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The Pros And Cons Of Peer Pressure
Peer pressure is the influence that one person or group has on another. Peer pressure is a
devastating force that affects the lives of millions across the world. Most often, peer pressure
receives a reputation for being demeaning, harsh, brutal, and generally negative. However, peer
pressure can inspire the affected party to rise above the cruelty and positively impact their own lives.
Yes,peer pressure may negatively affect someone's life, but it may also change their life in a positive
manner. Generally, peerpressure receives a negative perception from all people, especially teenagers.
As a person ages, they begin to care less and less of their image, but in a person's early years of
middle and high school is when the most effort is put into their public portrayal. Negative peer
pressure can be very demeaning, and ruin a person's self–esteem. Personally, I have been a victim of
peer pressure. As a young boy, I was in fact obese. I struggled with my eating habits and the result
was an unathletic, nerdy, unattractive boy. This image I had created for myself caused me a world
of terror. Everyday, when at school, I was the butt of the fat jokes and was excluded from most
friend groups. My self–confidence hit rock bottom and I had zero faith I would overcome this
obstacle. Now, even though I have overcome obesity and become healthy, my past still haunts me. I
am very shy and reserved, and I am constantly worried about my image and how people view me.
Although this peer
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Abstract On Peer Pressure
1 University of Central Oklahoma
Peer Pressure
Amanda Bradford
Sociology
Professor Coon
11–06–17
abstract:
Peer pressure is a social pressure by members of one's peer group to take certain action, adopt
certain values, or otherwise conform to be accepted. Thoughts, behaviors, music and fashion often
have a deep impact on our society. It is a person's tendency to do what the crowd does. During
adolescence one of the primary goals is being a member of a peer group, which also brings a feeling
of belonging and social acceptance. One can fall prey to peer pressure at any time in their lives,
however, it primarily affects adolescence and teens. At this age, most teens have not developed the
ability to determine what is considered right and wrong; also, teens are trying to find where they fit
in which allows them to be an easy target to peer pressure. Peer pressure plays a huge part in
steering the interest and experiences of teenagers.
There are two different types of peer pressure positive and negative. Positive peer pressure may be
eating healthy, exercising, attending religious services, or attending after school programs.
Although, positive peer influence happens regularly, we tend to focus on the negative, and how
negative peer pressure impacts individuals daily. Negative peer pressure may include taking drugs,
skipping school, having sex
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The Problem Of Peer Pressure
Today, teenagers are faced with problems that they do not know how to handle. A teenager is
anywhere from a 13 year old to a 19 year old, so problems change depending on the stages of life.
Some are worried about school, being that "perfect" student, grades, and college. While others are
counting down the days for the next party over the weekend. Of course everyone is different, but
most teenagers deal with the same problems. Peer pressure, beauty, responsibility, and the future, are
common for a teenager of all ages to face. These "problems" do not always have to be problems,
most of the time they are out of worry. Friends play an important role in life, peer pressure is
being influenced, but is not always by a friend. When thinking about peer pressure drugs and
alcohol come to mind. Most teenagers try drugs or alcohol out of fear. Fear of not fitting in or
being judged. Judging is easy to do, naturally, and causes people to do things depending on who
they socialize with. Fashion is a big role in a teenager's life, the clothes one wears expresses the
way they feel about themselves. Not only that but fashion makes a statement, and can be
intimidating. This can cause one to feel pressured to stay stylish, and keeping up to date with the
latest style. Fear of being made fun of by others falls in with fashion, which leads to pressure from
peers to fit in with society. Peer pressure can cause one to do things they normally would not do,
which can be used in a good or bad
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Essay on Overcoming Peer Pressure
"The ugly reality is that peer pressure reaches its greatest intensity at just the age when kids tend to
be most insensitive and cruel." –– Walt Mueller, Understanding Today's Youth Culture
Overcoming peer pressure always proves to be a challenge; being in the moment with the intention
of rejecting the pressure tends to breed fear. There are all types of pressures in life from people, to
possible addiction causing agents, and the desire to have fun. Personally at UC Irvine people may
say there is not much to do, but there are a variety of things if you know where to look –seen in
another Zot blogger's posts. The peer pressure at UCI in terms of drugs or alcohol is not excessive,
but the possibilities of neglecting your studies is....show more content...
Make a time limit for breaks; time management, even if not highly detailed, can be your greatest tool.
No matter how many friends you have, spend more time with those who do not pressure you to
ignore your studies.
Make a schedule or to do list and stick to it!
Drugs and alcohol are not a massive factor, but realize there are people around who consider it an
occasional reliever. It absolutely is not!
Cigarettes may be suggested to you, but just as a drug they do not help, they harm!
Two people drinking to peer pressure girl
I have experienced a variety of these peer pressures, but am proud to say I have not fallen to the
temptations even once. Drinking seems to be the most present in any college, but hopefully your
experience compares to mine. I had the honor of celebrating with my club's board members after a
successful benefit concert we held. We went out to eat and then got a ride to an apartment of an
older student. The board members were all of drinking age other than me, most deciding to stay over
the room after celebrating. I was offered a minimal amount –since they were respectful that I am a
minor– but I politely refused every type offered. These individuals were respectful of my wishes,
but not everyone is as kind, and they may influence you further. The choice is always your own,
and do not doubt there will be times people will place the choice around you but you do not
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Peer Pressure Research Paper
Peer pressure is quite the controversial matter today. It is the feeling that someone your own age is
pushing you toward making a certain choices, good or bad.(The Cool Spot). The level of peer
influence generally increases as children grow and it has become an important influence on behavior
during adolescence. Many researches and surveys have been done to find the answer to the question
whether peer pressure is beneficial or harmful for teenagers. While Karcher &Finn (2005) claimed
that peer pressure is the biggest factor result in bad behavious of adolescents; Bukowski (1998) and
Salvy (2011) argued that pressure from peers can bring amazing benefits for them. The following
writing will discuss peer pressure and from then show that peer pressure can also good for teenagers,
too. Many people, including researchers and psychologists,...when thinking of "pressure", they
believe that peer pressure has negative effects that can lead to devastating consequences. According
to a publication on peer pressure by Parent Further(2015), only...show more content...
Experiencing peer pressure is a way to learn how to overcome pressure and to discover ourselves.
We can not become perfect, but we definitely become stronger, more confident and are willing to
cope with difficulties. Exposure to peer pressure also gives us an opportunity to think about other
people's outlooks towards life. It is a chance for us to choose the best from what the masses do as
well as lead us to make right choices in life. To minimize the bad effects of peer pressure, parential
involvement plays a very important part – promote healthy behaviors and decrease the chance to
engage in risky behavior. Besides, each person should be true to themselves and choose the peer
groups to play with
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Peer Pressure And The Identity Crisis
Peer Pressure also contributes to the prevalence of the identity crisis menace.
Peer pressure accounts for much of the promiscuous sex in high schools and colleges. Conform or
get lost. Since no one enjoys losing friends or being cast out of his own circle, peer pressure,
especially during the years of adolescence is an almost irresistible force declares Billy Graham. Peer
pressure is a big factor in the formation of our self–concept and personality. According to Alexandra
Robbins, when a child sees herself through the prism of her peer group, the resulting self–image can
be distorted. This bandwagon effect has an overwhelming influence on us, particularly during our
teenage years. Going with the fad without questioning our rationale becomes acceptable to most
teens during this period. Otherwise, they may feel alienated or left out. The yearning for a sense
of belonging and approval especially from our peers when growing up is a fundamental trigger of
the identity crisis menace. Many of us, in order to fit in and get approved by our peers lose our true
identity in this process.
Similarly, self–limiting beliefs are some of the catalysts promoting the identity crisis syndrome.
Our beliefs have a profound effect on our state...show more content...
These traditions are being touted daily by our media houses and some thought leaders. Any attempt
to deviate from these traditions makes an individual an abnormal or awkward member of the
society. For example, the society expects an individual to go to school, get a good grade, get a good
job and start a family without emphasis on self–discovery and exploration. To conform to a sick
society is to become sick says Richard J. Foster. It is pretty easy to lose our true identity among the
crowd particularly in this fast–paced and increasingly challenging 21st–century global society where
we are being bombarded daily with conflicting information and
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Peer Pressure And Bullying Essay
Peer pressure and bullying are very prominent problems with teenagers today. Peer pressure is
defined as "social pressure by members of a person's peer group to take a certain action, adopt
certain values, or otherwise conform in order to be accepted. MLA CITATION BRO" Every
person plays a certain role within a clique and these roles have attributes specific to them. In
Rosalind Wiseman's "Queen Bee and Her Court," the author gives readers an in depth and detailed
description of these stereotypes in typical high–school cliques. These roles include: the "Queen Bee",
"Sidekick", "Banker", "Floater", "Torn Bystander", "Pleaser", and "Target". Depending on the role
people play within the clique, they can be affected by positive and/or negative peer pressure. After
reading the article, I think that all the roles are connected through peer pressure and bullying, as
each person has a different way of dealing with it and the people who are associated with them.
The types of pressures include: positive peer pressure, negative peer pressure, and bullying. First of
all, the "Queen Bees" are the characters associated with negative peer pressure. Negative peer
pressure is a certain action or activity that someone negatively. As Rosalind Wiseman says, "Through
a combination of charisma, force, money, looks, will, and manipulation, this girl reigns summer over
the other girls and weakens their friendships with others" (Wiseman 346). For example, "Queen
Bees" can utilize their
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Argumentative Essay On Peer Pressure
"Come on, you know you want to do it!" "You are such a loser, just do it already!" "Are you
chicken?" Many of us will agree that these are familiar statements that we have either said or heard.
Peer pressure is everywhere. Schools, jobs, sports, home, and life in general. Most of the peer
pressure we face occurs in school when we are surrounded by our friends or people we are trying
to fit in with. These encounters help shape us and can cause us to make difficult choices. It's
through these choices that we can either take a path of trouble and destruction or rise up and
stand our ground. Everyone has to deal with it at some point and it's how you deal with it that
turns peer pressure into either a negative or a positive. Even though there are times when peer
pressure is positive, the majority of the peer pressure facing kids today is negative and can lead
them to extremes such as gang behavior or even sex.
First is the type of negative peer pressure that leads to gang behavior. Gang behavior can include
anything from stealing and carjacking, to selling drugs. Many times, kids that succumb to this type
of peer pressure live in poverty or come from single parent homes. In the article "Peer Pressure
Influences Gang Behavior", the author Dale Greer explores the life of a young boy and the choices
he made that eventually landed him in jail. Greer discovers that through negative peer pressure a
thirteen–year–old boy goes from being a good student, to dropping out of school and living a life of
crime, until eventually being accused of murder and sent to jail (1–3). These destructive events
stemmed from other thirteen–year olds making fun of this young boy because of the clothes he wore
and the environment he was raised in. The choices he made from stealing, to taking drugs, and
eventually murder were all the boy's choices; however, the kids he was trying to fit in with
pressured him into making many of his decisions. Eventually the young boy, after being sentenced
to jail, makes the statement, "Had I known what I know now, I wouldn't have never joined 'The
Posse.' After all I've done to prove my loyalty to them, not one of the members who remain at large
came to my aid" (Greer 3). This realization unfortunately
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Argumentative Essay On Peer Pressure
Peer Pressure: An Epidemic We all have been young adolescents before and experienced all the
things junior high and high school has to offer. Being a teenager is something everyone has or
will experience in our life times. Teenagers go through a crucial time in their lives where they
really figure out who they are and how to make more adult decisions. Peer pressure has always
been a regular part of teenage life. American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry state's
"Peers play a large role in the social and emotional development of children and adolescents. Their
influence begins at an early age and increases through the teenage years. It is natural, healthy and
important for children to have and rely on friends as they grow and...show more content...
"Statistics prove that 30% of teenagers have shoplifted at least once due to peer pressure. Over
half of teenagers will experiment with alcohol. About 40% of teenagers have tried drugs," states
Jeanie Lerche Davis author of Teenagers: Why Do They Rebel. The fact there is a new found
freedom gives these adolescents opportunities to get pushed into doing the wrong thing. It begins
with one person who is more rebellious than others to create the domino effect. When a child is a
toddler, they are impressionable, they follow the lead of the adults in their lives. If they hear
their parents say a curse word they will repeat it. Teenagers are impressionable in a very similar
way and they're stuck in the middle of learning who they are and who they want to be. If one
friend shoplifts, they can easily get pressured into it, the same goes for alcohol and drugs. These
things become cool, and when you're a teenager that's all that matters. In reality though doing these
"cool" things are actually incredibly harmful, leading these teenagers down a wrong path. There
are 3 different types of peer pressure, the first one is direct. Direct peer pressure is when other
teenagers pressure an individual into making a choice. The second type is indirect peer pressure,
which is when a teenager is exposed to something negative like smoking, but they aren't directly told
to participate. The last type is individual, which is when an individual feels the
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Negative Peer Pressure Essay
Go on." "Everybody's doing it." "It's only one drink." "You're such a loser."
I didn't know what to do. All these voices were repeating themselves over and over in my head. I
didn't want to give into them because I knew what I was doing was wrong. I didn't want everyone
to think I was scared but what if my parents found out. Why was I here? Are these people really
my friends if they are really doing this to me? These were the vital questions that I didn't know the
answers to. I knew in my heart it was wrong but I gave in.
This is usually the typical outcome of a scene like this. It is called peer pressure. It can be disguised
in many different forms. In this essay I am going to look at...show more content...
If you are caught, you might be prosecuted. If you are found in possession of more than a small
quantity, you risk more serious charges of 'possession with intent to supply, or dealing.
Another issue that teenagers are faced with and usually try to avoid is crime. People aged between
ten and twenty–one commit half of all crimes. Ninety per cent of these involve breaking into
buildings, theft of property or other vandalism. Most people get involved in crimes such as
shoplifting, joyriding, vandalism or arson just for the thrill of getting away with it. Teenagers
often steal things they don't even want or need. Usually these crimes are committed without
thought or planning, and repeated only occasionally for a period of a few months, until the
excitement begins to wear off. For some teenagers shoplifting or stealing cars begins as a bit of
fun but it can get out of hand and crime can become a habit. Teenage boys are at more risk of
getting into trouble than girls, however the amount of 'girl gangs committing crimes is becoming
more and more common. In 1957 girls accounted for only one crime in eleven. These days girls
commit more than one in four of all juvenile crimes. Friends often encourage each other to go much
further than anyone would alone; when
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Teenagers, Drugs , and Peer Pressure Essay
Teenagers, Drugs , and Peer Pressure
Drug use is an increasing problem among teenagers in today's high schools. Most drug use begins
in the teenage years, these years are the most crucial in the maturing process. During these years
adolescents are faced with the difficult tasks of discovering their self identity, clarifying their
sexual roles, assenting independence, learning to cope with authority figures and searching for
goals that would give their lives meaning. Drugs are readily available, adolescents are curious and
venerable, and there is peer pressure to experiment, and there is a temptation to escape from
conflicts. The use of drugs by teenagers is the result of a combination of factors such as peer
pressure, curiosity, and...show more content...
This response will create a sense of curiosity and may convince the person to try drugs themselves.
Many teenagers today believe that their first use of drugs is safe. However even though there is no
instant addiction with the first try, youngsters tend to experiment further. Soon a person could
actively seek the euphoric effects of drugs. The final and the most disastrous stage is when a person
needs drugs in order to function adequately. Therefore availability, curiosity and experimentation
could result in drug addiction among teenagers. One of the most devastating side effects of drug
addiction and abuse is depression. Depression is the result of chemical imbalance, environmental
influence, or a combination of both. Using heavy and very highly addictive drugs as heroin, cocaine,
opium and many other will cause sudden mood changes, deterioration of the immune system,
nervous breakdowns, unusual flares of temper and many other side effects. Besides physical side
effects, drug addiction can create problems in a person's social circles. The person may run into
many conflicts with his family and friends, resulting in desire for isolation. This in turn will create
more problems since the person will have no social support. Furthermore, drug addiction is a
financial strain especially for teenagers. When a person is addicted to drugs he will do anything to
obtain money to fulfill his needs. According to previous studies, drug addiction is the
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Essay On Peer Pressure
It is easy to believe that peer pressure exists only where you're directly being coerced by your
friends to do something you don't quite want to do. Peer pressure is not just about being offered
drugs by a classmate, or getting pressured into sex at a party, or buying new shoes because
everyone else has them. We are constantly being influenced by those around us, even the smallest
decisions we make. We have all experienced peer pressure, whether we realized it or not. I can
think of thousands of instances where my friends, family, and/or classmates influenced a choice I
made. One specific experience I had with peer pressure had to do simply with how I did my hair. Its
small things like that where we don't even realize until later on...show more content...
It was the first time I did anything with my hair and it felt strange, you could actually see my neck
and my ears. Plenty of girls tied their hair up, so it was nothing new. After the aimless running, I
figured it didn't hurt to keep my hair how it was. I could feel the breeze on my neck and the beads
of sweat building up below my hair on the back of my head. I decided to stay the rest of the day
with my hair up, do something new. The school day went by and no one said anything because it
was nothing important. I sat on the swings like I normally did, but instead of almost being
blinded by my hair, I could see the schoolyard as I swung. We played tag and I felt agiler because I
didn't have to keep putting my hair behind my ears. The day came to an end and I had to wait for
the bus in the gym. I was sitting with a couple of friends on the floor against the wall. I had my
legs crossed and half of me was against the blue mat on the wall and the other half with my hand
running along the dust on the glossy blue gym floor. We were talking about trivial things when the
conversation leads to one friend saying to me: "Oh, Jazmin, I think you look better with your hair
up! It looks good!" It was a simple compliment, my other friends agreed and gave their two cents
about how my hair was now better. I didn't think too much of it at the time, I just responded with a
single "Thanks." The bus arrived and we parted
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The Pros and Cons of Peer Pressure Essay
Peer pressure pressures peers in both positive and negative ways, depending on the situation. Peer
pressure can display through attitudes, risky behaviors, wicked influences, and substantially through
media in everyday life. These influences can occur in a positive way, which are particularly related
to school and academics. On the other hand, negative pressure that can result from social media and
any individual that may pressure people around them to make destructive choices. School is the
biggest influence for kids. Every day, kids surround themselves with many other different students in
school. In that case, the more time they spend together, the more of an influence they may have on
each other. Peer pressure starts early on the...show more content...
Being consistent role models as parents helps kids to build respect and trust for themselves and it
will benefit the parents in the long run. Being supportive with every decision they make because
it will help them gain trust and also help them feel some type of support. Teens are the most
influential group in today's society. They are very concerned about their image (F., 2004). To
them, it can seem very important to fit in because teens like to do what their friends are doing so
they won't feel left out. Often, teens spend more time worrying about what others think of them
rather than anything else. Many teens choose to change their appearance and their behaviors for
attention or to gain approval to fit in from their group of peers. Perhaps the ones that teenagers
feel the need to impress are not actually friends at all. Instead, they are people who are appealing,
such as the popular crowd in a high school setting (Flippen). When teens are growing and
experimenting with the concept of individuality, they may experience a severe amount of pressure
to dabble with risky behaviors (F., 2004). Peer pressure is on to engage in behaviors that may not
be healthy, physically, or emotionally for teenagers (F., 2004). Some teens choose some behaviors
when they are ready, while many feel rushed into decisions that they are not quite ready to make.
Many teens feel pressured by their peers to do the wrong thing such as drug usage and alcohol
consumption. Teenagers
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Peer Pressure Essay
Adopt a clear point of view on a specific contemporary issue and argue how it has and will continue
to have an impact on your generation.
Peer Pressure. We have all at one stage in our lives, experienced it. We all know what it feels like
to be pressured by a peer. Peer pressure today impacts on kids of my generation in a huge aspect.
Teenagers feel social pressure in numerous ways such as clothing, music and entertainment choices,
to unsafe areas such as drugs, alcohol and smoking. During adolescence, kids emphasize their
independence and explore their identity. Yet they still crave the approval of their peers and worry
about being rejected and excluded. Peer pressure affects the way teenagers choose to live their lives.
It affects the...show more content...
With drugs, alcohol and smoking available, teenagers being curious, peer pressure and temptation
to escape all the drama and stress in their lives have an enormous effect. The use of drugs, alcohol
and smoking is the result of a combination of factors such as peer pressure, curiosity and availability.
Apart from dangerous things such as drugs, alcohol and smoking, there is also lots of negative
pressure to fit in and to be popular. To do this teenagers must be up to date with the new fashion,
entertainment (music and movies) and may even change there school studies in order to fit in
with their friends. With this negative peer pressure to stress about as well as other teenage issues,
adolescents may feel as though they cannot cope. The feeling of thriving to be someone you are
not and the issues of whether you are good enough for people, can ultimately lead into depression
amongst teenagers. Depression, can however, occur through drug addiction, which, as stated above,
can also be started up from peer pressure. Depression can cause sudden mood changes, nervous
breakdowns, unusual flares of temper and can also create problems in a persons social circle. The
person may run into conflicts with their family and friends, resulting in desire for isolation. This
would then ultimately create more problems since the person would have no social support. Feeling
lonely with no prospects for improvement and seeing
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Essay On Peer Pressure
Peers are equal in abilities, age, background and even social stature. Peer Pressure is society
pressuring a member of a peer group to undertake certain actions, adapt values, and do what they
believe will allow them to be accepted into such a group. In the Bible, the Old Testament, the
Gospels, and the New Testament provides examples of Peer Pressure. The ability to either fall into
or steer–clear of peer pressure is through the virtues of courage, temperance and prudence. We are
followers of Jesus Christ and we are not the same humans that once roamed the earth. We are should
be more confident in ourselves and our actions than relying on others to tell/show us what is
'acceptable' or not. The Bible gives us examples regarding peer...show more content...
Mark 15:15 states that Pilate was peer pressured into doing an act that he knew was not just,
"Wishing to satisfy the crowd, Pilate released Barabbas for them, and after having Jesus scourged,
he handed Him over to be crucified." This Gospel passage shows that our common sense can be
easily altered by a crowd of people wishing for a specific outcome. Pilate makes the ultimate
decision and worries that if the people do not get this outcome, they will riot and harm the one that
made the decision. This happens within our current society as well, regarding politics and how the
government feels pressured to do what the people want and if they do not, they fear of rebelling
occurring within their nation. Matthew 27:24–26 is alike to Mark because he too uses Pilate and his
actions as an example. Matthew writes, "When Pilate saw that he was accomplishing nothing,
but rather that a riot was starting, he took water and washed his hands in front of the crowd,
saying, 'I am innocent of this Man's blood; see to that yourselves.' And all the people said, 'His
blood shall be on us and on our children!' Then he released Barabbas for them; but after having
Jesus scourged, he handed Him over to be crucified." These verses precede an important beginning.
Yes, Pilate succumbs to the crowds and wishes to please them, but the crowd would not have yelled
Barabbas to be freed if it were not for
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Thesis On Peer Pressure
CRITICAL THINKING AND PROBLEM SOLVING
BARRIERS TO CRITICAL THINKING
PEER PRESSURE
Edward da Cunha
Modul University Dubai
REFLECTIVE ESSAY
Name: Muhammad Faique Baig
Student ID# 17020087
Date: 11/11/2017
ABSTRACT
Peer pressure is a type of social influence that produces a particular of acting or thinking. Childhood
or adolescence are the most prone to peer pressure influence. Peers as defined are the people whom
do you identify and spend time most of the time. Peer pressure by itself can be either positive or
negative, for example, both high and low academic achievements are closely linked to peer's
influence. Several studies confirm research findings that value of the peer group with whom their
students spend most of their time are stronger factors in student's level of academic success or failure.
Proposal
TOPIC – BARRIERS TO CRITICAL THINKING (PEER PRESSURE)
THESIS
Peer pressure is a very real issue that affects many of the teenagers of the world today. Society
offers many misleading advertisements that seem to lead teens in all the wrong directions. If the
youth of today are more educated, the future of our world will be a lot better.
TABLE OF CONTENT
1.Introduction.................................................................. Page 4
2.Body............................................................................... Page 5
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There are all sorts of pressures that children face today. Peer pressure is one thing that all teens
have in common. Some can't escape it because it is almost everywhere. Peer pressure is defined as
the way that people of the same social group can influence on another individual to take a certain
action, adopt certain values, or otherwise conform in order to be accepted. Teens are very quick and
accurate in making judgments and decisions on their own and in situations where they have time to
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Essay on Resisting Negative Peer Pressure
"Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself." ––Bruce Lee
"People! Come on! All of us are cutting history. Who wants to go take that stupid exam? We're going
to BreadSticks instead. Let's go!" says the coolest kid in your class. Do you do what you know is
right and go take the history exam? Or do you give in and go with the crowd? As you grow older,
you'll be faced with some challenging decisions. Some don't have a clear right or wrong answer –
should you practice the piano or text your girlfriend? Other decisions involve serious moral questions
– should you cut class, should you lie to your parents? Making decisions on your own is hard
enough, but when other people get involved and pressure you to make a certain...show more content...
However, sometimes peers influence each other in negative ways. For example, a few kids in
school might try to get you to cut class with them or a kid in the neighborhood might want you to
vandalize with him. A powerful negative peer influence can motivate a teen to make choices and
engage in behavior that his or her values might otherwise reject. Teens who feel isolated or
rejected by their peers or in their family are more likely to engage in risky behaviors in order to fit in
with a group.
But why do kids give in to peer pressure? Some kids give in to peer pressure because they want to
be liked, to fit in, or because they worry that other kids may make fun of them if they don't go along
with the group. The need for acceptance, approval, and belonging is vital during the teen years.
Others may go along because they are curious to try something new that others are doing. The idea
that "everyone's doing it" may influence some kids to leave their better judgment, or their common
sense, behind.
Anyway, nearly everyone ends up in a sticky peer pressure situation at some point. No matter how
wisely you choose your friends, or how well you think you know them, sooner or later you'll have
to make decisions that are difficult and could be unpopular. But these situations can be opportunities
to figure out what are right for you. There is no magic for standing up to peer pressure, but it does
take courage, YOURS! Here are some
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Pressure Essay
Pressure
As a child, I've suffered through many tough decisions. I've been pressured by my peers to do the
wrong thing. I've also been pressured by my peers to do positive things. Drs. George Jenkins, Sam
Davis and Rameck Hunt, who are the authors of The Pact (with Lisa Frazier Page), have also been
pressured by their peers to do both positive and negative things. Growing up through middle school
and high school is tough because kids are always trying to get other kids to do the wrong thing.
Most of the kids actually do some of the stupid things so they can fit in. I remember when I was in
middle school I did almost anything to get my friends approval. Even if it meant I had to do
something that was going to get me into trouble. I...show more content...
We were excused to leave the cafeteria and left with unanswered questions. Are we going to get a
detention? Is that psycho going to kill me?
I went up to his room before activity period. My friends followed me up the stairs acting as if they
could feel no pain from anything this teacher could throw at us. As soon as we walked in there, he
gave us the silent treatment. He delivered the scariest lecture that I had ever received in my life. His
lecture was about him being upset with us since we didn't respect the ten minute period that we had
to be quiet for. Then, out of the middle of no where, he asked us a question. Brian answered it and
the teacher got right in his face yelling, "Was I talking to you tough guy."
Brian tried to keep his cool, but he broke down and started to cry. He continued to punish us with
his words of despair. When he finished his lecture, he sent us back down stairs to our home–room.
We did not get into any serious trouble, which was good, because I didn't need a detention for
talking. After watching and experiencing that situation, I never wanted to be a badass again. Being a
badass was not worth getting into so much trouble for such stupid things. I know that situation is not
much, but hey what do you expect from an introvert.
In my high school years, I began to meet new people who were a positive
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Causes And Effects Of Peer Pressure
There are various cause and effects of peer pressure. Peer pressure is pressure or influence from a
person's peers. Peers are often described people of the same age group or social group. Peers will
feel the need to be in control and will often surround themselves with weak–minded or people with
low self–esteem to have the do their bidding. The causes of peer pressure include the need to fit in,
low self–esteem, fear of rejection, and at most time the need to feel safety and security from peers.
The effects of peer pressure can be negative and also have the worst outcomes. Peer pressure is most
commonly found in the ages of 12–19 years old. Some teens have the tendency to let their peers talk
them into doing things they wouldn't normally do. The most common experiences of peer
pressure happen throughout high school and college. They want to be accepted by their peers so
they will often do several things to impress them. Some feel like since others are doing it they
have to do it too in order to fit it. There are many varieties of peer pressure it could be how you
walk or talk, what clothes you wear, and the type of music you listen to. Most teens are still learning
to adapt to...show more content...
Studies have shown that both strongly influence teenage drinking. Active peer pressure would be
in the form of an explicit offer. For example, when a person or a peer stresses you to drink alcohol
or taking drugs. Teens often go along with these suggestions in order to fit in. Active peer
pressure could also turn into a verbal criticism for not taking the drink which could make a person
change their decision and take the drink. Passive peer pressure is basically a desire to fit in and
adapt the values and/or practices of fellow teens. Many teens give in to peer pressure as a result of
curiosity. They'll undertake many habits such as, Drug usage or sex to find out what their peers are
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Argumentative Essay On Peer Pressure
Throughout most people's lives, peer pressure is something that they are faced with and is
typically related to something that is not necessarily a comfortable subject. After a while, the
majority of people either learn to ignore the persuasive, listen and understand the argument or
give in to the temptation of whatever is being offered. Not only is peer pressure usually about a
subject that is out of someone's comfort zone for whoever is being persuaded, but could be for
both either a good or bad situation. Furthermore, it is typically given by someone that is
considered a role model or looked up to by the person who is getting pressured. Even though peer
pressure has various types of forms, research shows some of the benefits, harm, and also the
impact it can have on drug use in society, especially with adolescents. Even though most people
are influenced or persuaded for a variety of reasons, one of the biggest forms of persuasion can be
from peer pressure. In her article "Peer Pressure," Betsy Pierce (2014) defines peer pressure as
when people are influenced to do something that we normally would not do because how much we
want to fit in with others or be accepted by our peers such as a friend, a person in the community,
or even someone on television. (Pierce, 2014) Even though peer pressure is not the only influence
that can be made on a person, it certainly can impact someone's decision making especially if they
are easily influenced or hold the person in high regard.
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Essay On Peer Pressure

  • 1. The Pros And Cons Of Peer Pressure Peer pressure is the influence that one person or group has on another. Peer pressure is a devastating force that affects the lives of millions across the world. Most often, peer pressure receives a reputation for being demeaning, harsh, brutal, and generally negative. However, peer pressure can inspire the affected party to rise above the cruelty and positively impact their own lives. Yes,peer pressure may negatively affect someone's life, but it may also change their life in a positive manner. Generally, peerpressure receives a negative perception from all people, especially teenagers. As a person ages, they begin to care less and less of their image, but in a person's early years of middle and high school is when the most effort is put into their public portrayal. Negative peer pressure can be very demeaning, and ruin a person's self–esteem. Personally, I have been a victim of peer pressure. As a young boy, I was in fact obese. I struggled with my eating habits and the result was an unathletic, nerdy, unattractive boy. This image I had created for myself caused me a world of terror. Everyday, when at school, I was the butt of the fat jokes and was excluded from most friend groups. My self–confidence hit rock bottom and I had zero faith I would overcome this obstacle. Now, even though I have overcome obesity and become healthy, my past still haunts me. I am very shy and reserved, and I am constantly worried about my image and how people view me. Although this peer Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 2. Abstract On Peer Pressure 1 University of Central Oklahoma Peer Pressure Amanda Bradford Sociology Professor Coon 11–06–17 abstract: Peer pressure is a social pressure by members of one's peer group to take certain action, adopt certain values, or otherwise conform to be accepted. Thoughts, behaviors, music and fashion often have a deep impact on our society. It is a person's tendency to do what the crowd does. During adolescence one of the primary goals is being a member of a peer group, which also brings a feeling of belonging and social acceptance. One can fall prey to peer pressure at any time in their lives, however, it primarily affects adolescence and teens. At this age, most teens have not developed the ability to determine what is considered right and wrong; also, teens are trying to find where they fit in which allows them to be an easy target to peer pressure. Peer pressure plays a huge part in steering the interest and experiences of teenagers. There are two different types of peer pressure positive and negative. Positive peer pressure may be eating healthy, exercising, attending religious services, or attending after school programs. Although, positive peer influence happens regularly, we tend to focus on the negative, and how negative peer pressure impacts individuals daily. Negative peer pressure may include taking drugs, skipping school, having sex Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 3. The Problem Of Peer Pressure Today, teenagers are faced with problems that they do not know how to handle. A teenager is anywhere from a 13 year old to a 19 year old, so problems change depending on the stages of life. Some are worried about school, being that "perfect" student, grades, and college. While others are counting down the days for the next party over the weekend. Of course everyone is different, but most teenagers deal with the same problems. Peer pressure, beauty, responsibility, and the future, are common for a teenager of all ages to face. These "problems" do not always have to be problems, most of the time they are out of worry. Friends play an important role in life, peer pressure is being influenced, but is not always by a friend. When thinking about peer pressure drugs and alcohol come to mind. Most teenagers try drugs or alcohol out of fear. Fear of not fitting in or being judged. Judging is easy to do, naturally, and causes people to do things depending on who they socialize with. Fashion is a big role in a teenager's life, the clothes one wears expresses the way they feel about themselves. Not only that but fashion makes a statement, and can be intimidating. This can cause one to feel pressured to stay stylish, and keeping up to date with the latest style. Fear of being made fun of by others falls in with fashion, which leads to pressure from peers to fit in with society. Peer pressure can cause one to do things they normally would not do, which can be used in a good or bad Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 4. Essay on Overcoming Peer Pressure "The ugly reality is that peer pressure reaches its greatest intensity at just the age when kids tend to be most insensitive and cruel." –– Walt Mueller, Understanding Today's Youth Culture Overcoming peer pressure always proves to be a challenge; being in the moment with the intention of rejecting the pressure tends to breed fear. There are all types of pressures in life from people, to possible addiction causing agents, and the desire to have fun. Personally at UC Irvine people may say there is not much to do, but there are a variety of things if you know where to look –seen in another Zot blogger's posts. The peer pressure at UCI in terms of drugs or alcohol is not excessive, but the possibilities of neglecting your studies is....show more content... Make a time limit for breaks; time management, even if not highly detailed, can be your greatest tool. No matter how many friends you have, spend more time with those who do not pressure you to ignore your studies. Make a schedule or to do list and stick to it! Drugs and alcohol are not a massive factor, but realize there are people around who consider it an occasional reliever. It absolutely is not! Cigarettes may be suggested to you, but just as a drug they do not help, they harm! Two people drinking to peer pressure girl I have experienced a variety of these peer pressures, but am proud to say I have not fallen to the temptations even once. Drinking seems to be the most present in any college, but hopefully your experience compares to mine. I had the honor of celebrating with my club's board members after a successful benefit concert we held. We went out to eat and then got a ride to an apartment of an older student. The board members were all of drinking age other than me, most deciding to stay over the room after celebrating. I was offered a minimal amount –since they were respectful that I am a minor– but I politely refused every type offered. These individuals were respectful of my wishes, but not everyone is as kind, and they may influence you further. The choice is always your own, and do not doubt there will be times people will place the choice around you but you do not Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 5. Peer Pressure Research Paper Peer pressure is quite the controversial matter today. It is the feeling that someone your own age is pushing you toward making a certain choices, good or bad.(The Cool Spot). The level of peer influence generally increases as children grow and it has become an important influence on behavior during adolescence. Many researches and surveys have been done to find the answer to the question whether peer pressure is beneficial or harmful for teenagers. While Karcher &Finn (2005) claimed that peer pressure is the biggest factor result in bad behavious of adolescents; Bukowski (1998) and Salvy (2011) argued that pressure from peers can bring amazing benefits for them. The following writing will discuss peer pressure and from then show that peer pressure can also good for teenagers, too. Many people, including researchers and psychologists,...when thinking of "pressure", they believe that peer pressure has negative effects that can lead to devastating consequences. According to a publication on peer pressure by Parent Further(2015), only...show more content... Experiencing peer pressure is a way to learn how to overcome pressure and to discover ourselves. We can not become perfect, but we definitely become stronger, more confident and are willing to cope with difficulties. Exposure to peer pressure also gives us an opportunity to think about other people's outlooks towards life. It is a chance for us to choose the best from what the masses do as well as lead us to make right choices in life. To minimize the bad effects of peer pressure, parential involvement plays a very important part – promote healthy behaviors and decrease the chance to engage in risky behavior. Besides, each person should be true to themselves and choose the peer groups to play with Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 6. Peer Pressure And The Identity Crisis Peer Pressure also contributes to the prevalence of the identity crisis menace. Peer pressure accounts for much of the promiscuous sex in high schools and colleges. Conform or get lost. Since no one enjoys losing friends or being cast out of his own circle, peer pressure, especially during the years of adolescence is an almost irresistible force declares Billy Graham. Peer pressure is a big factor in the formation of our self–concept and personality. According to Alexandra Robbins, when a child sees herself through the prism of her peer group, the resulting self–image can be distorted. This bandwagon effect has an overwhelming influence on us, particularly during our teenage years. Going with the fad without questioning our rationale becomes acceptable to most teens during this period. Otherwise, they may feel alienated or left out. The yearning for a sense of belonging and approval especially from our peers when growing up is a fundamental trigger of the identity crisis menace. Many of us, in order to fit in and get approved by our peers lose our true identity in this process. Similarly, self–limiting beliefs are some of the catalysts promoting the identity crisis syndrome. Our beliefs have a profound effect on our state...show more content... These traditions are being touted daily by our media houses and some thought leaders. Any attempt to deviate from these traditions makes an individual an abnormal or awkward member of the society. For example, the society expects an individual to go to school, get a good grade, get a good job and start a family without emphasis on self–discovery and exploration. To conform to a sick society is to become sick says Richard J. Foster. It is pretty easy to lose our true identity among the crowd particularly in this fast–paced and increasingly challenging 21st–century global society where we are being bombarded daily with conflicting information and Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 7. Peer Pressure And Bullying Essay Peer pressure and bullying are very prominent problems with teenagers today. Peer pressure is defined as "social pressure by members of a person's peer group to take a certain action, adopt certain values, or otherwise conform in order to be accepted. MLA CITATION BRO" Every person plays a certain role within a clique and these roles have attributes specific to them. In Rosalind Wiseman's "Queen Bee and Her Court," the author gives readers an in depth and detailed description of these stereotypes in typical high–school cliques. These roles include: the "Queen Bee", "Sidekick", "Banker", "Floater", "Torn Bystander", "Pleaser", and "Target". Depending on the role people play within the clique, they can be affected by positive and/or negative peer pressure. After reading the article, I think that all the roles are connected through peer pressure and bullying, as each person has a different way of dealing with it and the people who are associated with them. The types of pressures include: positive peer pressure, negative peer pressure, and bullying. First of all, the "Queen Bees" are the characters associated with negative peer pressure. Negative peer pressure is a certain action or activity that someone negatively. As Rosalind Wiseman says, "Through a combination of charisma, force, money, looks, will, and manipulation, this girl reigns summer over the other girls and weakens their friendships with others" (Wiseman 346). For example, "Queen Bees" can utilize their Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 8. Argumentative Essay On Peer Pressure "Come on, you know you want to do it!" "You are such a loser, just do it already!" "Are you chicken?" Many of us will agree that these are familiar statements that we have either said or heard. Peer pressure is everywhere. Schools, jobs, sports, home, and life in general. Most of the peer pressure we face occurs in school when we are surrounded by our friends or people we are trying to fit in with. These encounters help shape us and can cause us to make difficult choices. It's through these choices that we can either take a path of trouble and destruction or rise up and stand our ground. Everyone has to deal with it at some point and it's how you deal with it that turns peer pressure into either a negative or a positive. Even though there are times when peer pressure is positive, the majority of the peer pressure facing kids today is negative and can lead them to extremes such as gang behavior or even sex. First is the type of negative peer pressure that leads to gang behavior. Gang behavior can include anything from stealing and carjacking, to selling drugs. Many times, kids that succumb to this type of peer pressure live in poverty or come from single parent homes. In the article "Peer Pressure Influences Gang Behavior", the author Dale Greer explores the life of a young boy and the choices he made that eventually landed him in jail. Greer discovers that through negative peer pressure a thirteen–year–old boy goes from being a good student, to dropping out of school and living a life of crime, until eventually being accused of murder and sent to jail (1–3). These destructive events stemmed from other thirteen–year olds making fun of this young boy because of the clothes he wore and the environment he was raised in. The choices he made from stealing, to taking drugs, and eventually murder were all the boy's choices; however, the kids he was trying to fit in with pressured him into making many of his decisions. Eventually the young boy, after being sentenced to jail, makes the statement, "Had I known what I know now, I wouldn't have never joined 'The Posse.' After all I've done to prove my loyalty to them, not one of the members who remain at large came to my aid" (Greer 3). This realization unfortunately Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 9. Argumentative Essay On Peer Pressure Peer Pressure: An Epidemic We all have been young adolescents before and experienced all the things junior high and high school has to offer. Being a teenager is something everyone has or will experience in our life times. Teenagers go through a crucial time in their lives where they really figure out who they are and how to make more adult decisions. Peer pressure has always been a regular part of teenage life. American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry state's "Peers play a large role in the social and emotional development of children and adolescents. Their influence begins at an early age and increases through the teenage years. It is natural, healthy and important for children to have and rely on friends as they grow and...show more content... "Statistics prove that 30% of teenagers have shoplifted at least once due to peer pressure. Over half of teenagers will experiment with alcohol. About 40% of teenagers have tried drugs," states Jeanie Lerche Davis author of Teenagers: Why Do They Rebel. The fact there is a new found freedom gives these adolescents opportunities to get pushed into doing the wrong thing. It begins with one person who is more rebellious than others to create the domino effect. When a child is a toddler, they are impressionable, they follow the lead of the adults in their lives. If they hear their parents say a curse word they will repeat it. Teenagers are impressionable in a very similar way and they're stuck in the middle of learning who they are and who they want to be. If one friend shoplifts, they can easily get pressured into it, the same goes for alcohol and drugs. These things become cool, and when you're a teenager that's all that matters. In reality though doing these "cool" things are actually incredibly harmful, leading these teenagers down a wrong path. There are 3 different types of peer pressure, the first one is direct. Direct peer pressure is when other teenagers pressure an individual into making a choice. The second type is indirect peer pressure, which is when a teenager is exposed to something negative like smoking, but they aren't directly told to participate. The last type is individual, which is when an individual feels the Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 10. Negative Peer Pressure Essay Go on." "Everybody's doing it." "It's only one drink." "You're such a loser." I didn't know what to do. All these voices were repeating themselves over and over in my head. I didn't want to give into them because I knew what I was doing was wrong. I didn't want everyone to think I was scared but what if my parents found out. Why was I here? Are these people really my friends if they are really doing this to me? These were the vital questions that I didn't know the answers to. I knew in my heart it was wrong but I gave in. This is usually the typical outcome of a scene like this. It is called peer pressure. It can be disguised in many different forms. In this essay I am going to look at...show more content... If you are caught, you might be prosecuted. If you are found in possession of more than a small quantity, you risk more serious charges of 'possession with intent to supply, or dealing. Another issue that teenagers are faced with and usually try to avoid is crime. People aged between ten and twenty–one commit half of all crimes. Ninety per cent of these involve breaking into buildings, theft of property or other vandalism. Most people get involved in crimes such as shoplifting, joyriding, vandalism or arson just for the thrill of getting away with it. Teenagers often steal things they don't even want or need. Usually these crimes are committed without thought or planning, and repeated only occasionally for a period of a few months, until the excitement begins to wear off. For some teenagers shoplifting or stealing cars begins as a bit of fun but it can get out of hand and crime can become a habit. Teenage boys are at more risk of getting into trouble than girls, however the amount of 'girl gangs committing crimes is becoming more and more common. In 1957 girls accounted for only one crime in eleven. These days girls commit more than one in four of all juvenile crimes. Friends often encourage each other to go much further than anyone would alone; when Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 11. Teenagers, Drugs , and Peer Pressure Essay Teenagers, Drugs , and Peer Pressure Drug use is an increasing problem among teenagers in today's high schools. Most drug use begins in the teenage years, these years are the most crucial in the maturing process. During these years adolescents are faced with the difficult tasks of discovering their self identity, clarifying their sexual roles, assenting independence, learning to cope with authority figures and searching for goals that would give their lives meaning. Drugs are readily available, adolescents are curious and venerable, and there is peer pressure to experiment, and there is a temptation to escape from conflicts. The use of drugs by teenagers is the result of a combination of factors such as peer pressure, curiosity, and...show more content... This response will create a sense of curiosity and may convince the person to try drugs themselves. Many teenagers today believe that their first use of drugs is safe. However even though there is no instant addiction with the first try, youngsters tend to experiment further. Soon a person could actively seek the euphoric effects of drugs. The final and the most disastrous stage is when a person needs drugs in order to function adequately. Therefore availability, curiosity and experimentation could result in drug addiction among teenagers. One of the most devastating side effects of drug addiction and abuse is depression. Depression is the result of chemical imbalance, environmental influence, or a combination of both. Using heavy and very highly addictive drugs as heroin, cocaine, opium and many other will cause sudden mood changes, deterioration of the immune system, nervous breakdowns, unusual flares of temper and many other side effects. Besides physical side effects, drug addiction can create problems in a person's social circles. The person may run into many conflicts with his family and friends, resulting in desire for isolation. This in turn will create more problems since the person will have no social support. Furthermore, drug addiction is a financial strain especially for teenagers. When a person is addicted to drugs he will do anything to obtain money to fulfill his needs. According to previous studies, drug addiction is the Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 12. Essay On Peer Pressure It is easy to believe that peer pressure exists only where you're directly being coerced by your friends to do something you don't quite want to do. Peer pressure is not just about being offered drugs by a classmate, or getting pressured into sex at a party, or buying new shoes because everyone else has them. We are constantly being influenced by those around us, even the smallest decisions we make. We have all experienced peer pressure, whether we realized it or not. I can think of thousands of instances where my friends, family, and/or classmates influenced a choice I made. One specific experience I had with peer pressure had to do simply with how I did my hair. Its small things like that where we don't even realize until later on...show more content... It was the first time I did anything with my hair and it felt strange, you could actually see my neck and my ears. Plenty of girls tied their hair up, so it was nothing new. After the aimless running, I figured it didn't hurt to keep my hair how it was. I could feel the breeze on my neck and the beads of sweat building up below my hair on the back of my head. I decided to stay the rest of the day with my hair up, do something new. The school day went by and no one said anything because it was nothing important. I sat on the swings like I normally did, but instead of almost being blinded by my hair, I could see the schoolyard as I swung. We played tag and I felt agiler because I didn't have to keep putting my hair behind my ears. The day came to an end and I had to wait for the bus in the gym. I was sitting with a couple of friends on the floor against the wall. I had my legs crossed and half of me was against the blue mat on the wall and the other half with my hand running along the dust on the glossy blue gym floor. We were talking about trivial things when the conversation leads to one friend saying to me: "Oh, Jazmin, I think you look better with your hair up! It looks good!" It was a simple compliment, my other friends agreed and gave their two cents about how my hair was now better. I didn't think too much of it at the time, I just responded with a single "Thanks." The bus arrived and we parted Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 13. The Pros and Cons of Peer Pressure Essay Peer pressure pressures peers in both positive and negative ways, depending on the situation. Peer pressure can display through attitudes, risky behaviors, wicked influences, and substantially through media in everyday life. These influences can occur in a positive way, which are particularly related to school and academics. On the other hand, negative pressure that can result from social media and any individual that may pressure people around them to make destructive choices. School is the biggest influence for kids. Every day, kids surround themselves with many other different students in school. In that case, the more time they spend together, the more of an influence they may have on each other. Peer pressure starts early on the...show more content... Being consistent role models as parents helps kids to build respect and trust for themselves and it will benefit the parents in the long run. Being supportive with every decision they make because it will help them gain trust and also help them feel some type of support. Teens are the most influential group in today's society. They are very concerned about their image (F., 2004). To them, it can seem very important to fit in because teens like to do what their friends are doing so they won't feel left out. Often, teens spend more time worrying about what others think of them rather than anything else. Many teens choose to change their appearance and their behaviors for attention or to gain approval to fit in from their group of peers. Perhaps the ones that teenagers feel the need to impress are not actually friends at all. Instead, they are people who are appealing, such as the popular crowd in a high school setting (Flippen). When teens are growing and experimenting with the concept of individuality, they may experience a severe amount of pressure to dabble with risky behaviors (F., 2004). Peer pressure is on to engage in behaviors that may not be healthy, physically, or emotionally for teenagers (F., 2004). Some teens choose some behaviors when they are ready, while many feel rushed into decisions that they are not quite ready to make. Many teens feel pressured by their peers to do the wrong thing such as drug usage and alcohol consumption. Teenagers Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 14. Peer Pressure Essay Adopt a clear point of view on a specific contemporary issue and argue how it has and will continue to have an impact on your generation. Peer Pressure. We have all at one stage in our lives, experienced it. We all know what it feels like to be pressured by a peer. Peer pressure today impacts on kids of my generation in a huge aspect. Teenagers feel social pressure in numerous ways such as clothing, music and entertainment choices, to unsafe areas such as drugs, alcohol and smoking. During adolescence, kids emphasize their independence and explore their identity. Yet they still crave the approval of their peers and worry about being rejected and excluded. Peer pressure affects the way teenagers choose to live their lives. It affects the...show more content... With drugs, alcohol and smoking available, teenagers being curious, peer pressure and temptation to escape all the drama and stress in their lives have an enormous effect. The use of drugs, alcohol and smoking is the result of a combination of factors such as peer pressure, curiosity and availability. Apart from dangerous things such as drugs, alcohol and smoking, there is also lots of negative pressure to fit in and to be popular. To do this teenagers must be up to date with the new fashion, entertainment (music and movies) and may even change there school studies in order to fit in with their friends. With this negative peer pressure to stress about as well as other teenage issues, adolescents may feel as though they cannot cope. The feeling of thriving to be someone you are not and the issues of whether you are good enough for people, can ultimately lead into depression amongst teenagers. Depression, can however, occur through drug addiction, which, as stated above, can also be started up from peer pressure. Depression can cause sudden mood changes, nervous breakdowns, unusual flares of temper and can also create problems in a persons social circle. The person may run into conflicts with their family and friends, resulting in desire for isolation. This would then ultimately create more problems since the person would have no social support. Feeling lonely with no prospects for improvement and seeing Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 15. Essay On Peer Pressure Peers are equal in abilities, age, background and even social stature. Peer Pressure is society pressuring a member of a peer group to undertake certain actions, adapt values, and do what they believe will allow them to be accepted into such a group. In the Bible, the Old Testament, the Gospels, and the New Testament provides examples of Peer Pressure. The ability to either fall into or steer–clear of peer pressure is through the virtues of courage, temperance and prudence. We are followers of Jesus Christ and we are not the same humans that once roamed the earth. We are should be more confident in ourselves and our actions than relying on others to tell/show us what is 'acceptable' or not. The Bible gives us examples regarding peer...show more content... Mark 15:15 states that Pilate was peer pressured into doing an act that he knew was not just, "Wishing to satisfy the crowd, Pilate released Barabbas for them, and after having Jesus scourged, he handed Him over to be crucified." This Gospel passage shows that our common sense can be easily altered by a crowd of people wishing for a specific outcome. Pilate makes the ultimate decision and worries that if the people do not get this outcome, they will riot and harm the one that made the decision. This happens within our current society as well, regarding politics and how the government feels pressured to do what the people want and if they do not, they fear of rebelling occurring within their nation. Matthew 27:24–26 is alike to Mark because he too uses Pilate and his actions as an example. Matthew writes, "When Pilate saw that he was accomplishing nothing, but rather that a riot was starting, he took water and washed his hands in front of the crowd, saying, 'I am innocent of this Man's blood; see to that yourselves.' And all the people said, 'His blood shall be on us and on our children!' Then he released Barabbas for them; but after having Jesus scourged, he handed Him over to be crucified." These verses precede an important beginning. Yes, Pilate succumbs to the crowds and wishes to please them, but the crowd would not have yelled Barabbas to be freed if it were not for Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 16. Thesis On Peer Pressure CRITICAL THINKING AND PROBLEM SOLVING BARRIERS TO CRITICAL THINKING PEER PRESSURE Edward da Cunha Modul University Dubai REFLECTIVE ESSAY Name: Muhammad Faique Baig Student ID# 17020087 Date: 11/11/2017 ABSTRACT Peer pressure is a type of social influence that produces a particular of acting or thinking. Childhood or adolescence are the most prone to peer pressure influence. Peers as defined are the people whom do you identify and spend time most of the time. Peer pressure by itself can be either positive or negative, for example, both high and low academic achievements are closely linked to peer's influence. Several studies confirm research findings that value of the peer group with whom their students spend most of their time are stronger factors in student's level of academic success or failure. Proposal TOPIC – BARRIERS TO CRITICAL THINKING (PEER PRESSURE) THESIS Peer pressure is a very real issue that affects many of the teenagers of the world today. Society offers many misleading advertisements that seem to lead teens in all the wrong directions. If the youth of today are more educated, the future of our world will be a lot better. TABLE OF CONTENT 1.Introduction.................................................................. Page 4 2.Body............................................................................... Page 5
  • 17. 3....show more content... There are all sorts of pressures that children face today. Peer pressure is one thing that all teens have in common. Some can't escape it because it is almost everywhere. Peer pressure is defined as the way that people of the same social group can influence on another individual to take a certain action, adopt certain values, or otherwise conform in order to be accepted. Teens are very quick and accurate in making judgments and decisions on their own and in situations where they have time to Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 18. Essay on Resisting Negative Peer Pressure "Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself." ––Bruce Lee "People! Come on! All of us are cutting history. Who wants to go take that stupid exam? We're going to BreadSticks instead. Let's go!" says the coolest kid in your class. Do you do what you know is right and go take the history exam? Or do you give in and go with the crowd? As you grow older, you'll be faced with some challenging decisions. Some don't have a clear right or wrong answer – should you practice the piano or text your girlfriend? Other decisions involve serious moral questions – should you cut class, should you lie to your parents? Making decisions on your own is hard enough, but when other people get involved and pressure you to make a certain...show more content... However, sometimes peers influence each other in negative ways. For example, a few kids in school might try to get you to cut class with them or a kid in the neighborhood might want you to vandalize with him. A powerful negative peer influence can motivate a teen to make choices and engage in behavior that his or her values might otherwise reject. Teens who feel isolated or rejected by their peers or in their family are more likely to engage in risky behaviors in order to fit in with a group. But why do kids give in to peer pressure? Some kids give in to peer pressure because they want to be liked, to fit in, or because they worry that other kids may make fun of them if they don't go along with the group. The need for acceptance, approval, and belonging is vital during the teen years. Others may go along because they are curious to try something new that others are doing. The idea that "everyone's doing it" may influence some kids to leave their better judgment, or their common sense, behind. Anyway, nearly everyone ends up in a sticky peer pressure situation at some point. No matter how wisely you choose your friends, or how well you think you know them, sooner or later you'll have to make decisions that are difficult and could be unpopular. But these situations can be opportunities to figure out what are right for you. There is no magic for standing up to peer pressure, but it does take courage, YOURS! Here are some Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 19. Pressure Essay Pressure As a child, I've suffered through many tough decisions. I've been pressured by my peers to do the wrong thing. I've also been pressured by my peers to do positive things. Drs. George Jenkins, Sam Davis and Rameck Hunt, who are the authors of The Pact (with Lisa Frazier Page), have also been pressured by their peers to do both positive and negative things. Growing up through middle school and high school is tough because kids are always trying to get other kids to do the wrong thing. Most of the kids actually do some of the stupid things so they can fit in. I remember when I was in middle school I did almost anything to get my friends approval. Even if it meant I had to do something that was going to get me into trouble. I...show more content... We were excused to leave the cafeteria and left with unanswered questions. Are we going to get a detention? Is that psycho going to kill me? I went up to his room before activity period. My friends followed me up the stairs acting as if they could feel no pain from anything this teacher could throw at us. As soon as we walked in there, he gave us the silent treatment. He delivered the scariest lecture that I had ever received in my life. His lecture was about him being upset with us since we didn't respect the ten minute period that we had to be quiet for. Then, out of the middle of no where, he asked us a question. Brian answered it and the teacher got right in his face yelling, "Was I talking to you tough guy." Brian tried to keep his cool, but he broke down and started to cry. He continued to punish us with his words of despair. When he finished his lecture, he sent us back down stairs to our home–room. We did not get into any serious trouble, which was good, because I didn't need a detention for talking. After watching and experiencing that situation, I never wanted to be a badass again. Being a badass was not worth getting into so much trouble for such stupid things. I know that situation is not much, but hey what do you expect from an introvert. In my high school years, I began to meet new people who were a positive Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 20. Causes And Effects Of Peer Pressure There are various cause and effects of peer pressure. Peer pressure is pressure or influence from a person's peers. Peers are often described people of the same age group or social group. Peers will feel the need to be in control and will often surround themselves with weak–minded or people with low self–esteem to have the do their bidding. The causes of peer pressure include the need to fit in, low self–esteem, fear of rejection, and at most time the need to feel safety and security from peers. The effects of peer pressure can be negative and also have the worst outcomes. Peer pressure is most commonly found in the ages of 12–19 years old. Some teens have the tendency to let their peers talk them into doing things they wouldn't normally do. The most common experiences of peer pressure happen throughout high school and college. They want to be accepted by their peers so they will often do several things to impress them. Some feel like since others are doing it they have to do it too in order to fit it. There are many varieties of peer pressure it could be how you walk or talk, what clothes you wear, and the type of music you listen to. Most teens are still learning to adapt to...show more content... Studies have shown that both strongly influence teenage drinking. Active peer pressure would be in the form of an explicit offer. For example, when a person or a peer stresses you to drink alcohol or taking drugs. Teens often go along with these suggestions in order to fit in. Active peer pressure could also turn into a verbal criticism for not taking the drink which could make a person change their decision and take the drink. Passive peer pressure is basically a desire to fit in and adapt the values and/or practices of fellow teens. Many teens give in to peer pressure as a result of curiosity. They'll undertake many habits such as, Drug usage or sex to find out what their peers are Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 21. Argumentative Essay On Peer Pressure Throughout most people's lives, peer pressure is something that they are faced with and is typically related to something that is not necessarily a comfortable subject. After a while, the majority of people either learn to ignore the persuasive, listen and understand the argument or give in to the temptation of whatever is being offered. Not only is peer pressure usually about a subject that is out of someone's comfort zone for whoever is being persuaded, but could be for both either a good or bad situation. Furthermore, it is typically given by someone that is considered a role model or looked up to by the person who is getting pressured. Even though peer pressure has various types of forms, research shows some of the benefits, harm, and also the impact it can have on drug use in society, especially with adolescents. Even though most people are influenced or persuaded for a variety of reasons, one of the biggest forms of persuasion can be from peer pressure. In her article "Peer Pressure," Betsy Pierce (2014) defines peer pressure as when people are influenced to do something that we normally would not do because how much we want to fit in with others or be accepted by our peers such as a friend, a person in the community, or even someone on television. (Pierce, 2014) Even though peer pressure is not the only influence that can be made on a person, it certainly can impact someone's decision making especially if they are easily influenced or hold the person in high regard. Get more content on HelpWriting.net