Describe the differences between a securely, insecure-avoidant, insecure-ambivalent, and disorganized attachments. In addition, describe predictors of secure attachment from the parents’ perspective, paying close attention to being responsive. One of the most common parenting myths is that parents should not be responsive when their infant has a need (i.e. if the baby is crying, you should let them “cry it out”). From an attachment perspective, describe the dangers of “crying it out.” Solution Securely attachment:In this type of attachement ,children at feel secure with their care takers.They might feel insecure at the care takers\' absence for a while but can console themselves with the fact that they will return soon.The children realise that they can depend on their care takers.Children feel themselves protected in secure attachement.Insecure avoidant makes children detached from the care takers and parents.They try to avoid them and their absence or presence has no effect on the children.Insecure ambivalent makes the children insecure even if the caretakers or parents return back after a short period of time.The children feel the emotions of separation for a prolonged time.These children as they grow fail to maintain good relationships with others.Disorganised attachments resulst in children when their parents or care takers whom they once thought to be emotionally attached ,loving and secure start abusing or threatening them unconsciously.This makes the child wonder about the ill behaviour meted out towards them.They get confused as to whether they are any longer safer with the parents and caretakers.This makes the children go into distress. The predictors of secure attachemrnt from parents are sensitivity while dealing with the children, good care and love,a healthy and friendly atmosphere at home, social support, proper response to the childs need, good communication,good relationship between the couple and avoidance of negative temperament The dangers of crying it out are :.