This document discusses building a culture of compassion through the Spotlight: Girls program. It emphasizes putting girls at the center and teaching them skills like imagining others' perspectives, sharing their voices, and practicing performance. The goal is to ignite a compassion revolution by cultivating empathy. It also provides culture codes like saying yes, making mistakes, and feeling feelings to help shape the organizational culture. Testimonials praise Spotlight: Girls for maintaining integrity to their vision, having a strong empathy movement, hiring excellent staff, and living their mission.
Simon Sinek urges us to “start with why.” That’s the key to great leadership and building an org that matters.
Let’s be honest, sometimes it doesn’t work that way. Sometimes we have to back into it.
Knowing your why – and, more important…being able to ARTICULATE it to everyone your org touches…is the key to creating a organizational culture that allows you to stand out in your field or industry. Or, in our words, it allows you to take center stage.
Taught drama and made plays
I was good at it – 20 years
Knew it was important, especially with girls
Had to search for a Why
In 2008, I found my WHY at the Greater Good Science Center
From here, I created a mission statement
But HOW did my WHAT relate to my new WHY
How was the experience of girls doing plays building the foundations of a more compassionate individuals and a more compassionate society?
My advantage – I had to break down this super-sized concept into pieces that a child could chew on, enjoy, and digest
First, I had to learn as much as I could about compassion. I learned from scientists that human beings are wired for care and connection. We are wired to be able to respond with love to suffering – both in others and in ourselves.
I learned so much – so much complexity – that I had to go to my happy place and make sense of it all. Organize it in a way that I could teach it to kids as young as 6. 3 day retreat in the redwoods, we came up with our culture code.
I had to break it down into bite size chunks that our girls could digest.
And what emerged was the Go Girls! Culture Code – taking all that we learned, valued, and understood and put it in the language of the girls themselves
So, we got to our WHY to create this this Culture Code but now, it is infused at every level of our business – the why, how and what.
Again, it’s the manifestation of our mission statement – what would a Compassion Revolution actually look like? How will we know when we have succeeded in igniting one?
It’s our education methodology –
We teach each point through games and interactive lessons
It’s also our community contract/behavior code – how we are working to actually be with each other during our programs
And it’s how we do business in all of the other areas of our organization
And it’s working…
Don’t be afraid to back into you Why
Find out how WHAT you do connects to a greater mission or purpose
And then, break that super-sized why into child-sized bites – make sure its yummy!
And don’t forget to invite everybody involved with your organization to the table