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Five allowers
Transactional Analysis
Prepared By
Manu Melwin Joy
Assistant Professor
Ilahia School of Management Studies
Kerala, India.
Phone – 9744551114
Mail – manu_melwinjoy@yahoo.com
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Five allowers
Driver Allower
Be Perfect You are good enough as you are
Please others Please yourself
Be Strong Be open and express your wants
Try Hard Do it
Hurry up Take your time
Five allowers
Each time you
consciously step out of
a driver behavior and
substitute a driver free
behavior, you affirm
the allower non
verbally.
Five allowers
You can repeat the allower
to yourself before you go
to sleep at night and when
you wake in the morning.
Write it up on a big notice
and put the notice where
you see it frequently
Five allowers - Caution
If you begin experiencing
bad feelings or discomfort
on affirming your allower,
back of from doing so for a
while.
Five allowers - Caution
By feeling uncomfortable,
you may be letting yourself
know that your
counterscript driver has
been covering a heavier
script belief.
Five allowers - Caution
It is advisable for you to
discover and defuse that
heavier decision before
you continue with
movement out of the
driver.
References
Thank You
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  • 2. Prepared By Manu Melwin Joy Assistant Professor Ilahia School of Management Studies Kerala, India. Phone – 9744551114 Mail – manu_melwinjoy@yahoo.com Kindly restrict the use of slides for personal purpose. Please seek permission to reproduce the same in public forms and presentations.
  • 3. Five allowers Driver Allower Be Perfect You are good enough as you are Please others Please yourself Be Strong Be open and express your wants Try Hard Do it Hurry up Take your time
  • 4. Five allowers Each time you consciously step out of a driver behavior and substitute a driver free behavior, you affirm the allower non verbally.
  • 5. Five allowers You can repeat the allower to yourself before you go to sleep at night and when you wake in the morning. Write it up on a big notice and put the notice where you see it frequently
  • 6. Five allowers - Caution If you begin experiencing bad feelings or discomfort on affirming your allower, back of from doing so for a while.
  • 7. Five allowers - Caution By feeling uncomfortable, you may be letting yourself know that your counterscript driver has been covering a heavier script belief.
  • 8. Five allowers - Caution It is advisable for you to discover and defuse that heavier decision before you continue with movement out of the driver.
  • 11. Other TA topics available on slideshare 1. Strokes - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/strokes-24081607. 2. Games People Play - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/psychological- games-people-play. 3. Structural Analysis - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/the-ego-state-model. 4. What is TA? - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/what-ta-is 5. Cycles of Development - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/cycles-of- developement-pamela-levin-transactional-analysis. 6. Stages of Cure - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/stages-of-cure. 7. Transactions - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/transactions-33677298. 8. Time Structuring - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/time-structuring. 9. Life Position - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/life-position. 10. Autonomy - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/autonomy-33690557. 11. Structural Pathology - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/structural-pathology. 12. Game Analysis - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/game-analysis-33725636. 13. Integrated Adult - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/integrated-adult. 14. Stroke Economy - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/stroke-economy- 33826702.