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Would you hit an animal or your spouse in front of your children?

Sunday, November 10, 13
• Slide 1: Hook/attention grabber
• Would you hit an animal in front of your children? Would you hit your spouse in front of your children
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Kindness
excitement

loved

laughter
safe
exuberance

Good Feelings

caring

high spirits

confidence
happy
twitterpated

goofy

• Slide 2: Hook/attention grabber

Kindness leads to all sorts of good feelings. Seeing one’s parents love and care for each
other gives a child hope that one day they can have that, too.

Monkey See

Monkey Do

Parents follow through

• Slide 3: The Big Idea (pages 78-79)

Parents should always do what they say they are going to do and follow through, so their
children will do the same when they grow up.
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Less Violence

Children keep their dreams

• Slide 4: What’s in it for your audience? Explain why your topic is important or worth discussing.

Less violent behavior from their children, less teenagers resorting to drugs and alcohol to
drown their doubts, their dreams, and emotions.

bullies both at home and at school makes one
feel unsafe

home feels safe because school is not
school feels safe because
home is not

• Slide 5: Why should your audience listen to you? Explain your ethos (personal experience, expertise, and credibility).
• it starts at home, being bullied at home and at school made me feel worthless. Having feelings of doubt because no one at school wanted to play with me or be my friend carried from home because I got
teased by my brother and father. I understand that’s only one case but many start that way. If home doesn’t feel safe, school will. If school doesn’t feel safe, home will. If they both don’t feel safe then they
won’t be.

DARK

FILTHY

• Slide 6: Call to Adventure (pages 38-39)

Imagine a world where every adult was gone, the small children under the age of 15 might just run around, eating all the candy, pizza, chips, and having some fun,
while those over the age might convince those younger ones to try a drug or two. It’s a chain reaction. I can see this world being dark and ﬁlthy. Now imagine the
adults back in the equation, you just might see a change and not so many children doing drugs and there’s light back in the world

LIGHT

HAPPY

call to action:
world

Now imagine the adults back in the equation, you just might see a change and not so many children doing drugs and there’s light back in the

Communication = confidence
Even tones when talking

Think before you speak
• Slide 7: Preview the three main points that will support your big idea

Communication has become less and less with texting and Facebook. Even tones when
speaking can lead to a more natural conversation. Thinking before speaking can have a
different outcome than arguing.

QUIETWhat do you hear?
Now say, “You’re awesome.”

Nothing

How do you feel?

Did anyone respond?
If they did, how
did that make If no response, one feels lonely, sad
you feel?
• Slide 8: Introduce and set up Supporting Point One

communication, when it stops, its too quiet.

Bottled emotions = explosive
reaction

• Slide 9: Factual or emotional evidence

Keeping quiet, keeping one’s feelings bottled up can have an explosive reaction when
someone does something so small

Dead Dreams

Dreams don’t become a reality

Shut Down

LOUD Conflict
Aggressive
• Slide 11: Introduce and set up Supporting Point Two

Being loud can have one of two effects; it will either cause the other person to shut down or
the other gets loud and aggressive back.

Stress level spikes
Heart rate quickens

One stops Thinking

Start to Sweat

My own stress level spikes when a person gets intense and loud with me. My heart rate
speeds up, I begin to sweat and stop thinking.

Uplifting

self-esteem
Encourage

Confidence

Being an encouraging voice to one could lift them up and make them feel lighter.

Breathe

Count Backwards

Positive Behavior
Clear Mind

• Slide 14: Introduce and set up Supporting Point Three
• Taking a deep breath, counting 1,2,3 or backwards from ten can eliminate harsh words and clear one’s mind to have a straightforward conversation.

Rough and Tough Times

calls for serenity
• As a child seeing the adults calmly talk about any situation teaches them that one needs to have patience when times are rough.

Brainstorming

• Respecting the other person to listen to their side or their point of view of situations could bring out some great brainstorming ideas.

Role Model
Example

• Slide 17: Call to Action (pages 42-43)

Be the example your kids will want to look up to. Be that person they can go to for advice
when they need it.

Self Worth

Self-Confidence

Self-Image

• Slide 18: Summarize the main points

Leading by example can contribute to a child’s self worth, self-conﬁdence, and their selfimage.

Example = Responsibility

• Slide 19: Restate big idea

Among all the technology, television shows, video games, adults are the responsible ones.
We need to show our children that as adults we always take responsibility for our actions, our
words, and our feelings.

Good examples = Something to
Live For

• Slide 20: Clincher/new bliss (page 44)

Better choices in daily life makes for better adults. Better adults make for better children.
Leaving good examples, good choices, and successful lives gives one something to live for.

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