The document discusses the vows of partnership in marriage. It outlines three vows: 1) God will be the number one priority and one's spouse will be number two, 2) to always pursue one's spouse, and 3) for the marriage to be about "we" not "me". It emphasizes communicating openly, doing life together, discovering a common purpose, and having a covenant partnership based on mutual submission and godly leadership. Working to strengthen the partnership through sharing feelings, wants, and granting forgiveness is advised to overcome conflicts. The overall message is that having a heaven-sent and God-led partnership with one's spouse is important.
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The vow of partnership
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2. THE VOW OF PARTNERSHIP
Gen 2:18 – 25
During courtship, opposite sex
attracts.
After you are married opposite
sex attacks.
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In marriage you complete each other.
In marriage we have the our dark side.
God created us to complete each and
not to compete each other.
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For the last 2 weeks here are our vows.
VOW #1 :
I promise that God will be my
number ONE priority and my
spouse will be number TWO.
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VOW#2:
I promise to always pursue
my number TWO.
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Success starts in marriage and it
starts at home.
Pursuit is something that we must
do consistently for life. It is a life
time commitment
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Gen 2:24
ONE- In Hebrew it is echad
(ekh-awd) -which means united,
altogether, completely joined as
one.
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Ecc 4:12
Marriage is a covenant
not a contract.
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Malachi 2:14
Marriage contract is based on mutual
mistrust.
Marriage covenant is based mutual
commitment.
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Covenant
In Hebrew it is beriyth (ber-eeth)
means cutting, a binding
agreement, a blood covenant.
Marriage is a holy covenant with God.
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Partnership means state of being
partner; we should go on working
together.
As partners you have a specific goal and
purpose in any endeavor that you want
to do.
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VOW #3:
I promise our marriage will be
about WE and not ME.
1.
THE POWER OF WE.
(Luke 11:17)
Gen 2:24
Deut 32:30
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Anything that is disunited fails.
You can not be successful as a
couple if you are disunited.
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The power of unity is
exponential.
Ecclessiastes 4:9-12
(Example the Tower of Babel)
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The power is limitless in
unity.
In unity nothing is
impossible.
When couple is united , they
become powerful.
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I.
MARRIAGE IS ABOUT WE
NOT ME.
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How do we become
good Partners as a
couple?
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A. COMMUNICATE OPENLY.
Marriage is like lottery you don’t know what will happen
unless you marry your girlfriend or boyfriend.
How can we help you in you don’t express what you want.
Consider your Partner as your best friend so you could
communicate openly.
As a couple you must have an effective and honest
communication.
The #1 reason why marriage PARTNERSHIPS were
dissolved: IS POOR COMMUNICATION
20. COMMUNICATE OPENLY
Communication about money.
All of us are good communicators before we get
married but after few years of marriage we become
poor in communication..
Conflicts is not an issue, Unresolved conflicts is the
problem because of poor communication.
Strong communication becomes strong partnership.
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B. DOING LIFE TOGETHER.
We have to do life together,
we have to have shared interest, shared
passion, shared vision, shared life
together.
Build life together. Watch the game, jog
in the morning, eat together, mall
together.
Enjoy the kids together.
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C. DISCOVER YOUR COMMON
PURPOSE.
When you don’t talk and do not life together then you
can not discover your common purpose.
It leads you to a purpose. You have a destiny. For us build
church together. You must know your kids destiny so
you could help them rich there destiny.
Parent together.
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DISCOVER YOUR COMMON
PURPOSE.
What is your purpose? Dream.
If you are courting then discuss what is your purpose to
your future partner.
There should be a purpose on your marriage. What is
your purpose on why you getting married?
24. Gen 2:18
Not just only make babies but to have
partner in everything we do, enjoy life
with your spouse, serve God and form
a godly family.
You must have one vision and go with
the same direction.