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Adult Attachment
Nathan Loynes
‘Playing’ positions
(more on this at a later date)
Attribution Theory
(a theory from earlier)
We can make hypotheses or attributions about a
person’s ‘mood’ from the manner in which they
communicate.
1. Do you know anyone that is ‘always in a bad
mood’, or ‘always in a good mood’?
2. What is it about their communication that
‘gives this away’?
Another way in which to think about
communication (page 1 in today’s pack)
Can a person be ‘passive’ and
‘aggressive’ at the same time?
• Watch this counselling clip again.
• Remember Tannen’s (2007) synthesis of
solidarity and control maneuvers (sic) from last
time?
• Tannen (2007) identified that many
communications can be ‘ambiguous’ and
‘polysemous’.
1. Do you think Passive/Aggressive
communications are an example of these terms?
Breaking passive/aggressive down
• Read Haarn’s (2011) examples of
passive/aggressive behaviours (pages 1&2 in
excerpt 2 in today’s pack).
1. Do you know anyone who exhibits these
behaviours?
2. Think about your attitude towards your
studies… Are you brave enough to admit to any?
3. Where do you think ‘passive/aggressive’
attitudes and behaviours ‘come from’?
Communication Styles and Attachment
Theory
• P/A preferences are influenced by our
understandings of the operation of ‘power’ in
social situations.
• P/A preferences might emerge as a result of our
historical dynamic interactions, particularly with
‘parental’ (read ‘powerful’) figures.
• Being overly fearful of consequences as a result
of insecure attachments (‘unsureness’)might lead
us to mediate our communications along P/A
lines? (i.e. those outlined by Haarn (2011).

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Adult attachment 1

  • 2. ‘Playing’ positions (more on this at a later date)
  • 3. Attribution Theory (a theory from earlier) We can make hypotheses or attributions about a person’s ‘mood’ from the manner in which they communicate. 1. Do you know anyone that is ‘always in a bad mood’, or ‘always in a good mood’? 2. What is it about their communication that ‘gives this away’?
  • 4. Another way in which to think about communication (page 1 in today’s pack)
  • 5. Can a person be ‘passive’ and ‘aggressive’ at the same time? • Watch this counselling clip again. • Remember Tannen’s (2007) synthesis of solidarity and control maneuvers (sic) from last time? • Tannen (2007) identified that many communications can be ‘ambiguous’ and ‘polysemous’. 1. Do you think Passive/Aggressive communications are an example of these terms?
  • 6. Breaking passive/aggressive down • Read Haarn’s (2011) examples of passive/aggressive behaviours (pages 1&2 in excerpt 2 in today’s pack). 1. Do you know anyone who exhibits these behaviours? 2. Think about your attitude towards your studies… Are you brave enough to admit to any? 3. Where do you think ‘passive/aggressive’ attitudes and behaviours ‘come from’?
  • 7. Communication Styles and Attachment Theory • P/A preferences are influenced by our understandings of the operation of ‘power’ in social situations. • P/A preferences might emerge as a result of our historical dynamic interactions, particularly with ‘parental’ (read ‘powerful’) figures. • Being overly fearful of consequences as a result of insecure attachments (‘unsureness’)might lead us to mediate our communications along P/A lines? (i.e. those outlined by Haarn (2011).