Take any step forward only after this value comparison.

1. Relationship Know Your Partners Values Beforehand
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We acquire our values from different sources. In the beginning our
values are given to us by our parents. Speak truth, help others, do
this and do not do that and things like that. After sometime, we get
more values in our education. We read about values of great people and
try to live by some of them. Our religion gives us many values. How to
live, what is right, what is wrong and what is allowed, what is not
allowed are some values that we get from the religion? Today if you
observe the difference between pro and anti abortion lobbies, you will
find a values conflict. In your relationship, have you found out values
of your partner? Have you spelled out your values?
Values are dear to us. For some of us, values are very dear. It is
found that some people even give away their life to safe guard their
values. Such value contradiction can play havoc with your relationship.
Some of us sympathize with poor and try to help them, while others
opine that poor need not be helped, as it is their karma that is giving
them this pain. Let them suffer. This singular value difference can
kill your relationship, if you both are not ready to compromise on
them.
Please talk to your partner about your values in the beginning of the
relationship. Spell out your values very clearly and be honest that you
will not compromise on any of them. Let your partner do the same.
Compare the values and discuss the differences. Decide at that point
about the relationship. Both of you should be aware that the difference
can kill the relationship in future. Take any step forward only after
this value comparison.