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The Fear of Singing 
www.tips.how2improvesinging.com
You Are Not Alone
I truly believe that every 
singer (and I mean 100% of 
singers)
can relate 
to this topic.
Of course, the amount of 
fear differs based on
age, experience, personality, 
perceived talent 
and other factors.
Some singers look fearless 
when stepping up on the 
stage..
Some aspiring singers 
dare to sing 
only in the shower.
However, even famous 
singers and artists 
experience some level of
uneasy feelings about 
their performance.
For example, John Bon Jovi 
said in an interview that
he experienced stage fright 
before every performance.
You are not alone.
It does not matter if 
you are a new singer or 
a professional.
We all experience some level 
of fear of singing.
Why Are We Afraid to Sing?
These are some of the 
thoughts that may go through 
your head before singing or 
while you sing:
“I am not confident 
in my singing."
“I am not a good singer."
“I don’t know how to sing."
“What if everyone hates me?"
“What if I cannot 
hit the high note?"
“What if my voice cracks?"
“What if I make a 
fool of myself?"
What if ...?
Are any of these familiar?
They sound awfully 
familiar to me!
All throughout my life, 
singing was not something 
I would get praised for.
My parents are kind 
people and they never 
criticized my singing.
But they also did not get 
too excited about it
so I never felt proud of 
my vocal abilities.
My (very talented) son, 
being an honest 11 year 
old child, also gives me
lukewarm appraisals 
of my singing.
But then, he gives 
the thumbs up only 
to his vocal teacher.
I have also heard many 
stories about mean teachers 
and parents who loudly
belittled their students 
or children for singing.
I cannot imagine the 
thoughts rushing 
through their heads.
And I also met people 
who were told by 
others not to sing.
Imagine …
I believe there are 
two main reasons why 
we are afraid to sing.
Judgement and misperception.
Just look at some 
reality shows in which 
entertainment relies on
harshly criticizing 
or even humiliating 
one’s vocal abilities.
Then, there are studio 
recordings of great singers 
and performers that seem
out of this world – and 
they are because they are
altered and enhanced 
by today’s technology.
Nothing wrong with that.
Just comparing your own 
voice to these great
sounding performances 
can be intimidating.
How to Overcome 
Stage Fright?
Figure out why 
you are afraid to sing.
When you know the whys, 
you can work on the hows.
If you are afraid of not 
hitting the high notes, 
practice them or
or choose a song that is 
within your range.
If you are afraid of 
being judged, find a 
friendly audience.
If you feel you are not a 
good singer, practice more.
Some tips to overcome 
the fear of singing:
Tip 1: 
Over-prepare! 
Yes, practice makes perfect.
It’s an old saying but 
it works beautifully.
It worked for me.
Prepare and prepare 
and prepare.
By the time you stand on 
the stage, your 
performance will become a
well-practiced routine that 
you can do in your sleep.
But don’t forget that 
little imperfections make
your performance 
believable and human.
No one wants to listen 
to singing robots.
Tip 2: 
Self-exploration. 
Every time you practice your 
song again and again, you may
discover more about 
yourself, your 
voice and body.
If you know your body well, 
then there is a lesser
chance of unexpected 
surprises.
Tip 3: 
Join a group of singers.
With the increasing trend 
of singing, there are many 
choirs –
at school, at church or 
at a local 
community centre.
Join like-minded people 
who love to sing.
You are not in the 
spotlight when you sing 
with others
which is a good way 
to get used 
to singing in front 
of other people.
Tip 4: 
Get exposure.
Sing for people.
Start with friends 
and family.
They are your biggest fans.
They want you to succeed.
Once you feel comfortable 
in front of familiar people,
sing for strangers 
or bigger audiences.
Sing at church.
Sing at a karaoke bar.
Organize a street 
performance.
On the other hand, there 
are people (like my son) 
who is less stressed about
singing in front of 
unfamiliar people than in 
front of family members.
We are all different.
The key is to know 
what works for you.
Tip 5: 
Record yourself on 
a regular basis.
Learn from listening to 
your own singing or ask for 
feedback to see where
you are at and what you 
need to work on.
Most of us hate listening 
to our own voices.
Yes, we sound differently 
when recorded.
Accept the feedback as a 
way to grow and improve.
Use the feedback 
constructively 
not destructively.
Tip 6: 
Choose easy songs to 
start your performance.
Choose songs that are 
within your range and
showcase your 
vocal abilities.
Win some fans with a 
solid initial performance.
Once the audience loves 
you, they will be more 
forgiving if you make a few
mistakes in more 
challenging songs.
Tip 7: 
Let go!
Forget about your “what 
ifs” and go for it!
This one is easy to 
write and harder to do.
But it definitely 
worked for me.
I believe that letting go 
is what made it for me.
I realized that nothing 
(absolutely nothing!) will
happen if I do not 
sing perfectly.
Go for it!
Experiment! The feeling 
is absolutely amazing!
Try improvisation 
in singing.
It is elevating and it is a 
good way to learn to let go.
Tip 8: 
Don't take yourself 
too seriously.
If you see your singing 
performance as a matter of 
life and death, then you
naturally create 
tension and pressure.
Have fun with your songs.
Entertain your audience 
and enjoy the process.
If you are worried about 
being judged, don’t look 
at your singing as
a performance but 
more as a message.
What are you trying 
to communicate to 
your audience?
What do you want 
to tell them?
Tip 9: 
See yourself succeeding.
I practice this one every 
day and not only in singing.
I believe and teach 
self-fulfilling prophecy 
at home and at work.
If you believe that you 
can succeed, you will.
Yes, it sounds 
funny but it works.
Tell yourself something 
positive over and over even
if you don’t believe 
it initially.
It creates an atmosphere in 
which it can become reality.
Figure out what you want 
to change and become.
Make your affirmations very 
specific and incorporate 
your fears into them.
For example, if you are 
afraid of being judged by 
others, think of this:
“I will allow people to have 
their opinions because they
are trying to help me.” 
or,
“I will accept other people’s 
judgements about my singing 
and I will 
learn from them.”
So be fearless and sing!
If you want more tips and 
advice about singing, go to
www.tips.how2improvesinging.com
See you there!

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