."
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"Do you believe in love at first sight? How about the synchronocity of multiple
orgasms?"
"You've got the bluest eyes I've ever seen."
"I've just received government funding for a four-hour expedition to find your G-spot."
"Not only am I rude and tasteless and trying to get you into bed, but I'm also being paid
for it."
"Can you believe that just a few hours ago we'd never even been to bed together?"
"Have you ever had sex underwater?"
"I know a great way to burn off the 300 calories in that pastry you just ate."
"I'm learning Latin; would you like to come home with me and help me practice oral
declinsions?"
"Do you wanna fuck or do you have herpes?"
"You've got nice tits; wanna fuck?"
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Perfecting Your Opening Lines
Not only is it necessary to work out an opening line, it can be downright FUN!. Most of
us need the security offered by effective opening lines, something we can always rely on.
Take time to think through opening lines you could use. Commit the opening lines you
have formulated down to paper before you forget them. Remember, the opening lines
must suit your personality. Can you imagine Bill Gates using an opening line like, "You
must be pretty tired 'cos you were running around in my head all night, babe.?" Scary,
isn't it?
Are They For You?
Before we go any further, let me try and explain to you why most of us fear using
opening lines, opting instead to perhaps not even approach the lady in question at all!.
Most of us are dead scared of using opening lines because:
They are scared of rejection
They are consumed by inadequacies
They are afraid of being labeled as a sleazebag
The first two reasons will be dealt with in later chapters. As for the last one, let me
remind you that flirting is simply being friendly! Those sleazebags that give flirting a bad
name are usually looking for sex, sex and more sex. Something which should be avoided.
So long as you are sincere and treat women the way you want to be treated, you will
avoid being in that category.
Say your opening lines out loud in front of a mirror until you are able to roll the words of
your tongue naturally and without stammering of any sort. Remember to accompany your
opening line with a good, natural smile. You must come across as suave, urbane and most
importantly, full of confidence and self esteem.
Practice delivering it in private aloud until you are able to deliver your opening lines
fluently and without hesitation or any sign of nervousness. Use a tape recorder, listen to
your tone of voice and adjust it accordingly. Remember, you'll have to strike whenever
opportunity knocks and you'll have little or no time to practice it beforehand so get it
right in practice.
Imagine this: Pete was walking down the boulevard when he saw this stunning figure in
black sitting in an outdoor cafe. Pete was so nervous that he rushed into the nearest gents
to practice what opening line he would "try" on her. Needless to say, she was gone by the
time he left the lavatory. We all know Pete. There is a Pete in everyone of us. Let's not be
him.
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Bad Opening Lines
You may have heard these lines on TV. This hulky actor bursts into a dimly lit bar and
wins the sexy waitresses with these utterly horrible opening lines. Wake up and smell the
cappuccino. These don't work any more. Never have, never will.
"What's a nice girl like you doing in a place like this"
This does many things. Firstly, you are insulting her choice of "Hang outs" Secondly, you
are insulting our own choice of "Hang outs". (You're there, aren't you?) Very stupid, very
dumb.
"Do you want to have my baby?"
Not in this lifetime. Get real. What could possibly make her even want a relationship with
a psycho like you?
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Flirting
Conversational Icebreakers
In bars and dance clubs, instead of asking:
"Can I buy you a drink" (shows lack of imagination)
Ask instead, "Have you ever had (tried) a Tequila Sunrise?" Select the most exotic,
unknown drink you can think of. If they say no they have not tried it, ask them if you
could get their opinion on it. Why this is better than the first question is because first you
are asking their opinion and secondly, because a direct offer to buy implies a return
obligation on their part.
For the Older Gang: Did you have a color television when you were a kid. What was
the baby’s name on The Flintstones or similar question: This will almost always generate
further conversation. For the younger gang, a similar question can relate to a more recent
TV show or movie.
In the produce department, "How can you tell if these things are ripe?" There are all
kinds of grocery questions you can ask and you will almost always get a response but
taking this to the next level at the supermarket can be tricky. Women do not always wear
their wedding band to the grocery and the husband or wife may be merely lurking on the
next aisle.
If the coast seems clear, direct the conversation towards food - a universal subject of
interest. This is too soon to invite them over or out for dinner. It works much better to
invite them (especially if the intended date is female) to a group setting and suggest they
bring along a friend. You will call them with the date, time and place.
At the laundromat: "How much bleach should I put in with my good shirt". Girls can
always ask for help from guys in lifting things. This seems to be universally appreciated
by guys, being such simple creatures that they are...
Meeting someone thru sports: The gym, tennis court, golf course, lake, swimming pool,
bowling alley, jogging lane, horseback riding, auto races, horse track, running, etc.
The advantage is that both parties already know they have something in common. The
disadvantage is that people engage in sports often to unwind and get away from people. If
you approach the first time they have seen you there, you will probably get shot down.
A simple greeting the first few times may be enough and then extend the conversation
every so slightly each time. Of course, if they show no interest in talking to you, don't be
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