4. Experiencing joy
Experiencing peace
Have gotten rid of high
maintenance/low impact
areas of your life
Are looking at people,
not through them
On the other hand, you are in
balance when you are:
6. Depression Over Unmet Expectations
Much of depression is the result of
running out of emotional energy.
If in depression, you’ll look for ways
to cope: a secret life to bring
comfort to alleviate pain.
18. Recognize the danger signs/gauges
What are your gauges to watch?
The faster you recognize and
correct your course, the more your
overall performance will improve.
19. Schedule a personal retreat
Sweet spot of your
strengths, OR ELSE …
you will live out another’s
script for your life and
burn out
20. Your Ideal Day:
WEEKDAY
Wake-up time
Before-work block
Arrival time at work
Morning/afternoon
work blocks
At-home evening
block
Bedtime
WEEKEND
21. Delegate routine tasks; empower
mow
lawn
Plan
luncheon
errands
fix
sink
Other…carpool
kids
Delegate anything just you cannot do!
Turn the rat race into a relay race.
The measure of your leadership is how
much you can get done through others.
23. Step back…
The Breakout Principle: “a mental vacation”
Refocus: Rest (your soul) + Results
(your main things) + Response (other stuff)
DD WW AA
for a brief re-charge
24. Structure your days strategically
“Busyness does not
equal effectiveness.”
– Doug Fields
25. “The 10% of time that you
take to plan your activities
carefully in advance …
Structure your days strategically
26. 6. Structure your days strategically
“The 10% of time that you take to
plan your activities carefully in
advance will save you 90% of the
effort involved in undertaking and
completing the most important
tasks in your work day.”
–Carol Halsey
…will save you 90% of the effort
involved in undertaking and
completing the most important tasks
in your work day.” –Carol Halsey
27. Boundaries are the gate around
your property, controlling what of
you goes out and what gets in.
Your mantra: “I can only do what
I can do. I can’t do anymore.”
When you say NO, you say YES to
high priority people and tasks.
Establish and enforce boundaries
28. Establish and enforce boundaries
“Greatness of soul consists not so
much in soaring high and in
pressing forward, as in knowing
how to adapt and limit oneself.”
–Michel Eyquem De Montaigne
Temporary discomfort (of saying
NO) is better than temporary ease
if it averts permanent failure.
29. Do it now; don’t procrastinate
Paperwork is like debris:
sweep it all into a pile and
block out a chunk of time to
sort it one shovel-full at a
time.
30. Get your tank filled regularly
Idea-sharing talking on phone
Networking little details
Listening to music conflict
Waterfalls traffic
Fills Drains
32. Physically
Do cardio and weights
Hit the “off” button
Read the labels
Develop a new habit/routine
33. Spiritually
“Spiritual balance is the bedrock
that makes improvements in all
other areas of life sustainable.”
Giving more than hoarding
Your conscious mind can only hold
one thought at a time.
Develop a new habit/routine
34. Spiritually
Self-affirmations
“I am getting better daily.”
“My future is bright.”
“I can handle this.”
Say 3x’s aloud in a.m. followed by
post-mantra activity
Develop a new habit/routine
35. Socially
Forced Family Fun
Undivided attention
What do you want most in a
friend? “People that understand”
Look at 5 closest people:
boosters or drainers?
Develop a new habit/routine
37. Your attitude is elevated.
Your energy is expanded.
Your relationships are
strengthened.
Your thinking is unclouded.
Your confidence is edified.
Your judgment is precise.
Your job performance soars.
When Charged in these 4 areas: