3. Their refrigerator is empty or filled with spoiled food or your
loved one is losing weight. These could be signs they are not
eating well because shopping and/or cooking may be difficult.
Bruises may be a sign of your loved one falling or facing mobility
and balance challenges
The same clothes are worn repeatedly or personal hygiene is
being neglected. This could mean bathing and doing laundry are
both physically challenging.
The house and yard isn’t as clean and kept up as it was in the past
Forgetfulness, including missing doctor appointments and when
to take medications. These are possible signs of memory loss.
Your loved one is depressed. Depression is common in seniors
who are isolated or alone.
Strange or inappropriate behavior. As an example, your loved
one may dress in summer clothes on a cold, winter day. This
could be a sign of confusion
4. New Lifestyles Directory
Senior Resource Guide
Area Office for the Aging
Alzheimer’s Association
Geriatric Care Managers
The Internet
A Place for Mom
Individual Community Websites
CMS website
Hospital Discharge Planners
Best resource: Friends and Family Referrals
5. The $$ questions
Monthly fees?
What is included?
Additional Fees
What and when is the annual fee increase?
Services
Calendar of events?
Lifestyle Amenities
Tell me out your organization?
For profit vs. not for profit difference
Is the annual report available to review?
Past state survey results
6. Walk in tours accepted?
First Impression is a lasting impression
Welcoming
Clean/Odor Free
Full disclosure when asked questions
Opportunity to meet leadership and residents
Request to have a meal
Does the food look and taste
Do they accommodate special diets
7. The staff:
Are they taking the time to speak with you or are you being
rushed?
Do they appear genuinely interested in you and your loved
one?
Do they interact warmly with current residents?
How well do they handle emergencies?
The residents:
Do they appear happy?
Do they enjoy interacting with one another?
Are they people your loved one would like to get to know?
Are there hobbies or activities that look interesting to your
loved one
