A presentation for those who need it. I have begun the endeavor to compile all I know regarding this subject as my legacy. I pray it helps.

1. The Art of Interaction
Rule One: A good time is still a good
time, regardless of intimacy levels.

2. Flirting is key. Period.
• Women like to have fun, same as guys do.
• A good conversation is critical; key topics need to
be addressed, interest MUST be shown, and it
needs to be a give and take.
• A little alcohol can go a long way in loosening the
bonds of social awkwardness; don’t get
snockered. This is just embarrassing and will ruin
any chance of making a real connection with her
in a positive way.
• Don’t be overbearing. Focus your attention on
getting to know her and having fun with her.

3. Flirting (cont.)
• Touch on key topics. Her hobbies are going to be your saving grace. 83% of
all conversations between people not in relationships are in some way
related to hobbies, whether it be work, school, entertainment, cars,
pets…They all fall into this category. The key is finding out what it is that
she is most willing to talk about.
• Don’t stay on one topic too long unless it is important. You may end up
bored, or she will, and that just isn’t good. Keep it fresh, and learn as
much as you can.
• Don’t ignore her friends, and this important for a few different reasons.
– First off, if you aren’t good enough for her friends at the first
encounter, you aren’t good enough for her.
– Second, you can keep the conversation flowing with outsiders’ input,
but don’t ignore her. Occasionally bring the focus back on her in a
major way, and her girl-friends will pick up on the hint.
– Last, it makes you sociable. You like to have fun and meet new people
and girls love that kind of guy.
• HAVE FUN!!! If you are having fun, even if she isn’t, she will want to, and
that is a good thing. That gets you more involved and the focus and lead is
given to you to run with.

4. The “Friend-zone” is bullshit.
• Married couples around the world will tell you that their
spouse is their best friend.
• It is easier to be comfortable and have fun around someone
you trust, like a friend.
• If she doesn’t like you enough to be your friend, why would
she want to be with you?
• Never give up. Men get “friend zoned” and they throw in
the towel, which is ridiculous. Anything worth having is
worth working for, gents.
• If you find yourself in the “friend zone” and can’t get out,
guess what? That is your fault, candy ass, because you
weren’t willing to make your intentions clear and follow
through on them.

5. The cheat code that is the
Compliment.
• Tell a girl she looks good. Because she does, if she didn’t, would you be
talking to her? Be honest, the answer is no.
• Be TRUTHFUL. The female BS detector is hair trigger sensitive, so if you
embellish a little, make sure that there is a grain of truth in what you say.
• Don‘t be a douche bag. Saying things like, “you look fine” or “hey sexy”
just make you sound like a prick. Words like gorgeous, beautiful, cute, and
amazing are your friends, so keep them close.
• Keep It Simple Stupid. Long winded lines about how good a girl looks just
make you sound arrogant and reveal how hard you are trying. Don’t make
that mistake.
• A girl will always take great care and put effort into their appearance, no
matter where they are going or what they are doing. Capitalize on this
and make a few remarks about their hair, their dress… But don’t focus on
it too much or you will be “Gay-zoned”

6. Dancing
• Girls LOVE to dance. Period. If you have even average
dancing skills, you’ll earn points. Hips and footwork are
critical when dancing to impress.
• Have fun. I cannot stress this enough. Even if you suck
at dancing, if you don’t dance, girls will notice. So get
out there and just move to the beat, it isn’t that hard.
• Now if you ARE an avid dancer, use your stuff. The
dance, no matter what form, is an exchange of
movement and passion, an act that can speak volumes.
It prepares the endorphins to spring forth, gets your
heart racing and sets your soul on fire. Perfect
conditions for a memorable night.

7. Your attire.
• As important as this is, I don’t care if some guys will make
remarks about my sexuality. A well dressed and groomed man
is a mighty fine thing indeed, and the ladies know this.
• A collared shirt is key, whether it is buttoned up with a tie
added, or the top few buttons are open, it has a sense of
class. It also shows that you care about your image, and you
care how people view you.
• Slacks are good, as are a nice pair of jeans that fit. Sweat
pants, no. Shorts, no (unless you are at a beach or river party).
Manpris are definitely out.
• The shoes, omg, the fucking shoes. These clunky, oversized
skater shoes are an arrow to the knee, and I mean it. Stylish
sneakers that fit are a much better choice if you can’t bring
yourself to wear a decent pair of dress shoes.

8. Grooming.
• The hair. It is an issue, no matter what style you choose, it needs to look
good and neat. The “Ijustgotoutofbed” look is bullshit, it gets in the way
and makes you look like a loser who doesn’t give a shit.
• Honestly, I prefer a shorter cut, and I use a product that gives it shine and
form without being crunchy. Most girls love nothing more than to run
their hands thru the hair of the guy they snagged, so why make it difficult
for them?
• Facial hair. Again, keep it neat. Scraggle and long awkward hairs in random
places are never attractive. The razor is your friend, so use it. If you can’t
make an area look uniform, be rid of it.
• Piercings…Some girls like the earing and lip ring thing, but I stress the
“some”. Most girls don’t like a guy with a face full of metal, and it isn’t
difficult to imagine why.
• Your smell. Let’s face it guys, we can get pretty gnarly. So brush your teeth,
wash your face, scrub in all places in the shower, keep gum on hand and
for god’s sake Use The DEODERANT!

9. Accessories
• Be honest guys, we’ve got ‘em. Rings, bracelets, necklaces, sunglasses,
wallets, watch…They all play a part in our attire.
• Keep It Simple Stupid. Overuse of these can look gaudy and arrogant, we
don’t want that. A nice silver band on the finger, a simple chain around the
neck (if you must) and a sleek stylish wallet are boons for your
appearance.
• Sunglasses. All guys have them. Some of us shouldn’t have the ones we
do. Large, bulky shades are not necessary, nor are these stupid Kanye
glasses. Get rid of them, and get a good pair that have dark colors and
keep the sun out of your eyes. That’s what they are for, I personally have a
few pairs of Aviators and some slim driving shades.
• The watch. It’s a sophisticated addition, if the right one is utilized. Mickey
Mouse ain’t gonna cut it, nor is a massive, flashy one. A silver band with a
simple watch face is good. DON’T FIDGET WITH IT! Girls WILL notice, and
they will assume you are trying to attract attention to it.

10. Drinking
• This is another key subject. Alcohol can open doors for you, but if
you screw it up, it will close those doors faster than you thought
possible.
• Keep it light, overdrinking while trying to make a connection can
and will be insulting to the lady. It also helps prevent spontaneous
barfing, which is a plus no matter the situation.
• Don’t let her get too drunk, and before you all get incredulous and
declare blasphemy, here is why. No one can predict how they will
act while drunk, some black out, some get angry, some get stupid.
You don’t want to wake up to her drowning in regret after having
shagged you under the influence. Also, watching a girl hurl is not
the most attractive sight.
• A little social lubricant is astoundingly effective. You can bond over
drinks, you can fill an awkward silence with the offer of a refill, and
it puts both of you at ease. What’s not to love?

11. Don’t forget…
These are just the basics. There is so much more
that goes into having a good time with a
woman, but these points and tips are your
foundation. You have to start here before you
can get deeper into anything else. I wish you all
luck, and remember, a good time, even without
getting any action is still a good time.