3. Hearing vs. Listening
• Do you think there is a difference between
hearing and listening?
• You are right, there is!
• Hearing is simply the act of perceiving sound
by the ear. If you are not hearing-impaired,
hearing simply happens.
• Listening, however, is something you
consciously choose to do. Listening requires
concentration so that your brain processes
meaning from words and sentences.
Listening leads to learning.
7. Promoting Better Listening
• Desire to listen.
• Focus on the message.
• Listen for main ideas.
• Understand the
speaker’s point of view.
8. Promoting Better Listening cont.
• Withhold judgment.
• Reinforce the message.
• Provide feedback.
• Listen with the body.
• Listen critically.
9. Types of Listening
• Active vs. Passive
• Positive vs. Negative
• What Kind is it?
– Appreciative
– Empathic
– Discriminative
– Analytical
10. Listening Importance
• Most frequently used communication skill
– 50% of typical workday spent communicating
– of this 50%, 45% is spent listening
– 45% of business person’s salary earned listening
• Good listeners
– are perceived as more intelligent
– save time, energy, and other resources
– increase chances for advancement and success
• Interactive Listening
11. What is Interactive Listening?
• Cultivated Skill involving the goal-
oriented active, positive process of
receiving and attending to aural stimuli
• Conscious elimination of perceptual
barriers
12. How Important is Interactive
Listening?
• Critical for occupational advancement
• Leads to perception of intelligence
• Saves time, money, and resources
13. Improving Your Listening Skills
• Identify Objectives
• Know Your Listening Habits
• Generate Motivation and Energy
• Eliminate Distractions
• Ask questions
– Closed
– Open
– Probing
• Evaluate Your Progress
14. Effective Listening
• Effective listening requires an understanding
that it is not just the speaker's responsibility to
make sure he/she is understood.
• The listener has a major role to play in
hearing the complete message.
• The following ideas will assist the listener in
understanding the message.
15. Conclusion
• "What is so important about listening? I listen!"
• Sure you do. But how? How adept are you, for example, in
getting people to come right out and really talk to you?
• Before you can get the most out of a listening situation, others
must first believe that you really want to listen. They must feel
that when they tell you something, it will be received by you in
the proper spirit.
• Learn to listen beyond the words, with your heart as well as your
ears.
• Observe the signs of the inner feelings such as voice quality,
facial expressions, body posture and motions, etc. These
actions are revealing, and sometimes may have an opposite
meaning from the spoken word.
• A friend put it this way: "You listened as if you wanted to hear
what I was going to say, as if it was really important to you. And
that makes me feel good!"