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Jumpstart your Life, Career, and Relationships

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It's so important to fully embrace your identity, and these exercises will nail that down. Email me at pcgrowingforward@gmail.com for the worksheets. Also, this will help you get clarity on your vision and how to avoid the inevitable obstacles that come your way.

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Jumpstart your Life, Career, and Relationships

  1. 1. Your Life, Career, Relationships
  2. 2. Coaches Consultants Look Back Counselors Look Ahead Mentors Look Down Look Inside
  3. 3. EXPLORING Who You Are/ Where You Are Now
  4. 4. “Under stress, people become more of who they are.” “The unexamined life is not worth living.” Aristotle Condi Rice
  5. 5. 1. Birth Order: only child/firstborn/middle/baby EXPLORING WHO YOU ARE/WHERE YOU ARE NOW 2. Introvert (replenished by time alone; needs less stimulating environments) or Extrovert (replenished by time with people; more stimulating environments)
  6. 6. 3. DISC profile EXPLORING WHO YOU ARE/WHERE YOU ARE NOW • Dominant • Influential • Steady • Conscientious
  7. 7. 4. VALUES EXPLORING WHO YOU ARE/WHERE YOU ARE NOW “Your compass is your values; they lead you to the road which is your vision, and you are able to find your way using the road signs called goals.”
  8. 8. 5. STRENGTHS EXPLORING WHO YOU ARE/WHERE YOU ARE NOW Success: I feel effective at it. Your sweet spot. Instinct: I naturally look forward to it. Not something you dread. Growth: I intensely focus on it while I’m doing it. (time speeds by) Needs: I feel put on earth to do it (tired but not drained)
  9. 9. 6. LOVE LANGUAGE EXPLORING WHO YOU ARE/WHERE YOU ARE NOW • What love language do you complain about not having the most? • Which one do you most like to give?
  10. 10. 7. What FILLS your emotional tank/ DRAINS your tank EXPLORING WHO YOU ARE/WHERE YOU ARE NOW Surround yourself more with the fills, and put boundaries around the drains.
  11. 11. 8. PASSIONS (when I feel most alive) EXPLORING WHO YOU ARE/WHERE YOU ARE NOW The fire in your belly to make a difference
  12. 12. 9. TWO BIGGEST MOTIVATORS EXPLORING WHO YOU ARE/WHERE YOU ARE NOW What drives you to act?
  13. 13. 10. PERSONAL MISSION STATEMENT EXPLORING WHO YOU ARE/WHERE YOU ARE NOW “Life without purpose is a languid, drifting thing.” – Thomas a Kempis To add value to people through encouraging/equipping words, servant-leader actions, and a contagious passion to honor God with my life.
  14. 14. DETERMINING Where You are Going “The greatest danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short, but in setting our aim too low and achieving our mark.” - -Michelangelo
  15. 15. A. EULOGY DETERMINING WHERE YOU ARE GOING Then live into it.
  16. 16. B. Personal Vision Statement a statement that you never fully reach but are always shooting for DETERMINING WHERE YOU ARE GOING
  17. 17. C. Determine your most important priorities for the year ahead. Consider a theme, have fun with it and post it as a reminder DETERMINING WHERE YOU ARE GOING
  18. 18. D. “Life as a 3-ring Circus” DETERMINING WHERE YOU ARE GOING
  19. 19. E. Your roles and goals. DETERMINING WHERE YOU ARE GOING There is power in writing and in sharing goals. HARD (Heartfelt, Animated, Required, Difficult)
  20. 20. F. Your roles and goals. If you cannot see it, you cannot do it. Goals not broken into manageable steps usually get no traction. DETERMINING WHERE YOU ARE GOING
  21. 21. IDENTIFYING How to Avoid Obstacles
  22. 22. 1. Develop an accountability system IDENTIFYING HOW TO AVOID OBSTACLES A TEAM • Accountability • Teamwork • Encouragement • Ask for help • Motivation Delay gratification until you get it done; then reward yourself!
  23. 23. 2. Determine 7-10 questions to ask yourself daily IDENTIFYING HOW TO AVOID OBSTACLES 3. Identify emotional baggage. If you don’t deal with it, you carry it to your next relationship or job. “You are currently a product of yesterday’s habits.” –Jim Stovall “What you resist, persists.”
  24. 24. IDENTIFYING HOW TO AVOID OBSTACLES 4. Identify Shadow Mission Your motivation when not on your game.
  25. 25. 5. Get a complete physical. IDENTIFYING HOW TO AVOID OBSTACLES 6. When you get stuck, brainstorm your options for making constructive changes. People backed into a corner do not see options.
  26. 26. IDENTIFYING HOW TO AVOID OBSTACLES 7. Develop a personal board of directors. Choose to be under people who get you to greatness.
  27. 27. IDENTIFYING HOW TO AVOID OBSTACLES 8. Graph your time spent on various tasks/relationships. Give A, B, C priorities. “Never sacrifice the permanent on the altar of the immediate.” –Bob Kraning WIN = Work It Now!
  28. 28. Practice the BALANCE WHEEL of Self-Care FA POSITIVELY SELF AFFIRM
  29. 29. GOLDEN RETRIEVER

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