The Internal Guidance System is the most powerful tool we have. Though disappointment will always rear its head, our IGS can help our children to create successful, happy lives.

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Finding Success inside Disappointment
Helping your children use their internal guidance
system to transform their life.

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“Parenting with the Law of Attraction in Mind”
From Life Coach & Parenting Coach
Sharon Ballantine
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No parent wants to see their child
struggle with disappointment.

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We may find ourselves
wishing we had some
way to shield our
children from rejection,
hurt and hardship.

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Not only is that
impossible, it can
also be
unhealthy.

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Rather than trying to protect your
children from disappointment, you
can show them how to use their
disappointment to achieve success.

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Disappointment can be used as a tool
for helping your children determine
and achieve what they want.

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Disappointment comes in many forms.
Maybe your daughter didn’t get the role in
the school play that she had her heart set on.
or your son didn’t make the varsity sports
team he was trying out for.

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Disappointment is part of life, but that
doesn’t make it easy to deal with. Children
feel losses deeply. Rather than trying to
glaze over them or minimize them, give
your child the space to reconcile their
feelings and mourn.

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We all process disappointment
differently. Your child may only
need a few minutes to work through
their pain before moving on, or it
might take longer.

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Check in with your Internal Guidance
System (IGS) to evaluate what feels
appropriate in the given situation.
Once you are clear that they are ready
to move on, you can help your child to
check in with their own IGS to
transform their experience.

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Your child can leverage their
disappointment and use it to guide them
toward another more positive and
empowering perspective.

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Help your child to explore the feelings and
experiences that they were hoping to gain
from achieving their goal. Encourage them to
connect deeply with the feelings that they
imagined experiencing.

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Once they are able to pin down what they
were hoping to experience, they can engage
their IGS to explore other ways of achieving
their desired feelings

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If for example, the goal was to
experience being part of a team
or a greater community of
peers, perhaps they can find
another way to achieve that goal
by creating another opportunity
to have that experience. Maybe
they can be a supporting
member of a team or create a
new group entirely.

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Once their energy is shifted from
disappointment toward something
more proactive, from negative to
positive, they will begin to create the
space for a the positive experience to
manifest.

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With disappointment comes a myriad of
negative emotions. By sitting with these
emotions and tuning into their IGS,
your children can transform the energy
of disappointment and fine tune their
true goals toward what they really want.

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By supporting your child through their
disappointing times and helping them to
tune into their IGS you are literally helping
them transform their disappointments into
success!

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Inside you will learn:
· What is your Internal Guidance System & how you can benefit from it.
· Learn the value of trusting your IGS
· Tips to help your children use their IGS
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“Parenting with the Law of Attraction in Mind”
From Life Coach & Parenting Coach
Sharon Ballantine
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