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What type of communicator are you?
Next to each skill listed, rate yourself from 1 to 3 (1 = rarely, 2 =
sometimes, 3 = always).
_____When I’m speaking to someone face-to-face, I maintain eye contact.
_____When I’m listening to someone else speak, I maintain eye contact.
_____When I’m having face-to-face conversation, my body language is
friendly and relaxed.
_____I’m careful not to interrupt when others are speaking.
_____I take accurate phone messages when others are not home to
receive their calls.
_____When I answer the phone, I say hello and let the caller know to
whom they’re talking.
_____I know how to read others’ body language.
_____In class, I raise my hand before I answer a question.
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_____In school, I’m careful to keep my voice down when other students
are studying nearby.
_____I’m respectful when I speak to my instructors and the school staff.
_____When a lot of people are talking at once, I don’t raise my voice but
wait quietly until it’s my
turn to speak.
_____When I’m introduced to someone new, I smile and give him or her a
firm handshake.
_____I stand straight and tall when I enter a room.
_____If I walk into a gathering in which I don’t know anybody, I walk up to
someone who looks
friendly and introduce myself.
_____People tell me I’m a good listener.
_____I enjoy talking to other people.
_____I know how to argue without getting angry or abusive.
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Communication
Based on something that conveys meaning: the
message
verbal (spoken or written)
nonverbal (body language, physical appearance, or
vocal tone)
context—or place and time—of the communication
makes a big impact on how it will be received
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Communication
Non-Verbal
People telegraph intentions and feelings whether
aware of it or not
Unintentional senders
Whatever goes on inside shows outside
Conveyed messages go far beyond words
spoken
Tone of voice
Body language
Comes particularly from the face, eyes, body,
clothing, gestures, and touch
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Communication
Non-Verbal
Be careful to interpret signals correctly
Crossed arms might be expressing defiance, but
might also just be feeling cold
Check out facial expressions and other nonverbal
signs to determine correct reading
Facial expressions help judge feelings
Depend on face as most trustworthy indicator of
emotions such as happiness, surprise, fear, anger,
joy, sadness, disgust, contempt, interest,
concern, and embarrassment
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Communication
Non-Verbal
Look at face for insight into person’s character
(for example, an “open, honest face,” a “strong
chin,” or “beady eyes”)
Moustache, beard, or long hair might suggest
conformity or nonconformity, depending on time
and context
Grooming of hair says much about person’s
meticulousness
Narrowed lips or jutted-out chin might mean a
person is angry or defiant
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Communication
Non-Verbal
Eyes convey much meaning
eye contact—or lack of it—tells about confidence,
friendliness, honesty, or desire to dominate
narrowed eyes suggest anger, irritation, or doubt
pupils signify interest or disinterest
pupils dilate when person is interested or excited …
grow smaller when person is bored or uninterested
brow area and narrowing of eyes tell receiver much
frowns, scowls, and raised eyebrows indicate
displeasure or intensity
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Communication
Non-Verbal
Body is another rich source of nonverbal
confirmation or denial of our verbal message
Draw conclusions about people before words
exchanged based on sex, posture, height,
weight, and skin color
People stereotype others by thinking that tall people
make good leaders, overweight people are jolly, and
women are too emotional
Notice how senders of messages hold their
bodies
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Communication
Non-Verbal
Crossed arms a sign of defensiveness, defiance,
or withdrawal
Hands on hips signal goal oriented or ready and
able to take something on
Leaning back in chair with hands clasped behind
the head interpreted as sign of superiority,
smugness, or authority
A slouched posture means humiliation, defeat,
or submission
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Communication
Non-Verbal
Using arms, bodies, and legs to block sign of
territorial feelings
Turning shoulder or body slightly away sign of
rejection
Appearance discloses pieces of information
Dressing immaculately … careful and detailed
“Old-fashioned” dress … conservative opinions and
values
Excessive jewelry … materialistic
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Communication
Non-Verbal
Clothing during working hours tell what we do
for a living
Blue-collar clothes designed to help or protect
White-collar clothes are formal, little protection
Most common form of social physical contact—
the handshake
Indication of welcome, liking, acceptance, and
greeting
Considered extremely rude not to accept an offered
hand
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Communication
Non-Verbal
Method of shaking hands …
Bone-crushing grip seen as desire to dominate
Limp grasp sign of insecurity or negative outlook on
life
Mechanical pumping up and down in series of
convulsive jerks suggests mental rigidity, strong will,
and inflexibility
Be very careful with touching others at work
because of harassment issues
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Communication
Oral
Successful communicators
Full responsibility for success in process
Take responsibility for ensuring what’s heard is
understood
Recognize barriers to good communications exist
Speak in simple, grammatical, and understandable terms
Give examples, ask for feedback, rephrase, and make it
easy to get true intent of communications
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Communication
Listening
Listeners …
Passive listener …
Attentive
Does not assist speaker
Active listener …
Sit or stand alertly
Maintain eye contact with speaker
Concentrate on speaker’s words
Make verbal responses
Summarize parts for clarification
Difference in speed: speak vs. listen …
time lag in conversations
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Communication
Listening
Good listeners …
Do not daydream during lag
Use time to organize what is said and relate message
Guards against distractions to message
Speaker’s mannerisms, accent, dress or
grooming, language style, or delivery
Distracting if not tuned out
Avoid letting first impressions of speaker hinder ability
to hear message
Don’t interrupt to interject own thoughts
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Communication
Listening
Pay attention to tone of words and nonverbal
cues
Effective listening …
Concentrate so that competing external and internal
distractions are eliminated
Probe and reflect by asking questions to seek
clarification and greater understanding
Summarize (paraphrase) and feed back to speaker
what’s been heard
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Communication
Telephone Skills
Easier to be rude to someone not seen
Negative ways lack of telephone etiquette
impacts work ethics
Anger, irritation, and frustration can be suggested by
tone of voice
Ignoring calls and messages suggests that
unconcerned about clients and customers
Transfer callers without trying to address concerns
show a disinterest, apathetic attitude
Speak on phone with a smile in voice
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Communication
Telephone Skills
Voices should be clear and distinct
Demonstrate a service attitude by offering
assistance
Do not transfer calls blindly: make sure caller’s
problem will be resolved
Be discreet when using the phone
Think through requests for information
Give out information really needed by the caller
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Communication
Telephone Skills
Taking telephone messages for others
Do not hurry; may miss necessary information
Incomplete messages are frustrating
Repeat message to caller to ensure accuracy
Callers placed on hold
Ask permission first
Offer to call back if unwilling to wait
Irritates caller to be left on hold
Apologize for having the caller wait when placed
on hold
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Communication
Telephone Skills
Unhappy or angry customer
Be very careful
Let caller vent (spill anger)
Ready to listen when finished
Easier to solve problem
Express understanding/concern when appropriate
Nasty/foul language
Warn caller to refrain or will hang up
Do not have to listen, but warn caller
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Communication
E-mail Etiquette
Why do we need email etiquette?
Professionalism: by using proper email
language company will convey a professional
image
Efficiency: emails that get to the point are much
more effective than poorly worded emails
Protection from liability: employee awareness
of email risks will protect company from
costly law suits
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• Be concise and to the pointBe concise and to the point
• Answer all questions, and pre-empt further questionsAnswer all questions, and pre-empt further questions
• Use proper spelling, grammar & punctuationUse proper spelling, grammar & punctuation
• Make it personalMake it personal
• Use templates for frequently used responsesUse templates for frequently used responses
• Answer swiftlyAnswer swiftly
• Do not attach unnecessary filesDo not attach unnecessary files
• Use proper structure & layoutUse proper structure & layout
• Do not overuse the high priority optionDo not overuse the high priority option
• Do not write in CAPITALSDo not write in CAPITALS
• Don't leave out the message threadDon't leave out the message thread
• Add disclaimers to your emailsAdd disclaimers to your emails
• Read the email before you send itRead the email before you send it
• Do not overuse Reply to AllDo not overuse Reply to All
• Mailings > use the bcc: field or do a mail mergeMailings > use the bcc: field or do a mail merge
• Take care with abbreviations and emoticonsTake care with abbreviations and emoticons
• Be careful with formattingBe careful with formatting
• Take care with rich text and HTML messagesTake care with rich text and HTML messages
What are the email etiquette rules?
Part 1
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What are the email etiquette rules?
Part 2
• Do not forward chain lettersDo not forward chain letters
• Do not request delivery and read receiptsDo not request delivery and read receipts
• Do not ask to recall a messageDo not ask to recall a message
• Do not copy a message or attachment without permissionDo not copy a message or attachment without permission
• Do not use email to discuss confidential informationDo not use email to discuss confidential information
• Use a meaningful subjectUse a meaningful subject
• Use active instead of passiveUse active instead of passive
• Avoid using URGENT and IMPORTANTAvoid using URGENT and IMPORTANT
• Avoid long sentencesAvoid long sentences
• Don't send or forward emails containing libelous, defamatory, offensive,Don't send or forward emails containing libelous, defamatory, offensive,
racist or obscene remarksracist or obscene remarks
• Don't forward virus hoaxes and chain lettersDon't forward virus hoaxes and chain letters
• Keep your language gender neutralKeep your language gender neutral
• Don't reply to spamDon't reply to spam
• Use cc: field sparinglyUse cc: field sparingly
• Be concise and to the pointBe concise and to the point
• Don’t make an e-mail longer than needs to beDon’t make an e-mail longer than needs to be