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2. Organizational savvy
The science of winning friends
and influencing people
Dr Rob Yeung
Talentspace Limited
Armstrong House
11a Chancellors Street
London W6 9RN, U.K.
Tel: + 44 (0)20 8748 4764
www.talentspace.co.uk 15th October 2014
3. Feel free to abuse me as I speak
@robyeung
Leadership, hiring, the
psychology of pitching
and business
development
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4. What do people do that helps
them to succeed at work?
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5. Agenda
The science of organizational savvy
Boosting Social Astuteness
Flexing through ‘push’ and ‘pull’
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6. Agenda
The science of organizational savvy
Boosting Social Astuteness
Flexing through ‘push’ and ‘pull’
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7. To what extent do you agree
that…
“I am particularly good at sensing the
motivation and hidden agendas of others.”
“I have good intuition or savvy about how to
present myself to others.”
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8. Consider the four sub-skills of
organizational savvy
Social Astuteness
Interpersonal Flexibility
Networking Ability
Demonstrable Integrity and Sincerity
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9. Agenda
The science of organizational savvy
Boosting Social Astuteness
Flexing through ‘push’ and ‘pull’
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10. Trace a letter on your forehead…
Stand up
Raise your dominant hand (i.e. the hand you
normally write with)
Snap the fingers of your dominant hand three
times
Draw the letter...
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11. Which way did your ‘E’ face?
Facing yourself Facing away from
you
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12. Putting ourselves into people’s
shoes has benefits
Spend 5 minutes on:
– no further instruction
– empathy
– perspective-taking
– 39 per cent success
– 54 per cent success
– 76 per cent success
Empathy and perspective-taking are not
automatic – they need to be switched on
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13. Agenda
The science of organizational savvy
Boosting Social Astuteness
Flexing through ‘push’ and ‘pull’
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14. Which statement is truer for you?
“I am able to say ‘no’ to unreasonable
requests.”
“I look for ways to be helpful to the people I
work with.”
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15. Consider how we ‘push’ and ‘pull’
Forceful
persuasion
Responsibl
e
assertivene
ss
Passivity Helpfulnes
s
Low High
Assertion = ‘push’
High
Low
Respect = ‘pull’
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16. Learn to combine ‘push’ + ‘pull’
‘Push’ + ‘pull’ = influence
– Sounds easy, right?
But…
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17. How good are you at logical
reasoning?
Everyone who is kind is compassionate, and
someone who has experienced love is always
kind.
Elena is compassionate, so she has
experienced love. True or false?
Discuss it quickly with the person next
to you!
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18. How good are you at logical
reasoning?
Study participants on average placed
themselves at 66th percentile
Those at the 12th percentile believed they
were at 68th!
Beware of the “above-average effect”!
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19. Dont’ fall into the trap of beleeving
you’re own hype
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21. Agenda
The science of organizational savvy
Boosting Social Astuteness
Flexing through ‘push’ and ‘pull’
Comments?
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22. Here’s an idea for you…
Instead of having just a handful of people
asking questions and everyone else
listening…
Huddle in small groups
And see if you can together come up with a
comment or observation to share with
everyone in the room
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23. Agenda
The science of organizational savvy
Boosting Social Astuteness
Flexing through ‘push’ and ‘pull’
Final thoughts
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24. Final thoughts
Consider that empathy and perspective-taking
need to be consciously switched on
Use ‘push’ and ‘pull’ to influence
appropriately
Give people permission to give you truly
candid feedback
Consider that understanding is not the same
as implementation www.talentspace.co.uk © 2014 24
25. Now please say lovely things
about me!
@robyeung
Leadership, hiring, the
psychology of pitching
and business
development
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