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Narcissistic Personality Disorder is insidious and toxic. It destroys relationships with partners, family, friends, work colleagues and members of the community. ...

Narcissistic Personality Disorder is insidious and toxic. It destroys relationships with partners, family, friends, work colleagues and members of the community.

This slide show identifies some of the red flags that signal a relationship with someone with a Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

It is an attempt to explain aberrant relationship behaviours that may be observed at home, with partners, at work, or in community groups.

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  • After the breakup, when I was completely sucked dry by my ex and I was walking around shell-shocked wondering what was wrong with me and what had happened and how almost 13 years had passed while I was in a bubble, I thought that if I could go back in time, I would go back to the moment when I was still listening to that little voice that was warning me that something was wrong, and grab myself by the shoulders and scream, 'RUN AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN -- AND DON'T LOOK BACK! Just RUN!'
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  • I remember thinking that something was wrong at the beginning, but it felt so good that I ignored my own feelings. I remember trying to hold back a bit because of that little voice in my head that was telling me to be careful and that something was amiss, and in the beginning I remember consciously bracing myself for getting hurt. I remember going to a restaurant in New York that was our favorite and we used to visit regularly (my ex was from New York), and thinking to myself as I sat there that there would come a day when I wouldn't ever be able to return to that restaurant or maybe even to New York because it would hurt too much to remember how happy I was after it all went bad. SOMEWHERE IN MY SUBCONSCIOUS, I ALWAYS KNEW HOW IT WOULD END! Then, I started to believe that I was damaged from past relationships, and this was source of my little warning voice. I stopped believing my own intuition. My ex would say, 'I'll prove to you that you can trust me and that I'll never hurt you if you let me.' I wanted to so much, because at that time it felt so good. Everything about me was perfect. The focus was all on me. Even the curve of my ankle was perfect. I was showered with gifts and attention. I walked into the web willingly.

    A few years later, when I was curled up in the fetal position on the kitchen floor crying at 3 am after I had spent the weekend in New Orleans with some old friends, and my ex was standing over me screaming at me and telling me what a loser I was and how I couldn't do anything right, and how ugly and stupid I was (spending time with friends or family ALWAYS resulted in a rage in the middle of the night), I remember thinking, 'Who is this person? How did this happen to me?' But I stayed, for many more years after that, and many more nights curled up up on the floor being screamed at, and every time I asked myself that same question.
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  • Angel Espinosa, he's not a good man. He may have some good qualities, and he may do some good things, but he's not good. When you are in the web, it's hard to imagine any future without him that's not filled with hopelessness and loneliness. Trust me, the hopelessness is now. Once you make the decision to escape, it only gets better. I promise.
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  • Thanks for the suggestion. Sorry you're having a rough time. Wishing you a resolution. Hugs
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  • Wish I saw this 5 years ago!!! The next video should be the tourment and destruction that the NPD person unleashes on you when you finally see the light and break up!
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    Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter Presentation Transcript

    • RED FLAGS TO NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER (NPD) COMPILED BY JENI MAWTER
    • How does a relationship that feels so right …
    • … go so wrong?
    • NPD WARNING SIGNS IGNORE AT YOUR PERIL
    • NPDS ARE LOOKING FOR ENABLERS WHO GIVE „NARCISSISTIC SUPPLY‟ ATTENTION + EMPATHY + ADULATION
    • YOU ARE SELECTED BY HOW YOU RESPOND TO THE NPDS FOCUS
    • YOU BECOME THE TARGET FOR LOVE „BOMBING‟
    • AN INTENSE FOCUS IS ON YOU
    • IT FEELS LIKE YOU HAVE BEEN „CHOSEN‟ YOU ARE SPECIAL
    • NPDS ARE OFTEN CHARISMATIC
    • BUT…
    • NPD INTEREST IN YOU IS A PRETENSE
    • YOUR ENCOUNTER WILL BE LIKE AN INTERVIEW, NOT A CONVERSATION
    • NPDS „BANK‟ OR STORE YOUR EMOTIONS, THOUGHTS AND EXPERIENCES (EXPOSED WEAKNESSES WILL BE USED AGAINST YOU LATER)
    • THEIR LOVE IS ALL-CONSUMING
    • THIS FEELS PERFECT …
    • UNTIL …
    • NPDS HAVE AN INFLATED SENSE OF „SELF‟ SUPERIORITY
    • THEY EXPECT, AND DEMAND, TO BE WORSHIPPED
    • THEY HAVE A STRONG SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT
    • NPDS ARE NEVER RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS OR WORDS THEY BLAME THE WORLD AND OTHERS
    • ABUSE STARTS WITH OCCASIONAL SUBTLE PUTDOWNS
    • EMPATHY IS FEIGNED
    • WITHOUT AN AUDIENCE NPDS HAVE NO EMPATHY
    • NPDS WEAR TWO FACES
    • FRIENDLY IN PUBLIC BACKSTABBING IN PRIVATE
    • NPDS ARE THE MASTERS OF CAMOUFLAGE
    • LOVE BOMBING CONTINUES YOU DROWN IN THIS SEA OF LOVE
    • BUT… DEVALUING BEGINS (USUALLY IN PRIVATE)
    • WHEN WORDS CONTRADICT BEHAVIOUR YOU FEEL CONFUSED
    • TO THE WORLD THIS PERSON IS PERFECT
    • TO THE NPD, YOU ARE NOT PERFECT YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO AN OPINION
    • IT‟S “MY WAY OR THE HIGHWAY”
    • YOUR VALUE COMES FROM HOW YOU RESPOND TO THE NPD – NOT FROM WHO YOU ARE
    • YOU BECOME ISOLATED LOSE FAMILY, FRIENDS, COLLEAGUES AND COMMUNITY
    • ATTEMPTS TO ASSERT YOURSELF LEAD TO „NARCISSISTIC RAGE‟
    • YET YOU FEEL SORRY FOR THE NPD
    • YOUR ROLE IS TO PLEASE THEM
    • NPDS ARE HYPERSENSITIVE AND PERCEIVE CRITICISM WHEN NONE IS INTENDED
    • NARCISSISTIC RAGE ESCALATES (ONLY IN PRIVATE)
    • MANIPULATION TACTICS USED TO CONTROL YOU GASLIGHTING DENIAL LYING EXCUSES
    • I never said that. You’re imagining things. You’re crazy. That never happened. Can’t you take a joke? COMMONLY HEARD …
    • MUCH OF WHAT IS SAID IS A LIE
    • AS A NPD VICTIM YOU NO LONGER TRUST YOUR OWN PERCEPTION, MEMORY, OR JUDGEMENT
    • BLAMING: NPDS ARE NEVER RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS “IT‟S ALL YOUR FAULT”
    • YOU ARE IN A CYCLE OF VALUE AND DISCARD
    • YOU KEEP TRYING TO RETURN TO YOUR OLD RELATIONSHIP
    • YET YOU OFTEN WONDER…
    • YOUR BOUNDARIES WILL NOT BE RESPECTED
    • YOU‟RE WALKING ON EGGSHELLS
    • ENABLERS DO NOT BELIEVE YOU THEY PROTECT THE NPD
    • YOU ARE SILENCED
    • SILENCED
    • YOUR ABUSER WON‟T LET YOU GO THEY CRY CROCODILE TEARS
    • WELCOME TO THE CYCLE OF ABUSE
    • NO, YOU‟RE NOT CRAZY!!! THIS WHOLE SITUATION IS CRAZY MAKING
    • YOU‟VE BEEN „NARCISSISED‟ AND YOU NEVER KNEW …
    • UNTIL NOW
    • FINALLY THE PIECES FIT TOGETHER!
    • NO MORE RED FLAG CONFUSION
    • Please share these other links on Narcissistic Personality Disorder http://www.slideshare.net/jenimawter/narcissistic-victim- syndrome-a-powerpoint-by-jeni-mawter http://www.slideshare.net/jenimawter/moving-on-from- narcissistic-abuse-compiled-by-jeni-mawter