We all have fundamental needs like security, safety, and belonging from birth, but also needs for adventure, discovery, and exploration. Throughout life we must negotiate our needs for security and adventure with our needs for connection, togetherness, freedom, love, and desire. While many find partners who match their vulnerabilities and desires, relationships often involve fighting as partners try to fulfill different needs. Now in modern times, people have more freedom but also more loneliness, and intimacy has come to refer to close friendships where people share deep feelings, worries, and dreams rather than just familiarity.

1. •We all live and come to this world struggling on
our lives. Wherein, we have fundamental needs,
such as needs for security, for safety,
dependability, and belonging. That we as men
and women have equally needs, in everything in
between, for adventure, for discovery, for
novelty, and for exploration.

2. • All of us, from the minute we come into this world, we
need to negotiate on our security, need for adventure, and
our need for connection, our need for togetherness, and
our need for freedom, the love and desire. And many of us
founds partners for whom their proclivities matched their
vulnerabilities, so that they can bring you’re the parts that
you want to come of, or at best at least think you want to
more of, although many times you will get fight with each
other.

3. •For the first time, we are lot freer, but also a lot
more alone. And now, one particular word is
going to change its meaning radically, which is
the world “intimacy”. Wherein it means close
familiarity and friendships. When people share
their deep and most prized assets, which are
their feelings, worries, anxiety, aspirations, and
dreams.