1) The first date is an opportunity for a woman to make a good first impression through showing her best qualities and fascinating the man. 2) Common mistakes women make are focusing too much on appearance through excessive makeup or dress, or talking too much without establishing a connection. 3) The best conversation topics that interest most men are sports, cars, movies, food, travel, music, and questions about his job, hobbies, role models, and views on relationships. Proper preparation through learning about his interests leads to success.

1. LOVE COACHING - FIRST DATE - WHAT TO
TALK ABOUT
You know, the first date is the same as the first
impression , it is an unforgettable moment.
For a girl, the first date is an opportunity to show the
best qualities, to fascinate the man.
However, the first date often doesn't become the basis
for building a future relationship.
The reason is often the (wrong!) Belief of women that
men "love with their eyes" .
Common mistakes in preparing for the first date

2. The first date with a man (boy) requires careful
preparation.
Unfortunately, for most girls, the phrase “getting ready
for a first date” means going around the shops looking
for a dress with a plunging neckline and a choice of
eye-catching makeup.
With a similar approach you can satisfy the aesthetic
expectation of the partner, however, during the
meeting the verbal component plays the dominant role.
If during the appointment you intend to sit (or walk, if it

3. is a walk) and simply reply "yes" or "no", then such an
approach can be considered valid.
In this case, you should understand though, that if you
don't establish communication contact, the only thing
you can count on is a one-night stand. 🙁
Your personality will not be taken into consideration, as
a result, the chances that the first date will turn into a
lasting relationship are minimized.
The second mistake is the exact opposite of the first,
that is, a continuous verbal flow coupled with a clearly
overlooked outward aspect.
Such an approach for men turns out to be offensive!
The girl who shows up on the first date badly dressed
and neglected, in the eyes of the man has no

4. prerequisites for establishing a serious relationship
.
Because a man's self-esteem depends a lot on the
appearance of his partner.
Preparing for a first date is the key to success
So, we get it, any exaggeration - whether it's excessive
makeup or verbal intemperance - will be able to
completely ruin the first date.
To create the right approach, one thing must be taken
into consideration: most men say that appearance is an

5. important criterion only in the first few minutes of the
appointment.
So, one of the most important things to do is to think
about possible conversation topics.
(According to statistics, first date conversations
determine the direction of the relationship)
What to talk about on a first date with a man?
Before answering the question "what to talk about on
the first date?" let's see topics such as, at best - we
must eliminate completely , and - at worst - minimize .
I mainly refer to these 3 topics:
1. Intimate relationships with the ex. I think it's hard
to find a person who would eagerly listen to such a
conversation on a first date. The unacceptable limit of
such a speech is to mention sexual failures of the ex.

6. With these speeches you can scare all possible
candidates, because on a subconscious level you turn
into a "threat" (a girl who, potentially, will tell the same
things about him).
2. Women's things. The lack of control in this subject
can be defined as "emotional striptease". Usually, girls
do it, who for a long time do not go out with anyone,
and they do not have the opportunity to talk and let off
steam. The mystery must remain in you! Always
remember, you can easily destroy this mystery with a
tale about the difficult choice of socks.
3. Gossip and gossip. Sure, men are nosy too, they
love to talk, but most of them find gossiping on a first
date to be a sign of rudeness.
Now, that we know the main issues that make men run
away, it's time to list the topics that interest most of the

7. stronger sex.
Important!
For the first date, try to gather information about him.
This information will help you create a list of topics
that interest them.
I, however, suggest the topics that men generally like:
Sport

8. Even the lack of perfect physical shape often does not
stop any man from talking about different sporting
events and successes.
An interesting fact! Most men say that women who love
sports become attractive interlocutors in their eyes
already at the first meeting.
Car
The "iron horses" are the outlet of men. There is no
man who would not be surprised by a girl who knows
how the engine works and the latest news on the car
(or motorcycle) market.
This topic can become particularly interesting
outdoors, because while taking a walk you will
encounter many cars. 😉
Movie

9. This topic is a bit "dangerous", because you could slip
into the wrong genre (which they don't like).
So first ask for his favorite genre and then pour rave
reviews about film plots and actors into the dialogue.
Food
Remember that the shortest way to the heart of man is
through the stomach ?!
Here you are! In the course of the conversation, you
can find out about his favorite foods and modestly brag
about your main dish
The ability to cook adds a couple of points to the
"ranking" of the woman.
Trips
This argument is rather predictable. Who doesn't love
to travel ?!

10. You can ask which countries he would like to visit or
where he has already been.
The theme of travel borders on foreign languages. Here
both can show off their language skills.
Music
First, music is part of our daily life.
Secondly, music can become a topic of a vast
conversation, starting with favorite singers and ending
with the particularities of a particular musical genre.
Also we can talk about musical instruments or the
ability to play.
To create an opinion about him will not be enough futile
conversations. Don't be afraid to ask him questions.
Here are some questions that will help you learn
more about his personality:

11. ● What do you do? Do you like your job? The
answer to this question on a first date will make you
realize how ambitious it is. 😉
● What do you do in your free time? Do you have
a hobby? (These questions will help you find out about
his lifestyle, hobbies, and whether he is adult enough.)
● Is there a person you respect and want to be
like? (This question is a great way to "glimpse" the
trajectory of his aspirations.)
● How do you see the relationship between a
man and a woman? (Most likely, the answer to
question will be some sort of excerpt from past
relationships, this will allow you to understand if it is
worth continuing to relate to him.)
Remember, proper preparation for the first date is a

12. guarantee of success.