2. Outline
• Our brain is naturally Negative and
Fearful
• God give us a gift: Freedom of Choice
• Six Ways to Reprogram your Minds
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3. Outline
• A. Choose Your Emotions: Happiness and Fear
• B. Choose Your Words: A-Z
• C. Choose Your Reading Materials: Law of
Attraction
• D. Choose Your Thinking: Appreciative
Thinking
• E. Choose Your Actions: Posture, Voice, Pace
• F. Choose Your Strengths
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12. Free Will
Focus on Positive / Negative
Focus on Strengths/ Weaknesses
Focus on Gratitude/Complaints
Focus on Solution/ Problems
Exercise:
Your Own
Your Staff
Your Boss
Your Companies
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14. Free Will
Focus on Positive / Negative
Focus on Strengths/ Weaknesses
Focus on Gratitude/Complaints
Focus on Solution/ Problems
Exercise:
Your Own
Your Staff
Your Boss
Your Companies
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16. 6 Ways
• A. Choose Your Emotions: Happiness and Fear
• B. Choose Your Words: A-Z
• C. Choose Your Reading Materials: Law of
Attraction
• D. Choose Your Thinking: Appreciative Thinking
• E. Choose Your Actions: Posture, Voice, Pace
• F. Choose Your Strengths
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17. 1. Choose Your Emotions
Happiness is a decision
Focus on the presence
Fear is also a decision
Focus on the future uncertainty and past
failure and current fears
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18. 2. Choose Your Words
I am wonderful
I am good
I can make it
I have abundance life
I am courageous
I am happy
I forgive (you) and release (me)
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19. Positive Language
Reactive Language Proactive Language
There’s nothing I can do. Let’s look at the alternatives.
That’s just the way I am. I can choose a different
approach.
He makes me so mad. I control my own feelings.
I have to do that.
I will choose an appropriate
response.
I can’t. I choose.
I must. I prefer.
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20. Words can affect Positive
Emotions
I can do it!
• Visualize
• Anchor
• Focus
• Action
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21. 3. Choose Your Actions
Smile makes you Happy
Speak louder cheers everyone up
Walk straight makes you confident
Walk faster makes you energetic
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22. 4. Choose Your Reading
Materials: Asset Based Thinking
A to Z
Choose 3 of the
alphabets mean a
lot to you
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25. Why Focus on Strengths?
Employees who have an opportunity to play to their
strengths every day are:
50% more likely to work in teams with low turnover
38% more likely to work in more productive teams
44% more likely to work in teams with higher customer
satisfaction scores
Source: Now, Discover Your Strengths
M. Buckingham
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27. Strength Finding Questions
What are the your two major achievements? What
strengths are demonstrated in these two achievements?
Three things you enjoy doing at work?
What are your top three skills?
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28. Strength Finding Questions
What are the three things you enjoy doing so
much that it makes them lose track of time?
What are two things usually people compliment
you for?
What are two things you learn rapidly?
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29. Work and Strengths
• My three key strengths are
_________________________________
_____________________________________________
_____________________________________________
• Opportunities to apply these strengths
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30. Strengths of Your Employees
Name Strengths Work
Michael Lee Event management
Good with People
Good network
Department Outing
Customer service
Contact Vendor
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31. Outline
• Our brain is naturally Negative and
Fearful
• God give us a gift: Freedom of Choice
• Four Ways to Reprogram your Minds
• A. Choose Your Emotions: Happiness and Fear
• B. Choose Your Words: A-Z
• C. Choose Your Reading Materials: Law of Attraction
• D. Choose Your Thinking: Appreciative Thinking
• E. Choose Your Actions: Posture, Voice, Pace
• F. Choose Your Strengths
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