The document discusses how finding the right person is not guaranteed to make everything alright and commitment is overrated. It argues that becoming the right person oneself through maturing, being patient and kind rather than childish, and embodying love as described in 1 Corinthians 13 is more important and underrated. The key is becoming the type of person that the person you are looking for would be looking for.

2. 1. The RIGHT PERSON story is
overrated

3. The myth isn’t that there is a right one for
you.
THERE IS!
The myth is that if you find the right one
everything will be alright!

4. 2. Commitment is overrated

5. 3. Becoming the right person is
underrated

6. ARE YOU THE PERSON THE PERSON YOU
ARE LOOKING FOR IS LOOKING FOR?
Andy Stanley

7. How to become the person the person
you are looking for is looking for…
1 Corinthians 13:11 (NIV)
When I was a child, I talked like a child, I
thought like a child, I reasoned like a
child. When I became a man, I put childish
ways behind me.

8. 1 Corinthians 13:1-10 (NIV)
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not
envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It
is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not
easily angered, it keeps no record of
wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but
rejoices with the truth. 7 It always
protects, always trusts, always hopes,
always perseveres.

9. ARE YOU THE PERSON THE PERSON YOU
ARE LOOKING FOR IS LOOKING FOR?
Andy Stanley

10. 4. Single and Satisfied