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“We read, write, speak,
listen, and think in
words. The words we
know touch everything
we do. Increase your
learning power by
discovering new words.”
Select Agendas, 2004
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Communication
Has Work Ethics Changed?
Managers and employees complain
that many workers no longer have the
work ethic of the past, especially
younger workers who have been given
the label of the “me generation.”
Give work to someone only to be
disappointed with their lack of
initiative and motivation, a situation
experienced by a majority of business
people, both managers and
employees.
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Communication
Has Work Ethics Changed?
Employee motivation is contrary to
the obvious fact that people generally
want to be successful and perform
work tasks to the satisfaction of their
employers.
The lack of motivation of others at
work is an example of our own
behavior.
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Communication
Has Work Ethics Changed?
Employee motivation is contrary to
the obvious fact that people generally
want to be successful and perform
work tasks to the satisfaction of their
employers. Supervisors describe the
job as they want it to be performed
and the workers describe the job as
they understand it should be
performed. The description of the job
to be done varies from 25-50% percent
between the supervisor and worker.
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Communication
A sender expresses an emotion or a feeling,
creates an idea, or senses the need to
communicate
Process is triggered when the sender makes a
conscious or an unconscious decision to share
the message with another person—the receiver.
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Communication
Based on something that conveys meaning: the
message
verbal (spoken or written)
nonverbal (body language, physical appearance, or
vocal tone)
context—or place and time—of the communication
makes a big impact on how it will be received
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Communication
Communication channels
Work setting
seen through body movement, letters, memos, newsletters,
bulletin board notices, signs, emails, etc.
heard come through conversations, interviews,
presentations, telephones, radios, and other audio media
sight and sound are the two most frequently used in our
society
Receiver gives feedback (return message)
unconsciously or consciously
Process is on-going
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Communication
Sender’s worst assumption … message
received as intended
Assume that something will go wrong
Take steps to prevent that occurrence
Barriers to good communications
Always present
Language itself can be a barrier—unclear wording,
slang, jargon, the tone
Failure of the sender to realize that his or her body
language might contradict the spoken message
Channel conveying message might be wrong
Poor listening skills
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Communication
Non-Verbal
People telegraph intentions and feelings whether
aware of it or not
Unintentional senders
Whatever goes on inside shows outside
Conveyed messages go far beyond words
spoken
Tone of voice
Body language
Comes particularly from the face, eyes, body,
clothing, gestures, and touch
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Communication
Non-Verbal
Be careful to interpret signals correctly
Crossed arms might be expressing defiance, but
might also just be feeling cold
Check out facial expressions and other nonverbal
signs to determine correct reading
Facial expressions help judge feelings
Depend on face as most trustworthy indicator of
emotions such as happiness, surprise, fear, anger,
joy, sadness, disgust, contempt, interest,
concern, and embarrassment
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Communication
Non-Verbal
Look at face for insight into person’s character
(for example, an “open, honest face,” a “strong
chin,” or “beady eyes”)
Moustache, beard, or long hair might suggest
conformity or nonconformity, depending on time
and context
Grooming of hair says much about person’s
meticulousness
Narrowed lips or jutted-out chin might mean a
person is angry or defiant
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Communication
Non-Verbal
Eyes convey much meaning
eye contact—or lack of it—tells about confidence,
friendliness, honesty, or desire to dominate
narrowed eyes suggest anger, irritation, or doubt
pupils signify interest or disinterest
pupils dilate when person is interested or excited …
grow smaller when person is bored or uninterested
brow area and narrowing of eyes tell receiver much
frowns, scowls, and raised eyebrows indicate
displeasure or intensity
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Communication
Non-Verbal
Body is another rich source of nonverbal
confirmation or denial of our verbal message
Draw conclusions about people before words
exchanged based on sex, posture, height,
weight, and skin color
People stereotype others by thinking that tall people
make good leaders, overweight people are jolly, and
women are too emotional
Notice how senders of messages hold their
bodies
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Communication
Non-Verbal
Crossed arms a sign of defensiveness, defiance,
or withdrawal
Hands on hips signal goal oriented or ready and
able to take something on
Leaning back in chair with hands clasped behind
the head interpreted as sign of superiority,
smugness, or authority
A slouched posture means humiliation, defeat,
or submission
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Communication
Non-Verbal
Using arms, bodies, and legs to block sign of
territorial feelings
Turning shoulder or body slightly away sign of
rejection
Appearance discloses pieces of information
Dressing immaculately … careful and detailed
“Old-fashioned” dress … conservative opinions and
values
Excessive jewelry … materialistic
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Communication
Non-Verbal
Clothing during working hours tell what we do
for a living
Blue-collar clothes designed to help or protect
White-collar clothes are formal, little protection
Most common form of social physical contact—
the handshake
Indication of welcome, liking, acceptance, and
greeting
Considered extremely rude not to accept an offered
hand
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Communication
Non-Verbal
Method of shaking hands …
Bone-crushing grip seen as desire to dominate
Limp grasp sign of insecurity or negative outlook on
life
Mechanical pumping up and down in series of
convulsive jerks suggests mental rigidity, strong will,
and inflexibility
Be very careful with touching others at work
because of harassment issues
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Communication
Oral
Successful communicators
Full responsibility for success in process
Take responsibility for ensuring what’s heard is
understood
Recognize barriers to good communications exist
Speak in simple, grammatical, and understandable terms
Give examples, ask for feedback, rephrase, and make it
easy to get true intent of communications
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Communication
Listening
Listeners …
Passive listener …
Attentive
Does not assist speaker
Active listener …
Sit or stand alertly
Maintain eye contact with speaker
Concentrate on speaker’s words
Make verbal responses
Summarize parts for clarification
Difference in speed: speak vs. listen …
time lag in conversations
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Communication
Listening
Good listeners …
Do not daydream during lag
Use time to organize what is said and relate message
Guards against distractions to message
Speaker’s mannerisms, accent, dress or
grooming, language style, or delivery
Distracting if not tuned out
Avoid letting first impressions of speaker hinder ability
to hear message
Don’t interrupt to interject own thoughts
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Communication
Listening
Pay attention to tone of words and nonverbal
cues
Effective listening …
Concentrate so that competing external and internal
distractions are eliminated
Probe and reflect by asking questions to seek
clarification and greater understanding
Summarize (paraphrase) and feed back to speaker
what’s been heard
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Communication
Telephone Skills
Easier to be rude to someone not seen
Negative ways lack of telephone etiquette
impacts work ethics
Anger, irritation, and frustration can be suggested by
tone of voice
Ignoring calls and messages suggests that
unconcerned about clients and customers
Transfer callers without trying to address concerns
show a disinterest, apathetic attitude
Speak on phone with a smile in voice
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Communication
Telephone Skills
Voices should be clear and distinct
Demonstrate a service attitude by offering
assistance
Do not transfer calls blindly: make sure caller’s
problem will be resolved
Be discreet when using the phone
Think through requests for information
Give out information really needed by the caller
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Communication
Telephone Skills
Caller asks for supervisor
NO: “Mr. Jones is playing golf this afternoon.” … unnecessary
information
YES: “Mr. Jones will be in the office tomorrow morning. May I help you or
have him return your call?”
Avoid slang in telephone conversations
Say “certainly”, not “yeah” ; “goodbye”, not “bye-bye”
YES: “I beg your pardon. Would you please repeat that?” if not
understood
NO: “Huh?”
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Communication
Telephone Skills
Taking telephone messages for others
Do not hurry; may miss necessary information
Incomplete messages are frustrating
Repeat message to caller to ensure accuracy
Callers placed on hold
Ask permission first
Offer to call back if unwilling to wait
Irritates caller to be left on hold
Apologize for having the caller wait when placed
on hold
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Communication
Telephone Skills
Unhappy or angry customer
Be very careful
Let caller vent (spill anger)
Ready to listen when finished
Easier to solve problem
Express understanding/concern when appropriate
Nasty/foul language
Warn caller to refrain or will hang up
Do not have to listen, but warn caller
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Communication
E-mail Etiquette
Why do we need email etiquette?
Professionalism: by using proper email
language company will convey a professional
image
Efficiency: emails that get to the point are much
more effective than poorly worded emails
Protection from liability: employee awareness
of email risks will protect company from
costly law suits
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Be concise and to the pointBe concise and to the point
Answer all questions, and pre-empt furtherAnswer all questions, and pre-empt further
questionsquestions
Use proper spelling, grammar & punctuationUse proper spelling, grammar & punctuation
Make it personalMake it personal
Use templates for frequently used responsesUse templates for frequently used responses
Answer swiftlyAnswer swiftly
Do not attach unnecessary filesDo not attach unnecessary files
Use proper structure & layoutUse proper structure & layout
Do not overuse the high priority optionDo not overuse the high priority option
Do not write in CAPITALSDo not write in CAPITALS
Don't leave out the message threadDon't leave out the message thread
Add disclaimers to your emailsAdd disclaimers to your emails
Read the email before you send itRead the email before you send it
Do not overuse Reply to AllDo not overuse Reply to All
Mailings > use the bcc: field or do a mailMailings > use the bcc: field or do a mail
mergemerge
Take care with abbreviations and emoticonsTake care with abbreviations and emoticons
Be careful with formattingBe careful with formatting
Take care with rich text and HTML messagesTake care with rich text and HTML messages
What are the email etiquette rules?
Do not forward chain lettersDo not forward chain letters
Do not request delivery and read receiptsDo not request delivery and read receipts
Do not ask to recall a messageDo not ask to recall a message
Do not copy a message or attachment withoutDo not copy a message or attachment without
permissionpermission
Do not use email to discuss confidentialDo not use email to discuss confidential
informationinformation
Use a meaningful subjectUse a meaningful subject
Use active instead of passiveUse active instead of passive
Avoid using URGENT and IMPORTANTAvoid using URGENT and IMPORTANT
Avoid long sentencesAvoid long sentences
Don't send or forward emails containingDon't send or forward emails containing
libelous, defamatory, offensive, racist orlibelous, defamatory, offensive, racist or
obscene remarksobscene remarks
Don't forward virus hoaxes and chain lettersDon't forward virus hoaxes and chain letters
Keep your language gender neutralKeep your language gender neutral
Don't reply to spamDon't reply to spam
Use cc: field sparinglyUse cc: field sparingly
Be concise and to the pointBe concise and to the point
Don’t make an e-mail longer than needs to beDon’t make an e-mail longer than needs to be
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Communication
Business Etiquette
What are the tips for properly handling of an
incoming call?
Business phones should be answered with aBusiness phones should be answered with a
phrase like,phrase like, ""Good morning, ABC Company, CarolGood morning, ABC Company, Carol
speaking, may I help you?speaking, may I help you?"" In an office that answersIn an office that answers
a phone hundreds of times daily, this phrasea phone hundreds of times daily, this phrase
may be too much to say. It can be shortened;may be too much to say. It can be shortened;
but company name needs to be stated as soonbut company name needs to be stated as soon
as the phone is answered along with person'sas the phone is answered along with person's
name who answered the phone. This letsname who answered the phone. This lets
caller know that they have reached the rightcaller know that they have reached the right
business to whom they are speaking.business to whom they are speaking.
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Communication
Business Etiquette
What are the tips for properly handling of an
incoming call?
Answer all incoming calls in a timely manner.Answer all incoming calls in a timely manner.
Never put a caller on hold; however, if you do,Never put a caller on hold; however, if you do,
check back every minute or so and ask if theycheck back every minute or so and ask if they
would like to continue to hold.would like to continue to hold.
Speak clearly and slowly when answering aSpeak clearly and slowly when answering a
business phone. Do not slur or mumble words.business phone. Do not slur or mumble words.
Speak with confidence so person on otherSpeak with confidence so person on other
end has the feeling that you know what youend has the feeling that you know what you
are doing. Remember your manners too.are doing. Remember your manners too.
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Communication
Business Etiquette
What are the tips for properly handling of an
incoming call?
Never be rude to a caller, no matter how nastyNever be rude to a caller, no matter how nasty
they are. Remember to handle self in athey are. Remember to handle self in a
professional, business-like manner, handlingprofessional, business-like manner, handling
situation in a calm, cool manner.situation in a calm, cool manner.
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Communication
Business Etiquette
What are the tips for properly handling of an
outgoing call?
Speak clearly and slowly when making aSpeak clearly and slowly when making a
business call. Time may be money, but if otherbusiness call. Time may be money, but if other
party cannot understand what is said, might asparty cannot understand what is said, might as
well have saved breath and not made the call atwell have saved breath and not made the call at
all.all.
All customers expect to work with a professionalAll customers expect to work with a professional
organization. First sign is how they are treatedorganization. First sign is how they are treated
by the employees.by the employees.
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Communication
Business Etiquette
What are the tips for properly handling of an
outgoing call?
When calling a business, proper etiquette is toWhen calling a business, proper etiquette is to
give your name and the company's name yougive your name and the company's name you
work for to whomever answers the telephone.work for to whomever answers the telephone.
Do not make them guess who it is or make themDo not make them guess who it is or make them
pry it out of you.pry it out of you.
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Communication
Business Etiquette
What are the tips for properly handling of an
outgoing call?
If you get a wrong number, apologize to theIf you get a wrong number, apologize to the
person who answers phone -- do not just hangperson who answers phone -- do not just hang
up. This is important since people have Callerup. This is important since people have Caller
ID. All they have to do is to check their device toID. All they have to do is to check their device to
find out who just rudely hung up on them.find out who just rudely hung up on them.
When leaving a phone message; always stateWhen leaving a phone message; always state
your name, company, phone number andyour name, company, phone number and
reason for calling. Do not stammer or stutterreason for calling. Do not stammer or stutter
and use up an unreasonable amount of time.and use up an unreasonable amount of time.
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Appearance: Educational Netiquette
One of the major problems that I have encountered in administering web courses is that of email
communication. It has become such an issue that I did a little research myself to find out what is
wrong and what is right. Sending an email message to an instructor is not quite the same as the
informal messages you send to your friends. Educational email should be slightly more
professional. I know I personally take special care to show respect in my emails to students and
have grown to expect the same thing from them. Don’t labor over your emails too long but please
proofread and be certain you are conveying the content and emotion appropriate to the situation.
According to Kaitlin Sherwood at Webfoot.com, by 1998 about 30% of adults in the US and Canada
used email. Because of its speed and broadcasting ability, email is different from paper-based
communication. Email also tends to be more conversational. In a paper document it is essential to
be clear and concise because your audience can’t ask about it. With email however, the recipient
can ask questions immediately. Thus email may tend to be sloppier like a personal conversation.
You need to be aware that the recipient will not have certain cues such as dress, diction, and dialect.
You have to decide when to be sloppy and when to be professional. Email cannot convey emotions
like face-to-face or telephone conversations. It lacks vocal inflection, gestures, and a shared
environment. Your recipient may have difficulty deciding if you are serious or kidding, happy or sad,
frustrated or excited. Sarcasm is particularly dangerous to use in email.
Another difference between email and other media is that what the sender sees may not be what the
reader sees. Your vocal cords make sound waves that are perceived the same by everyone’s ears.
However, with email the software and hardware you use for composing, sending, storing,
downloading, and reading may be completely different from what your correspondent uses. The
message’s visual qualities may be different by the time it reaches the recipient. So your email
compositions should be different from both your paper compositions and your speech.
by Sharon Wilson
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Appearance: Educational Netiquette
Know when email should be informal or professional. When the message is of a
professional nature you should use punctuation and capitalize the word “I” as you
would in a letter.
Write descriptive subject lines so people can prioritize mail.
Do not use “chat” English in any of type of email.
Be sure and identify yourself in each email.
Don’t type in all caps. It is perceived as shouting. You don’t want to shout!
Do not send flames (rude emails) in a professional setting. Do not send email when
you are angry. Wait until you have calmed down.
Consider carefully what you write. Proofread and realize what emotion you may evoke
in the recipient.
Don’t attach large files (50K or more) without getting permission from the recipient.
When sending a web address be sure to include http:// in the address.
Don’t use acronyms when sending professional emails.
Read over your email before sending. Emails to professionals are not as informal as
messages to friends.
Use your spell-check. Your email may be devalued because of misspelled words.
Be careful with punctuation. When you use several exclamation marks or questions
marks it makes you appear angry.
A basic rule for professional/educational netiquette is to treat the person at the other
end of the message the same way you want to be treated. Just because you cannot
see them is no excuse for rudeness.
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Why are good communication skills
important?
Allows you to express your feelings or emotions
about a situation
Allows you to get the appropriate feedback from
the listener
To make sure that the message that you want to
send is received properly.
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Oral Communications
You must be a successful
communicator for your message to be
received as intended
You should be grammatically correct
when you speak
Try to have an extended vocabulary,
reading can help you to develop one.
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Listening Skills
Be an active listener, participate in the
conversation that you are having.
Give verbal responses to let the speaker know
that you are listening.
Use eye contact and maybe gestures if they
apply to the situation.
Let the speaker finish their own sentences
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Telephone skills
When placing a call, introduce yourself when
phone is answered.
Speak clearly
Use good grammar and an extended vocabulary
Always be respectful to callers and answer the
person as clearly and accurately as possible
Treat callers the way that you would want to be
treated.
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Telephone Etiquette
The person who answers the phone for a
company gives the customer his first impression
of the company
The receptionist is the ambassador for the
company
You must be a professional at all times
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Telephone Etiquette Techniques
Answer the phone AS SOON AS it rings
Always remember that the person at the other
end is a human—talk to them as if they are
standing in front of you
You must rely on your voice (pleasant tone and
medium speed) and what you say
Always answer the phone with a smile—this will
convey a smile in your voice
Be natural
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Telephone Etiquette Techniques
Be attentive
If a caller is angry, do not interrupt
Most angry callers are easier to handle once they have
vented
Interrupting will only make the caller madder
Do not hang up on the caller unless he is physically
threatening you
Get your supervisor’s help if needed
Respond to what the caller wants
(if possible)
Transfer caller to a person that can help him if you can’t
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Telephone Etiquette Techniques
Be discreet
Be helpful, but not specific
Correct: “Mrs. Smith is unavailable at the moment; can I
take a message?”
Incorrect: “Mrs. Smith is using the bathroom.”
Never give any personal information like addresses,
work schedules, home telephone numbers to
anyone!
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Telephone Etiquette Techniques
Avoid slang words
Take messages carefully
Always repeat numbers
Ask for the correct spelling of names
Ask questions tactfully—not bluntly
Correct: “May I tell Mrs. Smith the purpose of the
call?”
Incorrect: “Why are you calling?”
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Telephone Etiquette Techniques
Speak distinctly and clearly
Use words to identify letters when spelling out a name
or something; enunciate numerals carefully
Do not chew gum or eat while on the phone
Use correct posture
Speak loud enough to be heard, but not loud enough
to bust an eardrum
Avoid gender bias—do not assume that all executives
are men
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COMMUNICATION: Self-Appraisal
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The purpose of this survey is to determine your susceptibility to being a source of
communication breakdown. Since no one but you will see the results of this
questionnaire, answer the questions as honestly as possible. Respond not as you
would like to be seen as a communicator but as you really are. Indicate how
frequently you engage in the following behaviors when communicating with another
person or persons. Use this scale to describe your behavior.
4 – I always do this. 3 – I often do this. 2 – I sometimes do this. 1 – I
seldom do this. 0 – I never do this.
____ 1. When I have something to say, I am open and honest about my need to say
it.
____ 2. I communicate with an awareness that the words I choose may not mean
the same thing to other people that
they do to me.
____ 3. I recognize that the message I receive may not be the same one the other
person intended to send.
____ 4. Before I communicate, I ask myself questions about who my receiver is and
how that will affect his or her
reception of my message.
____ 5. As I communicate to someone, I keep a watchful eye and ear out for an
indication that I am understood.
____ 6. I make my messages as brief and to the point as possible.
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____ 7. I consciously avoid the use of jargon with those who may not
understand it.
____ 8. I consciously avoid the use of slang words and colloquialisms with those
who may be put off by them.
____ 9. I try not to use red-flag words (words that might trigger an emotional
response) that may upset or distract the
receiver of my message.
____ 10. I recognize that how I say something is just as important as what I say.
____ 11. I analyze my communication style to determine what nonverbal
messages I send and how well they conform
to the meaning I desire to get across.
____ 12. I carefully consider whether my message would be best understood by
my receiver in a face-to-face meeting,
over the telephone, or in writing.
____ 13. I form opinions about what others say to me based on what I hear them
saying rather than what I think of
them as a person.
____ 14. I make a genuine effort to listen to ideas with which I don't agree.
____ 15. I look for ways to improve my listening skills.
____ TOTAL SCORETOTAL SCORE
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COMMUNICATION: Self-Appraisal Part 1
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Analyze Survey Results: Find your score on the following table.
Score Interpretations
50 –
60
Are you sure you were honest? If so, you are an extremely
effective communicator who almost never contributes to
misunderstanding.
40 –
49
You are an effective communicator who only infrequently
causes communication breakdown. The goal of these
exercises is to move everyone up to this level.
30 –
39
You are an above average communicator with occasional
lapses. You cause some misunderstandings but less than
your share.
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COMMUNICATION: Self-Appraisal Part 2
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Analyze Survey Results: Find your score on the following table.
Score Interpretations
20 –
29
Many people (at least those who are honest) fall into this
category. While things could be worse, there is much room
for improvement in your communication style. The goal of
these exercises is to move you to a higher category.
10 –
19
You are a frequent source of communication problems.
Enthusiastically tackle the rest of these exercises and
consider their implications for you personally.
Less
Than
9
Your honesty is commendable, but it will take more than
honesty to improve your communication effectiveness.
Consider taking a communication course.
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COMMUNICATION: Netiquette Questions
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1. What is the difference between professional and personal email?
2. What is a flaming email?
3. What is the best thing to do if an email you read upsets you?
4. Why is it important to proofread your email?
5. What is a good rule to remember when sending email?