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Sexual Expressions
Showcase
University at Buffalo
Wellness Education Services
Sexual Violence Prevention Unit
Jamie Core & Stephanie Vazquez
Trigger Warning
These slides contain information about sexual
assault and/or violence which may be triggering to
survivors.
If any time you need to step out of the room or use
the bathroom feel free. Someone will come out to
check on you.
This is a judge free zone.
Overview
• Sexual Violence
• Consent
• Intimacy
• Gender roles
• History of Sex
Guidelines and Expectations
1. Respect everyone.
2. Suspend judgment.
3. What is said here, stays here.
4. Content disclosure
Note-In-Hand
Sexual Violence
Sexual Violence (SV) refers to sexual activity where
consent is not obtained or freely given. Anyone can
experience SV, but most victims are female. The
person responsible for the violence is typically male
and is usually someone known to the victim. The
person can be, but is not limited to, a friend,
coworker, neighbor, or family member.
Open Discussion:
What is consent?
Consent
Affirmative consent is a knowing, voluntary, and
mutual decision among all participants to engage in
sexual activity. Consent can be given by words or
actions, as long as those words or actions create
clear permission regarding willingness to engage in
the sexual activity. Silence or lack of resistance, in
and of itself, does not demonstrate consent. The
definition of consent does not vary based upon a
participant's sex, sexual orientation, gender
identity, or gender expression.
Is Consent Intimate?
YES!
● Practice makes perfect. Be creative and
spontaneous.
● Finding the language that you and your partner
feel comfortable with can be intimidating at first,
but ultimately, it is going to make your sex life
more exciting and fulfilling.
Group Discussion
Discuss in your groups and come up with an agreed
definition of what intimacy is?
4 Types of Intimacy
● Intellectual: Where two people exchange thoughts,
share ideas and enjoy similarities and difference
between their opinions
● Experiential: when people get together to do an
activity that involves themselves and their other. This
is usually not saying much to each other or not sharing
many feelings. Ex: painting together
● Emotional: where two or more persons can
comfortably share their feelings together and
empathize with the feelings of the other person
● Sexual: this is a broad range of sensuous activities that
is not just sexual intercourse. Any form of sexual
expression
http://www.counseling.ufl.edu/cwc/types-of-intimacy.aspx
Gender Box: Open Discussion
What are some of the gender roles that men and
women have, when it comes to intimacy or sexual
expectations?
Sexcades
Sexual Events through the Decades
Sexcades
Group Timeline Competition:
Within groups you will complete the timeline. The
goal is to place the series of events in the correct
order. The group who’s timeline is the most
accurate wins!
Sexcades Timeline
400 BCE 1400 1595 1734 1916 1960
Sexcades Timeline
1972 1978 1980 1994 2006 2014
Wrap up
● Note-In-Hand questions
● Evaluation
Like our work?
Wellness Education Services (University at Buffalo)
North Campus: Student Union (Suite 114)
South Campus: 3rd floor Michael Hall
The Alliance
The Student Survivor Advocacy Alliance is a group that supports survivors of
sexual violence through activism and advocacy.
The Men’s Group
A group of trained men and women dedicated to preventing sexual violence
through education and outreach.
Thank you to the members of BACCHUS for inspiring
this workshop!

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BACCHUS Sexual Expression Showcase 4_4_2016 (1)

  • 1. Sexual Expressions Showcase University at Buffalo Wellness Education Services Sexual Violence Prevention Unit Jamie Core & Stephanie Vazquez
  • 2. Trigger Warning These slides contain information about sexual assault and/or violence which may be triggering to survivors. If any time you need to step out of the room or use the bathroom feel free. Someone will come out to check on you. This is a judge free zone.
  • 3. Overview • Sexual Violence • Consent • Intimacy • Gender roles • History of Sex
  • 4. Guidelines and Expectations 1. Respect everyone. 2. Suspend judgment. 3. What is said here, stays here. 4. Content disclosure
  • 6. Sexual Violence Sexual Violence (SV) refers to sexual activity where consent is not obtained or freely given. Anyone can experience SV, but most victims are female. The person responsible for the violence is typically male and is usually someone known to the victim. The person can be, but is not limited to, a friend, coworker, neighbor, or family member.
  • 8. Consent Affirmative consent is a knowing, voluntary, and mutual decision among all participants to engage in sexual activity. Consent can be given by words or actions, as long as those words or actions create clear permission regarding willingness to engage in the sexual activity. Silence or lack of resistance, in and of itself, does not demonstrate consent. The definition of consent does not vary based upon a participant's sex, sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression.
  • 9. Is Consent Intimate? YES! ● Practice makes perfect. Be creative and spontaneous. ● Finding the language that you and your partner feel comfortable with can be intimidating at first, but ultimately, it is going to make your sex life more exciting and fulfilling.
  • 10. Group Discussion Discuss in your groups and come up with an agreed definition of what intimacy is?
  • 11. 4 Types of Intimacy ● Intellectual: Where two people exchange thoughts, share ideas and enjoy similarities and difference between their opinions ● Experiential: when people get together to do an activity that involves themselves and their other. This is usually not saying much to each other or not sharing many feelings. Ex: painting together ● Emotional: where two or more persons can comfortably share their feelings together and empathize with the feelings of the other person ● Sexual: this is a broad range of sensuous activities that is not just sexual intercourse. Any form of sexual expression http://www.counseling.ufl.edu/cwc/types-of-intimacy.aspx
  • 12. Gender Box: Open Discussion What are some of the gender roles that men and women have, when it comes to intimacy or sexual expectations?
  • 14. Sexcades Group Timeline Competition: Within groups you will complete the timeline. The goal is to place the series of events in the correct order. The group who’s timeline is the most accurate wins!
  • 15. Sexcades Timeline 400 BCE 1400 1595 1734 1916 1960
  • 16. Sexcades Timeline 1972 1978 1980 1994 2006 2014
  • 17. Wrap up ● Note-In-Hand questions ● Evaluation Like our work? Wellness Education Services (University at Buffalo) North Campus: Student Union (Suite 114) South Campus: 3rd floor Michael Hall The Alliance The Student Survivor Advocacy Alliance is a group that supports survivors of sexual violence through activism and advocacy. The Men’s Group A group of trained men and women dedicated to preventing sexual violence through education and outreach. Thank you to the members of BACCHUS for inspiring this workshop!