In an office, bullying can be detrimental to any company culture. Here are 5 steps on how to deal with them...
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2. From elementary school to the workplace, unfortunately bullies
exist. In the office, this type of behavior can be detrimental to any
company culture.
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Bullying comes in many different forms. It
can include gossiping, excluding,
undermining, intimidating, being two-faced,
abusive actions, passive-aggressive or just
plain aggressive behaviors.
BULLYING IN THE WORKPLACE
3. No matter what kind of bully you run into, you
need to know how to deal with them.
This blog will help prepare and develop skills you
can use to handle bully-like situations.
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5 STEPS FOR DEALING
WITH A BULLY
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There are many, many
different resources available
to employees and employers
on how to identify and
handle bullying situations in
the workplace. Knowledge is
power and education on this
topic will help you be
prepared if/when situations
occur.
1. GET EDUCATED
ABOUT YOUR
OPTIONS
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Whatever you do, know that
bullies are looking to get a
reaction out of you. Giving
them that reaction only feeds
into their behaviors. Removing
your emotion from the
situation will help you calmly
and clearly defuse difficult
situations.
2. DON’T GET
EMOTIONAL
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If you feel you are falling victim to
malicious behaviors, document every
incident. A best practice for keeping a
journal or log is to email yourself so each
entry is date and time stamped. When it
becomes appropriate to escalate your
concerns, you will have everything
prepared and well-formed for HR to
evaluate.
3. Keep a log of everything
7. No matter how a bully tries to
work your nerves, make sure you
stay focused on doing the best
you can at your job. The last thing
you want is any of their
accusations to gain validity
because your work ethic is
suffering.
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4. FOCUS ON DOING
YOUR BEST WORK
8. 5. Know when to ask for help
Its generally best to first go to someone outside the office,
meaning not someone who is co-worker or manager. Use
some caution when approaching HR. Remember they are
always more company-focused and they are also not your
personal counselors. When you do decide to move forward
with bringing your concerns to HR, be constructive. Ask
them if they have a specific plan for handling these types
of situations.
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Dealing with bullies is always a difficult
situation and can be extremely
uncomfortable.
However, if you look at the situation as a
learning opportunity, you can grow from
it. Managers and higher-ups will likely
take note of how you handled the
situation, as well.