When co-parents have ongoing conflict over custody of their children, at least one of the parents wants to maintain contact and communication with the other parent. Every interaction in writing or in person can cause anxiety and stress between conflict, which leads to conflict. Here are some tips to control communication with the other parent to reduce conflict. Dr. Deena Stacer is a parent educator offering online and live coparenting courses for parents to help them stop their fighting over the children. Online courses are located at www.parentsinconflict.com.
13. Rules for Writing Emails & Notes
10.
When you are too emotional, handwrite an “oops” letter
first, then have a friend strike out all of the “oops”
language until you have only the facts and specifics.
11.
Remember, emails are forever.
If you don’t want it to show up
in court, don’t write it! Write a
draft in a word document rather
than in email format, so you
don’t accidently hit “send”
rather than the “save” button.