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Mindful Email
Mary Ann Koory
1. Sometimes the best
email
is no email.
Email can escalate
confusion and conflict.
Because text lacks context.
• Other person’s immediate
situation (not personal)
• Tone of voice (sarcasm, humor,
emotion)
• Immediate feedback ("huh?")
Live conversation defuses
conflict and clarifies
issues.
Rule of 3
After 3 rounds of email with
no result:
Private or personal
conversations do not
stay private in email.
Garbage in space.
Preliminary thoughts
are not well served by
email.
• Preliminary: Unfinished Thinking
When email is not
the best choice:
• Conflict
• Confusion
• Ephemeral: Just Kidding
• Private, Personal
Anger, frustration,
desire to score points,
NIGYYSOB,
unkind personal
remarks . . .
The “send” button is a trigger.
Keep the safety on.
Be Mindful.
When you do choose to use email . . .
2. Write as if your readers
are judging you and your
message by appearances.
Because they are.
Match The Style and
Format of Your Firm
Chunk text &
use white
space.
Invite your
readers in.
Think of all your
potential readers, not
just the ones you
originally intend.
Be ready to have your
message forwarded
indiscriminately.
Avoid slangy speech,
abbreviations and txt
spk.
Use spell cheek.Use spell cheek.
Avoid humor.
3. Do more work so
your reader does less.
When you do choose to use
email . . .
Be concise.
Concision takes work.
Concision also shows confidence.
Make sure
your
information
is accurate.
Make your requests easy
for people to respond to
immediately.
.
You do the hunting,
gathering and (re)attaching.
4. Use helpful subject
lines.
When you do choose to use
email . . .
RE:
• Specific, not generic
• Key words are in the subject line
• When the subject of a thread
changes, the RE: changes
RE:
Be kind to Future You who may be
searching for specific messages
among 50 threads all with “Follow
Up” as the subject line.
5. Curate distribution lists.
When you do choose to use
email . . .
• Shrink the list as the thread
topic narrows.
• Don’t tattle or show off by
including senior people.
• Get "loop consent." Do you want
to be included?
• Hit “reply all” judiciously.
6. Respond to other
people’s email mindfully.
When you do choose to use
email . . .
Respond, even if you don’t
have a good answer.
Make specific references to
previous emails.
On Friday, Jan. 3, Fred Smith Fred@smith.com wrote: Lorem ipsum dolor sit
amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Aliquam leo leo, mattis vitae tortor ut, suscipit
porta diam. Donec rutrum, massa a interdum pharetra, eros ipsum molestie
nibh, sit amet consequat lacus nisi nec mi.
On Wednesday, Dec. 12, Alice Jones Alice@Jones.com wrote: Lorem ipsum
dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Aliquam leo leo, mattis vitae tortor
ut, suscipit porta diam. Donec rutrum, massa a interdum pharetra, eros ipsum
molestie nibh, sit amet consequat lacus nisi nec mi.
On Monday, Dec. 6, Fred Smith Fred@smith.com wrote: Lorem ipsum dolor
sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Aliquam leo leo, mattis vitae tortor ut,
suscipit porta diam. Donec rutrum, massa a interdum pharetra, eros ipsum
molestie nibh, sit amet consequat lacus nisi nec mi.
Fred –
Sounds good. 
Alice
• Highlight your references in
previous message.
• Put your edits in a different color.
• Take a few words to remind your
reader of the context.
Don’t forward whole
messages indiscriminately.
Edit threads and attachments so
your message isn’t dragging a
bunch of distractions behind it.
7. Remember the human.
When you do choose to use
email . . .
. . . balanced between
human-to-human contact
and concision.
Keep your messages
efficient but . . .
1. Sometimes the best email is no email.
2. Write as if your readers are judging you and
your message by appearances.
3. Do more work so your reader does less.
4. Use helpful subject lines.
5. Curate distribution lists.
7. Remember the human.
6. Respond to other people’s email mindfully.
Mindful Messages Earn
Respect.

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mindful email

Editor's Notes

  1. “age it in oak” watch out for emotion, esepcially humor
  2. “age it in oak” watch out for emotion, esepcially humor
  3. Tone of voice, body language, context offers more information -- telephone is live conversation
  4. Tone of voice, body language, context offers more information
  5. Garbage in space does not degrade – it is exactly the same as it was, will never decompose and go away – now it’s pristine and worse, it’s orbittng out of context for anyone to see
  6. Not clear, not efficient, and perhaps regrettable to put preliminary, ill formed thoughts in an email, not a good place for felelng out or brainstorming
  7. Take a moment. When you are using weapons, put the safety on.
  8. Don’t stand out, err on the side of formality
  9. Create space to invite your reader into the communication.
  10. Flippancy, humor, etc. Think of “future you” and others to whom the message might be forwarded – it’s not just the msg of the moment to one person.
  11. Flippancy, humor, etc. Think of “future you” and others to whom the message might be forwarded – it’s not just the msg of the moment to one person.
  12. double check information (wrong numbers, dates) proofread! the number one complaint around the table at Paralegal Program Advisory Board are typos, grammatical errors and inconsistent formatting. Spell check is inadequate. ask a colleague to proof your work, when appropriate
  13. You enable people to respond, even if you've already sent the attachments five times.
  14. Attach something for the second or third time. Be clear about what you’re asking for. Be clear about deadlines.
  15. Change when the subject changes Proposed Revised
  16. Takes intellectual effort – it’s kind of a haiku, but the exytra effort pays off for “future you”
  17. Think about researching and filing emails – labels are key. Nothing that says "important," "confidential," etc. Change when the subject changes: Proposed Revised
  18. No tattling (remember rule of 3) No showing off No mindless inclusion Ask people if they want to be included
  19. Highlight relevent passages
  20. Highlight relevent passages
  21. Highlight relevent passages
  22. Loud, busy distractions
  23. No tattling (remember rule of 3) No showing off No mindless inclusion Ask people if they want to be included
  24. hello, how are you, thank you -- salutations and sign offs, acknowledges of the other person as a person
  25. hello, how are you, thank you -- salutations and sign offs, acknowledges of the other person as a person