2. 2b Youth Identity
In this sessionā¦
ā¢ We might touch on issues where we as individuals or our
Churches disagree
ā¢ We might touch on identity issues which either weāve
struggled with, or someone close to us has struggled with.
Thereforeā¦
ā¢ Please feel that you can share something controversial, but
please think carefully how you word it before you say it
ā¢ If unsure about your wording, please make a note to
yourself as a potential assignment topic where you can think
through it in more detail, and only Mike and I will read it.
ā¢ Finally, if you feel uncomfortable at any point, please do feel
free to dip out of the sessionā¦but do make sure you return
or send Mike or I a message so we know youāre okay.
3. Identity v Role Confusion
ā¢Identity - how a person sees themselves in
relation to their world. Sense of self or
individuality in the context of life and what lies
ahead
ā¢Role Confusion is the negative perspective -
an absence of identity - meaning that the
person cannot see clearly or at all who they
are and how they can relate positively with
their environment.
ā¢Young people struggle to belong and to be
accepted and affirmed, and yet also to become
individuals. In itself this is a big dilemma, aside
from all the other distractions and confusions
experienced at this life stage.
Where did we get
our identify when
we were teenagers?
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4. Adolescence yearsā¦
From Growing Young: Six Essential Strategies to Help
Young People Discover and Love Your Church by Kara
Powell. Chapter 3 in Portal. Published in 2016
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5. A slow downā¦
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Chapters 5 & 7
Root argues:
ā¢ Your identity (how you define yourself) and sense of the good (what is worth living
for) are linked.
ā¢ Pursuit of identity is much more individualised: taken on your own, or a friend, in
your own bedroom rather than out with a group in your neighbourhood
Root explores the relationship between Identity formation and other areas of
young peopleās lives, and the impact on Youth Ministry, in chapters 5 & 7
6. Impact on Youth Ministry?
ā¢ Parents taking much more of a active involvement in helping
their children find their thing through which they can form
their identity.
ā¢ āā¦the thing gives the young person a particular marked
trial to follow ā a way of life ā as she quests for her unique
identity and ways to express it.ā (p54)
ā¢ Few parents see āYouth Ministryā as that thing
ā¢ āFriendship parenting is present because the identity
journey is now an anxious internal quest with vast options.
Friendship has direct impact on the identity journey
without ever threatening to be coercive, which in the end
could corrupt the pursuit of happiness.ā (p59) Andrew
Root, The End of Youth Ministry?
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7. What are the 'identity
issues' that our young
people are facing
today?
How should and can
we respond to those
issues?
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Discussion
8. Questions you may like to discussā¦
If it was your son or daughter within the
Case Study, what support would you
want them to have within the local
community?
How would respond if a young person is
forming an identity you don't agree with
theologically?
Is your love for the young person bigger
than your love for your theology?
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Case Studies
10. Black Lives Matters
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How good are we at talking about race, both as
individuals and as a Church?
Do our Churches, and we as individuals, engage in
conversations with those from a BAME background
within our local Communities?
Do we talk about racism and the injustices faced by
others within our Churches and wider community?
What step(s) can we take both today and in the
coming days, weeks and months in response?
11. Work
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Is the changing High
Street, and the closures
of major retailers (e.g.
BHS, Toys āRā Us etc),
todayās version of Pit
Closures and the
declining Steel
Industry?
12. Brexit
Brexit ā what impact will
it have on young people's
identity?
Is there a cultural divide
between remainers and
leavers? Between North
and South? Rise of
Nationalism?
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17. Sexuality
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cs5Aolk0o30 ā BBC North West Inside Out
https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/lizzie-lowe-
death-church-changes-15185483
Do we create space within
our Churches,
denominations and youth
groups for safe
conversations to take place
where we can explore
different theological view
points?
18. Love is an Orientation by Andrew Marin
Bible Gender Sexuality by James Brownson
Approaching Gender Dysphoria by Mark
Yarhouse and Julia Sadusky
Further resources and links...
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Editor's Notes
Over the course of the next 45-60 minutes, we might touch on issues where we as individuals disagree with each other; or our Churches have a different theological stance to ours and other peopleās Churches; or we might touch on identity issues which either weāve struggled with, or someone close to us has struggled with.
Weāre very good as humans, as Christians and as the Church to brush difficult conversations under the carpet, and we want this to be a safe place where we can potentially discuss some of those difficult issues; yet we also want to do so in a loving, respectful way. If weāre aware we might be saying something contreversiol, we want you to feel comfortable to be able to say it, but please think through carefully about how you might say it. And if you canāt find a suitable way to say it, it might be wise to keep that thought for your assignment, where you can give it some more thought, and where only Mike or I will read it.
Finally, if anyone at any point feels uncomfortable and feels that you could do with some space, please do feel free to take yourself out of the room for as long as you need.
A personās identity will be unique to themselves because each person lives in a different context.
Argument that the Adolescence years are finishing later. People getting married later (me ā 30 compared to my parents at 24); having children later (me ā 33; parents 27); moving into their own homes later; people staying in education longer; starting first job later
Newspapers / magazines dotted around to spark ideas
Work identity Changing work patterns, especially in communities where a large employee suddenly disappears. e.g. Parson Cross: Identity was rooted in the steel industry ā the work, sense of community, purpose etc. Now all gone / been lost. Similar happening today in places where large employees almost overnight disappear ā car companies, Toys R Us, BHS, House of Frazer...Ā
A key part of what we do as youth workers, therefore, argues Young, is helping our young people find out, develop and form their own identity, whatever that might be for them. Do we prepare our young people for life in the āreal worldā outside of the Church / Christian bubble? Photocopy chapter 2 of āFaith Forwardā for people to take home. Danger often is that our young people become fantastic Christians when theyāre with us ā read the Bible ā pray ā etc etc ā but as soon as they go and see the real world, go to University, go and see poverty close up, and their faith can take a beating. Read bottom of p41-top of p43 if time of Faith Forward book.
We often think that itās just the Church / parts of the Church which is portrayed as having issues with the LGBTQi communityā¦and yet itās potentially much bigger than thatā¦and yet we must acknowledge that the church does face challenges around this area.
We often think that itās just the Church / parts of the Church which is portrayed as having issues with the LGBTQi communityā¦and yet itās potentially much bigger than thatā¦and yet we must acknowledge that the church does face challenges around this area.
Do we create space within our Churches, denominations and youth groups for safe conversations to take place where we can explore different theological view points?
Do we create space within our Churches, denominations and youth groups for safe conversations to take place where we can explore different theological view points?
Do we create space within our Churches, denominations and youth groups for safe conversations to take place where we can explore different theological view points?