How to create a good attitude in our personal life?

1. ERASERS
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ATTITUDE
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Vision: Adolescent Transformation Mentor
Mission: Educate, Empower, Enlighten

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She changed her thinking and changed
her life.

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People say ERASERS are made for those
who make mistakes.
I say ERASERS are made for those who are
willing to correct their mistakes.

4. The Iceberg
How much do you see of an iceberg???
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5. The Iceberg
ONLY 10% OF ANY
ICEBERG IS
VISIBLE. THE
REMAINING 90%
IS BELOW SEA
LEVEL.
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6. The Iceberg phenomena is also applicable
on human beings …
The Iceberg
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7. The Iceberg
SEA LEVEL
10%
KNOWLEDGE
& SKILLS
90%
ATTITUDE
UNKNOWN
TO OTHERS
KNOWN
TO OTHERS
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8. Attitude & Behavior
SEA LEVEL
BEHAVIOUR
KNOWN
TO OTHERS
UNKNOWN
TO OTHERS
VALUES – STANDARDS – JUDGMENTS
ATTITUDE
MOTIVES – ETHICS - BELIEFS
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9. Concept
 Individual's degree of like or dislike for an item.
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11. POSITIVE ATTITUDE
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12. NEGATIVE ATTITUDE
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13. NEUTRALATTITUDE
• A neutral attitude occurs because
a person either hasn’t made up
their mind, or may don’t know
situation where they’ve needed to
use an attitude.
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14. SIKKEN ATTITUDE
 Most dangerous type.
 Caliber to destroy every image that
comes in connection with a positive
image.
 More dangers than negative
attitude.
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16. The Positive thinker sees
the Invisible, feels the
Intangible, and achieves
the Impossible.
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17. Your choice of attitude can decide the
outcome of your life.
Negative thoughts have no power unless you
empower them.
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You Know What?
Most of the miracles in the history were performed
by ordinary people like YOU & ME
Who performed the first heart surgery?

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Why do we not do such spectacular deeds in our
life?
That is because most of us have nothing
to wake up for…

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Making an Attitude Adjustment
a)Identify what attitude needs
changing.
i. Honest and in-depth self-evaluation

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b) Assess why you want to improve your
attitude

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c) Try journaling to facilitate self-
reflection.
i. Examine what is
influencing
your attitude.
ii. Will improving my
attitude help me accomplish a
goal or change something

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iv) Visualize how an improved attitude will affect your
life.
i. Imagine
ii. Positive Affirmations
iii. Results
iv. Take into account things
you have ignored

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v) Believe in change. If you
don't
believe
You
won't
be able
to
Won't
start in
the first
place
Give up
quickly
Do half-
heartedly

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Top Twelve Questions for Change
 What do I want?
 What are my choices?
 What assumptions am I making?
 What am I responsible for?
 What is the other person thinking, feeling, needing, and wanting?
 What am I missing or avoiding?
 What can I learn:
 from this person or situation?
 from this mistake or failure?
 from this success?
 What questions should I ask myself or others?

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 What action steps make the most sense?
 How can I turn this into a win-win?
 What is possible?
Great Results begin with Great
Questions

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RECAP

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Osho….. “The greatest fear in the world is the
opinion of others, and the moment you are
unafraid of the crowd, you are no longer a
sheep, you become a lion. A great roar arises in
your heart, the roar of freedom.”

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