22. some may assert that the brain is designed to support it. We love for a
need to be loved and appreciated to express and receive affection, and to
experience romantic love. Sexual desire is a huge impulse in the human
experience driven by attraction. We just have it. It’s in us. If it’s not then we
ay be experiencing some other phenomenon. I simply believe that we
on’t want to be alone nor do I believe that we should be.
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Genesis 2:18 And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man
should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
When it comes to love it appears that men and women do indeed approach
it from point of view of attraction. Some of the basic facts we learned is
that when we are looking to find the very best mates possible. This is kind
of a primal, animalistic notion but it is clearly an obvious aspect of human
nature.
There are obviously major differences between sexual attraction and pure
love or romantic love but research has show that there are actually
imilarities in these two forms of love. Still they are different and distinct s
from each other.
hen are brains are in love they process and function id different ways.
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s is straight from the lecture by Clark Elliott.
The sc rains in love are
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ience of Functional MRIs show us that b
nally processing in three areas.
Ventral tegmental – controls dopamine
Nucleus accumbens – seratonin, oxytocin
Caudate nuclei – patterns and mundane habits
Conclusions: Love is a natural part of the human experience. Humans fall
in love for many reasons. Companionship is a major reason that people
want to love. The way that humans pick their partners is largely based on
attraction, and that attraction is not always sexual. A woman might desire
a man for stability and security, or for his intellect, sense of humor, or
otherwise. A lot of it has to do with who will be a good father whether that
is because of good genes or being a good provider.
Summary: Love changes the chemistry in the brain. We love because it
feels fulfilling to us. It is innate to us as humans even if we don’t know how
to engage in it, we want it. We desire to be attached and wanted by another.