Being godly and yet desiring to be married can be quiet a battle. These simple notes introduce a few ideas of how a young person might approach this arduous enterprise.

1. CHOOSING A LIFE
PARTNER

2. LOOKING FOR
THE ONE

3. MOST COMMON
ADVICE: WAIT

4. MOST COMMON
ADVICE: WAIT

5. WHAT CAN I DO?

6. HOW TO GET
READY

9. What
Richard
thinks is
VITAL

12. FAST AND PRAY

13. FASTING SHARPENS OUR
PRAYER AND MAKES US MORE
PASSIONATE, IT CREATES
GREATER URGENCY WITHIN US.

14. FASTING SHARPENS OUR
PRAYER AND MAKES US MORE
PASSIONATE, IT CREATES
GREATER URGENCY WITHIN US.

15. FASTING CAN BE IN VAIN — IS
YOUR HEART HARDENED?

17. CLOSE THE DOOR

18. GIVE 100%

19. GIVE 100%

20. IF YOU CHOOSE TO DATE
DO IT IN COMMUNITY

21. IF YOU CHOOSE TO DATE
DO IT IN COMMUNITY

22. DON’T
AWAKEN (CHASE) LOVE

23. I ADJURE YOU, O DAUGHTERS
OF JERUSALEM…
THAT YOU NOT STIR UP OR
AWAKEN LOVE
UNTIL IT PLEASES.

24. WAIT FOR GOD TO DO IT!

26. A FEW GENERAL
POINTS

27. DEVOTE
YOURSELF TO JESUS

29. ARE YOU
GROWING IN CHRIST?

30. JOHN 15:16 16 YOU DID NOT
CHOOSE ME, BUT I CHOSE YOU AND
APPOINTED YOU SO THAT YOU
MIGHT GO AND BEAR FRUIT

31. —AND SO THAT WHATEVER YOU
ASK IN MY NAME THE FATHER WILL
GIVE YOU.

33. DOES THIS PERSON
TRULY LOVE JESUS?

34. PSALM 37:4

35. TAKE DELIGHT IN THE LORD,
AND HE WILL GIVE YOU THE
DESIRES OF YOUR HEART.

36. FAST AND PRAY

37. DON’T HAVE STUPID
IDEAS

42. HAVE HIGH
MORAL STANDARDS

46. 14 DO NOT BE UNEQUALLY YOKED
WITH UNBELIEVERS. FOR WHAT
PARTNERSHIP HAS RIGHTEOUSNESS
WITH LAWLESSNESS? OR WHAT
FELLOWSHIP HAS LIGHT WITH
DARKNESS?

50. WORK
TO THE GLORY OF GOD

51. 23 Whatever you do,
work heartily, as for the
Lord and not for men,
24 knowing that from
the Lord you will
receive the inheritance
as your reward.

52. 17 And whatever you
do, in word or deed, do
everything in the name
of the Lord Jesus,
giving thanks to God
the Father through him.

53. Develops: forward
thinking, planning,
diligence, hard work,
self-esteem,
confidence and
attractiveness.

55. TAKE
WEAKNESSES SERIOUSLY

60. GROW AS YOU

61. ASK MARRIED PEOPLE
ABOUT MARRIAGE

62. FAST AND PRAY

63. WHO SHOULD I
AVOID?

64. UNBELIEVERS

65. LIARS

67. PLAYBOY/GIRL

70. ADDICTS

71. PEOPLE WHO DON’T WORK HARD

73. NARCISSIST

76. ABUSIVE PEOPLE

77. BABIES

80. CONTROLLERS

82. IF YOU ARE A CHILD OF GOD,
DON’T SELL YOUR SPIRITUAL
BIRTHRIGHT BY MARRYING
SOMEONE WHO DOESN’T
DESERVE YOU.

83. WAIT FOR
SOMEONE WHO
LOVES JESUS