This document discusses how relationships with people, places, and things are important for regulating emotions and stress levels. It notes that dementia reduces one's ability to self-regulate and can lead to behavioral and psychological symptoms. It advocates for a "culture of care" that focuses on meeting attachment needs through meaningful interactions, a home-like environment with familiar items, and opportunities for occupation. The Dementia Care Matters Butterfly Home model aims to create such an environment through a household approach focused on relationships.
8. We rely on these relationships to keep our stress
(arousal) at a comfortable levels and avoid
escalated negative emotions (affect).
“Affect Regulation”
These relationships shape how we feel
9. Think of a time in your life when you felt stressed.
Discuss in pairs
How did you know you were stressed?
What do you do when you are stressed?
Who/What helped?
Feeling Stressed!
10. Hot
Sweaty
Palpitations
Racing mind
Restless
Muscle Tense
Shallow
Breathing
indigestion
Head ache
Shout
Swear
Cry
Restless
Reactive
Shutdown
Withdraw
Controlling
Worrying
Obsessive
Hyper Sensitive
Irritable
Aggressive
Accusative
Argumentative
Agitated
Paranoid
Eat Clean
Take dog for a walk
Smoke Drink
Go for a walk
Take time out
Have a bath
Tidy the house
Solve the problem
Seek help
Call a friend
Watch TV
Listen to Music
Go shopping
Work Exercise,
Meditate
Angry
Anxious
Panicked
Fearful
Rage
Tearful
11. Think of a time in your life when you felt bored.
Discuss in pairs
How did you know you were bored?
What do you do when you are bored?
Who/what helped?
Feeling Bored!
13. Self regulation - helps to keep our stress at a
comfortable levels (arousal) and avoid escalated
negative emotions (affect).
Our coping strategies help us feel at home in
ourselves
14. Self Regulation
To stay in our comfort zone we need the following abilities –
• To know and manage our feelings and emotions
• To reflect and respond adaptively to situations
• To communicate our feelings and needs effectively
• To make use of these abilities in relationships
These processes require “Neural Integration” i.e. different parts
of the brain working with each other in the service of self
regulation. (D.Siegal)
The capacity for self regulation is undermined by the
neuropathology of a dementia!
17. Loss of capacity to self regulate
=
Vulnerable to traumatic stress + heightened negative
emotion
Hyper or hypo arousal leads to intense negative emotions
21. Comfort – calming/soothing, people, places and things …
Occupation –Stimulating/enlivening, people, places and things …
Relationships with people places and
things need to meet our attachment needs
22. Consider -
the people
the places
the things
that help you feel at home in
yourself?
What is it about them that helps you feel at home?
23. 1. A Dementia
2. Culture of Care
changes your relationships
to people, places and things.
32. Stuff everywhere i.e.
“clutter”
Relates to individual life
history
Triggers emotional
memories
Matched to stages of
dementia
Half done things to finish
off
Themed and staged
activities
Enables people to occupy
themselves independently
of carers
Comfort objects, sensory
calming things.
Household items and
sensory stimulating things
33. Group
Living
Attachment
needs
Care
Tasks
Reducing Routine
Bound Care
Being a Butterfly
Change the moment
Turn tasks into experiences
Spontaneous and go with the flow
Go along with different realities
Focus on social interaction
Use stuff in interactions
Stage activities rather than run them
Aware of controlling language &
behaviours
34. People experiencing the
early stage of a dementia
People experiencing a different
reality
People experiencing the late
stages of a dementia
Lots of opportunity for
domestic activities
Access to domestic and
functional household items
Small reminiscence groups,
themed reminiscence
boxes
Lots of opportunity for
conversation and “banter”
during care giving
interactions
Partnerships in domestic and
daily living activities
Greater independence in
daily living tasks
Domestic things/tasks/jobs laying
around half done and to be
finished
Themed and personalised
rummage boxes
Opportunities for people to live
out the past jobs, vocations, roles
that may be part of their reality
Lots f stuff to hand to rummage
through
A care team that can role play
and go along with different
realities to meet underlying
emotional needs rather
Comfort objects, dolls,
stuffed toys to hand
Soft and textured fabrics
Opportunities for sensory
stimulation and soothing at
different times of day
Sensory items related to
individuals life history
immediately to hand/within
reach
A care team that is able to be
still, close, affectionate,
tactile to meet attachment
needs
MATCHED CAREGIVING & THE STAGES OF A DEMENTIA
36. =
Dementia Care Matters Butterfly
Household Model of Care
A therapeutic environment between people, places &
things that meets peoples individual attachment
needs
42 Accredited Butterfly Care Homes in UK, Ireland,
Canada & Australia
15 Butterfly projects UK, Ireland, Canada & Australia
37. You’re a person, in a
place, with things!
What can you do to
create a culture of care that
helps people with a
dementia feel at home?
38. “Contact with dementia or other forms of cognitive disability
can - and indeed should - take us out of our customary patterns
of over busyness, hyper-cognitivism and extreme talkativity
into a way of being in which emotion and feeling are given a
much larger place …. they are asking us, so to speak, to heal
the rift in experience that western culture has engendered, and
inviting us to return to aspects of our being that are much older
in evolutionary terms: more in tune with the body and its
functions, closer to the life of instinct.”
Kitwood, T. 1997. Dementia Reconsidered: The Person comes First. Buckingham: Open
University Press.
Attachment Interactions